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Christianity EtcRe: Fasting Because You Are Broke. Is It Acceptable Before God? by lolaxavier(m): 10:51am On Mar 22, 2015
ifeness:
There is no lord of heaven and earth.
Seconded
CelebritiesRe: Saeon: "My Side Boob Almost Caused An Accident" - Photo by lolaxavier(m): 10:41am On Mar 22, 2015
Who put this junk/rubbish on the front page? SMH...when there are incredible and more appealing posts lying fallow in different sections. Quite sad.
Jokes EtcRe: A Message For Girls In This Election Time (graphic) by lolaxavier(m): 10:31am On Mar 22, 2015
Hmmmm...forget! dey will never listen o...
Girls, defying every obstacle since 18BC.
What you see as a dangerous period, they see it as an opportunity to maximize profit. They know that's when politicians carry bags of cash handy. They will not want miss out on their own share of the pie...
But beware, both ladies and guys.
HealthRe: 15 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know Toothpaste Could Do by lolaxavier(op): 7:49am On Mar 22, 2015
lolaxavier:
One and only close up. Don't use white paste, red gel is more effective...from experience cheesy
But don't spread it too much like butter ooo.
FamilyRe: 5 Marriage Secrets Ladies Shouldn't Tell Their Friends by lolaxavier(op): 10:47pm On Mar 21, 2015
babyosisi:
So on point
Yes, very much on point.
PoliticsRe: Buhari, Fashola, Akin Ambode & Other APC Leaders Show PDP Red Card In Lagos- Pic by lolaxavier(m): 9:42pm On Mar 21, 2015
simplemach:
Fvck them all
GEJ till 2019
GEJ, your days are numbered...make I add my own join...

HealthRe: 15 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know Toothpaste Could Do by lolaxavier(op): 9:39pm On Mar 21, 2015
chymystique:
Which Brand Of Toothpaste does all these?
One and only close up. Don't use white paste, red gel is more effective...from experience cheesy
HealthRe: 15 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know Toothpaste Could Do by lolaxavier(op): 9:38pm On Mar 21, 2015
Basildvalour:
Do not just be the hearer, try it out grin
Now that I know, I guess I should relive those old school days...
Before u know now, nairalanders will start saying poverty nah bastard..
FamilyRe: 5 Marriage Secrets Ladies Shouldn't Tell Their Friends by lolaxavier(op): 9:36pm On Mar 21, 2015
Jochebed7:
before I got married, a senior married friend told me she does not keep friends, that they are detrimental to marriage and that her husband is her only friend.
I personally think that's a bit extreme. however like the op said be careful what you say to friends.
Well, to an extent, you can't really blame your senior colleague. She must have probably had a bitter experience in the past and maybe she feels the only way to avoid recurrence is to stay away from friends. And when you say say some things to friends some times, it may be blown out of proportion or taken out of context.
HealthRe: 15 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know Toothpaste Could Do by lolaxavier(op): 8:41pm On Mar 21, 2015
Basildvalour:
Try using toothpaste eat hot roasted corn. It tastes like the magic of merlin
huh huh huh
Seriously...roasted corn? Wetin person no go hear for dis place...
HealthRe: Pls Help! He Needs A Liver Transplant Due To Chronic Liver Failure(clf) by lolaxavier(m): 8:31pm On Mar 21, 2015
Coldplay007:
Are you sure of what you are saying?
Who made the diagnosis of Liver failure?
With liver failure there will be other signs, the least of your problems would be halitosis..
Liver transplant no be beans oo, If you needed a transplant, you probably would be bedridden...

Why do I have the feeling your 2 threads are a Well planned scamhuh
Maybe I sense the same thing but most importantly, do not let us conclude that way. As usual, people have been assisted in the past on NL subject to thorough investigation.
Op, please identify yourself, your location, details of your test, which hospital and doctor and I know delegates from NL will be sent to validate your claim. Once that is done, then I'm sure good people of NL will respond and react accordingly...
HealthRe: 15 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know Toothpaste Could Do by lolaxavier(op): 8:08pm On Mar 21, 2015
Fabdedon:
lol.. I already know all this.. Even electric ants.. Dat one that leaves boil on the face when it makes contact.. Just use Toothpaste and see d magic..
We also use paste to clean our irons when we burn our clothes den..
Also we did use paste as butter den use am chop bread it would make you thirsty and when you drink it is cool..

