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Senator Dino Melaye preaching unity of all Kogites today in Kwara state ahead of November 11th poll
One kogi one destiny.... Senator Dino Melaye the incoming governor of kogi state visited kogi state indigene in kwara state today to solicit for their support and he was received with a large crowd.It is all about who has the capacity and preparedness to govern and they made it clear to him that it is only him that can deliver good governance to kogites.
Versitee: I have been feeling like my husband has been cheating on me with our neighbors daughter. She is just about 23 years.
Yesterday which was Sunday, I went to our neighbors house around 6pm to ask if I could use their oven.
Their compound is not fenced so I just walked in straight to their backyard if I would see the man's wife.
I overheard this girl making a call. Apparently she was the only one at home and she wasn't expecting anyone.
She was asking the man over the fone who was sexualy better between his wife and her.
My attention was arrested immediately. I stopped to hear more of the conversation. When I had enough, I made my presence known. She quickly hung up and tried to put up an innocent face.
I also pretended like I heard nothing, I asked to use the oven and left . Getting back home, I was worried if that was my husband that girl was talking to, so I decided to find out.
I got my husbands fone later that night and went through the call log. The time that girl was making that call was few minutes past 6. I checked my husbands fone and there was a number he called around that time.
The number was not saved on the fone so I decided to call that number on my own fone and my true caller identified the number as "Vicky hookup".
Guess what, the girls name is Victoria.
I was surprised because I have the girls number saved on my fone. But I guess the number I have is for her family and friends. The one my husband has is for clients.
I opened his WhatsApp and found no chat with the girl, so I decided to check his telegram. ( Normally I don't like telegram so I never open it on either my fone or husband's)
My husbands telegram was locked. I was surprised cos that is the only app locked on his fone.
To cut the long story short, I found a way to open the app, and I saw his chat with that girl.
It pains me to say that my husband has been having sex with that girl without protection.
I want to go for HIV test tomorrow. Please how do I confront my husband about this.
Also I am scared I might be infected with an sti.
If your husband cheats, divorce him. If your wife cheats, divorce her. You people should stop being in patch patch marriages. Anybody who cheats on your doesn’t have an atom of respect for you irrespective of the situation and anybody who does it repeatedly is the devils right hand man. A word is enough for the wise. Gracias!
Supreme145: I've been dating my girlfriend for over 18 months now and it has been a bumpy ride. One major I issue I have had with her has been her relationship with other men. She spends a lot of time in my place and each time we have issues her one stop solution is to go out and see other guys.
In fact 90% of our issues have come from this same relations with other men. When I complain she makes it look like I am insecure and overly jealous. I have made it known to her that it's wrong to go on dates with other guys when you are in my place especially when we have issues. She would always insist that they are just friends.
She recently got a job close to my house so she had to move in though she's barely at home cos the work is a 8am to 8pm job. She insisted on the job cos she would be able to learn her desired skills while been paid though the pay is very poor.
She would come home and gist me about how guys have been asking her out in her work place and all. Yesterday she even showed a number that a guy wrote for her on a piece of paper and asked her to call him. We later had a minor disagreement cos I saw her sitting on the floor trying to burst a boil on her laps, she started scolding me that I shouldn't be starting at a woman's private part like that, I pointed out that she had panties on and I was just concerned cos I saw something that looked like a drop of blood on the tiles. This resulted in an argument so I just ignored her.
I later observed her copying out the number given to her on her phone amidst other giggles while chatting with other guys online. I overheard her talking to a guy she just met about him coming to pick her up today so she could follow him to church and then go to work from there. This is someone that have never attended church anytime she costs even though a Catholic church is just a stone throw from my house. I voiced out my displeasure and she said I had no right to interfere in her business since I was giving her attitude.
It rained this morning so she couldn't go to church as planned but I am worried that I am dating a terrible flirt and this is someone I am thinking of getting married to. I had to chat her up at work to complain but she still saw nothing wrong with her relationship with other male folks and told me that I am just being insecure and anytime we have issues she would still leave the house cos she can't stay in a house with someone giving her attitude.
I told her I would no longer continue with the relationship since she sees her attitude as normal and she dosen't give me peace of mind which every man craves for. She started guilt tripping me and talking plenty but I already made up my mind. I can't deal with am unrepentant flirt.
Do you guys think I am over reacting?
