₦airaland Forum

neoapocalypse:
It would surprise you that on average the ego of the woman is bigger than that of a man as it is more difficult for a lady to walk away from betrayal but most men quickly adjust to life and what it throws at us. You look at it from an African point of view where the woman is suppressed in every way imaginable , I have met white ladies who would put a bullet in your skull if you cheat on them , in fact it is more likely with a white lady than with a white man.

OK, females do not as much as shadow men in the ego contest. That's a marked feature of males, for his good and undoing as well.


And I think women are built tougher than men to handle some aspects of life. Cheating, betrayal, emotional tumoil.

Western women who shoot their cheating partners are suffering from hyper-active personality disorder. And they are in the minority.

akike:
Some reason like women do not cheat. Your wife is still going to bang your gateman. She doesn't need to have lots of extras. Another one to switch the flavour is all she needs.

Depending on a whole lot of factors!

neoapocalypse:
Yet you won't accept it if she bangs the next hunk that walks by her

My mind is like an open highway!!!

And I'm open to the possibility of the worse in life.

The ego in a man like me might suffer more from the act of betrayal, perhaps, more than my sense of being cheated on.

But then again, sex for most women isn't bang and go!!!

dridowu:
A new political platform believed to be packaged by fronts of aggrieved bigwigs of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has come into being.

At the National Executive Council/National retreat held by the promoters of the yet-to- be registered party, the Peoples Mega Party (PMP), the National Coordinator, Chief Perry Opara, told the delegates that the mission of the new political platform is to provide a very focused and patriotic body deviod of negative traits of impunity and confusion.

“The major people who are in the party are former members of the PDP who disenchanted by the high level of corruption, high level of impunity and high-handedness in the PDP. They have decided to form something very new and they are of the opinion that they should hand over the party to younger elements who are less corrupt and who can be able to fight for the interest of the people.”

Opara who is a close associate of the estranged PDP chieftain and former Presidential aide, Alhaji Ali Ahmed Gulak said that apart from the bigwigs from PDP, there are others from even the ruling party, All Progressives Congress (APC) desirous of pitching their tent with the new party.

However, Opara declined to mention names of those PDP and APC members floating the party, saying no one among them has given permission to make it open.

But that does not mean that it is only people from the PDP, there are also people from the All Progressives Grand Alliance (APGA) chapters in many states. There are people from the Labour Party and there are some disenchanted people from the ruling party.


http://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2016/03/01/aggrieved-pdp-men-floats-peoples-mega-party/

A sinking ship still adding more load to its cabin

It should be People's Maga Party!!!

firstEVA:
Refresh

Seen!!! Accepted!!!

firstEVA:
my IV is pending, maybe you should do something about it.

You tell me tall tales, my burning flame.

firstEVA:
really?

I'm not discussing this with you!

Where've you been? Been looking for you.

.

Often time, I allow my ladies a glimps into the window of my "weakness".

I evoke their maternal instincts that way.

Ladies always love the boy in a man

Nubian113:
Hey you, it's been awhile so how are you?

Ah, my dimming, smouldering flame!!! I have lost you, lost you somewhere in the deep of your compulsion.

efemena8:
Is very painful but i just have to let him go.

So what happened? Your love for him went cold or you just lost the spark somewhere?

icedbeatz:
lol yes sire and i totally understand your stand, its is one of the hardest thing for a man to do but its not impossible atleast for a certain number of years especially when the wife is still fresh but if one has the fear of God they can do it and leave the world smacking only their wife's puna i.e from when he got married.

It's possible, bro

FTBOY:
true that! the average man believes that hitting on another man's wife is consequential. karma is a biatch... only a he-goat without a conscience does that

I tell you, not withstanding my sexual rascality, I can't even begin to recall the number of married ex's and acquaintances I have dodged , ladies that simple wanted me to beat that pussy down smoking. Damn!!! Some guys are really so _fucking naive.

I say here, the art of seduction of a married woman is carefully crafted you could get ensnared before you had time to think!

