₦airaland Forum

misano:
SW have corrupt leaders as well, period.

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misano:
Talking about corrupt leaders in Nigeria, Ogun state has an ex-convict as Governor. Man arrested for FRAUD.

And my point has flown over your head
If you can't understand what I mean I don't think this conversation should continue

misano:
Why are now putting eyes in SS wealth. If they give SW governors the money from Delta they will not still do anything.

BTW move out of SW and see what other states are doing. Just look at the government hospital in Edo state, no SW state can even come close. I was shocked when I entered inside.

I live in the SS so I'm being as honest as possible
Note that in talking mainly about oil producing states

PureFace1:
South South is better than South West in all ramifications


I hope you are happy now

Ss is home to the most corrupt governors and politicians but the people there would be looking for north and south west that is stealing their oyel money
Ask bayelsa and delta state what they have been doing with the 13% derivation they have been receiving

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.

He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.

I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us (in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well.

This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.

I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.

Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40 days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.

Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

Modified

You should have ensured an autopsy was carried out when he died

JDistribute:
You should know the difference between wars and attacks by terrorists groups.

Oga why are you even explaining to him
Sometimes I wonder the iq level of some people on this site

divinehand2003:
If not for Air Peace Chairman, Nigerians would have been left to perish in South Africa. FG should politely beg him to do same in Sudan since it is difficult for them to rescue her citizens in Sudan.

Do you think air peace did it for free?
Lmao
You guys are so ignorant on here

Failure2019:
Both .


$20


Silk road

I thought the silk road has been closed or was it before it got closed down?
Did you get the delivery in Nigeria?

Was it mushrooms or LSD you used?
How much did you get it please, and where

ManWater:
Some university courses in Nigeria have little or no relevance to our society and need to be scrapped.

Anatomy should be scrapped?
Lmao

Enskynelson:
You can and it is not so mandatory to be physically present

Please do you know how I can register for virtual exam?

Enskynelson:
Yes, u can. Budget around 120-135k for the registration. I am not sure u can meet up for this semester as exams begin on 25th April. You can process your admission now and get ready for registration by July.

Good morning
Please how can I register for virtual exam this semester?

josephm456:
Good morning nairalanders,I hope your night was good and great.please I need your help and advice at this stage I am.
There’s this girl I’ve being dating close to 4years now.,I travelled down here to Netherlands to seek for greener pasture so to have a good life for me and her even my family as a whole.,because I have much plans for i and her.,she’s in her 400lv and about to graduate.I even paid for her cake business and other training she’s doing.,rented her a new apartment and give her most of my things.because i already have it in mind that once I’m back we can get a flat in Lagos and atleast I’ll still have most my things back in our house,so she can be doing her business in Lagos pending the time we will both move to canada,but I haven’t tell her we will be going to canada but I preamble it sometimes,so last week my mind have being disturbing me to try to check her Instagram.,so I checked her Instagram and I noticed this girl is cheating on me.,it was so painful that I cried my ass out..i cried so hard that I can’t even work for 2days because I trusted this girl with everything.,her mom intervened and keep begging me,even her brother,because both parents already know each other,and she’s trying not to make that relationship of parents break,she also pleaded and I forgive her.,she said she did it out of emotions I don’t know what that means though,which she said it will never happen again,accusing me for the fact that I don’t make calls or something.I work alot of hours and still I still try to give this girl that much attention.,I was actually planning to come home again by august.,I’m satisfying this girl with all her needs both financially and all.,but what baffles me most was that whenever I ask if she blocked this guy.,she will say they are no more talking that atleast I’m seeing it all because she thinks I scanned her WhatsApp which is not true.,I only have her Instagram login and that’s all.,and I angrily logged out the Instagram because i was really broken that day.
So yesterday we have a little issue,because I noticed she was kind of replying me with attitudes and I asked what’s the attitude all about.,so I just leave her alone on her own,she then sent me a message last night that she knows I’m purposely giving her attitude because I’m seeing her chats and I don’t know how to say it out.,that I’m free to feed my eyes and read her chats very well,i actually don’t know what she mean by that statement plus I didn’t even scan her WhatsApp,I only logged in her IG.,I’m just pained have being doing things for this girl for the past 3years and it’s even 4yrs already.,I don’t just know what to do.,her mom suffers HBP and she likes me so much,because she doesn’t ever want me to leave her daughter,when this event happened she would keep disturbing me with calls and and begging almost everyday panicking that I should forgive her and it won’t happen again.,I really do love this girl soo much to the extent that whenever we have an issue I’m always very down.,but now I’m just confused on what to do,but nairalanders I really need your help on what to do.,this thing is giving me a serious problem her birthday is coming soon which I’m planning not to gift her anything,I’m not even okay at this point.
I will be dropping the chat below.👇no insult please.,all I need is your observation and advice,thanks,and sorry if my grammar isn’t good enough.thanks in advance.

