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cocoboss:
[color=#006600][/color]Good day everyone , i have been a member of this beautiful platform since 2019 hence why I’m posting this with my real account
I won’t get mad about the insults or pain I would feel when I go through the comment section because my only mistake was falling in love with the wrong person.
Early 2019 I met this beautiful damsel at my place of work back then I’m 26 and she would be 23 by October we became friends , from friends we became lovers and we both resigned to pursue greater opportunities in life
Well I established a business for myself , and I was earning pretty well at the time and doing well for myself as the only son of my family
From my little business I supported her and her brother the best way I could
Recently my business collapsed because my sister was scammed at one of my branch which she handled and it affected me so much because she lost everything I worked hard for that day
Life has been messy , I have been struggling since then Thank God for my loving family that has always supported me and stayed with me through depression

Communication with my girl reduced drastically, at some point I felt the world was against me
The relationship of four years became a mere joke as everyday the communication reduced and she instantly became unavailable, always picking up fights with me , manipulative with her words and deceitful by her actions
I was heartbroken , emotionally exhausted and tired , I told my mom about it ..
And she gave me a very powerful booklet to use and speak to God every night and tell him to strengthen me and expose every thing or person that has been deceiving me
That night I dreamt about my said girlfriend and a friend
The lord exposed them to me in that dream , when I woke up I told my mom what I saw and she smiled
I noticed my girl has been avoiding me but I looked for a way to lure her to my place and that faithful day she came , I knew I wasn’t going to get the truth from her lips
So I asked for her phone , first she started blabbing that I heard no right whatsoever to seize her phone even if I were the one that bought it for her
After much argument and dragging of the phone , I took it and went into action while going through it my girl knelt down and started crying bitterly confessing to me that she has been dating a guy in turkey though they haven’t met but was in a romantic relationship I said ok but I still have to be sure
I went ahead and searched her phone , her chats and Snapchat lo and behold I saw multiple videos of my said girlfriend and another guy doing sex video calls
She was busy exposing her private parts to him
And so many videos of them together on bed and their chats all along , I thought her bro was my strong ally and I needed to screenshot what I saw as an evidence to show him then move on with my life as I’m struggling at the time
I went to her chat with her brother too , and my heart was broken it was clear that she told him that the guy was her preferred person
Their relationship kicked off early this year and then my business was booming until recently so she has two guys she had been cheating with
The guy in diaspora
And the said guy that has been funding her and turned her to a sex slave
That she couldn’t stay with me now , she needed someone that could marry her and I’m not that persn because my business has crumbled
All this happened in the presence of my family ..
I slept with her phone and dismissed her to go home
She came this morning , crying and begging my mom and sisters that it was a mistake
My mom told her how disappointed she was, my girl spent the whole day at my place crying and begging , talking to my sisters to beg me ..........I forwarded everything I saw to her brother that I have been supporting all this years he has been calling me to beg me

But my mind is made up .. the deed has been done I have been on this forum for way too long and it has impacted me in so many ways
And I will never , ever forgive a CHEAT
I didn’t create this story to ask for people’s opinion if I should accept her back I just want every men out there struggling going out of their way to please women to understand that LOYALTY is very very RARE
don’t waste your time , and make sure you always check your partners phone to avoid stories that touch
Thank you
Below is the chat of her continuous pleading and begging .. but nah , I have moved on
Mynd444 front page please

I no fit laugh welcome onboard comrade

kahal29:
Nyesom Wike, governor of Rivers, says Sule Lamido, former governor of Jigawa, has not added value to the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) since 2015.

The Rivers state governor said this in reaction to recent remarks made by Lamido about him.

While speaking in an interview on Channels Television, Lamido said Wike has no monopoly over the electorate in Rivers.

He said Wike’s stance politically during the 2023 elections will not cost the party votes in Rivers, noting that the governor does not have a monopoly over the people.

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Reacting to the comments in a statement issued by Kelvin Ebiri, his spokesperson, Wike said Lamido and his cohorts played an “ignoble role” that caused the PDP’s defeat in 2015 and 2019 in Jigawa.

“It is rather appalling that at a time when concerted efforts are being made by lovers of true democracy and the unity of the party, to resolve some inherent contradictions plaguing the PDP, Alhaji Lamido and his cohorts, who have since lost their relevance in the polity, are busy creating friction and schism,” the statement reads.

“Governor Wike has never claimed to be the custodian of the over 3 million votes in Rivers State. But as the leader of the PDP and good people of Rivers State, anyone who underrates the governor’s political pedigree or dares to ignore his influence in the State and beyond will be doing so at his own peril.