All this boarding school exprience
I can see you really did what I did back then. But seriously, dat bread and close up concept make sense dat time cheesy
I still used close up to mop my iron last week...very very effective.
HealthRe: 15 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know Toothpaste Could Do by lolaxavier(op): 7:54pm On Mar 21, 2015
Fabdedon:
if it cant mint money then its not amazing yet undecided
If you can't learn from this, then you are not amazing... grin
Health15 Amazing Things You Didn’t Know Toothpaste Could Do by lolaxavier(op):
Toothpaste contains many useful ingredients that can be soothing and healing to the skin. For this reason, you’ll be able to use toothpaste to help you with the following issues:

1. Pimples: Reduce redness and the size of your pimples with a dab of toothpaste. Let it sit overnight, then rinse away in the morning for a noticeable difference.

2. Brittle fingernails: Since our nails are made of the same enamel as teeth, toothpaste can do a lot to help them. Simply give your nails a good scrub with some toothpaste for cleaner, shinier, stronger nails. You’ll also get that dirt out from underneath them in no time!

3. Fly-away hair: A gel toothpaste is largely made with the same ingredients as basic hair gels, so you’ll be able to substitute easily here. Just use a little dab and apply like a hair gel when needed.

4. Bites, sores, and blisters: Apply toothpaste to areas of skin irritation to reduce itching, swelling, and irritation. Toothpaste will dry them up quickly and help them heal faster.

5. Burns: For minor burns with no open sores, a quick toothpaste application can give you instant relief. The cooling properties get to work right away, relieving that painful sting. In the long-term, toothpaste will keep the burn from becoming a painful, oozing blister.

6. Bruises: For large bruises that take forever to fade, use a little toothpaste and a wide-tooth comb. Apply the toothpaste and gently comb the bruise in one direction to break up the blood clotting beneath the skin. Toothpaste helps with circulation and fights off the inflammation

7. Jewelry cleaner: Before you pay for someone else to clean it, rub toothpaste onto your silver jewelry and leave it overnight, the wipe it clean with a soft cloth. Give a light scrubbing to your diamonds to see them sparkle again, just be sure to rinse thoroughly. Avoid using toothpaste on pearls.

8. Show care: Scuffed or dirty shoes can look new again with a little toothpaste. Apply it directly to the dull, dirty, or scuffed parts of the shoe, scrub with a brush, and wipe them clean. Ta-da!

9. Clothing stains Tough stains will disappear with a little toothpaste and some brisk scrubbing. Squeeze it right on the stain and rub until it disappears, then wash as normal. If using whitening toothpaste, be advised that this can have a bleaching effect on some colors and fabrics. HOUSEHOLD: Toothpaste can save you money around the house by helping with some very basic tasks:

10. Computer Cleaner: Scrub away fingerprints from your keyboard with a white, baking soda-based toothpaste. Follow up with a damp cloth and your keys are good as new!

11. Iron cleaner:Take away the “crusties” from the bottom of your clothes iron with a quick toothpaste rinse. Just be sure to remove all the toothpaste before you start ironing again.

12. Baby bottles: To freshen up baby bottles and remove that sour-milk smell, put some toothpaste on your bottle scrubber and give them a quick wash. Always rinse them very well afterwards.

13. Piano keys: Like computer keys, piano keys get grubby with repeated use from the dirt, oil, and grime on our fingertips. Use a damp cloth and some toothpaste to rub down the keys, then wipe them clean with a dry cloth.

14. Crayon stains: Undo your kids’ damage to the walls with a damp cloth and some toothpaste. Rub it in gentle circles and watch the crayon fade away.

15. Odor removal: After cooking with “stinky” foods in the kitchen (fish, garlic, onions, etc.), getting the smell out of the skin is a challenge. Wash your hands thoroughly with water and toothpaste for a quick and easy remedy....

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FamilyRe: 5 Marriage Secrets Ladies Shouldn't Tell Their Friends by lolaxavier(op): 2:07pm On Mar 21, 2015
simplemach:
He who has ears, let him hear.
They 'kuku' have ears, just that some cannot hold their tongues...
FamilyRe: Must The Head Of The House Determine Who His Wife And Children Vote For? by lolaxavier(op): 2:05pm On Mar 21, 2015
bukatyne:
Act of insubordination? Depends on the husband

Justified he fights/quarrels/chases her out? Depends on the answer to question 1.
If you are saying it depends on the husband, then it's an indirect way of saying she doesn't have a right to exercise her civil duties as a citizen of the country.
FamilyRe: Must The Head Of The House Determine Who His Wife And Children Vote For? by lolaxavier(op): 2:00pm On Mar 21, 2015
TV01:
Not only has your question been answered, but the way you couched it demonstrates what I consider an odd approach to or understanding of marriage.


