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[quote author=LadyRosa post=113588576]What you put up there as indecent is actually not indecent.

You should focus on the obvious facts,one of which is that she is getting no longer interested in you, and possibly she has got eyes for other guys.


My verdict;
I'm shocked you could be so plain and honest in this regard..taught u would have taunted the OP as usual, while u praise the b*tch

Omo eh,naija na cruise o..lol...them de even sleep for ground.

Luzebox:
because no bitch fit tie Dem down...dey no fit believe...lolz...if the man no gree simp Dem go call come am gay...lolz

just imagine the nonsense theory o...a whole Drake and young thug being gay ...nawa.

Jeon:
lolz

This is a well known fact, apart from some ppl that want to remind foolish to those celebrities sexual orientation.

most are Gays,lesi and bisexual
starting from Nicki, bts, Trey Songz, young thug, drake, Shawn, neyo and cohorts.

You seeing them with the opp gender means nothing [ they are having a deal ].

STFU if u have nothing reasonable to say.. how's Trey Songz, Michael, Drake, even a whole young thug , gay?...FFS , is it your Korean femine men crushes that are straight?.

Angela62:
I am married for about a decade now, and I am enjoying my marriage. Honestly, if the worse happens and I became a widow, I will not marry any other man, I will train my kids alone. That is how much I love my husband and cherish my marriage. Since childhood, I have always been close to my grandmother, I grew up with her since my mum died when I was a child. I learned a lot from her. I can still remember the advice she gave to me when I wanted to marry my husband, and I will tell you exactly that.

1. Look at the qualities and characters of the man you want to marry. Most ''shine shine'' men, as my grandma will put it are not the real men. `Just as sugar is sweet but unhealthy, lots of men are like that. That bricklayer that sends his mum money in the village every month, that doesn't go to a club, doesn't smoke and buy expensive designers, he might not even give you butterflies, those are the real men. Ten years from now when you are pregnant with your third child, his masculinity will be like an umbrella to protect, provide and be the best father for your kids.

But you see those ones that are doing fine boys only, care more about the phone they use and the girl they sleep with this weekend than their future, those you must avoid. They may be attractive now, but when the difficulties of marriage come especially financially, then you realize that truly, internal beauty (characters and virtues) is what keeps marriage. So do not sacrifice the future due to your youthful exuberance.

2. Look at his patterns, those are the secrets to his future and of course, your future. Does he wakes up and go to work every day? What is the relationship he has with his family? How does he handle stress? is he hardworking? Do people around him respect him? Where does he go after work? What is your assessment of his friends? `What are his goals? etc. You might be clouded with feelings with this assessment especially when you are in love, so you might ask people you trust for advice. I saw this thread some few years ago by pansophist, where he wrote about qualities you should look for in a man for marriage, I implore you to check it out. The guy is on point. As I read through it, I kept nodding my head in affirmation because my husband easily covered all these qualities.

https://www.nairaland.com/6257463/part-two-traits-woman-should

Also when I first met my husband, I wasn't that interested. He appears so ordinary (if you know what I mean), but as I scratch further, the depth of his manliness opens up. I was not attracted at first, but everything fell into place, and I was glad I didn't just brush him away. But I couldn't see his qualities quickly, it was my grandma that pointed it all out. So you should really have someone older, that have walked the talk of marriage, to advise and guide you.

3. Support him. Men are at their best when their wive are supportive. For example, my husband never asks me about my income, but every of my penny goes to my household. The idea that a man has to carry all the financial responsibilities is a self-defeating adventure. Such a woman punishes herself due to her short-sightedness and selfishness by reducing her worth in his eyes, making her easily replaceable.

hmm...good advice...the good thing is that, this your advice is useful for men to, we just have to change the gender here..looks is really not everything in marriage

MaskSubzero:
the latter is exceptionally amazing

indeed.

AntiChristian:
Illegal sex is forbidden truly!

But why was the biblical God unable to stop his sons coming to earth to have sex with humans in Genesis 6:1-4?

And the copulation was even granted amen to fertilization to produce giant sons of Godmen.

