₦airaland Forum

Lance008:
Oba won place curse and he no Dey create work

😂😂😂😂😂

Shinjawestern:
The world are waiting for Iran to try that rubbish..

The whole of Christian countries will support Israel

Lmao
Small minded Nigerian

2aces:
Oga if I meet you face to face I go still beat you and lock you up, so mind your foolish utterance so you dont get yourself in trouble.

It's a bigger shame people like you are even allowed to have children
They are teaching you but ignorant blockhead no go gree learn

LagosG:
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120 dollars to donate egg lmao 😂😂😂
Kai!!

TheFreshVanilla:
How do you use your personal account commit $1.4M fraudulent deal and still stayed in Nigeria. Even if you get strong back-up, you no apply sense at all. Enjoy your two portion of rice.

I swear bro 😂😂

IconicR:
Nairalanders please is it fair for a mother to suspend her own daughter for fighting her staff?

My friend's mother owns a large company with lots of staff, so she recently completed her nysc program and waiting to be called up for a job so she had to put up at her mum's company as an intern and she was doing her job well to see things done.

Most of the staff do not like to take instructions from her and this has resulted to altercations with most of them, they keep reporting to her mum till a meeting was finally called.

The staff seems to have connived against her and without even bothering to hear her side of the story her mum said she knows what she can do and she won't allow her to cause problems in her company, so she immediately suspended her and ask her to leave and go home.

The staff were happy with this judgement and some made some snide remarks while she was leaving.

This thing has really troubled her recently and she's thinking maybe her mom doesn't like her as she stated that if it were her brother she won't give such judgement.

Was she wrong in trying to put things in order which resulted to most of those fights with the staff?

Was the mum right to have passed such kind of judgement before her staff ?

My friend's mom told her to go resume next week on the condition that she'll behave well but my friend told her mum she's not stepping foot in her company again.

Nairalanders please without being biased who is at fault here?

Take instructions from an intern? Lmao 😂😂😂

honour7:
Before all this many explanation did you get married to your husband a Virgin or was he the one that disvirgined you, if not did you sleep with more than 10 guys before marriage. If so abeg leave him alone to augument u with something fresh.

If you like leave him, that your neighbors daughter he will marry her and heaven will not fall.

Be like sey na this guy b the husband
Did she force the man to marry her?
If you know you can't be loyal to one woman don't get married or better still get a second wife. Stop trying to justify indiscipline

After you people posted on front page that it was a ritual killing lol
Nairaland is a big joke

RenaissanceGuy:
Who's even in charge of pushing threads to FP?? Why must important information always be contained in the titles of thread?? Can't this topic be: 'Tinubu appoints new CEO for so and so' without mentioning the person's name or including all the three titles , until the person clicks to read it.??
If I've seen all the information from the title, why would I then bother myself to click to read?? That was too harsh sha, but the person in charge of wording or rewording FP thread titles has been doing a very horrible job.

It's so disgusting
This site has gone to the dogs

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

From all what you said, you are not poor nor ugly neither are you fat, you are also a good parent. Don't you think you deserve to be happy and loved?
Divorce her, nobody knows tomorrow. If you should die wouldn't you want to die knowing your partner cherishes you?

Nairaland has gotten to the point of bringing fake mews to front page?
They fought and the boy stabbed her. Btw does that even look like a ritual killing?

AlexBells:
Heyaa sorry oo, I knew you ran out from the psychiatric, thanks for walking into the mental trap yourself, I clonwed around and you thought it was your fellow mad people and you now said someone you said what you said earlier about is now proving your point, which loint lol, look around honey do you see any mad person, definitely no cause it is in you like peak milk lol

If you have a child which I hope not, would you be proud if he/she knows you act like this on the internet?
I would not respond to your foolery anymore.

AlexBells:
Why not go and build your own Ewedu land, this is nairaland not Odua land get it into your head

Lol And you just proved my point, get a life lame looser 🤡🤡

vengertime:
It's unfortunate nairaland is now MadPeopleLand.com where mad people can just create any thread for attention

It's quite sad, it's like the mods are dead.
Nairaland had a lot of potential but now it's just a wasteland for frustrated loser tribalists

capnies:
THE SAME DEVELOPED COUNTRIES THAT YOU CAN'T TELL WHO'S A MALE OR FEMALE ON THE STREETS, ABEG SPARE US THAT NEOCOLONIAL THINKING. DO YOU KNOW THAT IN AMERICA ABOUT FIFTY WOMEN ARE SHOT AND KILLED MONTHLY BY THEIR HUSBANDS, BECAUSE OF THE STUPID LAWS THAT HAS MADE THEM HEADY.