FTBOY:
don't mind them. the Op was trying to turn it against men....rubbish!

lolz !!! It's a non issue. Married women hit on men more than men hit on them!!!

Even the average immoral guy I know shys away from married women.

icedbeatz:
nigga you take everything too serious. I respect the union called marriage a lot that's why i'm still testing, observing and doing all i can to sieve the one from them all. If you happen to marry a wonderful lady that appeals to your heart, body and soul then pussyy won't be a problem bc pussi is not the foundation of the relationship and if you really love your wife like crazy the thought of hurting her won't allow you to fk around bc you can't look into her eyes without your conscience stabbing you bc of the wrong you've done to her you feel me?

You mean seared conscience from religious tenets and moral obligation!!!

Men will worship the ground their wives walk and bang the very next pusssy that probably doesn't measure up to their wives.

It is a painful reality. The average men don't equate _fuck with love.

And ass comes shaking with a nice curve, only my religious beliefs will stop me from banging the stars out of that ass. And the love of my wife won't even be dampen one bit.

postmann:
Is that a tacit invitation to your pornographic literature?

It is a call to make a convert of a nonbeliever like me

You can't change the world!!!

Money and pusssyy reign supreme!!!
And I'm getting both!

postmann:
That was a pertinent reply to your quote. And it still manages to be pertinent to the thread.

I never saw the correlation, funny enough. Tell me about sex, how it affects women.

Do you think the modern women have adapted to some of the biological impediment to sexual liberty?

postmann:
Where you expecting receptive comments?
And since when have wife materials being in large numbers?

Or was scripture not right with Proverbs 31: 10a. " A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies".

Don't expect receptions. Expect having me your constant visitor whenever I'd be opportune.

You digress, young man!

Stay on topic and preach.

FTBOY:
this is bullshiit!!! total stench-emitting crap from an ignorant mind! by percentage....the mania of going back to one's ex after marriage is more on women than on men. one silly thing about women is that if they taste and like your dick, the memory will linger in a quiet corner of their chicken head forever. it gets worse when their husbands can't outperform their wives' exes. only by divine intervention from God or willpower from the man to quit the relationship can one resist the temptation. otherwise, you'd find yourself fvcking your ex again and again...
i, personally, know what i passed through to whisk out of the grasps of my married exes. the last one was a menace. she didn't tell me when she got married because she knew i would resist her and i fvcked the silly ho! yes, i fvcked another man's wife, thinking she was still my babe. i felt very bitter when i finally found out, to the point i told my dad about it because he knows her and was aware we were dating. he advised me to use threats of reporting her to the police or her husband but it didn't work.....the ho kept calling and texting and sending me her n.udes. finally, my told me to deactivate she had and move out of the area. this shiit happened in 2013.....

NL is gradually morphing into a den of myopic Delusionists!!!

Married women seek their exes out to rekindle the dying ember of sexual fires their husbands couldn't stoke.

End of story!!!

Europija:
Hello all ..I have been with my bf for 5 years and he was really broke n had alot stress...he hit me once in my face n threw me out of house in middle of night...should i forgive him??

Yes.

For five years and he did it just once!!! Give him another chance.

armyofone:
Postmann, for moral decay in our society, I'd like you to
focus on polygamy and having too many children.
Not the way you are going.
Good morning.

But polygamy has been with men since we debuted on the green planet

postmann:
Ain't you the reason I became more active on NL, that I might crash your schemes?

You're doing a very good job at that, considering how receptive your sermons are!

postmann:
Ok. I give you permission. Go ahead, use my thread as your hunting ground.

Now pounce on your victim, tell them how good a sexual creature they are. They love to hear you talk.
And they love it when men like you "elevate " them to a glorified sexual objects rather than the "debasing " nurturers who held the society in an unrivalled feminine grace when innocence was synonymous to feminism.

Get off your moral high horse!!!

Your belligerent tone dampens the enthusiasm of my potential suitors

postmann:
I know you must align your believes according to your appetite for women.