Op deep down you know what is happening, you know she's cheating on you but you don't want to accept the painful reality
I advise you should cut all contacts with her and as for the pain you'll feel; channel it into the gym and become a better person, you deserve better.

Reminderz:
redpill, redpill, redpill!! how many times did I call you Oh redpill.. how come you always prove yourself to be the truth every now and then? how come you're always so on point? how come those that refuse to swallow your nuggets end up suffering? you've proven yourself to be worthy at all times... You're simply the truth, and those who refuse to accept you will suffer!

OP, first let me introduce this thread to you... https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

read it up and save yourself because no one is coming to save you..

secondly, a girl is never a trophy to be won... if you put your girl before your goals, she will make you suffer for your foolishness... if you give a girl your heart to save her life, she will mock you over someone who refuses to give her nothing... the guy or guys that she's cheating on you with are doing nothing to get her and you are letting yourself to be easily used over and over again... and her mother is part of those easily manipulating you... don't think she's doing it because she loves you... no she doesn't, she only cares about herself and her daughter, and because they see that you're loaded, they will drain you until they've wrecked you... they are both predatory females...

third, leave love for women, leave emotions for women.. you're not a pú$$y... only pu$sies find love.. women find love, men find purpose... If you let them ruin your life, you'll only have yourself to blame...

fourth, a girl you're not married to is never your responsibility.. if you've done all that for your family, friends and orphanage homes, you'll be happy and more fulfilled and even God will reward you abundantly... I'm sure you'll never even do half of that for the people you call friends or family.. smh.. that girl will leave you and only your family will be left for you...

fifth, dump that olosho you call girlfriend.. dump that bitch you call girlfriend.. she's not your girlfriend, she belongs to the street, her reply has even showed that she doesn't even care if you break up with her.. don't let her mother manipulate your further...

sixth, never make a girl or any woman except your family your sole focus in life... women will never forgive you for being weak.

seven, all the money you're spending on your so called hoe or girlfriend, she's using that money to build herself up, and when you've finally upgraded her pass her normal level, she will begin to disrespect you and she will end up telling you that “what did you even do for me sef?”

eight, when a woman has nothing to lose in a relationship she will start misbehaving, why? because you're the only one investing in it and doing everything... so she won't care even if you enter the fire to save her. this is why you're the one who's hurt because you're the one who's invested the most...

nine, marrying a girl in Nigeria and taking her over there most times end in pains and regrets when the girl starts misbehaving... this is why men are avoiding marriage especially in the west... rethink this decision carefully... don't sign any marriage contract that will leave you wrecked and handicapped...

@josephm456

Bro you deserve one cold bottle of beer and hot catfish pepper soup
The op needs serious help/coaching/prayer in his life

seanwilliam:
please just and don’t ever call me your brother with that your dirty and good for nothing mouth! And don’t ever use the word for me again if you don’t want to be miserable!

If you can’t see from the write up ( yes I draw my assumption and conclusion BASED on what was WRITTEN) that the girl is being manipulative and capitalizing on his softness then you’re inherently dump , wicked and not to be associated with.


Moreover if the op is not being honest on here , then he deserves all coming to him.

That being said, the op should be smarter next time and only deal with women who are sexually liberated and not the one that’ll be using sex as games and weapons. Deal with the ones that’ll saying it CLEARLY. That she wants sex, don’t assume again abeg.




We read on here of a girl who accused a guy of rape just because she didn’t want to repay the money the guy lent her. She made this up with her friend so as to scare of the guy , if not for God, the boy wouldnt be exonerated and I can bet my life that if you were the judge you’ll cast the first stone on the guy .

If it’s a rape case, this is 2023, she should speak up and get the guy prosecuted without mercy! But from HIS WRITE-UP, it’s evidenced that she’s just tryin to manipulate and play emotional game on the guy !


