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falcon01:God bless you! From responses, one can certainly say they've not been to the north per say, the few that seems to have moved around the north probably came for NYSC purposes.. I've lived at Enugu, Port Harcourt, Aba, Onitsha, Asaba, Oweri and even Umuahia. When you talk of North, I spent over 6 years. The truth is, ladies from other tribes has succeeded in tarnishing the image of Northern girls. Especially Benue, Imo and Enugu. On several occasions, a confirmed Ibo girl on Ijab would claim she's from the North when you ask her name she tells u Faith or Esther, when they receive phone calls, you would hear them speaking Anambra igbo language or Benue.. So, My point is, not all girls you see on hijab around the walls are Hausas, most girls has seen hijab as the best garment to fake identities. Sincerely if u ask me, hausa ladies would rather spend all her money on fashion, looking good, smelling nice and remain hungry for a whole day. We have few dirty ones alike though, but when it comes to fashion, i give it to Hausas. If to go by extension, there are lovely, beautiful, matured, educated and well exposed women much in the North than else where in Nigeria. They are often reserved as their religion does not give them the right to speak up or create awareness in the mist of men. If Hausa lady passes by and she is noticed through her voice or by looking directly into a man's eye, it is sinful and considered as spreading immorality (fitnah). Its serious that a typical hausa mosque in the North do not encourage the women to come and pray in congregation.. Infact to get the clear knowledge of this, one will be going beyond wisdom of many Nairalanders as some are just naturally antagonistic, mere mention of anything good from the Northern part of the country give them orgasm and they start foaming for no reason. There are areas you go to in the North that is 65% dominated by Igbos and 15% Benue. Places like Minna, part of Kaduna, Suleja and so on.. The whole of Banawa is 90% dominated by Igbos who are just around to mess around with small small Hausa girls, they claimed to make the environment lively and patronizing the hotels. Meanwhile even the so called indigenes would now have to be at the mercy of the strangers.. |
lonelydora:Dora! Dora!! Dora!!! How many time I call u? Water carry person mama property you dey here dey mark grammar. Na palava you dey find so oh ![]() |
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Are u sure u are not tagging innocent people yahoo boys? I spotted a bottle of CHILLED coke in the last picture.. These bloggers ehn.. |
Teewhy2:This is called sincere sacrifice from a true wife material for men with wisdom who look beyond round ass in their choice of marriage. Kudos to her! |
ellagabs:My dear, I'm sorry you are feeling the way you are about this employment saga in Nigeria. But the truth is that, the table has finally turned in Nigeria, especially with what the present administration has demonstrated so far. Education is not a yard stick for success or employment anymore, its just to sensitize the youth on right and wrongs and to be creative about delivering the numerous society problem through logical reasoning and excellent foresight. By extension, education or let me say Degree of any kind merits Nigerian youth for consideration in any firm established to tackle some of those problems. Its in the light of this that youth are hired to come and contribute a quota since passing through those institutional years has been a justification that you are sane, you are logical, you are averagely upright in terms of reasoning and intelligent quotients. Our present challenge now is, if Nigerian youths have been through all these and certified that he or she can make a difference, why must that difference be made under durex? Why must you serve someone after acquiring all those experiences that majority were not lucky to have? As a 3rd year student, What about planning something to embark on after graduation irrespective how small it is? Some of us are very excellent in talking, but we are not seeing ourselves beyond gossip and backbiting, meanwhile speech delivery is the only thing some people are doing to sustain family and help others. Some of us are using phone worth 50k, but we kick against investment of less than 30k. Meanwhile many of those guys you see having more than 2 shops at Alaba and various places today, majority of them came to Lagos with less than 30k, they slept around with friends and managed to rent a shop, they slept in the shop and got focused on businesses till it boomed. As a youth, we need to look into ourselves very well and identify our potentials, what are those things I love doing? Is thee any opportunity around it? Can I convert it to productivity.. I know of students who rented 2 acres of land from federal authority at the rate of 6k per year, the said student is still in school but one of the employers of labour in our society today.. Everything is centred at youth development and youth empowerment, but as it looks like scam, many have seen it as opportunity and keyed into it and they are doing just good. They may not come forward to announce their success, but they are really progressing.. We can do better.. |