If ones worldview is so markedly different from a potential spouses then it's probably a good thing they don't marry. Be it individual votes, or a single household one, I fail to see why a family will not discuss and decide to vote based on the best interests of their family first and foremost.
I previously mentioned how divergent worldviews could be a potential source of conflict/disunity in a marriage regardless of political persuasion;


And you never answered my questions; what is so sacrosanct about an individual right to vote?



TVMIC
Truth be told, I sincerely see no valid point in your arguments. What makes my point an odd approach? Everyone is basically entitled to exercise their civil right to vote. If you have a wife that is ready to agree to vote your candidate, good for you but that does not in anyway make a woman who does not agree to vote your candidate a bad wife.
This is your own ideology. If you are asking 'what is so sacrosanct about an individual right to vote, then I should begin to question your ideology about how you view the role of a woman.
And mind you, I asked my question in simple and direct way, don't answer in parables, give your direct answer to it. You collected PVC individually. INEC doesn't issue one PVC to a whole family. If she agrees to pick your candidate, good for you, if otherwise, then she should be allowed to vote her choice. Simple!
FamilyRe: 5 Marriage Secrets Ladies Shouldn't Tell Their Friends by lolaxavier(op): 1:42pm On Mar 21, 2015
myhoodlink:
Good points. Hope those concern will learn from this.
Well unfortunately, the truth of the matter is most ladies are guilty of one or two of the points listed.
I just hope they learn from it.
FamilyRe: Must The Head Of The House Determine Who His Wife And Children Vote For? by lolaxavier(op): 9:35am On Mar 21, 2015
bukatyne:
Must it get to that? No

Will all husbands respect the political inclinations of their wives? Maybe not.
So maybe you should answer the question I have been asking and no one has answered.
If she doesn't agree with her husband's persuasion and decides to vote her choice, is it an act of insubordination? Is it justified that he fights /quarrels with her or chases her out?
RomanceRe: Ladies Can You Marry A Man Who Drives An SUV But Lives In A Rented Self Contain? by lolaxavier(m): 9:28am On Mar 21, 2015
I drive a car worth 2 million and live in a self contain doesn't in anyway translate to a fake life. It is called choice/priority. Paying rent shouldn't be seen as a heap of problem.
FamilyRe: Must The Head Of The House Determine Who His Wife And Children Vote For? by lolaxavier(op): 9:05am On Mar 21, 2015
bukatyne:
Only a foolish wife would let it get to This.

Unless you married a spirit, I don't see How your husband can know who you voted for.

If you know you are married to an unquestionable, keep your. points to yourself or wait till you are out of hearshot.

On election day, yes sir I will vote a,b,c and you vote who you like or do husbands now have access to see Who their wives voted?

You don't want to lie? Don't collect PVC.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.
It depends on your relationship with your husband. There are husbands and wives that actively discuss politics at home, hence there's no way to hide one's political inclination.
Besides, why should you vote for mr A and lie to your husband that you voted mr B. Must it get that? Why can't the husband respect the political inclination of the wife. Simple!
FamilyRe: How Can A 37 Yrs Old Single Lady Attract Suitors? by lolaxavier(m): 8:55am On Mar 21, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Advice her to stop being desperate.

Even if it takes her another 10-20 years to find the RIGHT person, then so be it. The importance of one's happiness and emotional well being cannot be over emphasized. That should come first, even before kids.

And even if she never finds the "right one", so what? It isn't the crime of the century to be single. As for having kids, she can either have her biological kids outside of marriage, or she can adopt. Heavens knows there are thousands of vulnerable, needy orphans in desperate need of a loving home.
Your advice is disastrous and misleading.
Maybe the op should elaborate more. I'm so sure the reason why she is still unmarried by now is what you are painting clearly again. Don't get me wrong, it is not a sin to be single at that age but if the op has mentioned that she's getting depressed, then obviously it is already becoming a burden on her life.
FamilyRe: Must The Head Of The House Determine Who His Wife And Children Vote For? by lolaxavier(op): 8:45am On Mar 21, 2015
Timbuktou:
How is persuasion suppression?

persuade - /pəˈsweɪd/
verb
1. induce (someone) to do something through reasoning or
argument.

suppress - /səˈprɛs/
verb
1. forcibly put an end to

There is no need to be dishonest just because you want to push your ideologies and beliefs on people. Arguing your point logically is a much better approach and you could learn a thing or two in the process.
I have written in simple English terms. Don't quote me out of of context. I am not forcing any ideology on anyone.Just expressing my opinion.