One funny truth is that after our advise OP will still go back to the girl. Make I no waste my time joor.
Asgard73: Wike is setting himself up for a big fall..
… and those that cheered him .. will be the first to jump ship.. and abuse the hell out his humanity
Truth is … nobody really liked him.. from druggie to Ganduje .. Fubara.. down to the least in Apc .. back to druggie worshippers..
Na Nigeria we Dey and time has a funny way of setting it all
Enjoy wike.. nothing last long in Nigeria politics.. absolute nothing
Just Dey waste your time. You are having headache over a man that knows his onions and has already plotted how the next 8 years would be with his cohorts. The only thing that can stop this man is death no Dey waste your time, I repeat, no Dey waste your time.
thinkmoney: All Tinubus appointments are deliberate and the overbearing motivation behind them is power. With Wike as the FCT Minister, you can expect violence :Dand highhandedness in any future election in that region.
Wike will demolish all Amaechi’s Properties in FCT and those with fake land certificates will have their titles revoked
Tinubu has nothing to offer Nigerians. He was only interested in occupying that seat as a President but has nothing to offer. This is how Nigerians will keep waiting till the next four (4) years and nothing will be done rather it will keep getting worst. Imagine all the economic woes being faced by Nigerians all this man is interested in is how to deploy soldiers to Niger, it’s really pathetic.
Tell me why I must forgive my daddy and my Late Mummy.
I was 4years while my elder Sister was 6years when my daddy and my Mummy had a serious misunderstanding, so few weeks later, my daddy was transferred to Kaduna from Lagos being a Solder ( who knows I he was the on that requested for that).
On one fateful day, my Mummy went to the market to buy some stuffs in the Market, then here com my Daddy's younger Sister( Aunt) with a vehicle. She forced I and my elder Sister to the vehicle and moved is straight to my Daddy's village in Ondo State. We cried, cried , and cried but our tears couldn't saved us.
Finally we landed in a village where there is no light, no hospitals, no good schools, in the hand of strange people we don't know.
Remember I said we were moved when I was 4years. Now at 5years in the village, daddy never visited, mummy never visited, so I had to start tapping Palmwine just to raise money to start my Primary school in the village. After a year or so, I was able to get some money to pay for my Primary school. I decided that I can't continue with this Palmwine tapping at this year, so I work hard and raise some money to start selling bottles of kerosene to sponsor myself from Primary to Secondary school.
When I was in JSS3 , my Elder Sister got pregnant for a guy out of frustration and betrayal from the path of our Parents who abandoned us for years. Our Uncle in the village who never care about us , informed my daddy that his daughter is pregnant for a guy ooh, then my daddy said the guy must marry her . Finally the guy agreed, then my daddy who never visited us for over 15years came down to the village because of the money he will collect.
After marriage rites, I was taken to Lagos by my elder brother.
Note: my Mummy whom I never see for over 15years knicked me out of the house after spending just 1week with her in the house. Her complain was that I believe like a bush boy.
My elder Sister is still married to the guy in the village and she can't even express herself in English, and this is a lady that was born here in Lagos.
Tell me how I will forgive them after going through hell because of selfish Parents.
My mummy died 4years ago but I didn't even know where her grave is because we were never in good terms and till tomorrow, I will not forgive her not even my daddy.
Dcass: I have tried everything to buy my sewing machine but nothing work am only able to raise 10k out of 90k plus but no problem I believe I will do anything to feed my baby and myself but only God know why he took my husband and left me with the whole responsible.
God knows I have worked begged and even done things just to be able to raise money for my sewing machine but I still didn't work and I don't have anybody. I hope am not committing a sin because am doing this for my child and after doing it if I can raise 90k I will stop and start working.
If any can borrow me I will be greatful and it will save me
Matured mind please.
This scammer. You have been doing this for years now. Please get busy and get something good to do with your life.
Kingsmeal: Na so... With him as governor for 8 years..
Rivers still emerged as one of the poor states in the country.
Make una rest abeg
Who be this one wey Dey cap careless. You people will just come on nairaland to say all sorts of nonsense. Rivers State that’s 10 times richer than your state.
LikeAking: If Shell and Mobil one employ person, or company one award you contract or you they contest for election, Dem they ask weda you dey watch porn?