Most of u know how wicked and unreasonable these girls are sometimes.



@ op, anytime a good for nothing girl says NO,

Even if she’s joking, please discharge her and never look back .


You see how all of them are condemning you when they deeply know this is MIGHT not be true.


We don reach stage where it needs to be documented and verbally recorded before initiating sex.

Shut your dirty mouth you filthy human
You said "Me and you know that that’s a typical Nigeria girls reaction if they’re getting laid for the first time. They do this so you can assume they’re not cheap and hoès."
That's not rape apology abi?
If op gets taken to court let him quote the rubbish you posted and see the outcome.
You should be ashamed of yourself, if your daughter comes to tell you that this happened to her I hope you would say she acted like a typical Nigerian girl. Nonsense

Sunwa1:
Mind YOU, she came around my bunk some few days later asking that I massage her waste, and I did with her pants down. If actually I raped her would she have trusted me with her unclothedness again within 2 weeks?

Oga you raped her, that's the fact
She to told you "no"
She didn't give her consent

seanwilliam:
please stop saying this .

Me and you know that that’s a typical Nigeria girls reaction if they’re getting laid for the first time. They do this so you can assume they’re not cheap and hoès. And please don’t even try to defend this, cos as regards women in that aspect , I can boldly say I have more experience more than you x100000000.



If he raped her , she would never agree to go into relationship with him and trust me, she would do him dirty !

Op sounds like a very emotional person( quite different from simp) and the girl in question is trying to capitalize on that and manipulate him to her advantage .

I can bet my life that this same girl will have one night stand with random SOJI guy for street and won’t even try that rubbish .



@sunwa1,
Please next time,
1.if you have sexual interest in a woman, ensure you throw it in the middle of convo on WhatsApp first , and she must verbally agree.

Doing this would have prepared her ahead( even though she knows deep down her mind). , if a mature woman who’s not your fam or business partner agrees to visit you alone, she’s already concluded in her mind to fhuck u, it’s left for you to package yourself well .

2. If a woman comes around , if she’s giving you tough time (actually most of them do this to see your reaction and how desperate you are , don’t fall for the game)

if she resists after all your effort , then two things dey involved,
A. She no like u
B. She one size u up


whichever it is , don’t fall for it anymore! enter bathroom and soapy with her pic in mind, come back to her and discharge her without mercy. Whatever she says afterward is non of your business, don’t contact her again and let her do the chasing .


3. I honestly understand the situation you found yourself, but it’s what it is, you need to be smarter next time, cos na your fellow guy like the one above will testify against you that you raped her when he deeply knows that you didn’t .
4. Please kill that scarcity mindset, I swear woman plenty die. As in die! .

Now my brotherly advice to you is
1. Know that she’s manipulating you , she’ll always bank on this anytime she wants to deal with you .
2. Now that you understand the game , careful discharge her. Start by withdrawing the attention and support by 90%.
Do not declare verbally to her you’re not interested anymore but do this with your reaction , make it so subtle that , she’ll be so confused and wonder where the problem lies.
3. Please and please stop sleeping with her, comot your mind, u no go die if you do. Look for another girl and start a new relationship . Don’t marry that girl or you’ll die before your time!


May God be with you .




YOU DIDNT RAPE her, I repeat you do not rape her. She’s just being manipulative.

You're just another scary rape apologist on this thread bruh

Sunwa1:
Hello Romancelanders,

There's is this lady I have been in relationship with since last year. The relationship wasn't that defined but it was a romantic one (kissing and smooshing), you know how it goes sometimes, that you have to struggle with the lady while making moves and eventually she will give in to your romantic demands.

It has been like that for a while but something eventful happened sometime in October last year, while we were deep in romance, i made moves to have sex with her but she resisted but her resistance wasn't that convincing, though she released herself to me but kept asking me to stop, but at that point I was deeply carried away and even thought it was her normal way of struggling with me anytime I made moves on her. Some how, I had my way, i had sex with her without any physical resistance from her aside the shouts of "please stop".

Alas, when I was done with the act, she started crying and I felt so bad because I honestly taught we were in the game together.

My greatest shock was when one of her friend's called me and said her friend said I raped her and that changed the whole narratives and projected me as a rapist. I was afraid because I know the consequences of such accusation but somehow the matter died down after a while and we continued where we stopped though we never had sex again.