What are we living for ?

aqueenlinda:
If my memories aren't twinging from what i recall, the Nigerian law doesn't allow Federal Road Safety Commission staffs to use gun. How come he get to carry one? The Facebook user who shared the photo online spotted the man on a busy road wielding the rife. View photo below...

http://www.queensnewsblog.com/2016/02/road-safety-start-carrying-guns-see.html

Yeah, they went for the training last 2014/15. But it's for use within their premises.

None of their statutory obligation necessitates wielding guns as the offence they are meant to checkmet are mainly traffic offences.

postmann:
Ooooch! So sobering!
What a painful retreat from the once brave, self-acclaimed, tough talking prostitute.

Alas there goes yet another female gibberish.
You proved once again you are not even my intellectual match.
And when the heat is turned on, you couldn't stand cos you ain't built that tough.

Thank you for responding to my superior intellectual prodigy, as I boxed you into a tight corner, with your frailed back against the wall, and are forced to tell me you're a product of single parenthood.

Well, even a man in all his endowments can't raise a child up properly like both parents. You should have known this and save yourself from further onslaught from the negatives of a single parent child.

But I'll spare you that.
You failed in your miserable defence why men shouldn't dominate.

You were an easy lunch.

Hehehe, Are you running a psychoanalysis on her?

By the way, sex has evolved with time and women are dealing with the fallout beautifully

Hmmn, you're on an emotional whirlwind!!!

You mean with all you've seen you still need advice from us?

Keep enjoying the relationship if there's fvck involve and look for a lady more compatible with you.

Your girl has a lot of baggage she obviously can't shake off. And she's playing you like the mugu you are!

postmann:
Hey, king Troll, I don't care about your reputation here, but don't you dare twist the fact.

you give me too much credit.

postmann:
This thread isn't about who should carry more of the blame. IT IS ABOUT THE SIMPLE FACT THAT WOMEN HAVE MORE TO LOSE THAN MEN IN INFIDELITY AND SEXUAL RASCALITY. And the facts are clear and fact-proven even for bats to see.

Read my first post on this thread.

postmann:
Do you like loval.eenny?

I love women!! Nothing compares to the beauty of a woman.

lovaleenny:
Thank you my brother...please kindly dt to d op hopefully he won't label you a feminist. Have a goodnight

I love Nairaland for its varying opinions.

To each his/her own views and beliefs. Life is to be lived to the fullest. There's oft time for rest.

Good night, dear.

lovaleenny:
Thanks for the correction. My own view on cheating is "anyone doing it should be responsible for the consequences that comes with it and not put blame on any gender". Also guys shudnt feel ladies cheating is some sort of taboo while over-looking theirs. One needs to be fair in their perspectives rather than accomodate double standards. My 2kobo!

You're absolutely correct!!!

Sex and cheating are purely subjective in opinion and morality, and if any blame should be doled out, in my opinion, I think men should carry more of the responsibility.


It takes two to cheat and men are often the initiators.

'sides, sex has become so well-worn everyone knows the likely fallout.

lovaleenny:
First of all there's no such thing as "the divergent"...it aint a noun, it's meant to be used in adjective form mr. postman and quit the ego thing going on with "my reply this, my reply that". One can always spot the defensiveness going on with you. You don't have any reply you're only hiding behind your wrong use of diction rather than face the fact that your post reeks of chauvinism, double standards and irrational perspective towards cheating in genders am out!

Actually, you're the one with the grammar -blemish.

Divergent is actually an adjective but when preceded by the definite Article, " The" it becomes an adjectival noun.

So foolish or dead are both adjectives but when you add the definite article, e.g , The dead or The foolish it becomes an adjectival Noun.

But let us dispense with this grammar correctness.

Tell me your views on the topic.

Personally, I think _fuck is a matter of subjective morality and not gender based.

Hehehehe!!! Women are having emotional and psychological readjustments to sexual liberties in recent times, though.

I've met women who only wanted _fuck for _fuck's sakes. Although basic biology tells me women get somewhat attached to their lovers, but I ponder if such attachment can't be severed by other environmental and behavioural factors.

It behoves women should take precautionary measure in sexual indiscretions, but in all frankness, the sexual failings of women are the lack of leadership of men!