You guys Shud be smart na, all this things are overrated..
lovediehatelive: So I decided to spend the weekend at my uncle's place because it has been many years I went there.
In the midnight, around 1am, I heard the television was on and I thought he forget to put it off.
So I went to the living room only to see his son of about 4-5 years old watching cartoon. I was shocked and asked him to go and sleep, which he grudgingly agreed.
Now, early morning around 5am or so, same thing happened. I want to the living room and saw him there.
This time he refused to go to bed.
I later found out that's how he does. I wonder if he ever sleeps at night.
The parents are not even bothered, but I'm worried. When we were growing up, who are you to stay awake past 9pm watching TV? Not to talk about waking up at night. Even in the day time you better not be caught idling away on front of the TV when others are busy.
This one just comes to the living room anytime he likes and puts on the TV.
Is this how kids of nowadays behave?
Bad parenting. This is what happens when you give birth to children with no plans of raising them properly. Before you know it he will start watching midnight porn they have spoilt the child already.
ebubeson: The rate at which people have sex without condom may be increasingly high. While it is only right to abstain from pre-marital sex, the sex occuring from fornication and adultery is probably higher than before without the use of condom.
I am not really sure if a married woman in this contemporary time will cheat, requesting for condom before sex. There may be some.
While you sleep around without condom, remember diseases you can get .
You can give statistics of those who do not use condoms.
Avoid pre-marital sex and extra-marital sex.
Of all the problems wey dey this country na sex and the rate at which people have sex be your own problem Abi?
Confused man. I thought he would perform magic once he becomes President from the manner in which he protested some years ago and castigated previous governments. I thought immediately he rigs himself into government everything in Nigeria would change but never did he envisage that things would get worst under him to the extent that some Nigerians now prefer Buhari’s government to his.
I saw no President in Tinubu and till this moment I see no President in him.
While we wait for the Judiciary to do the needful, I take solace in the fact that all those who supported the day light robbery of the mandate of the people by Tinubu and his cohorts are partakers and or beneficiaries of the prevailing hardship in the country, I know say Una Dey chop bellyful and Una Dey buy a litre of petrol 10 Naira
Nsogbu001: Marriage is not by force and no one would force you to marry who you dont want to marry. Why would you come to the public and make it seem that you were forced into the marriage?
Age doesn't make you mature in marriage. This marriage is not a day something. This is someone you will be seeing everyday. If you start like this from the first day, I wonder what will happen as time goes on. Nawaoo oo Take a look.
Babathanks: Illegally detaining emefiele? I can’t count millions I lost because of is naira policy, my neighbour lost her daughter Because of this policy cos they can’t make a transfer to a hospital that is suppose to treat her and she died cos of it. This Nigeria will never develop because of the mentality that people like you have, everything is not about Igbo, Yoruba and hausa. In a sane country. Emefiele is supposed to be rotten in jail now
Young man Emefiele committed an act and it is the duty of the court to convict him and or set him free likewise a person is deemed innocent until proven otherwise. We all suffered the evils of the sudden policy enacted by the former Buhari administration which was spare headed by Emefiele as CBN Governor no doubt but when a court instructs that a man be released it should be obeyed and not disobeyed then he can be rearraigned. Emefiele was not acquitted, the court only gave an instruction. You that has the right mentality keep supporting injustice. You mentioned your neighbors daughter why didn’t you mention the network providers as well as the cause of the girls death? Emefiele did something wrong but everything should be done following due process. If we continue this way the judiciary will be rendered useless and a time will come when a man is convicted and sentenced to death you’ll see him walking free the next day.
Please let’s follow due process in a bid to make the country better. An eye for an eye doesn’t solve anything.
Seefinish: may you be illegally detain even when the competent court of justice has ordered your release
No mind them, they don’t know that it might be their turn tomorrow.
When you laugh at the sight of injustice, injustice shall one day be your portion.
Some persons have cultivated the habit of shying away from the truth even when it’s glaring all in the name of playing tribalism and religion while the country keeps deteriorating. I can’t phantom why a competent court of jurisdiction would instruct that a man be released yet he is still in detention and Some fools all over nairaland see nothing wrong with such and when same gets to them they will start crying foul tomorrow.
Clueless President. Instead of sitting at a place to put together good strategies on how to resolve these problems being faced by Nigerians he has started just like his predecessor. People who are not ready for governance but rigged in just to suffer the people.
