Antoeni: Tega has gone into hibernation. She had chased stardom the wrong way Now, stardom is chasing her around A married woman with a child can do a few things to become celebrity But when she chooses adultery on national TV Reality TV or UNREALITY TV Then, even the gods will come after her. Cyber bullying is criminal But since social media celebrities thrive on herding devotees They should always know that a mob hangs around them . I watched her and her husband try to whitewash stuff Her husband had lunch with Boma. Yes, with Boma. Such things can't amuse an African audience . I pray for her Wasting time in a big brother house and disappearing from social media afterwards is pointless, perhaps tragic.
she is still chasing stardom and she is making it. all these are still her strategy!
you wan tell me say her husband no know where she dey? na her followers dey find her.
daviesmania: Good evening people! There's this babe I've been seeing in the last eight months. She's so pretty, romantic and above all she's so silly satisfying on bed. But the only problem is that she throws up immediately after sex and this is so annoying. We've tried every strategy to stop it but is not working. We're thinking of visiting the hospital but I believe I can also get some help here. The unfortunate thing is that if this doesn't stop, then I might have to walk. Please help us if u can.... But my real question here is, Is this like an illness?
you won't get any help here! go to the hospital and spend money! awoff dey run belle
It's with a pastor with wife and children. Her pastor when she was in another state.
Now they're both in different states.
How did I know?
I saw her chat with him about 2+ years ago, and saw all the sweet name calling, the pet names and how they tell each other their activities of the day and even marital problems.
All the red flags and checklist of an emotional affair have been ticked by them.
The only thing remaining is the sexual part.
We've been married for some years now, she was a virgin when I married her though I'm 100% sure they have not met since we got married.
But the issue here is that this is causing serious friction in our marriage.
When I first saw it, I gave some time to be sure and I confronted her and she denied and said he's just her pastor (denial is one of the checklist).
Some months later they didn't stop the communication, I was about to tell her mum cos she visited. She pleaded and I let it slide.
Fast forward to 2021 they are still in communication. This time around the so called pastor is even always reminding her to clear chats so I won't see it.
Now emotional affair is actually worse than sexual affair This pastor has a wife. I just pity the wife cos I can imagine how she would also be feeling.
I provide for the home, I also had to change from biz to the one that makes me travel to something that makes me work from home so she won't say it's cos I'm not always around.
We struggle with our sex life. What do I mean? She doesn't like sex. She doesn't mind if we stay 1 year without sex.
But me I'm a man with sexual needs.
Now when I see the way she doesn't like sex and I remember this emotional affair, it drives me crazy.
Those who have passed thru this, how did you overcome this challenge? I don't want a broken home for my children cos sometimes I feel like calling her people and telling them to take their daughter back. Infact I'll dash them the bride price.
Do I go and get a side chick? But that won't solve my problem.
Guys come to my aid.
Cos if we discuss this again, this will be the 3rd time we're talking about same issue and same guy.
Sorry wasn't brief
you are a man as claimed abi? call the randy pastor and tell him to leave your wife alone. if they persist tell her family to come n collect their daughter. your kids will be fine.
mbahdi: Please doctors in the house what do we call this? My friend couldn't contain his joy,I can remember the night he broke the news to me,he was so excited,he took me to a joint where we opened alot of bottles in celebration of him meeting his wife a virgin, despite he was a bad guy. The problem now is that each time the wife is pregnant she will have miscarriage,this has happened about two times cant endure it anylonger he took the wife for a test,and it was discovered that the wife have an infection which has been in her body for a long time. Please how possible can someone you meet a virgin have infection.although before the guy married her she lives in face me I slap you apartment with the parents,it was out of the joy the guy have marrying her a virgin that he rented a 3bed room apartment for the parents.please what could be the cause of the infection?
na you give am na
and you are very silly for uploading her picture here.
