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byvan: People should just get married when they believe they ve found their soul mate, all these logic about being dependent or independent is just utter crap(non ll guarantee you a great marriage). You shouldn't condemn early marriage because you never had the opportunity to find love early.The youngest female professor when I was in school was just 38 and got married at 20 , do you still think she lacks dream?

A great dreamer knows how to conserve time.

TroGunn: You can discuss "divinity of Jesus", of course.

True, Jesus Christ is not God Almighty, according to the Bible anyway. Jesus himself said the Father (God Almighty) is above him and sent him and even directs him on what to say.

John 12:49 "I don't speak on my own authority. The Father who sent me has commanded me what to say and how to say it".

Understanding that and following Jesus' wonderful example, which is basically focussing on doing his Father's will is important.

Matt 7:21 - “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.

kingoflag: When folks, like those in Anambra supporting the thieving Peter Obi and violation of human basic right each man's vote counting in a democratic setting are in the overwhelming minority.

taharqa: What kind of USELESS law is that?? Apart from the fact that ONLY premediated murder should attract d Death penalty in my view, were you not alive when a former LGA boss got 6months for stealing around #1.5million? Now, a 'nobody' steals Recharge cards and he is sentenced to Death by hanging!!! Does that seem remotely fair to you? Cud there be a much greater INJUSTICE perpetuated by d Courts ('Temple of Justice'- how ironic) and d Laws it interprets? Shld we be this Sillly and HYPOCRITIC because of some laws??.... I know the Judge was interpreting a section of d law, but he shld either have used his discretion Or he shld have just excused himself from such glaring Injustice. But of course d fault here doesn't reali lie with d Judge in this case, it is d Society (all of us) and the various Govts (past and present) that is failing itself, Woefully in this respect.... I TOTALLY CONDEMN THIS JUDGEMENT WITH EVERY THING I CAN COMMAND

Booty butt chic: Like why do people treat the jehovah witnesses like a plaque whenever they come to people houses.like dis sunday and also last sunday too,I wuz at a freinds place(christians oo) and the jehovah witnesses came,before dey could even open deir mouth 2 say who dey were after greeting while stAndin at the entrance door,my freinds elder one just came and banged the door at their faces like Dafuq....is dis forreal...I wuz like wat wuz d reason, dey were like don't mind dem johr.... So Nlanders do u do it too,and if u do,wat makes avoid dem weneva dey come 2 your house


Happy sunday.

dsunmade: I heard that they use the metal contents of the catalytic converter to make local gunshot pellets. So, protect your catalytic converter well because those pellets may end up being used on those you know.

Most of our mechanics and panel beaters don't know the usefulness of the catalytic converter. A panel beater once suggested to me that if a catalytic converter is old, they open it up and stuff it with debris including wires. He also told me that the debris may eventually clog the catalytic converter and cause issues in the engine.

The cat of my car got stolen at Cotonou and had to be replaced by the Panel beater. The car makes a drone-like noise always. I wish I could get the OEM silencer including the Cat at a reasonable cost.

COOLDUN: These apes that believe that their ancestor fell down from the sky with a broom and calabash will never wake up and face the realities of the 21st century. They are still living in the 1st century, while still claiming to be educated, I wonder how these people would have been, if they were not educated with a confiscated money from one section of the country.j

Why in this modern time someone is wasting the lives of innocent people in the name of money ritual? Who told them that money ritual is real? Though if a tribe’s existence is based on lie/fable stories, which all of the people believe to an extend that it is written in the history books , why won’t they believe it, even if they were told that their grandfathers were transformed from women to men.

They have changed from diverting innocent bus travelers in their cities to their evil forests to the robbing of newly born babies in the hospitals.

Now I can believe a testimony of One of the escaped victims of the evil forest ritualists wrote how he and co army officer in the bus with guns overpowered ritualists/agents and slaughtered them including their village partners in rituals who always pretend to be helpers to the lucky escaped victims; he said that he and the co army officer pretended to be asleep when they blew their powdered substance in the bus, and made sure that they were proved beyond reasonable doubt that they were ritualists, when they were about to enter into the Sagamu/Lagos express way evil forest, when the bus slowed down because of the bad road, the army officer blew off the driver’s head which made the bus to fell in a ditch, before the other ritualists could know it they have surrendered them with their guns, shooting them on their heads, and tortured the remaining who pointed at the other females patners in the bus that pretended to be victims too. While they were toturing them they started showing them their villagers co ritualists too.