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“We wish to remind Alhaji Lamido that governor Wike has never left anyone in doubt about his capacity to sway the voters in Rivers State in a direction that benefits the people and the State. In overall, when he speaks, Rivers people will listen, no doubt.

“Perhaps, Alhaji Lamido thinks Nigerians are suffering from selective amnesia to have forgotten in a hurry, the ignoble role he and his cohorts played between 2014 and 2015, that culminated in the defeat of the PDP in the 2015 general election.

“We hope that he is not up in such a scheme again to cause a repeat of that history. Otherwise, if Alhaji Lamido has any modicum of conscience, he won’t be making disparaging comments about governor Wike, whom many have described as the pillar of the PDP since 2015.

“We wish to state without equivocation that no well-meaning member of the PDP will describe governor Wike as ‘insignificant’ in the affairs of the PDP. With all modesty, only persons plagued by schizophrenia psychosis will ascribe any form of relevance to Alhaji Lamido, under whose leadership the PDP has woefully lost two governorship elections in Jigawa State in quick succession.

“Under Lamido’s watch, as a governor of Jigawa State in 2015, the APC governorship candidate, Mohammed Badaru Abubakar, scored a total 648,045 votes to defeat his PDP opponent, Malam Aminu Ringim, who scored a total 479, 447 votes. Worst still, in 2019, governor Abubakar polled 810,933, while the PDP candidate scored 288,356.

“Such records depict that Alhaji Lamido cannot and does not have such a political following that will benefit the PDP. Those who want electoral victory for the PDP are not dampening the morale required for a political offensive at APC, but Alhaji Lamido is cracking the wall of unity badly.”

Ebiri said the margin of Wike’s election victory in 2015 and 2019 in Rivers state “are marks of political sagacity and determination to keep PDP at a leading pedestal”.

“So, as the 2023 general elections beckon, we wish to advise Alhaji Lamido to redeem his battered political image by delivering Jigawa State to the PDP, if he can,” he added.


https://www.thecable.ng/wike-to-lamido-you-have-no-political-value-pdp-lost-jigawa-on-your-watch/amp

Wike is not a small crab you can chew easily, Sule should shut up and face his front. Since they said Wike is not relevant, they should disregard him then and see how they win the elections. Why Dem dey run upandan to negotiate with am? Yeye people

[quote author=Iyatostrong post=116023952][/quote]Yes its accredited

Iyatostrong:
Good day nairalanders!
i will make this as succinct as possiple because i don't want to take too much of your time.
my daughter just finished her secondary school this year with good waec result. She wanted to study nursing but i told her to wait till next year to sit for jamb but she insisted to go to school of nursing instead of university.
please, is there any standard school of nursing that is selling form now?
if there is one,
>how much is the form.
>how can we obtain the form.
>the closing date.
thanks for your understanding.

Rivers State school of Nursing form is currently on sale. 15k for the form and the fees for freshers is about 120k while subsequent fees is about 85k. You can try getting someone over there to help you out or better still check it out online. I am not in Rivers State at the moment would have helped.

Sharpson25:
Pls any information about replacement

All of us don turn to waiters

Kimiso:
How much are you earning from the job you are doing presently and how are you managing it till the next month because i know alot is just doing the job just not to stay idle am earning 25k monthly 2days on 2days off and i also eat there 3times a day am an ssce holder to be sincere

163k

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.

So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.

So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.

But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.

There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.

So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.

Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

22 years? She never pass her ashawo stage yet. Just break up and move one. You are 33 still dey jonz like this?

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bennybuhari:
https://independent.ng/atiku-may-sacrifice-ayu-to-assuage-aggrieved-wikes-camp/

Team Wike is not relevant, Wike is a small boy, Wike is no match to Atiku, una see una lives? na only people wey no know wetin Wike fit do dey cap ignorantly. Wike na d kind man wey u no go fit understand na wetin make even Amaechi wey been him oga before dey fear am.

PDP campaigns have been going in Rivers State for the past one month without a trace of Atiku posters, T shirts or Polo, all u can see is the picture and posters of the senatorial candidate, house of reps, house of Assembly and Gubernatorial. Atiku is missing and I bet you, if this isn't resolved, Atiku will not get a single vote in Rivers State. In Rivers State, Wike's group dey like cult. They don't care if Wike doesn't.

Wike no dey shake. If Atiku like make him no gree to Wike's demand, he will watch how over 3 million votes will go to Peter Obi. Nonsense

In Rivers State right now, this is our plan;

PRESIDENTIAL - PETER OBI
GOVERNORSHIP- SIM
SENATE - CHIEF ALL WELL ONYESOH
HOUSE OF REPS - KELECHI NWOGU & CO.

Take it or leave it, if Atiku misbehave, Peter Obi will have over 3 million votes in Rivers State, forget Tinubu, he will not get shishi in Rivers State.