I still can't believe sons of God could have sex organs that can copulate, produce sperms and the sperms gingered to fertilize a human ovum despite the mitochondrial difference!

And God permitted all these to happen only to regret it later!

the Angels took human form,that was y copulation was possible.

David and Daniel...

Without opening the thread, I already knew it was yours... See how predictable you are.

Na small pikin de worry you...for your mind u think say dating your landlord son mean say u no go de pay house rent..u are on your own .

canalily:
Is it at South East that they are playing it

give it a rest , bro

UyaiIncomparabl:
LMAO.

You don't expect me to read this gibberish you wrote, right?

how would u have known it is gibberish if u never read it ..can u see how st*pid u sound.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Of course, I can. But, I just made him to understand that a 500k earner can't be called rich in present-day Nigeria.

how much do u earn?...stop all this hypocrisy, being rich is different from being wealthy,and being rich also has degree...a person earning 500k steadily every month is rich in a way, that's if ur take home is 500k...stop all this forming..u yourself how much do u earn, show us prove that u earn up to that amount too.no mind the mumu, I sure say she never even date person wey de earn that amount legitimately before ....mumu girl de form porsh..dangote na boy for where Elon musk de, cos he's worth is not even up to 5% of elon,s networth...but that doesn't mean dangote is not stupidly rich ..naso life be..

Stargurl20:
Lol... On to thee oh Lord. This one's daftness is far beyond what my mortal self can handle. Take control oh Lord.

me right now as I wonder how those who surround you put up with this level of daftness. They will survive. It's well

cry me a river baby ,u are too daft for me to argue with.

Stargurl20:
Lol... Eleribu. Do I even have to waste my precious time replying you? I guess hoodlum like you gotta be put in his place. When I typed 'most', does that implies all? Of course you wouldn't know na. You also mentioned USA's president and I typed 'most Nigerian men'. Oga, before you respond foolishly some other time, try and relax and be a good reader. Don't just be too forward to respond so they can commend you for being wise coz you might end up making a very big.... Fool outta yourself. And I'm sure the reason why you are so pained is because you fall into this category of bittered men. If others' successes hurt you so bad, learn from them how they became successful, be happy for them, and not jealous. A word, they say is a enough for the wise. That's my Kobo for you.

lol,you ended up not making any point,just insults as expected ..u are just too dumb that u didn't even understand what u wrote..the idea that men are threatened by successful women is myth, I just gave y examples of very successful happily married women, far more successful than their husbands...so shut up if u having nothing sensible to say.

Divay22:
Thread meant for females but guys have taken over it
I feel ladies are more restrain than guys.

"restrained"

Stargurl20:
A loving and caring man. Not a bully or the one who feel threatened by his wife's success like most Nigerian men are

lol,keep decieving yourself...the vice president of USA is married to a teacher, okonjo iweala, chimamanda etc success never threatened their husbands how much yours...broke b*tch like u.

Choilila:
Don't mind them.
All men on this forum thought all women are lik their sisters and mom.

I can boast in anywhere I don't own anything bought by a Man [bf ].Starting from the pens ,ruler, eraser and pencils I used from nursery to higher institution not to mention pants or other stuffs.

so your dad didn't buy u anything

kazyhm:
Did you called me boy ?

ignore that girl, one day she will step on a psycho's toe, one that would track her and do to her something very terrible..I know her type...

Let all children defilers and children rapist be put to death, as for adult rape 15 years imprisonment is just, depending on the degree of rape...as for those men that rape and kill,let them be put into industrial grinding machine,so their remains can't even be buried....

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Execute him by hanging if found guilty..this is a monster.. nairaland kids won't channel their energy in criticizing him but will do so if it was a lady who flaunted her body.. nonsense.. especially that little boy who is everywhere talking down on ladies..what a weak clown..

I will keep saying it..the time most id,**ts here use in bashing women can be used in preaching to men against rape and other vices..no they come online after eating from their momma's pot and insult her gender here.. raping mindlessly..but when a woman speak up they use derogatory words..*spits*..

u are becoming "sapphire", bitter, hateful and dangerous...do u see any man here supporting the rapist?...of course I agree with u,if he's indeed guilty, he deserves the death penalty...so how does ur bitterness towards nairaland men relate to this particular topic.