Biowared:Chai! Are you too shy to look into a woman's eyeball and tell her you cant roll with a relationship without sex? At least that is tenable enough for any matured minded person to understand that everyone can't possibly be a celibate. Come on.. You are a man na. Life is so so simpler than the way we carry it sometimes... |
OndoFirstBorn:Hahahahaha.. If you wan see all the teeth of old woman outside, ask am how her how npa (her husband) take propose to her.. I can imagine how baba go smile to respond to this if it was put to him one on one.. Meanwhile, its God's grace that kept that man u are seeing there alive till these days oh. His likes are General Yakubu, Obadanjo, IBB and so on.. As strong as IBB is, he is permanently on a wheel chair, some of them suffers the consequence of war and peace keeping operation of 60s and 70s till date.. Baba must sit close to the television just as some of our aged parents and some younger friends with impaired sight does. Protocol is completely out of this, the closest sit to the TV is the best position. It is well bro |
Onyi22:Oh! Una get association? No vex oh.. |
If she's a law student, some of us here are law analyst. Who doesn't know she would exercise some prowess to exonerate herself and evade justice. What is her strength to make us believe that the man couldn't withstand her and had to result to bringing such a deadly weapon into the scene. 88% of such scenario, we all know its the women that brings weapon into the scene as a measure to overpower the other party. I want to believe they are not living in a single room apartment, which means the apartment has a kitchen and other facilities.. So, chances that the knife was coincidentally within the room while the argument ensued is like 2%, so we need to know how a knife came into the crime scene if not to be believed someone intentionally brought it in for murder purpose. I think they should conduct psychiatric test to ensure mental stability of both parties as provided by the law before proceeding on the trial. |
Hahahahahaha.. Funny memeh! When you go for a show and on the stage, the man holding the mic says 'education good oh, e dey teach us how to do things in a modern way, e dey teach us how to intercept, permutate and divert some kind things into our haza. You know.. I turned around to reconfirm where I dey again. Ofcourse the friends that took me there could see some bits of discomfort on my face.. I just jejely relax for about 5 minutes, subsequently, 'guys make I just throw water there (i want to ease myself). For my mind, 'e be like say na Naira Malley full here oh' hey.. Keke drop. Somewhere around the state capital of Niger state. |
Chai! The woman in the second pishure dey weep for her oh! My people go say 'won n wo lawo sunkun o n wo ara e lawo rerin' meaning den dey look you dey weep for you but u dey look yourself with joyous look.. But the Tonto I used to know back then 2004 at Rumuokuta used to be very cool headed and interesting to get along with oh. What has changed? |
exlinklodge:Government regulations has rendered banking industry so shaky that to even pay salary na by struggle. Now they want to change tactics using IT in the name of 'come and acquire industrial skills.. Shebi den dey pursue people from knowing about their activities before. Story don shange.. Isorite. |
ashewoboy:I simply inferred based on observation. The word 'might' is not a conclusive clause. |
ashewoboy:Assumption is the mother of all fuckups! She's not daft u know, she might want to do her findings too.. But point no 1 proved to me he might not really be a gentle guy as appeared literally. In the aspect of patience, he has lost it Secondly, his mind is in his mouth. Yeah! He's yet to hear from her and he's already acting out a frustrated desire and thinking out on social media.. He cant keep secrets.. And might end up soiling her reputations. |
Ilamina:You are just unnecessarily curious and want to know what's happening outside World. Let me start with this, the criteria for securing a job in Shell system is absolutely different from what u see around, you may ask your parents what it was like securing that seat and subsequent process of retaining the position. SPDC system is sensitive to so many factors, environmental influence, security sense, safety sense and accountability among others, and would do anything to sustain her integrity around those factors. There are shell staff and there are contract staff.. But sincerely, 70% of those occupying the seats in IA are contract staff. U may want to find out where your parents belong.. Shell staff are well inducted into Shell system without a choice. They are more or less an asset to SPDC and their safety and security is a core value. It is on this note that all their dependant has equally becomes a secondary asset to the company too. There are professionals from various countries around the globe employed to foresee safety and security of asset, these people operate with policy which is deemed best to keep their responsibilities uncompromised. They came up with ideas to operate outside Nigerian system after they observed a glitch in our own safety and security system. Access control as a fraction of security system is not left out. There re chances of people being kidnapped on their way to churches, market, clinic and so on. By extension, we once had a case of Shell staff that was called out of his house around 7pm and he left casually telling his cousin living with them he was coming back soon.. He wasn't found, only for his corps to be recovered after 