₦airaland Forum

codeKart:
A minor is a person under the age of full legal responsibility.

In Nigeria, only people UNDER 18 are classified as minors. Once you're 18+, you're an adult. You can vote, be voted for and, if you commit a crime, be sentenced to Prison.

The girl in question is 21. She's an adult and her employer should learn to treat her as such. She's not his child and he has no other obligation to her other than to pay her salary. Anything else is extra.

Abi, how is her sex life tied to the number of sales she's making? As a country, we need to stop focusing on things that don't matter and learn how to focus on what matters. Especially when it has to do with someone else's private life.

No I expect him to write on he’s sign post , vacancy needed , not more than 2 body counts and no abortions . Yeye Dey smell

stormborn28:
thank God you are also seeing it from my perspective. It is not that I don't advice like you advocated but over the years of my experience with girls... The moment you give them advice especially teenagers to stay away from relationships, you automatically become their number one enemy.. They will even stay away from you. Na day

you are definitely an enemy cause no one tells you how to live ur own life , beside she’s 21 and not a teenager. So advising her over her personal affairs is 100% wrong

stanliwise:
Like I have been saying your goal to advise people is not to save them from destruction but to create awareness. Not all people indulging in bad things are always bad. Some are just ignorance and full of youthful exuberance.
Creating awareness could help give a better mindset and maybe just maybe a change would happen.

just shut it , that young lady is 21 years and knows exactly what she’s doing . She knows the difference between good abd bad , There r many girls like her , she got her own friends and family . No one is poking nose in her business. Learn to mind ur business before it lands you in trouble

One4me:
Maybe not a Cheat, but just a selfish and self-centered person.
Those Character Traits cannot sustain a marriage for too long.

and that’s why marriages do not last nowadays , they create a lifestyle that can’t accommodate another person. Marriages nowadays are two selfish people coming together with no genuine commitment to each other . Never works . Divorce keeps rising and threads like this tells us the reason why .

fallingsky:
By their fruits u will know them. oga u are a cheat.

yes o , any body who has a problem with their spouse visiting is a cheat, girl or boy

paix:
Governments come and governments go.

they will re apply again self with this same government.

AMI3:
Is it possible for two schools to hv the same name when they are not own by the same person.
I know future leaders in my state

yes , infact different owners can use same name in different local government even, there are ministry of education in every local government. But not with cooperate commotion.

gift2xl:
Abi.

yes na , some small schools that pay 15 to 20k , but now , u get atleast 5k per child . Some hv more than 5 or 6 places they go to , and it’s one hour and 3 times a week . Some take 10k even depending on the class

gift2xl:
I sorry for teacher's, Lot's of them have gone to there villages. Coronavirus Y!!.

some are making more money now doing home lessons .. no reason am. The wise ones r still making good money.

Thank God the school no Dey rivers state , na demolish them Go demolish am

whitelotus:
Please, be dropping in people's houses unannounced. It shows your personality. lol

nothing funny. Lol, that’s a major sign of unseriousness I will never ignore . I love my personality like that, we r talking of committed relationship Not people's houses

whitelotus:
The op never said that they were engaged. The title of this thread clearly says "dating".

It is good manners to respect someone's personal space and house. Call before coming. It only shows that you have no respect and manners. I cannot date or even marry a woman with such behaviour.

Even the law is clear on this issue. You shouldn't be on someone's property without permission. If police gets involved, you are in trouble.

yes goes same both ways

PotatoSalad:
Sharrap. It's a simple courtesy to inform someone before visiting them. Many have visited me without calling and I gave them serious warnings. My line of work requires serious concentration and I wouldn't want any idiot to barge in cos they want to catch me doing something illegal or worse, cheating.

I pity the babe that will date this one

whitelotus:
Many Nairalanders are children and so, they do not understand the complexities of life.

Even my parents and siblings do not enter my house unannounced, not to talk of a girlfriend (back when I was dating). The only time this is allowed is during emergencies or you are doing a surprise event (eg intervention)

Furthermore, many Nigerians cannot think internationally. In the winter in Europe, you would suffer if you went to someone's house unannounced because, you will wait outside in the cold before the person opens the door for you. That is if even the person decides to open the door. Europeans do not like unannounced visits.