This is Politics, we are ready to play it. Mad people.

Ehismarkninetee:
Before you start to judge me, remember that the girl you are sleeping with now is also someone’s Ex. Well I cannot say I am totally in the right for sleeping with my friends Ex girl friend- They broke up 2 years ago.

So coincidentally she rented an apartment close to my house. As I was driving I saw her on the way I offered her a ride and that was how it started. That same evening she called me that she is coming to know my house and I accepted. When she came I noticed she was giving me the green light. I took the opportunity and slept with her so good.

Now she cannot get enough from me. She asked if we could date officially. I told her it will be difficult since she was the one who broke up with my friend. I will not lie to myself I have developed feelings for here. And I think I will give Love a chance.

If I be your friend? I go use kala for your head and make it look like it's suicide

SteveDGreat:
I wanted to carry out an experiment to see people reaction to the candidacy of Bola Ahmed Tinubu in Port Hartcourt.

I was in a cab and they were talking about the state of the Nation from insecurity to high cost of food items and Naira. One even said the 2023 election will determine if he still be in this country . You could feel their pain.

I just shouted , that's why you all need to get your PVC and Vote Tinubu, he will put an end to all these.
I won't lie, it sounded strange in my mouth.
There was a deafening silence. The Two people from the front turned and looked at me like "Are You High".?
The driver parked and the next thing I heard was , oga come down. I won't carry you again. Go with your money.

Those at the back were like how can a young man like you be supporting Tinubu. How much were u paid for this. Are you not affected by all these things happening in Nigeria.

Well, he dropped me at my destination after I told everyone that it was a joke. I couldn't even support them when they were talking about Peter Obi cos I tense already. Fear gripped me I won't lie and I felt embarrassed.
I won't try this experiment again before dem burst my head for this PH.

For the record , PH is fully Obidient

You get luck say Dem no collect your phone

douglasposh:
Mad oh...
No be me abeg.
So I finally confirmed immigration salary.
My friend said it's 123k

123k? Chai

douglasposh:
If only immigration knows how expectant we are about this replacement, they will just release the list.

That's why I like the ARMY, always quick in concluding recruitment processes

Why not apply for the ARMY?

Spermatogenesis:
hope e no go b last week of August again. Cuz since January na same thing o

Anyone oo

razorbuzor:
Replacement about to land, call your connects

True. I heard same. Latest first week of August.

Save1soul:
Nairaland family, help a bro here, I had to open another account to post this, pls read till the end.

I have been dating this girl for more than 3 years, I will say that I have been experiencing hell fire in the past 1 year and 6 month. I know no one is perfect but the problem is too much.

She have some good sides every man will cherish, she appears decent and well brought up, but here are the problem.

1. She gets angry easily. This is a problem to our relationship because we can't have a normal conservation without quarrel, like we quarrel almost every 2 days.

2. Recently she talks to me disrespectful: if there is any small argument or disagreement among us, she talks to me like her jnr sister, not minding or caring how I feel.

3. Anytime we have a fight, she gives me the silent treatment for days and I end up apologizing even when she is wrong. When I remember her good side, I want to make peace and beg her.

4. Most times when we argue, I try telling her that I am a man and i won't take some things she does. This statement " I am a man" gets her provoke. She complained against me using that statement.

5. She does not want to be scolded, she doesn't want me to complain about wrongs she does, she believes with complains about her behavior, her self esteem will be affected. She confessed to me of having an ego.

In one of the arguments, she said I make her regret saying yes to me. Just last week, we had a small disagreement; I tried helping her recover something and since I was not able to do that, I told her I will still try and her response got me angry, she didn't appreciate the fact that I was trying, that got me angry.

I uploaded a female friends picture on WhatsApp and wished her happy birthday, my girlfriend screenshot the pic, sent it to me mocking me, calling me immature, saying that I am not mature, that if I post 100 female pictures, it won't disturb her.

This is a girl I have never cheated on for the 3 years we have dated, I respect and tell her virtually everything I do, all my plans, and she knows that I love her alone. She knows that she is the only girl I am seeing and I have promised to marry her, she also know that I am working towards marrying her.

Early this year, she phycologically abused me, she knew that I love her so much, so she was playing games with my emotions, today she will act like she is angry with me and not talk to me, when I beg she will calm to forgive me, tomorrow she will continue same thing, until she stopped when I got her in the game.

I will take all the insults, Nairaland family, what do I do here.

Guy, you don't need any advise, you only need to stand up and walk out of that relationship stop acting and sounding Petty. You be man, act like one.

OLADD:
I think you are the clown. Did Atiku win southsouth because of Wike in 2019? Atiku and PDP only secured roughly 400,000 votes frow Rivers in the last election.