Moment UNIPORT VC asks his aides to take details of female student who dressed "indecently", threatening to dismiss the student.
Take a listen!!!
#wetindeyhappentv
Instead of this man to concentrate on his duties and resolve the internal corruption going on in uniport na to Dey disturb girl wey wear mini skirt with big ass. At the end he will dock the girl and the matter go die there.
I so much love how this is going and I am glad that young ladies are wiser. Keep using what you have to get your pointless articles to front page. How will a Man end up with you in the first place. You have a deformed way of thinking.
If e dey pain you sey e dey front page go hug transformer 🤣🤣🤣
You are a bunch of nonsense and useless. Don’t go and look for something reasonable to do. Be answering coach of nonsense. You are one of those destroying young ladies with your silly advise.
Wordsfrombimpe: You are Single Untill You Married - Double Date
There is no such thing as am in relationship playing the loyalty game for long my sister
I have been loyal for long to the men I dated and didn't end up with one
My last relationship taught me deeply, I cried badly and that's to tell you how I love deeply
Long distance relationship with someone on this space and it didn't work on
But I see ladies making the mistakes I made many times and what is that
A guy likes you and he ask he want to get to know you
The next thing you are in a relationship aunty you want to be single for long be that
Inside relationship I learnt some relationship lead you to the right ones
But don't be stupid to be loyal to someone who can't vouch that for you
This men you see can't dish out what you give to them
I went out to sort something and a guy called me on the street and said so you are not married and you are busy forming relationship
And the person I thought you are married to or in a relationship is in a marriage with another woman
And he was like
I have liked you for long but the moment you utter relationship it broke me
I was so angry
Because you are the qualities I need and I observe you for long
I was like shock
I could not cry
So please ladies double date
I have learnt and I hope you learn
Double date and don't do pre marital sex
God bless every loyal people out there
May we find the right ones Ase!
https://twitter.com/coachbimpe/status/1664758421072105475?s=46[/quote]This coach Bimpe is a useless fellow. You are amongst those misleading and contributing to societal decay in the name of relationship coach. I doubt if you know what loyalty is. Why will a man end up with you when you habour such ideology? If I am banned I will create another account and continue from where I stopped. This act of yours is really bad. Stop contributing to the decays in our society. We need things to get better not worst. Stop leading young ladies to their doom.
Wordsfrombimpe: You are Single Untill You Married - Double Date
There is no such thing as am in relationship playing the loyalty game for long my sister
I have been loyal for long to the men I dated and didn't end up with one
My last relationship taught me deeply, I cried badly and that's to tell you how I love deeply
Long distance relationship with someone on this space and it didn't work on
But I see ladies making the mistakes I made many times and what is that
A guy likes you and he ask he want to get to know you
The next thing you are in a relationship aunty you want to be single for long be that
Inside relationship I learnt some relationship lead you to the right ones
But don't be stupid to be loyal to someone who can't vouch that for you
This men you see can't dish out what you give to them
I went out to sort something and a guy called me on the street and said so you are not married and you are busy forming relationship
And the person I thought you are married to or in a relationship is in a marriage with another woman
And he was like
I have liked you for long but the moment you utter relationship it broke me
I was so angry
Because you are the qualities I need and I observe you for long
I was like shock
I could not cry
So please ladies double date
I have learnt and I hope you learn
Double date and don't do pre marital sex
God bless every loyal people out there
May we find the right ones
Ase! https://twitter.com/coachbimpe/status/1664758421072105475?s=46[/quote]Nairaland mods should really look at some articles before moving it to the front page. This is totally wrong and stupid. What’s this nonsense for goodness sake? There are lots of beautiful articles here on nairaland but you guys will never move it to front page until after 2 or 3 years but will be swift in moving all manner of nonsense to the front page simple because of tips and all. It seems you mods reason with your anus. Total rubbish!
Divay22: You think divorce is that easy abi And what makes you so sure the other woman he would marry won't do more than this
Divorce is as easy as ABC. Bia you ladies should learn how to advise your fellow ladies instead of mentioning guys online. God knows I wouldn’t tolerate such disrespect.
Politics › Re: FG Dismisses Coup Fear, Ex-generals Warn Politicians Again Bad Governance by LEGALSER: 11:47am On Sep 02, 2023
