₦airaland Forum

jacko4real:
my dear, do u actually love him for whom he his or because of his money?if u love him for whom he his and u feel u can Marry him,then stand to ur words.it will help u alot.A friend has been into that kind of relationship b4.the girl told him that no sex b4 marriage, my guy thought that the girl was joking not knowing that the girl meant what she was saying. the fact is that the girl in question was a wife material the guy now decided to dump the girl because she told the guy no sex b4 marriage,after some months the guy decided to go back to the girl because he later saw the wife material in her.the guy had no choice than to go and apologized to the girl b4 they now got married. so stand to ur words and be diligent if the guy is really serious about u,he will hold u down

Best advice, op be wise and follow this

The truth is Nigerians aren't suffering the same way, the rich don't know that people suffer, no matter the logic in this man's statement he has shown to be someone who lacks empathy and one who is lacking in wisdom.Even Buhari few months ago said"I know your pains"inflation rate has gone up and last week the NBS put unemployment rate at 43%..in a sane country no one makes such comments.

Hmm, sweetheart don't abort o, don't mind those who are shouting abort and move on, because abortion is like taking a life, just imagine someone got rid of you because of the inconvenience you pose.you have a heart don't start losing it by taking a wrong step, marrying someone doesn't mean that person would eventually stay, marriage doesn't mean happiness, and paying attention to: what Will people say isn't important.My mother had the chance to abort me but she never did despite the advice.

VIPERVENOM:
Its like going to the white house to protest. The security agencies will block u from gaining entrance. Honestly ur protests at d aso villa has become one to many. Take ur protests to d streets

Bro a woman protested and set up her home just by the wall of the white house for twenty years, yet she wasn't arrested, many more protests go on everyday around the white house every day and there isn't any form of harassment, I might not be a fan of Jonathan but I must admit that guy played it cool when it came to allowing free speech and civil agitations.

This idea of controlling a woman or trying to show you are a man is highly flawed,not for it's effectiveness but it's lack of credibility, I would explain:
If God in all his majesty and power can allow we humans the right to free will,then the act of scheming,mind game manipulation to control another person or modify their behavior has no long time success.
A reasonable lady doesn't need to be controlled before she submits or acts well at least after attaining a certain age, else she isn't different from a beast with a tampered conscience.
contrary to public opinion ladies have a stronger will than men, examples abound in the virtuous woman described in the book of proverb and the jezebel that made Elijah run after he finished demonstrating the raw power of God.or can you be as strong as Delilah who succeeded where thousands of men lost their souls to Samson.
Am sure you know no matter how skilled you are in controlling or modifying ladies behavior some guys have better incentives to offer than you and human wants are insatiable.
Don't marry a girl who's behavior you have to control and you have to win though been ovely manly. such girls are disasters

Beamborla:
I have heard them all. Haven't heard of it.

I Believe In You I don’t believe in superstars organic food and foreign cars I don’t believe the price of gold the certainty of growing old That right is right and left is wrong that north and south can’t get along That east is east and west is west and being first is always best But I believe in love I believe in babies I believe in mom and dad and I believe in you I don’t believe that heaven waits for only those who congregate I like to think of God as love he’s down below he’s up above He’s watchin’ people everywhere he knows who does and doesn’t care And I’m an ordinary man sometimes I wonder who I am But I believe in love I believe in music I believe in magic and I believe in you Well I know with all my certainty what’s going on with you and me is a good thing It’s true I believe in you Well I don’t believe virginity is as common as it used to be In working days and sleeping nights that black is black and white is white That Superman and Robin Hood are still alive in Hollywood That gasoline’s in short supply the rising cost of gettin’ by But I believe in love I believe in old folks I believe in children and I believe in you I believe in love, I believe in babies, I believe in mom and dad and I believe in you.

Beamborla:
I'm in love with Don

I believe in you(my best track,have you heard it?),Lord I hope this day is good, I have been loved by the best.but I think Kenny Rodgers is better.heard bed of roses?

Beamborla:
Dang! You are also of the school of thought that beautiful and dumb are in syncrony

Country music is my favorite

country musictell me more.Kenny Rodgers, don Williams who do you prefer?