The army guys said that if they took them to the authorities they would be freed by their high placed patronizers so they decided to waste the ones they caught and freed the genuine passengers in the bus and fled the scene too.

I can see that the bus travelers are wiser and well prepared nowadays, that is why they have resorted to invading the hospitals.

I believe that this has made them to change their method by invading the hospitals in their towns, as foolish gullible people they are. Why should a man kill his fellow human being for money ritual? And their people would be claiming that other section of the country is desperate for money?

I would advise other people to leave these clowns to continue killing/wasting their new generation by killing them for senseless reasons so that they will seize to exist very soon. Keep on killing yourselves and point your fingers at other people.

GBOMO GBOMO. CARRY GO.

Gbam. Inspite of the fact that all the mega churches are located in this region, yet negligible effect on morality. You see millions flocking to their programmes monthly. Where are all the ritual killers?

ibn akogun: Hope you have taken your correct dose of ogu brain disease. Let me school you in police matter 101. Hello ma'am, police commissioner are selected by the I.G without ethnic or religion leaning of the individual. Even the ebonyi guy can't lead a line in main market talkless of a Yoruba chairman of Onitsha south LGA woliwo. I don't see that happening till the angel blow the whistle to end the world.

lorretta u: Yes I'm single
No I don't have fantasies (well except to win the billion dollar jackpot )

As against your very 'wise' perception that I might be on the way to marital frustrations,I can tell you whole heartedly that you're wrong.I can ask many women who have raised responsible kids and the answer would still be that I can do it.
I don't need to go far to ask
I've my mom here as a perfect example.
Career mom.
Great kids
Happy home.
I could begin to count the number of women who I know have done it and I won't be done by tomorrow.
I have no fear for the future. Worry about yourself and your wife
I'll be fine. Thanks.

bukatyne: Coogar,

Let me indulge you this once...

You are comparing a woman whose fiancée is a potential abuser to a man whose wife slapped him once

My post you dug out is actually a very wrong example to use as it is very self explanatory

Until you can dig up a post where I told a female poster to divorce or leave her home because her husband slapped her once, don't quote me again or describe my posts as hypocritic or with double standards.

Also ensure to include the posters I quoted and the OP

Thanks

lorretta u: if I ask you to give me one unarguable reason why women are inferior to men,you're going to come up with certified nonsense. So I won't bother.let me focus my words on people like dailynews who at least has a percieved reason for what he's saying.in your opinion,a real woman is the one who's only interested in an accomplished man who can pay her bills?
somebody(anybody) help this dude pls

Like I said I'm done with you,I didn't expect you to quote me again.if you do again,I'm gon ignore you. Thank you



@Dailynews,I hope you understand that money doesnt equate to success.
If so we'd be callling yahoo boys , drug dealers and high way robbers successful men.
Success has more to do with satisfaction and covered milestones than how much you've made.
So saying that a con man who has amassed billions by fraud is more successful than a Ph.d holder who's married to a medical doctor (and both of them share the family expenses) is wrong. Success isn't solely identified by money.

lalalefriday:

First to do no dey pain as they say.

Now OP listen to me. Physical abuse is a direct result of a lack of respect for the abused by the abuser.

Quite simply, your wife has zero respect for you.[color=#000099][/color]

And a relationship without mutual respect can NEVER work let alone a marriage.

Your marriage is already dead -What you need to figure out is if you want to show her pepper before you leave...or if you want to leave in an amicable and mature manner.

I personally would go for option A.



True talk. It is most abominable. But come to think of that, I hold any man responsible if the wife does not respect him. Usually in relationships there are always things to nip in the bud. Only Real men look out for such for instant surgery before it becomes cancer manifesting thus.

bebe2: i totally agree wit the post,
those are the advantages wat about the disadvantages??


financially independent women can be sturbborn to their husbands.

they can have the '' wat do i need a man for?? '' syndrome

pls add more if u want, i no fit worry myself

Toktee: I wonder wether apga candidate is an educated person cos he have a problem with english language.

bukatyne: Are you sure you read the OP at all?

bukatyne: Are you sure you read the OP at all?

bukatyne: Are you sure you read the OP at all?

teskyg: I see the topic that made front page.Bias moderators.