Your reasoning is scary
People like you should not be allowed to have children you would infect with this cancerous mentality

Verokeena:
I have never ever nortured such thought.. I have endured countless insults and provocations..

What else could I have done.. ? Like I said I regret my actions but I just wished he had never touched me or raising his hands to the kids.. saying he doesn't even know if the kids were his.. since he lost his job it has been one issue to another.. but I try to see through his eyes .. to understand what he is going through..

I do not have excuse for my actions.. I just need a solution

Thanks for your contributions anyways

You husband might be going through things but that doesn't mean he should become abusive, he should even be the one apologizing.
If you can't live with him anymore you should consider divorce

Dogalmighty17:
You arrested and lucked up your husband for 2 days? No one is dumb here ma. No right thinking woman just suddenly locks up her husband. Was there food in the kitchen for him when he came home? Did you cook for yourself and just the children?

There are other crises resolution and mediation channels available to resolve issues within spouses. Did you explore any of them?

You most probably had nurtured this thought of locking your husband up for a while. You also most probably have mocked him in your actions and your words.

Madam, you don buy market o! I assure you of this, your husband will never forgive you. The day that man gets a job and finds his feet you will be the one begging for divorce.

I am not making excuses for him. Your husband is going through serious depression. No man wants to not be able to provide for his family. The present economy doesn't help at all. You could have handled the situation better.

Do some of you even have brains here?
So you just jumped over the fact that he beat her , right?

okrikaboi:
Their position is very bad from the way you tell it. I admire their spirit and courage. If we can just be afrocentric and Pan-African again like we were in the last century before greed and nepotism became our drive. Nigeria would be great. Africa is shaped like a gun, South Africa is the nozzle and Nigeria is the trigger.

This is true but the thing is, this coup is being backed by Russia, it's not born out of pan Africanism, they just got new masters in Niger lol

The most useless state in Nigeria, with the amount of natural resources there is no significant human resource improvement, why?

KGBKremlin:
I know all this stupid talk's is from the brown roof region,no common sense.

How old are you sef
Sometimes I read comments here and imagine they are written by retarded teenagers, in all what he wrote there is not one point you can intelligently argue about because you're a dumbass so you resort to tribalism, I spit on your head.

Curious345:
My take

1- they listened to the 98% who opposed the war .

2- Tinubu didn't want to squander the ₦1 trillion saved from subsidy on a war.

3- they are scared of the wider consequences.

4- they are scared of proxy wars (Niger can decide to supply arms to iswap and Boko haram) .

5-lack of a consensus for action within the ranks of ECOWAS .

6 poor troop morale .

7- Wagner factor .

8- alliance of Guinea ,Mali and burkina Faso with Niger .

9- refugee crisis.


This is a needless war that should have never been contemplated .. they better back off

It won't really be a war the way you think, they just need to arrest the coup plotters and free the president, it's not like they are going to kill all the soldiers

Stop posting rubbish Mr man

Isn't this a known fact already?
Why else is there such rigorous training

engrchykae:
because Nigeria army from 82 division came to esn camp shot and shot and men dey as men supposed dey,the Nigeria army withdrew and ran back to base.
It's it too difficult to understand?

The post has been edited
It said "captured ammunition" like they took bullets from the army

Lmao
Retards
Those are used shells,

I think schools are on holidays this period so I don't see what the issue is.
Go to your house and mind your damn business, the boy isn't doing anything wrong

How old is this guy lol

SAMBARRY:
there's a difference between brutality and discipline.discipline doesn't kill, indiscipline is why we have twisted youths everywhere.youths lazying around looking for quick money,raping their mother,using their sister to do rituals, kidnapping their friends etc

The older ones that are "disciplined" are the reason why Nigeria is where she is

SAMBARRY:
if you no want another person to treat your child badly or in a way you don't like you too raise your children to be decent instead of raising dysfunctional children and when they begin to fight, destroy things,steal goods or misbehave and they're being published for it you play Victim

You have an archaic mentality
You also support police brutality, right? After all you can also call it discipline