₦airaland Forum

First of all, I have been on this platform for almost a decade, I saw how Nairaland turned to a war zone between so called feminists and Red pillers. All many of the guys are asking for is decency and morals among the females, which often leads to bashing from them because there doesn't seem to be such women again in our society.... or so we thought.

A guy posted that his WIFE sold her 'eggs' to buy a PHONE, in the mist of financial crisis, without informing him. Bros I read all the first and second pages and all the women didn't see anything wrong in what she did and how it concerns him, they even laughed, all but one woman. She is Bukatyne.

This is not the first time she is making sence, she is the most consistent and she has real sympathy and empathy for men, I followed her comments and reactions about the Chrisland school saga and when other females where calling for the boys heads she judged all the students are underaged and if any body should be blamed it's the mother for lying and exposing her daughter like that when it was no rape.

I have come to understand that the average woman is selfish and only sees a man as her stepping stone to achieve her desires. Even when she claims she loves you it is to achieve her own need for a companion, and the most suitable and available one at that moment. Note, AT THAT MOMENT.

There are some, a few that fear God, have something to give back and understand that a man is but human and he deserves fair treatment and consideration, that values his contributions. Bukatyne is one of those few. If these girls will drop there pride and learn from her they will stop being confused and will end up with the right kinds of men like us in their lives.
I acknowledge you ma, thank you and God bless you and your husband, and family.

First of all, I have been on this platform for almost a decade, I saw how Nairaland turned to a war zone between so called feminists and Red pillers. All many of the guys are asking for is decency and morals among the females, which often leads to bashing from them because there doesn't seem to be such women again in our society.... or so we thought.

A guy posted that his WIFE sold her 'eggs' to buy a PHONE, in the mist of financial crisis, without informing him. Bros I read all the first and second pages and all the women didn't see anything wrong in what she did and how it concerns him, they even laughed, all but one woman. She is Bukatyne.

This is not the first time she is making sence, she is the most consistent and she has real sympathy and empathy for men, I followed her comments and reactions about the Chrisland school saga and when other females where calling for the boys heads she judged all the students are underaged and if any body should be blamed it's the mother for lying and exposing her daughter like that when it was no rape.

I have come to understand that the average woman is selfish and only sees a man as her stepping stone to achieve her desires. Even when she claims she loves you it is to achieve her own need for a companion, and the most suitable and available one at that moment. Note, AT THAT MOMENT.

There are some, a few that fear God, have something to give back and understand that a man is but human and he deserves fair treatment and consideration, that values his contributions. Bukatyne is one of those few. If these girls will drop there pride and learn from her they will stop being confused and will end up with the right kinds of men like us in their lives.
I acknowledge you ma, thank you and God bless you and your husband, and family.

bukatyne:
Your wife went through the procedure of egg retrieval to buy a phone?

You also did not notice all through the process?

Eyin married and living single geng.

Ogbeni, sha prepare your shoulders to carry your cross.

The Lord is your strength.

Wow, you are the first woman am reading here to see something wrong with what the wife did, I really respect you ma. You are the most consistent and wisest woman here and the only one that gives me some hope in what we call the average modern Nigerian woman.

If at all I decide in the future to marry ma pls pray I find your kind of person, compassionate and empathic to the men folk. She should be a virgin too. May God bless you for your virtue. Thank you.

Wow what an educative write-up. That's one of the problems we have as Nigerians, everybody is looking for how to leech on others. You don't even need to go abroad before that happens, the moment people close to you hear or sense you're getting on your feet everybody start to think of their own problems and how to get from you. They ware you down till you become mentally or financially drained. If you're not wise and strong you'll end up miserable. It is called opportunism.

I used to support the Igbos and their "struggle", I was so enraged about what I thought was done to them that I considered going to the East to help them fight, even contribute monetary. Since those pictures and video came out I have been angry and heavily disappointed in what the Igbos are doing and even supporting, now just seeing an Igbo man or woman make me assume them to be cannibals and savages.