Of a truth those guy's including the one's they have just signed on aren't adding much returns.so the strategy is to do away with the expensive deals and offer endorsement deals that are cheaper.social media marketing is killing celebrity endorsement in Nigeria

Folks I stand to be corrected the present administration can only be successful in the short run, in the long run we need creative leaders,this are my points:what kind of economy survives in the long run when governments main target is to increase its income base?, the United state is always championing investment patterns that make individuals rich and not the government.look at the number of jobs corporations like Facebook, Google, Microsoft, Amazon and Goldman Sachs have added to the us economy. on the other side government can make quick cash by tapping into the entertainment sector let's take the Nigerian premier league as a case study in comparison with the EPL, the Epl has attracted foreign investment, boasted the local market, television rights have tripped over years to a whopping 5 billion dollars in 2016,why can't Nigeria league be like that, The government has also failed to invest in infrastructure.and it's policies so far aren't well thought out, the best policy I have seen from any government in Nigeria in the last decade is the contributory pension scheme which has added 6 trillion naira to the economy and created new jobs..we need technocrats not politicians in government.

The reason why I don't believe every comment on nairaland especially the one's on nairaland is because of the lies surrounding social media appearance.all those saying the guys went to far and shouldn't be surprised at what he saw are only saying that because of their past experience in the hands of people who took away their innocence. if a lady can deny your relationship with you or seek attention unduly then you shouldn't trust her to make a faithful wife or mother.Guys always remember the lady you marry determines your life and that of your children(to a large extent).And all those girls looking for the bad guy just continue, I know a young lady that dumped a responsible man some years ago to marry a guy who is in control" and is super fun to be with years later, I just pity her and almost shed tears for her because she now has it all except that the things she loved in that guy is what she now despise in the guy.Who can find a virtuous woman?or better still a man like Abraham whose wife had to compel him to take another wife.

op, as funny as that sounds there are girls like that infact many of them.let me explain :when I wrote waec six years ago 1had 6As,then this result was a big deal but now you hear of 14years olds passing A levels with straight As,you hear of the Nigerian girl that got admitted to Harvard at the age of 15 and can speak 6languages, go to Victoria island in Lagos you see kids who can code, know about the stock market, play more than 2 musical instruments,travelled far and wide with lot's of exposure. You need to go for a mckinsey interview to know that some girls intelligence quotient can be more attractive than their body features.You want such girls??go and be so good to meet them.

It's slightly funny bro, I served in Edo too(2015A) and I must admit they are as fetish as any ethnic group in Nigeria, they just choose to always flunt" theirs.Some corpers once brought in a girl to the staff room who said she wasn't performing well in her academics because she was a princess, the "gullible" corper kept on asking questions from the lady, I just smiled where I sat.It also happened that I met a certain young lady by chance who told me certain things about myself and finished the discussion by drawing the pattern to my Android phone when I tried to tease her saying she was just lucky in her guessing streaks.(am telling you all this so that you would know that this world is indeed spiritual)she later told me to inform her if anyone tried rubbish with me.My advice for you is that you should pray, confess the word of God, change your ways from now, and be kind to people from now.Infact tell her to forgive you but don't count on it.prayer has never failed

op has made some valid points, but it all boils down to the individual involved.And those shouting that if you like go Harvard, there is still no job without connection are wrong.You can't go to schools like Stanford, LSE, imperial college, Yale and be jobless.I believe there are jobs but the reason for unemployment in Nigeria is the skills gap between schooling and industrial demands. How many Nigerian trained finance graduate understand Financial modelling, how many social science graduate can use SpSs,how many students know what their field is all about and the latest improvements in it.

freecocoa:
I'm someone who has always thought revenge to be a 'bad' thing, believing that when someone hurts you and you also hurt the person in return, then nothing makes you different from that person, because you both are a people, that hurt someone, but is this really true? Can/should it be called hurting someone, if they deserve it?

Now, as I keep growing and dealing with people, I'm starting to think my stance on revenge is flawed.

I think I'm beginning to see revenge for what it really is, justice. We often hear, "leave it to karma" some say "leave it for/to god"(this shouldn't be an option btw) but at the end of the day, we can't really say people get what they deserve, in that, bad things happen to good people and good things to bad people and for all I know, "bad" people seem to have it better than the "good" ones in this nonsense world, so should we fold our arms and let people who wronged us feel fly, while we feel miserable?

