₦airaland Forum

My brother, I feel your pain. To be sincere with you, blaming your father for your failure is like blaming baba God for creating us or sent you to that family of yours. Remember a drummer work is to beat the drums but he or she do not tell you to dance like this or like that, you choose the kind dance you want not the drummer to choose for you. Yours situation is better because you choose by yourself some where blaming their parents for choosing for them. I don't really believe that what you are saying about your father you wouldn't practice it when you get married. Because, your focus, your mind, your energy now are negative, your head is full of negative about your daddy particular. Your story is like a child who said his parents don't know how to work, if your says that what will be your answer? If you can see any positive things in your daddy how sure are you are your neighbors or any other person or any partner if there is? Although he is your father means you know him more than anybody. Beside why is it that your dad and mom are still together? If they're still together to me sorry to say, you are lying about your dad. Bottom line you are to learn from your parent not otherwise bros. Say you have parent what about those who do not have at all, at early age they loss their parent, they keep moving from one anuty to uncle, moving everytime no parmanet house their education nobody body knows at 12yrs primary 2. Remember if you can't learn from your parent you have then forget no lesson that lecture gone forever but decided what you want to learn from them. I have mine which I learned from them likewise your child too will learn from you. Let your daddy change by seeing that you can do it without him know that your success is in your parent blessings. Stop this negative mind set of yours about your father it will lead ashtray.

How manage! How do they reach deputy directors? Na wa.

All drug are made by science student. We all know, so, it is true hajia relist the music now!

nice statement but, you can not change it. who want to change it

I thougth this guy said the efcc slap his wife, etc. Let your work for you. A bi no be innocent u bi, a beg go tell dem

I dont know what to say. So no more generation abi?

There is nothing wrong with that. But, if you are confuse please ask him. Remember we all have screet. Do not destroy your home

Good 1, othes should follow

That is his choice That is his choice

I am an architect. My guy, nobody can give u accurate estimate with plan. So, get or meet builders professional for proper estimate you want. It is your chioce. Arc. Lekzman

To me! Do what please your mind. There is always a result for every action we do. Be happy with yourself and free your mind. If having sex with her will make you happy Do It. If No, Don't try. Don't kill yourself or your career because of 5minite enjoyment. If you are lying to people it's better than lying to yourself. It left to you, you know yourself better than everybody. So, do what make you happy. Life is to short my bro.!

Hmmm! Nigerians! Why religion is majory problem in this country? If Muslim said yes, christian will say No, Christian say Yes Muslim will No. Why? Is this what religious said we should do? Go read your Holy Book well, muslim pay tax, christian pay tax? Both of them talked about "TAX", why? Muslim & christian are enemy. Poor people! Poor mind! Tax is for riche people. What make you sure that your religion is what God/Allah want. If private organization are paying tax then, why religion schools. Are they not private school? Please, what this man said is right, businesses are to pay tax either Muslim or Christian. If churches & mosques are to pay tax what is your problem. I beg, waiting be our wahala self overring is not compulsry in church or mosque. Na wa!

My brother! The type of house to build is not the problem. The problem is what did you want to build. An arcitect will ask you your opinno first before given you ideal. That is how we work, we can dicide for client. Questions: what do you want to build? How many bedroom? Should each bedroom have toilet? How big/large you want the room and the parlour to be include the toilet? What of kitchen how large is it? There are questions about landscaping. The survey of your land or land measurement are not the first thing to architect. Please, kindly visit or consult your architec for proper design. Thank you

Marry someone you do not like is a big problem and listen not to your parent is another wahala. Uhmmm! But, my advice to you is you should make a plan(backup plan) for any decision you may take. Lastly, do what will make you happy not what you will regret. Pray for God direction.

