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Elsudani2:
Without Soyinka a yoruba man

Nigeria would have been cult free

Truth!

Nonsense!

Congratulations!

Truth, everyone is in love with them these days.

Especially our elders…

advanceDNA:
Bros i nor jump .....i read ur post.. u said she reduced it from 3 times to twice a week.

See...only rare breeds of women that over-like sex or are used to fvcking for money will be open to sex more than 3 times a week, no matter how good u are...

Once a woman has good orgasm today..before she go enter naturally become hoŕny again...e go take a while....

baba...twice a week is not a bad ........ i dont know how ur body is ooo...but most guys say frequent/next to everyday sex nor dey sweet ...a short period of absteinance, like 3 to 4 days makes the climax sweeter.....

What about the kissing and cuddling part?

addmole:
She was not a virgin before I MARRIED HER. Infact I know her ex. Though she doesn't cheat on me. She loves to be alone, make money, cruise, vibes with her friends, family. But not with me. Dont cuddle her, don't tickle, don't laugh with her. She gets angry with every little thing. Doesnt apologise. I once cheated on her but apologised. But now, she's starving me of sex, coupled with the height of disrespect from her. Last time I CALLED her elder brother about our frequent quarells. He just said he would talk to her. But he never did. Her mother shouted at me, if i wanted to divorce her, i should go ahead. So much quarells. I am tired. She even left the family prayer whatsapp group i created. OMO, I don't know what to do. I am just tired.

It’s cos u go to church. If u are in the way ur wife will not try this shit.

akube34:
I wonder how this is even an issue. Find side chicks or visit codedruns.com. Na u Dey stress ur self ooo

Good advice

addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.

Is she the only woman in the world?

Dump her…

Stupid Burna.

Na dance music l, it doesn’t have substance anywhere in the world…

Avg ani virus.

Miscrants!

Because youths see them run no mean say na dem burry the baby.

Nigerian youths usually run when they sight the police because they will be victimized in most cases.


As long as you didn’t catch them in the act n no evidence yet, u can’t put the devil on them.

Rip the the baby.

Those Ipob mata don too much.


This is very bad…

Someone should talk to dem.

JayWebtech:
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Nice!

Some so called techies and remote workers here will
Complain about building their own apps and startups as if it’s impossible..

A startup or doesn’t have to face book or pay stack.

He is one serious minded person who had done it. He is not a complainer like most of you, neither is he a silly time waster like @greatiboman or @greatigboman.

Let’s learn from him. No arguments pls.

Don’t tell me you need millions of Naira, etc. Enuf of those silly excuses

Congratulations!

Front page pls @seun

False!

Neverlosemoney:
This is the saddest and funniest thing I have seen on the internet in a very long time. Mental Conditioning is Real.

The white brain washed us, putting us in a state, where; we cannot use our own mind rather we rely on someone else mind or an unimaginable mind out there to come and save us.
!
The more religious a certain place is; the more the level of illiteracy, birth rate and poverty within that place. The less religious a certain place is; the less the level of illiteracy, birth rate and
poverty. This as always been the trend.

Truth!

Paid miscrants

We Dey watch how the burning go help him ministry.

ambale:
Your suggestions makes a lot of sense but will thesse people think towards that

Imagine hoarding cash again, i pray the economy no go collapse oo with this trial and error style dem dey do

How will his assumption help the masses?

It’s the same making the rich richer syndrome.

Make we look into things well…



Don’t tell me they will employ people, because most of their workers are dead broke…

Let FG empower the poor via cottage industries manufacturing, agriculture, etc

mdimefields:
Just imagine such mindset. Una kukuma for turn the country to North Korea, African version, make we all rest. Just imagine

U don’t understand what’s going on.

Continue with your Nigerian mindset.

Topics lie this are not for you.

Our go to Bb Naija thread.

If been like North Korea will make life beta no p.

Besides North Korea is beta than Nigeria.

Remember it’s Godwin’s only legacy.

It should be made non madatry and the the number per batch should be reduced by 90%.

May be only one batch of 5k per year or less.

And we still believe Nigeria doesn’t manufacture.

Yobe is the best state in Nigeria.

Good people.

They are the real children of God. They are not tempted by the the things of this world.

Also control the rate at which we patronize foriegn devices like education abroad, vacation, medication, importation,etc.

These are the true wasters of the economy.

Imagine the number of Nigerians buying bullet proof cars, luxury cars, expensive wines, going on vacation and various senseless trips abroad and the new my child must school abroad culture?

All of them waste our resources…

Mount unnecessary pressure on our fix demand.

Wasting the nations fix on senseless travels. Waksman is and co must be banned.

Wainey:
Tell me one recent musician except Justin beiber that rose to fame in USA in the past 10yrs, like Davido, Burna boy, Asake, Wizkid or Tiwa.

The era of fine lyrics from Alicia keys and Beyonce are gone, they are now wack musicians from USA

Pls be civilized with your assumptions.

If they read this they will stop surporting Nigerian artist.

Na our Bragado Dey limit us.

equity1:
is not true. May be before not now

Which part of my statement is not true.

This one always typing nonsense…..


It’s all about talent and off course we are all one..

We are all Africans..
It’s not Nigerian musicians, but African musicians.

LarryCork:
anyways backkkto our serius topic,yes I drive a range sir & I use it to pull chicks....I usually abuse Toyota driver people when they drive by & sometimes I want to spit on there face.broke people drive Toyota sir(no oofencse)

I so detest Toyota products and their likes Honda, Kia, Hyundai, etc. The name ‘Toyota’ alone irritates me. Their cars are so ugly in and out. Every thing is made of the cheapest plastic.

Toyota that can’t design good interiors of their cars.

The engine sound is very terrible, the paint they use on their car self no they shine like Benz own.

I hate Toyota.

Spits!

If a man come become beast wetin him gain?

Will he be the richest man in the land?

Na money be the main thing.

Let’s be less emotional.

The man can send the woman away.

Why worry over one woman when you can get many.

Real truth!

saphiere:
Can you please leave the thread if you have nothing positive to contribute.

Nigerian women can’t do shit..