My challenge now is that the lady often says she dosent trust me and CANNOT trust me with her female friends, sisters or even our daughter if we get married.

I proposed to marry her just a couple of weeks ago, she's is yet to respond but I fear that the impression she has about me being a rapist and that she can't trust me with our daughter might affect our home if we eventually get married.

I want her but I just fear that this trust issue will cause a lot of havoc which might negatively impact on our marriage in future.

Please, I need your advice especially from the ladies.

Should I go ahead with my plans to marry this lady especially considering the fact that I'm a very emotional person.

Please, shoot your shots without insults.

Will be at the comment session.

Thanks.

No wonder Nigerians abroad are always arrested for rape
Don't you know what consent is?
Fyi, you just confessed to rape here

Sixfeetbelle:
She told you "Please, stop" yet you interpreted it as "Please, continue"?

You don't know the meaning of consent, do you?

Omo this nairaland is filled with scary people
Like he says with his mouth that she resists everytime sef but her resistance is not enough!! Like
Op is a rapist and the girl is weird to have been with someone like him for such a period of time

Nonywendy:
What is wonderful about chemist she is learning? First she is 18yrs and the love he and peace he thinks he is experiencing now might be temporary, secondly why not she gain admission and study pharmacy instead of learning chemist work.

I meant the sailing path please

Zeal0000007:
thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm a sailor currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, the license program is a six months course we started January to finish by July and least any company can pay as soon as u get the license is 500k upward, it's as not really being easy coping cos currently u need to be in class without working, I have not.been working.

She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship.

Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage.

Wonderful career path
If I was in your shoes I'd marry her

Basicend:
That is what God has helped me to do.

I am taking by grace Tru 100 experience.

Wow
That's reassuring
Thank God for you

How much did you start with though

Basicend:
Why don't u save urself the huge costs of overhead, facility leasehold, utilities, excessive salaries etc. . By strategically buying many items and do e-commerce.

Get on major e-commerce platforms. . Build it own site and create traffic diversions Tru pop-ups and so on.

Get a good and secured warehouse with planned logistics. By time u engage 4 platforms and organically build ur system. . You Will quietly become rich. .

Sounds good on paper but I don't think it's that easy

How much?

starbelt22:
How much can on get a pair of 10kg dumbbells? From a physical store (Not online). The current price.

Have you bought?
I'm also looking to buy

Lmao
Bro the fact that you don't realize that you're the bitch in this whole case is amazing.

So you enter kitchen go hide

inoki247:
Ok is Cigarette illegal and why he dey try smuggle Cigarettes go UK sef shey Nigeria Cigarettes sweet pass UK own ni....

It's more expensive in the uk

Map1:
Before the evolution of slave trade our forefathers has been leaving conveniently with out any science and technology, our forefathers can move from egba,ile ife or ijesha and covered many miles without a car, they communicate with their people with out telephone, they have their own hospital, bullet proof,gun, warriors, they have everything that makes them different not until those you are worshipped today came back after the slave trade and introduced Jesus to us as our lord and saviour and took everything away from us to developed what you called technology today.so dear for your oyinbo never made us better but distroyed us.learn, learn your history and stop praising the man who distroyed u.

Can you hear yourself?
Trekking and fake bullet proof is invention to you ?

Failure2019:
The Benin art in the UK museum

Lmao
In a world of micro chips and nuclear energy you are talking of some ivory statues

SuperOnyi:



And where did I say such?

That was for Gaby not you, sorry.
But still in the first instance where you quoted me you said "there are a lot of things created by blacks" so now I want you to tell me some of those things

SuperOnyi:




There's actually a lot of things invented by blacks, just use Google.

Remember what Ojukwu and Biafrans did during the 1967—1970 war? I believe the black man is never inferior to other people of "different colors" round the world.

We just need to save ourselves and stop crying and singing the songs of oppression and victimization, we can learn a lot from the Jews. Why keep relying to the "past glory", why not build one?

You didn't answer my question
Which invention of a black man was stolen?

gaby:
Did humans ever survive or lived without the stuff you listed above at some point in their lives?

Also, you need to read more and broadly, you'd come to understand that most of the inventions you reeled out were originally from black men who were denied their rights and recognition by way of the whitrman's "Patent".

Lmao
Which one?