Darlingme: Why is it so difficult for most people to keep to their promises, to remit debts? You help someone with loan based on aggreement and trust, but when it's time to remit, they come up with excuses, default, making you look like you're too weak, too simple and when you get upset and raise your voice, they tag you as being Money conscious. On your own part, you don't want to lose relationship/friendship/family with them. you consider their struggles, yet, when they have your money either From their salaries or other means, they wouldn't still pay back. Have you ever been in this kind of situation? How were you able to handle this kind of people without becoming enemies?
I need your candid advise on these matters that touch the heart. I got married last year to the mother of my beautiful daughter sometime in August last year during the COVID lock down. The marriage was against my wishes and due to parental pressure. Prior to marrying my wife, I was doing a good job by making sure I take good care of my daughter and the mom. My daughter just turned 2 in July and has already started going to school. My wife and I met online and started dating immediately after our first sexual encounter. Along the line she got pregnant and we started having misunderstandings. We both decided we will keep the baby because I made a vow with God not to abort any child with any woman I impregnate.
However, to cut the story short we both agreed we won't get married and her parents were cool with it as long as I take care of their daughter and my child. Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary. The relationship lasted for months but my mom never supported the relationship and did everything to make sure I break up with this lovely lady in a bid to marry my baby mama. I was against it knowing fully well that she is very quarrelsome and dramatic. I had inner peace with my lockdown girlfriend. Till now I still miss her and want to be with her despite being married to my wife who is always looking for ways to suspect me for one thing or the other. She has even threatened that if she catch me cheating, she will cheat back.
My marriage for the past 1 year has been full of problems, drama, and even attempted violence. My wife just graduated from Uni and is about to go in for her NYSC. I am even praying she gets posted out of Lagos preferably the North. This marriage has drained me of all my resources and has taken away a lot from me. My wife doesn't appreciate the good I do for her and my daughter. She is always quick to judge me and criticize for every small mistake I make. She nags all the time and always want to pick a fight for bullshit reasons. I don't find my wife attractive anymore and I have lost every desire to have sex with her from the first day we married in August last year.
She gets upset when female colleagues at work call me. I had considered resigning because we had an issue over my boss at work who always calls me for work related stuff. I am not on good terms with my mom because she engineered this marriage against my own wishes. My wife and I don't have a good relationship. It has gotten so bad that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. I had to leave the house for some time to stay in an accommodation provided by my work place so I can have inner peace and regain my sanity.
I am so pained because of my relationship that ended abruptly. I tried getting back with my Ex whom I still love but now she doesn't want to have anything to do with me despite how much I still love her. My question is, should I still try to win my ex over or find another woman? As for my marriage, I consider it dead and over. I don't care what my parents particularly my mom will do. I don't bleeping care anymore. All I want is my love to come back to my life and end this toxic marriage.
why did you marry your baby mama?
I believe u were cheating on your 7 fig earner with her because I see non-essential why u marry her despite knowing her flaws. or maybe you are not telling us the true story.
Almightyprosper: I need reasonable people to give me some advise here on how I can deal with such a huge fiasco, The money isn't really my problem but she cheat and she has never accepted once even though I've evidence. Is it appropriate to help her? Or help and give her road out0 of my life cause her cheating lifestyle has caused me more trauma than everyday.. This lady knew I had accident last week for God Men with experience I await your response
if all these is true why then hasn't the ipob leaders come out to say they are not responsible for all the mayhem and tell all their followers to stay put n remain calm?
Just to let you know that your wife is referring to your parents as being insensitive as attached from her thread below as she has also brought this matter to NL as well.
skyoboy: This sounds funny... I guess your parents were expecting you to build them a house first considering maybe they catered for you and sent you abroad with their last savings (This may not be true)... Bro, I'd advise you move on and plan to build another house for your self but this time, DON'T INVOLVE THEM. It won't be a healthy battle sending them out of the house...
Kehindeaj78: I live outside the country but I entrusted my house development with my parents in Nigeria, but they leave in a rented apartment. They're are due for new rent payment at their rented apartment which i sent them the money, only for them to call me that they don't want to rent another apartment again and have moved into my ongoing house and used the money to do somethings in the ongoinghouse. What do I do?
they are your parents! are u based abroad permanently or u are coming back?
Dahustler007: Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time. My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
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