Uhmmmm! Fayose is not thinking well. Igbo people can not be left off from the damage breaking apart will cause, but we all going to pass through it if it occur. If Fayose want to campain, he should go straight and say it, what is he afraid off? Are the igbo people going to eat their business, they need people to transact with. Fayose should becareful! If he give them land or space now. What will happen when he left? This is what is causing big problem in north. Somebody should tell him to think well before... Don't feel bad we all need each other

Tax! Tax!! Tax!!! I do not believe that Tax is compulsory for everybody but, i do know that tax is to give to poor people, develop country or your comunity etc. nothing more. Not to pastor or mallam. If you want yearly or montly it could be daly, it is your call to answe. To those who it believed in the statement that Jesus die for our sin, please! And please do not think that you will be free if you comit any crime. Remenber that we all going to answer or face our crime tomorrow. May God be with us

Oh people of this country (Nigeria) ! Why are you guz aguing on this matta? What we need is solution? Believe, we voted GJE out because nobody want him. Somebody should answer this question ' is there no APC in SE or SS? Please and please. We need solution. We should come to our sence and look for what we need? Please!!! God bless Nigeria!

Borrow money to do what? Theif.

Are you saying Baba Buari should go pursu cows. Dan fulani! Dan shanu!

I just need to one question. Did governor amosun collecting salary? Did he getting his salary regular or is like civi servant? If yes! He is facing what they are facing then his rigth but, if NO! Thunder shall srack him. Na so he be. We all have rigth to figth, talk, for what we need sai?

All these shoes are problem to the owner. Bata wahala will no go wear am. The question is how will you feel if your girlfriend wear these crazy shoes come to your family house? What will you do if she ask you to buy any1 for as xmas gift? If your mama wear 1, waiting you go do if jam her in market?

Solution, pls!:*

Onething i know, nobobies were borned to remain in power or one sit forever so, changes are constant. Indirectly or directly he will leave the sit, keep it up you might be there one day. Good luck Mr. Onjeh

Please, guy take it easy. Secondary school teachers are to flog student. But, in this case i believe the parent are awarered. May be she committed serious crime, nobody will flog student like this not even one teacher, three teachers! it is not possible. God bless Nigeria.

May God help Nigeria and safe us from these so call politician people. Lia should not lie to himself if his lying to us.

Do not be confuse by he statement. What he said was "i urged my daughter to retaliate any assault from her husband". He is right, nobody will agreed or accept that he daddy should beat he mummy wrongly even if she deserved it. Please, do what you can take or accept if it turn to you. God help us to understand what husband and wife is all about, both Muslim and Christian is a sin if you beat your wife. God Bless Nigeria

My sis. pls, don't disf urself & dstroy ur family as well. candily lif d house witout coming back. Why, because such a man will nt stop until he achiev hs goal or aim. You may escape 2day, 2mrw may worst, hs watching ur movement. Erase all ur contact u've & make sure he is nt in ur mind too. Don't tell ur sister but, giv ur sister warning by telling her dat sh should never trust, belive, faith, etc. in any man (i.e. no 100%). There is probability pple will com her house wit pinkin, belle 1day, sh should nt fil suck. Finaly, if wat u're saying is true , don't stay in dat house again because, u can not survy it. wen dat happen u're 2 blame 4 t. What God has joined 2gether let nobody seperate or destroy dem. U can survey wit hm or ur sisters' family. Let ur sister leave happy life ooooooooooooooooo

well, that is nice and good. But, how do you pay the money?

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where person they work na their person they churp. So leave the man, he know why he knee down oooooo

there are alot of gift a woman or a man can give to his wife or her husband. he or she can not process every good thing in life, you as a husband must no that. Also women must know that their husband can not have all the good quality women want, every things are limited. Be a man or a woman, you must be ready to take fully responsibilities of your own. To cut everthings short a couple must! must!! must!!! understand each others. i.e. love he or her the way he/she is, respect he/her, a word of appreciate or encourage when it's needed, endurance, patient, etc. You must also know your life partner well before you jump into relationship because, if you fail to start from friendship to relationship. Well, i which you goodluck. God lead us through AMEn