Tie my threads from start to where I mentioned persuasion and you will understand why I used the word.
In a nutshell, all I'm trying to express is that if you forcibly try to persuade your wife to vote because you are in favour of a particular candidate, then you are obviously being selfish.
I have already asked this question, what will happen if she does not agree to your pov on this matter? Are you going to fight or chase her out because of this? Isn't she entitled to make a choice in this manner.
A family putting up a common front is a good idea but sincerely, I dont think that applies in this instance.
We can all see how some people are dissatisfied with the current administration but just because you have your soft spot for Gej or you feel he has achieved, will you now make your wife vote him when she feels her gej has not contributed anything to the welfare of her parent or sibling. That is a very selfish and self centered thing to do.
FamilyRe: Must The Head Of The House Determine Who His Wife And Children Vote For? by lolaxavier(op): 8:33am On Mar 21, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Ininasmuch as I agree that voting is an individual choice based on one's personal convictions and ideologies, when a couple share common goals and future aspirations, then this should/would automatically translate in them having similar political preferences.

I speak in general terms but do conceed that there may be a couple of instances where differing opinions exist, resulting in exceptions to the aforementioned.
My question is what happens when the wife does not agree with the husband on the issue of who to vote for?
Does that count as insubordination? Will you throw her out because of that?
I wish MOD can just put this on the front page so that we can have many opinions on this.
Family5 Marriage Secrets Ladies Shouldn't Tell Their Friends by lolaxavier(op):
Your best friend may be like a sister to you, and you guys don't keep secrets from each other, but when it comes to marriage, you'll need to keep your lips sealed on some things.

Imagine sharing a very private matter about your marriage with your friend, and you hear it from someone else who shouldn't know. How would you feel?

While some things may constitute interesting gist topics, there are some that you should never ever let slip where your marriage is concerned.


1.How much your spouse makes: A lot of couples already compete - who drives a better car? Whose house is bigger? If you then reveal how much your husband earns, friends may categorize you unfairly. You wouldn't want friends to write off your issues as unimportant because they believe you make too much money to have real problems -- or treat you with an air of superiority because they make more than you (although the best kinds of friends would do neither -- consciously, anyway). Maintain the balance in your friendship by keeping all financial discussions private.

2.Your spouse is being a jerk: Honestly, it feels good to vent to friends when your husband is driving you crazy and a little complaining is fine, but once you convince friends that your husband is a jerk, they're not going to forget it. You may make up or get over your epic fight, but your friend may not be able to forget quite so easily. In fact, it makes your friends lose respect for your husband.

3.Which of your friends your partner dislikes: Don't let marriage get in the way of a good friendship. If one of your close friend turns your husband off (or vice versa), don't tell her or him. In fact, don't even tell your other friends at all, especially if the affected pal didn't really do anything to deserve a bad rap.

4.The amount of your debt: Truth is, nearly every married couple has some debt, but how much or how little says a lot about your financial stability as a couple. Friends may feel resentful if you brag about how little debt you and your husband have accumulated over the years. If you complain that you have too much debt, friends may not invite you to their house party because they feel guilty that they're doing better. Don't give friends a reason to judge you.

5.Details about your sex life: It may be thrilling to compare notes with friends about your sex lives, but there are certain details that are best left out. For example, your partner's sexual fetishes, the size (and unofficial moniker) of his penis and any other tidbits you wouldn't want people to whisper about behind your back.

All in all, if siblings can betray one another, why then should you entrust your secrets with your friends. Be wise.
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RomanceRe: What Most Nigerian Men Love About Their Women by lolaxavier(op): 5:47pm On Mar 20, 2015
[quote author=computerboy post=31825586][/quote]At least, he died for a reason...no yansh...
FamilyRe: Must The Head Of The House Determine Who His Wife And Children Vote For? by lolaxavier(op): 5:46pm On Mar 20, 2015
Shollypopzz:
LMAO @ this thread taking feminism back 1000+ years.





*Sad*
What is your point exactlyhuh
RomanceRe: What Most Nigerian Men Love About Their Women by lolaxavier(op): 5:24pm On Mar 20, 2015
lyntiffany:
hmmmm am blushing embarassed thanks dearie wink
Isn't it obvious. When it's good, then it is good. No need painting it otherwise cheesy cheesy cheesy

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