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Bet9ja site no wan open make I cash out.

Omo! even with the heavy rain

I shouted at my boss 1month after I got employed. The man own too much abeg.

Sometimes is good to let your superiors know you ain't a slave, stupid or a pushover.

By the way my boss respects me more now after that incidence.

Jimmythewise:
I won't leave her for not being good in bed but her inability to satisfy me is a temptation to get a better option.

Satisfy u how?

Fabulouslouie:
Good evening everyone.

I've been having this sudden increase in heart rate since morning and I don't seem to understand what's wrong.
Is it a common problem or should I be worried?

Check your bp

Everywhere Peter Obi! Atiku and Tinubu have been having meetings abroad since, no condemnation from anywhere peter did same, Peter Obi and others? Shey the others no get names ni?

Is tobi the first to break world record? Why are they trying to cancel that by all means? is there an athletic tornanent going on or they just want to see who is faster?

Acekoncepts27:
I live in a compound that is occupied by students alone, there is this female neighbor of mine who has a very high libido, I mean she can literally rape a man when she's hot and she doesn't hide her promiscuity, she has slept with 99% of guys in the compound and she's also into runs.

We were friends because she's sociable and outspoken while I am introvert, she always tried to pull me out of my shell. It got to a time that she started chatting naughty with mind-blowing seductions, I resisted several times because I knew who she is (I was literally scared of her), this happened for a very long time while other guys were collecting their 3 points in the compound.

There was a time that I had issue at my work place and a huge amount of money was missing under my watch, I became depressed and sad, she was the only one close to me, she comforted me and all that an in that my vulnerable state of mind, we had sex (unprotected), and this later continued for sometimes.

After some days I became very feverish and my body temperature was so high, I started seeing rashes in my lower abdomen, with serious migraine headache I was scared, I started googling the symptoms of HIV and all that I saw online were the same thing that was manifesting on me. I became scared, I couldn't talk to anyone. I started hating her and didn't talk to each other again.

This incident happened far back 2020 during the Covid-19 lockdown, I couldn't concentrate after then, I was devastated, I couldn't concentrate when I read about what people with this disease go through, because of this I started searching for HIV positive people online. I joined several positive people groups both on WhatsApp, Facebook, telegram etc.

It's worthy to note that am 32 years old and my body count isn't upto 4. I used to self service when am hot. After several years of not knowing my status and the fear of checking it ,I zeroed my mind today, went to the state's general hospital, after several going back and forth, I later zeroed my mind and went to heart to heart ward. I met a lady, she started bombarding me with questions upon questions, I was really scared, I almost wanted to run away. She later brought up Oraquick test kit, removed one and swiped severally in my mouth and told me that if two red lines come out that it's positive, and if it's one red line that it's negative and if there's no red line at all that the kit is faulty, after the test, only one red line came out and she said that I am NEGATIVE.

To God be the glory.

Ogbeni go and do blood test!

4g today is like 2g those days. 3g dose not even open Nairaland site. I know after 1year the 5g will be like 3g.
Make una continue

XullySwt:
Good evening everyone, thank God for life coz that alone is indeed a great blessing.

I will be brief with my post here i promise
Indeed i have seen life at its worst....

After mourning my husband i decided to leave my city Kaduna to begin a new life with my kids,yeah a boy and a girl.

I started from the scratch here in Abuja, from lesson that paid not upto #6000 to a school that pays #20,000 and presently am working in a school that pays not less than #50,000 all these boils down to my hardwork and perseverance and above all God.

Alright this the main ishhh, i met this single, understanding and loving guy that have already paid for my dowry and wedding is coming up November this year

Now my fear..... We love each other, he loves my kids so dearly we have been together for almost 2 years now that's why he decided to move the relationship further.

Ohh yes, i said my fear, his currently a job hunter ?

we thought things would get better before the wedding but Nigeria got no chill sincerely so now i have to leave my job and follow him to his city where he base so as to help him with his little business hoping things would get better.

So now my question, Am i doing the right thing by moving to his city or i should continue with my job and wait till he gets a better job??

Adding that his in his mid 30's and willing to settle down.

Please my people advice me. Or if you can help him pass through this stage of life, blessings will follow you.....

He is a graduate and lives in Zaria. God bless you all.

Between sorry for any blunders or typo error, am just seeing double

Ha! I'm a man o! But marrying a jobless guy? Hmmm
Does he have any handwork or skill he uses to pay his bills?

So he was supposed to rig against the people's wish?

You mean wike's thugs

This one go pain wike well well

johnmartus:
This is igbo project Obi alone should go and answer the question his people prepared for him.

So NBA dominated by Yorubas is now an Igbo project?

Only Obi will attend!

parkervero:
APC made a terrible mistake for not giving the presidential ticket to this man.

Dem for no still win! He would have done what Obi did, Join another party, by now the arguments should have been Obidienst vs Starboi I'm which hope for coming Nigerians would have been 99% sure.