8days. The investigation revealed he was called out by a lady, probably one of his side chicks and he was held there for few days withdrawing with his ATM cards since they couldn't draw huge amount in just one day before he was finally killed. U can confirm this from your parent if he or she was in the system then.. We equally had case of a cousin living with a shell staff, he connived with armed men to kidnap his own uncle. So, with these occurrences, shell system do not trust Nigerians and Nigeria as a whole. Safety and security of staff, property and asset is a core priority.. And there are so many documents signed by your parents indicating you as his or her dependant, that's why you must come to IA clinic for your medicals, and there are commitments to these process from your parents through compliance with the policy which states some of those things.. Your dependant must not visit places suspected to be unsafe, your dependant must not do this and that.. So, there are more to this things than your parents can actually tell.. Just know that as a shell staff dependant, you are a secondary asset to the company and it a priority of the company to ensure safety of lives, property and asset of the company as the case may be. Your parent is committed to these safety through compliance with all the policies raised to aid goal zero. Just face front and stop digging into what is not necessary.. Everything you want is there in RA. Lovely gardens and serene environment, sport and gym, even club at a very nice design. Hospital, swimming pool, internet access and so on.. Some of those freedoms you clamour about often leads to destruction and regrets. |
Mizwisdom:I wont advise you upload your drawings on an open platform like this.. Your ideas are for you.. |
Mizwisdom:That will be cool.. But I have friends who are fashion drunk off nairaland. Besides Nairaland can be very complicated sometimes due to so much immaturity of users |
ogbonti:So many people are extra ordinarily blessed in our society, some earn more than they actually needed. We have single guys earning as much as 400 to 500k, what do they do with it? Throw party for women and declare free beer in night clubs.. And we are always fast at crucifying and tagging women prostitutes without contributing to what should change the society.. If we all sincerely give a token with plain mind no matter how small, not poke nosing into what he or she do with it and without expecting return of any kind, there will be less prostitute in the society and we will have a better value for each other.. |
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Sunofgod:There is no justification for violence.. The system might not be credible and convenient, its well understood, but if every Nigerian home and abroad put up this kind of attitude upon every disappointment, he wouldn't even find the office there in the first place. This is why I have my reservation about people generally, I don't respect physique and appearances, I pay more attention on psyche and link it to maturity. Violence should not be condone even in its slightest form. I once missed a flight Owerri to Abuja when I had important business meeting to attend due to misinformation from the airline operator. I had to transit LOS and rerouted Abj, incurred tipple of the initial plan. Why didn't I go violent? As a matter of fact, this guy should face the full blown of the law. This offense amounts to National Sabotage. He shouldn't be treated special nor different from the Militants. Yeah! Its the same mentality. They assume the government is not doing things right and resulted to violence and attack.. They are products of uncultured parents who in turn breed potential problems for the society to manage. U see, many parents needs a lot of training and discipline, but our perception about marriage is basically centred at Age margin. Just because people have physically and age wise attain the age of marriage, our own society believe he or she should be married. What about mental and emotional maturity? What about psychological reasoning and anger management to really manage a sustainable homes. That is why I always tell people, not only the parents suffer for every uncultured child raised without discipline and thrown to the society. That is a logical way of destroying the society we all live in. Too bad these type of children often makes the society unbearable for the good ones and their well trained children. This type of guys would hang behind Microsoft keypad in their careless awkward to deliberate on sensitive matters and advice people on Nairaland.. He should face the wrath of the law for National sabotage. My advice to everyone is, every child has tendency for violence, it starts from throwing things away and falling seats when they are angry, we shouldn't condone it in any way.. |
If its such minor student money you can part with, its nothing much to seek advice about. Talking about 5k, 10k.. After all you and your homies dey squander such amount on beer table without any impact on your financial status. Assume you are doing it for a stranger and don't take advantage of this to get the poor innocent girl laid as accomplishment of a pre-planned evil. God sees our intentions behind every good tidings and will sure reward us accordingly. |