Also, personally, I am a busy man. I plan my time very well. Back when I was dating, there were few days in the week that I couldnt spare for anyone, even while I was at home. Coming in unannounced would make me treat you like a problem.

Unless you are a fiancee or a wife, you have no rights to access a man's place. In a civilized country, a neighbour can even get you arrested for standing in the front porch of your boyfriend's house if you are there unannounced. The police will ask you what rights do you have to be on another person's property. God help you if your boyfriend's phone is off when police is questioning you.

your parent is not ur spouse, u both are planing to be one. I am not a child. And I know the true meaning of Family and togetherness . This is not how it used to be or how it should be . What’s my business with Europeans, does adding Europeans to ur posts make it correct ? Nope it doesn’t .


But did u even read the post? Or u just read the topic . The babe is supposed to be his fiancée .

Pimples:
Spritism.
People are playing with demons...
we only get to see and hear about the flashy lifestyle of this girl's.
But they'll never mention the aftereffects.


They will never include the side effects when advertising this kayanmata thing.



men have suffered

what’s the side effect ?

whitelotus:
Has that been your experience as a woman?

Do you normally drop unannounced and.get treated like a queen?

Let's not oppose facts just to sound cool

so your girlfriend come unannounced n you start cautioning her , like you r not happy to see her? She should inform you , like every other stranger out there . I rather die single than having to deal with that

Chidex2442:
Dating a girl that has transport is an advantage because she can come anytime. and a disadvantage because she can come anytime

Men are trash normally, not only on NL

XhosaNostra:
You're giving them too much credit

Btw, you're responsible for your own feelings & how long you allow yourself to "grieve" a relationship. Any relationship for that matter. [b]A broken heart over someone you met online should be easier to shake off imo.[/b]Be like a dog coming out of the water & shake that thing off. Most guys here imo, are not boyfriend material because they're not smart enough, are unbelievably childish & superficial...so you only have yourself to blame if you allowed one to go deeper below your skin than the epidermis

They're not all rètarded though. There're quite a few sensible ones, like this other guy...I can't remember his name now. But anyway, he seems smart & mature.

had same veiws till it happened to me recently , never thought it could hurt so bad , didn’t even understand why I was so hurt . Why I couldn’t let go. At the end of the day I realized low self esteem contributed . But it hit hard , cried for days. I thought it was my fault. That feeling was too deep and intense . Never happening again tho . Never ever giving my heart away that easily or even to anyone else offline . Bottom line is some online relationships hurt too .

andrewtosin:
okay sir... My bad... Thanks dear

;Dtrouble maker

Ishilove:
See them making mouth on the first page like lions, meanwhile in reality if she shows up unannounced they will meekly welcome her and rush to go and buy fuel for the house. Shior

ofcourse, alpha male rubbish . They should keep decieving themselves. Only a cheat won’t want their partners coming over unannounced. Male or female

If u hvnt gotten to the stage u can visit ur man with or without informing him , then my dear . That relationship is still on rocky grounds.

abdullkabar:
How is it different?
He saw me going wrong and put me to the right way(The girl is on the wrong way and Op can put her right)

u fly ur collar publicly. This is her private life . That’s the difference

Grandmeister:
I guess you meant that as an insult. Well the brain is made up of projection, association and commisural fibres..unless yours doesn't (which will explain your reasoning)..and it's suicide not sucide.

urs is made of fibre . Since u don’t understand the connotative meaning , I guess I am 100% correct . Learn to mind ur business mr man .

Justbehave:
Repent and stop receiving young girls.

blah blah blah

Grandmeister:
Enough of these mentions...there is no reasoning with your likes.

who’s reasoning with a fibre brain ? That’s sucide , I told you facts. Learn to mind ur business

Justbehave:
No wonder no man agreed to date you.

poking into people’s life is the reason u are broke , and frustrated to the extent u hv two account constituting nuisances everywhere . One female and one male . Psycho.

kalmebad:
Show me ur comment and I will the kind of person u are..some people without brain. Hope u wish that for ur unborn children, sisters and so
Certainly her life can't b my business....we r only interested she gets counsel, at d end of d day...d choice is hers.

Sillywag...I won't bother to reply to low life people like u here again.

busy body face ur own children . Interested my ass,, like u are ready to cater for her child. Face ur own kids, and stop poking into people’s business