Igbos should know that this was how the Civil War started. Those who fail to learn from history are bound to repeat it. Making an enemy of everybody doesn't make you courageous or wise but the direct opposite. Those images has opened the eyes of a lot of people, it has turned away the support many people have for you and most importantly many people's hearts are becoming filled with hate for the Igbos. You can't win this war, you definitely won't get your Biafra like this.

That's definitely not all cos I can't find my language their.

Then who did the west say are dying and loosing?

CAPSLOCKED:
PERFECT TIME TO REMEMBER THIS LEGENDARY GRASS-EATING COMPETITION, HOSTED FOR AND WON BY THE "ONE TRUE CHILDREN OF GOD" ---- CHRISTIANS!
BELIEVING IN RELIGION WILL ALWAYS BE A MILD MENTAL DISORDER.

Let me tell you something you guys claiming "atheists" always fail to see, with thesourcerer, you claim to be open minded, free minded and you claim "religion" is the source of hate and wars and intolerance but you are always taking a jab at other people for choosing to believe what they believe.
Always mocking and outrightly insulting people on the internet doesn't make you smarter or more learned. Believing in God is a choice and a fulfilling one for many people.
The biggest arguments you guys use is that the west and Asia are advanced even without religion, stop being ignorant and ask and research when you know not. The west have always been the most religious and God conscious people for as old as their history goes, until this very millenia. America, The UK, France hell all Western civilization is built on Christian beliefs and values, go figure.
Asian countries still practice their faith, South Korea, India, Indonesia, Thailand even China. Religion and believing in God is not the cause of "backwardness", intolerance, humanities need to dominate is. Men have gone to wars in the name of love, doesn't mean love is the cause of wars. You celebrate Greek mythology but you piss on your local African traditions to sound and look exposed. You are not better than me because you don't believe in God and I do. Tell thesourcerer. Thank you

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If it's truly false then that Joke is a big one on the whole nation and it has opened our eyes to the worst society can do, talk and talk.
But it has birthed the desire in many men to consider polygamy, me included.

simplepee:
Was Yul's first wife a thorn? He comfirmed it himself that she's a "virtuous" woman.

Marraige is supposed to be peaceful and enjoyed and I will enjoy mine by His grace. I am bitter, thank you. I still forbid TRUE AFRICAN MAN as a husband. Whatever I pray for, I shall get so run along.

Hahaha funny lady, you forbid African men. Ok go and find a Western man then, go and be like your idol Korrah Obbidi, that's if a White guy will agree to manage you. Like your Idol you will come back and tell us what went wrong.

All re incorrect, the correct sentence is;

Where has your mommy gone to?

Cos it's in the past and she isn't back yet. Thank you

Funny, is Yul a small child that he has to gather all of you and ask permission before he poops? Go one side and continue your adultery in secret joor, until it's no more a secret.

The same punishment that would have been assigned to the innocent victim should be slammed on the witch.
And am happy you acknowledge false rape accusations.

Haha

Biglittlelois:
I thought you guys said deflowering a girl makes her loyal

How market Op

'Deflowering' a girl you're married to, not fornicating with in the name of boy-girl friend.
All those prostitutes where also once virgins too

JONNYSPUTE:
.... You don't know what you are saying bro.
Yul's father Pete was a civil servant and a presenter in radio Nigeria.

When he featured in things fall apart then,he acted so well that when he retired he joined nollywood so he wasn't rich.

It took him,Pete more than 10 yrs to complete his personal house in Enugu so tell me how such a person will be tagged rich then?

Yul him self after writing his waec then in 1998 from New heaven boys secondary school got admission,graduated and while waiting to serve got his girlfriend pregnant.

It was the dad that stood for him and was taking care of him and the wife .

And it was at that time that Pete introduced him and the other of his son into acting and luck smiled on Yul.

Believe him when he says he had nothing.
This na guy weh I know too well. Grew up together in the same vicinity,move around and belong to the same group chat of our old boys though he left the forum now.
So you won't tell me about the family.