Ever8090:
how I wish I have enough to send you recharge card for this comment..I don laugh tire...you just got the guy on the wrong side of his thoughts

no mind that guy.

HardMirror:
hehehe. Wise man. Please can you tell me about this supreme being you are so sure of without any religion perhaps I can learn from your wisdom. Perhaps you will tell me something different from the stupid things I have always heard people like you say

so u think I'll waste my time trying to convince u,lol ...as per what?, see this insignificant something feeling funky and corky...dude believe what ever u want I don't fucking care...I don't know u and I don't want to know u,so why should I force my perecptions on u...lol, monkey one de feel fly.

HardMirror:
as if you have said anything sensible yourself. Calling a person an atheist wannabe shows how stupid you are. Are you a christian wannabe?

just STFU , knowing that there's a supreme being has nothing to do with religion...y u this draft?

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Yeah I wasn't expecting something reasonable from a wannabe engineer young boy..read more and think deeply before quoting me..next time watch your tongue before you speak cos it makes you sound mindless..

sh*tup.... If u were smart u would have made points about non existence of God the same way I made point to prove his existence...u are just whining and blabbing....same u claming science has prove God doesn't exist is the same u that cant back up ur claim with prove...u are just too dull for my liking.

Ifyken2:
If you are arguing for a deistic God( not a religious god?),then you may be right. You are arguing for a deistic God by saying something intelligent must have created everything. if you are a christian,tell us why that intelligent thing is Yahweh.if you are a Muslim,tell us why that intelligent thing is Allah.

good, like I said, I'm not into religion like that, but I'm sure there's a supreme being, thank God u are smart enough to understand my point, unlike that dumb girl

FERNANDEZISBACK:
We are talking about religion..what's my business if you are an engineer huh?
Go f**k ya jab..you are whining like a little kid without disproving my point that God is man made cos you can't prove what doesn't exist.. swallow your wannabe engineer BS..

lol, stupid girl that's just seeking uneccessary attention....just shut up if u have nothing else to say...if u can't understand my point in all these,then it shows u are a really dull person not worthy of enlightenment....bye

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I don't need to know anything about physics before I can stand by the fact that God and his counterpart are all man-made..
Do you have a problem with that..?cry .

Yeah I am a wannabe atheist who doesn't believe in an imaginary creature and always criticize him..you still have a problem..cry cos you ain't see nothing yet..

I was expecting this exact word, "cry"..I notice when u don't have any reasonable point to give , u always make use of that particular word, so I believe we are all used to u...if u have kmgood knowledge of science , u will understand that everything was designed...physics has to do with principles designed for matter ..... chemistry the tells more on the properties and behavior of matter ...try to have basic knowledge of science before u doubt the existence of a supreme being..so many calculations and principles governing science has shown that someone placed those principles and design there...have u see the periodic table, have u seen how organised and ,accurate , and concurrent all elements are?...it's like an element configuration increases subsequent to the previous element...pls if u are not intelligent stop forming woke, it's unecceary ...I'm an engineer, so I know all these.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Haha what grace? well let's say he does exist..but he is powerless and weak..or he is a rape apologist and serial killer or a lover of violence..is that cool?

u are just being plainly stupid, u just want everyone to notice u..we have core atheist reading this post, but u will never see them post stuff like this, u are just a wannabe atheist seeking attention...even daft person knows there's actually a supreme being, the designs and creation of Earth is so exact and precise mathematically that so many scientist are beginning to accept the existence of a supreme being responsible for all these...make ur research and stop forming woke,it won't help u at all.....your likes don't know know anything in science, I'm sure if I ask u the basics in physics, u will just disgrace yourself.

NaijaCoverBlog:
There Is No Single Day That Will Pass Without Coming Across One Bad News Or The Other In This Country Nigeria.

u and this particular phrase, all the time.

preshman22:
So na you that guy Dey call since

like say the obamamessi na better guy or assassin,lol....all these kids for nairaland ...a time will come they will be tracked one by one and dealt with..u don't troll everybody u see online, them never know say some of us can take it too far..