Sowore is working for bat undercover

Mufakirnaqdiun:
This should serve as a lesson to those who serve their pastors,religion is nothing more than a massive con game. They will hit you up for money every day.
The truth is many are really just a business. Its all about keeping people dependent and coming through the doors. It has nothing to do with the gospel that Jesus was proclaiming. Once it got monetized, it lost it’s true purpose.

They will still not learn. I'm sure his church will be packed full today.

baggioni:

The Bible Standard vs The world standard
Brethren, choose wisely

Tell us what the bible say, with proof

dazzlingd:
religion is senseless

Why does baal and ball sound alike?

Football is antichrist

Religion make people senseless too! Is football the only ball sport game? SMH!

It's a lie

Wike is digging his own grave

mrvitalis:
Banter aside yorubas needs to get up and work on themselves ooh this is not good at all

Agberoism ati yahoo-yahoo ti take over

He should find another lie or to tell us.

Tifnubu loves working with thugs na

I'm sure he is one of the deportees

NeedHelpNow:
I had a meeting with a hooker and she spit on my penis twice touching it with her hands as per lubrication,

Do I stand the chance of getting hiv? Never had penetrative sex with her neither did she put her mouth on my penis. Opinions needed cause am soo scared.

Yes, you now have full blown AIDS!

Why did she lubricate it when there was nothing Mouth Action or penetration?

JudgeNotHi:
I need help. Could she be saying the truth or she's trying to hook.

I'm in a very stable relationship and as a matter fact, I'll be getting married to the love of my world, the one whom my heart continuously long for daily in next month.

Nevertheless, there's this lady whom happened to be an old friend for about 2 years now. We've been very close chat buddies and virtually could discuss anything online to each other (I mean anything). On one occasion, she suggested we meet up at my place to watch a movie Twilight together. Well, since I wasn't doing anything in particular for the weekend and my fiance wasn't in town, why not? (Trust me, my intents was pure and genuine).

The Saturday came, and we did have a lovely time together until the devil struck. One thing led to another and we both ended up kissing and eventually had sex. I wasn't careless not to have not used a protection but I could remember the condom coming off at a Point and was quickly replaced with another new one. Trust me guyz, we both felt bad immediately after the incident and both apologized to one another and that was it.

Fast forward to the present, I got a call from her for the first time after that incident (I had to cut off all communication with her after what happened) and she broke the news to me that she was feeling a little different which prompted her to go do a test, and to my greatest shock, she said it came out positive, SHE IS PREGNANT!!!

How is this even possible? We made our precisely on the 30th of July and the test results shows she's about 2weeks pregnant (Note: the test results shows it was carried out on the 12th of August. Moreover, I never even released when the condom came off into her and we had to remove it. How is it possible?

Now, the mother called and even asked to see me in person that, the daughter already explained all that ensued between us, and I should come and let's discuss our next move, that no daughter of hers gives birth outside wedlock.

In all these, I am so confused. The honest truth is, I never told the lady in particular I was getting married in the month of September. My wife to be does know her as just a friend and that's all but kept my wedding plans away from the lady despite how opened we were to each other.

Nairalanders, I am so confused. I have cried, begged her, pleaded with her to come clean with me, but she insists I was the only one she meet within that time frame. Even in the presence of her mother, she kept asking her, are you sure? She kept insisting I was the only one she had sex with last month.

My world is presently on pause mode as I don't know what to thing anymore. But I am 99.9% sure I am not responsible for the pregnancy. I even requested she used my hospital for a second test and it still came out positive.

I am currently, planning on telling my wife to be the whole truth and before then, involve our counselling pastor. I can't bring myself to tell my family despite the fact her mother keep insisting she comes to see my mother.

My inner most being tells me I am been set up, because I remember vividly on that night, she kept insisting I remove the condom that it was hurting her but I insisted.

Could the pregnancy be truly mine? Do I come clean to my babe? Do I just runaway? So many questions and I am deeply depressed and sad on how I got myself into the terrible mess. At this moment, I deserve whatever insults is thrown at me. I truly deserve them, BUT I NEVER FOR ONCE DOUBT my love for my wife to be, I truly love her...

E resemble setup sha! This one her mama dey involved and dey push to see your mama.
How old is the lady?

Youngwiz71:
So this lady is just 54 yrs, what happened to her, she doesn't look good at all

She has a health condition

OKOATA:
I'm not a fan of PDP or APC but my question is that is it Wike that will tell the people of Rivers state who to vote? Is it like those River state people don't have a mind of their own because the way Wike carry this matter for head like say he get like zombies wey he go tell to vote whom he tells to vote.

No mind the power drunk eediot!

Stoicful:
Which is better, a contract Job in a multinational company or permanent staff in a one man's business. But the pay of the one man business is twice of the multinational contract Job + the job role of the multinational has more value.

Multinational (Laboratory Technician)
One man's business (Production Supervisor but it's just material management and coordinating factory workers).

Multinational - 80k
Permanent - 155k

Which should I go for ?

Look for a 20k job and dump theses two.

Why she no call Desmond eedioot?