Baba stop supporting this view you support, what Yul did is the most honorable thing to do. You are older than me so tell me, would you rather he continues sleeping with women outside or marry one more legitimately as a wife giving that new born a home.

She stood by him she stood by him does it mean he owes his life to her?

dominique:
Nollywood actors were far from rich during Pete Edochie's era. He was famous alright but stupendously rich? Far from it. He may not even be earning up to 200k per movie at that point in time. Yul is one of his five or six kiddy, you think Pete was submitting his less than 200k paycheck in the hands of one of his youngest kids? Even if he was so rich when he married his wife, does that justify what he did to her?

You men think women's feelings are not to be considered then go ahead and expect loyalty and submission for the women you disregard so much. Thank God eyes don dey open, you people will continue to wail about how today's women no longer want to suffer like your mothers. In fact you never start to dey wail

Look madam your shenanigans and twisted views is enough here. Do your worse as a woman, men are naturally happy people and will always find a way around you. The White Ladies you love mimicking are increasingly lonely with their men going to Asia and Eastern Eaurope to find wives.

Your worse can only hurt you the most, am in Abuja and all these your mates that are old and unmarried will come back home from work tired, lonely and depressed 'with their money'. Men their age are chilling with far younger wives and girlfriends, your waywardness only benefit us males. Keep doing let's see who laughs last.

FutureIsFemale:
I saw some low life slow poke on social media supporting this irresponsible bastard.

The idiot said "real men own up".
What is he owning up?
A real does not cheat on his wife talk more of bringing home another woman.

A blog said he hails his first wife (sign of respect).

What respect?

If he had respect for his wife, at least he would have carried her along.

Any woman who doesn't needs has sense of reasoning examined. At least the first wife knows her competitor, she can now be assured that he's not sleeping around with STI invested prostitutes.... Like many men do putting the main wife's life in danger.

Okhuadams:
the same you will castigate her left and right

A woman is more at risk sleeping around than a man, from permanent sexually transmitted complications to the fraud was talking about, name it.
I continue to get a lot of 'green lights' from married women everywhere I go. Am a person of principle and I fear God, I don't cheat but I don't see anything wrong with a matured and capable man marrying sesond wife.

JovialJune:
Bad, bitter, evil, daft men full this forum, don't wish what your father did to your mum on me mister man, only sad morally bankrupt people will praise a person who hurt another person without remorse and feel it is okay, you evil people will continue to be put in your place by people like me, accept it and be at peace.

OK missus, I can see the bitterness. That's how it always starts, from the man outside and then to the man inside.

Okhuadams:
He betrayed 17yrs of marriage and pple are clapping and hailing him. Both him and the Olosho are mocking the first wife and calling it hailing. If it's the woman will the flat head take, the same bloody pple hailing him will be the ones rubbishing the wife

If she did the same she should be ready to come out and say it so that the real father can take up his responsibility unashamed, rather than turning it into a paternity fraud.

Beremx:
men using female monikers I greet you sir. Are you so insecure you can’t use your male identity?

I have read countless posts of that same lady supporting females, just because she stands her ground on Yul's case doesn't make her a man. That's neutrality, try it sometime, madam.

JovialJune:
I don't know why you are yapping spittle about on behalf of another moniker, are you his mouth piece? Defender of nonsense, how is it your business who I quote? If you're tired of life, river Niger is there go and swim to Oblivion, it is not my fault you have a sad life.

Your bitterness might end up pushing your husband away from you completely, check it, regulate it and come back to reality. You are a woman you don't know what it means to be a man.

TiglathPILESER:
The little I know about the God I serve, He will not answer a prayer like that. From your profile pix it is very clear the category of women you belong to. Needless to say more, birds of a feather flock together.

Do you know the God you are talking about? Because the God that I know has never condemned a man man for legitimately marrying a second wife, you too do not condemn.

Justkatty:
Oga marry your 10wives in peace

The day you sleep eternal sleep, na that time you go know wetin you do yourself.

To whom head is given
Sense is expected.