Who be this one?

Lurdmax10:
https://punchng.com/i-picked-who-can-deliver-over-wike-atiku/?utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#Echobox=1658479423

Just imagine? Wike has taken note of this statement and that reconciliation will not work. He will simply sit down and watch how Okowa will deliver Atiku is a clown.

AmazingELixir:
WE'VE BUILT PH LAW SCHOOL CAMPUS TO BE SELF SUSTAINING - WIKE

*As Gov. Wike hands over more titled document to chairman, Council of Legal Education, Chief Ngige.

Rivers State governor, Nyesom Ezenwo Wike has reemphasised that the Dr. Nabo Graham Douglas Campus of the Nigerian Law School in Port Harcourt has been provided to be a self sustaining institution in Nigeria.

To achieve that mandate, Governor Wike, on Monday, handed over the Certificate of Occupancy (C of O) of adjoining property to the campus acquired by the Rivers State government to the Chairman of the Council of Legal Education, Chief Emeka Ngige, SAN.

The presentation was made when Governor Wike conducted the Chairman of the Council of Legal Education, Chief Emeka Ngige, SAN, together with the Director General of Nigeria Law School, Prof. Isa Hayatu Chiroma, SAN and other dignitaries round structures within the Law Campus that are completed and ready for formal handover.

Governor Wike said the acquisition of the adjoining property to the campus will enable the operators of the campus to use them for sundry commercial and revenue generating activities in order to meet the financial needs of the Law School in Port Harcourt.

"We are using this opportunity to present the Certificate of Occupancy of the property we have acquired and paid for by the Rivers State government for the Nigerian Law School, Dr. Nabo Graham Douglas, Port Harcourt Campus to you (Chairman).

"We are giving the property to you for the purposes of making some revenue to run this campus. Whatever revenue derived is to be utilised for this campus alone.

"Very soon, the State Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice and the Director General will meet to prepare a Memorandum of Understanding. It will ensure that you won't take revenue from here to subsidise for other campuses. Any money you make here, put it here in this campus."

Governor Wike also told them that with the construction work on all the structures in the campus now completed, the state government awaits the Council of Legal Education to choose a date when they desire the campus be formally handed over to them.

In his response, Chairman of the Council of Legal Education, Chief Emeka Ngige, SAN noted that they were on inspection of the facility and are amazed at what they have seen.

"17th July 2021 was when we came for the foundation laying ceremony and His Excellency promised that this project will be delivered in one-year. Behold, today is June 27th, not up to July yet and he had delivered.

"Recalled that when we were doing the ground breaking ceremony, His Excellency promised that every month he will give this campus N10million for four years, and will be given in advance, that is about N480 million to run this institution.

"When I learnt that he had acquired adjoining property; houses, shopping malls and other business facilities for the Law School to rent out to raise revenue to run this institution. I can tell you it is unparalleled."

On his part, the Director General of Nigerian Law School, Prof. Isa Hayatu Chiroma described the Dr. Nabo Graham Douglas Campus in Port Harcourt as the best and mother of all Law campuses in Nigeria.

"On behalf of the Council, we are very grateful for a promise made and promise kept. This is the turning point in the history of legal education in Nigeria."

During the inspection of the lecturers quarters in New Government Residential Area in Port Harcourt, former President of the Nigerian Bar Association, Onueze C. J. Okocha, SAN, said governor Wike is a performer, who keeps promises and has delivered the Dr. Nabo Graham Douglas Port Harcourt Campus that is tastefully constructed and furnished before the record time he set for himself.
Also speaking, former President of the Nigerian Bar Association. Okey Wali, SAN, noted that Governor Wike has done this to show that he is a lover of democracy and for promotion of the judicial system in Nigeria.

The Rivers State Attorney General and Commissioner for Justice, Prof. Zacchaeus Adangor, SAN, described the project as historic and iconic because there is nothing like it across the country. He said Governor Wike has provided it as a commitment to advancing legal education in the country.

Point of correction, the best in Africa.

garfield1:
He was born in 1954 actually

Wiki says 1958

seunmsg:
This is not true. He was born in 1954 and will retire in 2024.

He was born 1958 And will retire 2028

Galaxybar:
Excuse me! There’s a time and place for everything. You can’t seriously be marketing your business on a thread for a lady who died from torture and poisoning.

Are you all right? Is Nairaland a place to seek justice? Why don't you go to a court of competent jurisdiction? You all will be here acting like you care, while you don't. When she was seeking for help why didn't animals like you post on Nairaland? Why didn't you reach out to her family? U r now acting like a first class sympathizer while it's actually your type that while someone is dying.

Seems you have a brain tumor