₦airaland Forum

Zoie:
When 5 guys are chatting with you
A "hw ws ur nite"
B "please send me your account number"
C "u no wan ansa me ba?"
D "have you eaten?"
E "find me gist na"
Who will you immediately reply to? Say the truth.

Papicheddar:
Naija girls are tiring to be honest, if u don't hang on to them, they forget you, before you know it you'll be a WhatsApp status buddy

AnonymousRebec:
Me I cannot be with a man I'm not attracted too oo. When I am not attracted to a man, I cannot even allow him touch me and I will not touch him. If the man wants to touch me, I will just be angry. Why should I let myself and another person suffer. In the list of things I want in a man, we both must be attracted to each other. It is a compulsory tick in the list and you must be a Christain. It is only when the guy has met these 2 criteria that I will consider looking at other criteria, if not, bye bye.

karli4nia:
You are still young @25-30. And I think u have only learnt imtellctually not practically.

Renida:
One should limit what one posts on social media jare. Haba you're yet to be satisfied after all our gists . You'll start to pay to engage me in discussions o. Oya, one billion per second

Renida:
Trust me if I told you my qualifications and more for example you'll want to meet me if not for dating for friendship for example. ( Now imagine the many more like me, aha. ) Trust me, there's always a mixture in every crowd, and if you throw away the entire bunch because of some bad and a psyche that all is bad, you will also throw away the good along with it. Take this comment to the bank and cash in on it

Renida:
Stop cursing on social media projecting negative comments. Present yourself nice to improve your view before people. For example, your signature comment and picture are demarketing you up you don't know.


Are you aware some ladies receive almost hundreds of messages weekly from Facebook to Nairaland. Stop demarketing yourself


Looking hard doesn't project a lady's feminine mystique, rather, it does the reverse

Renida:
A bulb called hope just sparked/ignited.

Renida:
It's also why you're single. It's a double edged sword. Tell me if you have the understanding ( now entered by negative life experiences) years ago, won't you be married since?

Renida:
See you. That's the exact age many men are looking for. I was looking for 30-32 last year sef, they still thought they were young and all acting all nonsensically till I walked away.



You're in the right age range to attract serious suitors. Improve on your self marketing, change your routine, improve on your social media handles and how you interact and project yourself. Make the spotlight attract males to you. Project your best possible self and who knows. There are many good single men in 30s I know searching o. Men are just being careful with ladies, but are ready for serious commitments

Renida:
A male has a different perspective. The perspective of the female. A female mentored me, but thank God for street

Renida:
That's why e good make male wey get sense be first born, he mentors the rest aright

Renida:
Eyah. What's your age group like 20-25.25-30.35-40. What's it?


I've seen strange things in life my sister. A lady with him positive status came to me for counsel. Through my sister, I gave her some tips, I swear you down, a wealthy man came some 18months after he was also HIV positive looking for love, he said he didn't want to die alone, as we're speaking she's around five years in UK.


Life may surprise you. It's for you not to give up hope.

Renida:
Not true


Allow me explain. A young lady met me at my friends place and just vibes with me, since then we became another thing o. Where dog is the tail would be there. She entrusted me to choose her partners. If we stayed months apart where she stopped she tells me, I'll tell her do this and that and sent many away. She was insistent she would trust on me to mentor her right. It took us three to six years, filtering from contractor to engineer different men with different motives, today she struck gold, after our long experimentation. She got married to a top. Engineering contractor. I broke my aim to let her enjoy her marriage, she's now about five years in marriage to a dude that turned out wealthy. What many ladies which like your case need is a male guide to help navigate those seasons you're in high demand to make the right choices


Everyone I told not to marry whom they married ten years ago are either dead or completely devastated. The ones that listened to me which were few are very happy. The choice in whom one gives one self to is one that determines much, but sadly at young age, ladies don't seen how their choicescan affect their entire life.

Renida:
They definitely chased you a lot

Renida:
They definitely chased you a lot

Renida:
Allow me hard one thing to your life tips. The right man any lady should look out for is what we sages call :


" The man on the progressive pathway "

Renida:
Audacious . This isn't just loud. This is massive

piamily:
Well he’s just short

piamily:
Wow seriously ?

Even when I’m not attracted to him?
I dunno why it’s hard for me to grow feelings for him

piamily:
I’ve had this experience with a guy that likes me so much and has chased me for about five years but yet I don’t find him attractive . What do I do I such situation? Should I give in ?

piamily:
Wow

Why do you say so

sirzee1660:
Bro we are on the same league even though I have threatening her to cheat or break up,she still form deaf eye.... what even piss me off is the way she demand money and if I don't give her I will be tag a stingy boo and am suspecting she's cheating anyway

Hed0nist:
One reason can be that he doesn't like the girl in question that much and that's it.

Another reason is that girls sometimes overload guys that they like with attention and expect to receive the same or even more attention in return. This gets to irritate and/or suffocate the guy most times causing him to withdraw. Cos sensible people don't like to start what they can't continue.

Another common reason is simple human nature. If you make a person feel like a star, it's only a matter of time before they start treating you like a fan. Humans usually can't help it. Except the person is self aware and genuinely good.

That's why they say that we should go into love/ relationships with our head

piamily:
No the guy hasn’t even chased and chased , he just started and is doing shakara because the woman acts interested. I really don’t understand if men expect women to chase them.

Won’t he kill his ego?

Empiree:
If this is true Nigerians need to protest govt to patronize local vaccine.



See what I'm talking about. They don't patronize their own. By seeking foreign product is killing your economy. Now they are gonna spend billions of naira on foreign vaccine to import and sell it at very high rate to their own people. African leaders have problems

Idiotmod:
Ok