So because he married a second wife God will Judge him? Are you a virgin,can you swear you have never had an abortion before? Nigeria has the second highest paternity fraud cases in the world, CNN last year said 90per of Nigerian ladies are into prostitution. Do not declare judgement lest you too be judged for it is of the Lord's.

Abraham, Isaac and Jacob are at the bossom of the Lord as we speak. Thank you.

JovialJune:
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We all know you come from a piss poor polygamous home where your mother was treated like trash, and because your mother misbehaved, her position was displaced, and she was replaced, that is why you see what your father did to your mother as normal, you damaged psychopath,

A happy Nigerian woman is an automatic sadness for you, and you think all will be well with you in life? We have seen your picture here and you are a sadness to behold,

What you proclaim to others will come right back at you million folds

Calling everybody poor for not subscribing to your opinion is stale. They may be 'poor' but they are still human with opinions and they never begged you for anything, financially poor but emotionally mentally and physically more wealthy and happier than you can ever be. If your husband can do what Yul did it will be better than sleeping around and pretending.

Now go to Dubai and chill in a five star hotel alone and in your misery, enlightened and rich Mrs ...... Thank you.

That's good.

These people commenting don't know the Russian people. Hollywood and CNN will not tell you but I will tell you, it was the Russian involvement in the 1st and 2nd world war that ended the wars. Russia practically entered Berlin and took over the capital before Hitler surrendered.

NATO and the EU is made up of over thirty countries but I tell you this if they start an outright war with Russia, let drop nukes aside, Russia will decimate them from Poland to far away USA. Only Russia has the missiles to hit anywhere in the world, only Russia. Those people are dogged. Ask youself why the entire WEST is rallying all countries to its side even though they outnumber her by more than a billion people, tens of countries and economy more than 60 percent of the world's?

Putin is "barking" because he doesn't want war, but he does not and will not back away from one if it comes to him. Forget Hollywood. Forget American "yearly budget on military expenditure". Know your March, the west atleast knows theirs in Russia.
Thank you.

Connected1:
Lol

That doesn't mean others can't air their views.

Everyone has story to tell, even your story sef if I somebody drop em own now, you will understand that you were also favoured in a little way.

Thennnn why don't we let them speak since it actually concerns their struggle and how they overcame.

Bobmarie:
You would rather your lady submit to your own decisions every time rather than form opinions by herself?


Too easy to spot uneducated illiterates.

OK.

czarr:
It's not in a man's best interest to fall in love. Puts you in a weak position. Remain unattached e get why. The bible says not to give your strength (heart) to a woman e get why. Sampson gave his strength. David gave his strength. Solomon also gave his strength and they led him to worship idols .See the result?

Women are better suited to handle the being in love feeling because they are already emotional creatures by nature. As a man if you attempt to go into that emotional waters with them because of the societal condition through love movies and books and you ignore the stoic nature of our fore fathers because you think you are wiser and more advanced. You'll pay for it.

Don't attempt to swim in the waters of emotions and feelings with a woman because you will drown. Women are biologically wired to move on and bond with another man faster because of their biological clock.

Don't set your self up. Don't fall in love as a man. You can be in like. How do you know you are in like. When you enjoy the value a woman brings to you. When you find it easy to punish her bad behaviour. but you know that if she leaves today. You won't loose yourself and your heart won't be scattered.

How do you know you are in love. When you loose a part of you when she leaves. It's like she completes you. You have a chemical dependency on a woman. Like a drug you find yourself wanting to be around her all the time. When you imagine your life without her. There's a physical pain in your chest.

That is a toxic life. And no woman should have that much power over a man. That is what the bible call giving your strength to a woman. It never ends well. Because women ultimately seek power, and if they can drain your energy they will, and they'll go look for another challenge. That is another energy to drain.

Nuff said.

I agree with you 100 percent.

I think men should just get ready cos it gets even worse. It is happening like water waves washing along a river bank taking away the feminity and morality of the modern women.

If you can live with the modern unsubmissive and highly opinionated woman go ahead, many are. But as for me and a few others we pray that we one day see the woman as it was described by the Holy Bible, the virgin woman of virtue.