Mamatoppy:There are a lot to this story than we see in your explanation but I will ask just a few if u guys don't mind, How did the OP meet the guy and what was the line of commitments between them? Was there a relationship or casual friends with benefits as ladies would call it? Or bed mates to satisfy emotional needs while the man take care of her various financial needs in return? Secondly was there ever a time u thought of having future with him? Especially after you caught him cheat on several occasions. Do u have any other external witness to support you claims apart from your family members? Like any of his friends or even his family member. There are questions you need to provide answers to if u must win this case. How old is your pregnancy now? Your safety and that of the baby should be a priority now. If possible and if you've made up your mind about keeping the baby, I will advice you drop this case for now, eat and rest well.., ensure u get an affordable antenatal, look around for primary health care centres or any close general hospital around u, leave all the fight till it is safe enough for u.. |
gloriaunobi:Like seriously? And u think its in anyway easy? My dear, try and engage those that washes corps their various observations about those we assumed had died peacefully. The facts are just there.. Or maybe you should ask from scholars and religious leaders how severe that pain is.. It has been proved and verified that, the process of separating life from a living body is the most painful and most unbearable process in the journey of all mankind.. Some bodies get deformed in the process. The severity only get slightly reduced out of mercy from God and through our good deeds and kindness while we were hail and healthy.. May God have mercy on us and may He never take our lives untill He's pleased with our souls. May God forgive the demise and grant his family the fortitude to bear the loss with strong faith.. |
Military men shot a community chief dead and allowed you or anyone to come and take photo shot of the extra judicial killing.. I've always told you these careless bloggers, you will land yourself in problem soon as you lack orientation of your delicate businesses.. So shameful some of you don't know the legal implication of what you post. |
As a martial art coach who have trained medalists and still in the blood, I'm often afraid of final outcome of scenario like this if I chose to retaliate. I've been slapped by a woman for ignoring her while she was raining sort of insults sometimes in the past, funny enough i only pinned her by her wrist and water was gushing out of her eyes for as long as i held her. Sometimes it's best to walk away as u both might be used by devil. If you were both alone, there are chances that she may want to do more, and the more she does the harder you as the man unconsciously becomes.. I met the oldest inmate in Port Harcourt prison during one of my outreach in the past, all he preached after spending 32 years in custody was patience. The man aged 72 as at then said, if he was patient enough, he wouldn't have been sentenced to life imprisonment. He felt cheated, as he was truly cheated, impatiently he tried acting as a man, unfortunately for him someone died in his hand. That was all.. I almost shed tears listening to the old man's story. In all, he always say 'if only we know.. Probably we might avoid certain things.. But right now, devil has succeeded in putting him behind the bars ( life imprisonment) Your ability to manage anger and never to allow your mood controls you is what make a real man. Most domestic violence and murder starts this way, "she slapped me i slapped her back, she torn my clothe and hit me with stick, i punched her.. Before you know it, you have murdered your best friend and your precious companion. Would you rather forgive yourself? Lets reason outside the box for once guys.. |
reicherMan:Desperate blogger! People who are on their legitimate oil activities, you carry their faces and aligned it with a crime for reason best known to you, it is well oh. It won't be funny to see you begging for pardon when the trap of the law catches up with u. I hope u don't blame it on ignorance sha.. |
Stefan111:Isorite Oga! Lets assume u won this conversation bro. |
SillyMods:Isn't it embarrassing that majority do not even have the slightest knowledge of our electoral process? On this thread and through various comments, we can picture those who spent the election holiday preparing fried rice without going out for voting. When we tell them its important to follow up country process and procedures, they would say "who Nigeria help" now they are clamouring within their naiveties.. 98% Nigerian youth have betnaija or Nairabet applications on their various phones but they turned deaf ears to federal activities despite implementation of FG application to keep us abreast of sensitive act and constitutional laws of our country. When we try to sensitize some grown up youths, they say we are 'old school'. Being a Nigerian is beyond birth rights, its beyond being born by Nigerian parents.. Allah keahi! |
Kate06:Please! Please!! Please!!! U are entitled to your opinion bro, But the moment you start dabbling into issues you have little or no knowledge about, you misconstrue the general public. Have you had a sensitive case to file with any arm of Nigerian Federal Authority and are willing to exercise the full blown of might on u? Then, u would know that Nigeria has professionals in service.. |
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