Someone will argue that, feeling hurt is more a thing of choice than consequence, asking, how can someone hurt you, if you don't want to be? Talking about how it is our minds that hold on to things, therefore we can condition it to let go or not, but is this really true? Do we have absolute control of what we feel? I think not.

Now if someone hurt me and I'm really feeling it, why shouldn't I validate this feeling by seeking revenge? I mean, don't we have a right to want to feel better? Does revenge make one feel better?


what's your take? Should we seek revenge or not? Lets discuss.

A farmer comes home one day
to find that everything that gives meaning to his life is
gone. Crops are burned, animals slaughtered, bodies and
broken pieces of his life strewn about. Everything that
he loved taken from him - his children. One can only
imagine the pit of despair, the hours of Job-like
lamentations, the burden of existence. He makes a
promise to himself in those dark hours. A life's work
erupts from his knotted mind. Years go by. His suffering
becomes complicated. One day he stops - the farmer who
is no longer a farmer - sees the wreckage he's left in his
wake. It is now he who burns, he who slaughters, and he
knows in his heart he must pay.

Beamborla:
I'm still stuck with NYSC... I however have plans which I'm already working towards.

Fine!

That's cool.Wishing you the best.kind regards

Beamborla:
My love for fashion stems out of my quest for satisfaction. I'd love to rock natives but I keep getting disappointed each time I take my cloth for sewing.

Agriculture is the real thing for me but I just can't overlook that feeling of a god when i stand back to admire my creation.

I lost interest, anyways. There are days I listen to radio and I become depressed. Not just that, there are many other factors

ok, you are a quasi perfectionist, so how is the agriculture going plus the fashion

Beamborla:
Radio but the disappointment ozzing out from the media especially ROAP is appalling. One of the reasons l lost interest.

At the moment, agriculture and fashion.

At the moment, that's quite sincere, Fashion appears to be the stereotype for ladies, but agriculture tell me more, and I don't think one should allow the jokers on radio make you hate a profession, none of those popular oap has won an international award in the last five years, the less popular ones have made mad" sense

Beamborla:
I'd definitely love to pursue my masters degree someday. But I would have to reawaken my passion for the course I studied first...I seem to have fallen out of love with it even before graduating from the university.

Communication art sounds like fun, though.
Can you help?

which area does your interest lies at the moment?,which part of mascom did you like, print, radio pr?

Nigeria leaders: full of legislathieves, judisharers and Executhives.

[quote author=Beamborla post=48838688]Thanks! [/quot
I would recommend a school like ui or Lagos business school for you, you could pursue a masters in communication art.That's if you are interested in the academic world.

Beamborla:
Nope! I studied mass communication

Your points on this discussion are quite academic"

[quote author=Beamborla post=48824297][/quote]what did you study in university, were you a liberal art student?

I think the government should . just privatize this plant, by doing that, efficiency would be archived, jobs would be created and government would have a larger tax base.

ngobaby23:
Hmm.. My own story. I've had only two boyfriends which I loved dearly and stupidly. The first was emotionally abusive. Always comparing me to my best friend.. Saying she has bigger boobs and all that. Then always treating me with breakups then I'd cry and beg him. But when I got some sense I broke up with him.. Because he was destroying my self esteem. The second guy I dated I was so much older.. In my between 21 and 23..i loved him he loved me.. We were planning on our future and all that.. We were good till one day.. He sent me a text telling me he wanted out without no reason. I felt like a knife was pierced through my heart.. As I'm writing now I feel so much pain. It was latter that he told me cos of my health challenge that made him leave. Me. From 2013 till today, I've not dated anybody. I've lost that ability to love. But I still believe in love.

don't lose your heart, you have a beautiful mind

Genea:
Makes me remember d idiot dah broke my hrt and smashed it into pieces, have reciprocated by breaking oda guys hrt

A farmer comes home one day
to find that everything that gives meaning to his life is
gone. Crops are burned, animals slaughtered, bodies and
broken pieces of his life strewn about. Everything that
he loved taken from him - his children. One can only
imagine the pit of despair, the hours of Job-like
lamentations, the burden of existence. He makes a
promise to himself in those dark hours. A life's work
erupts from his knotted mind. Years go by. His suffering
becomes complicated. One day he stops - the farmer who
is no longer a farmer - sees the wreckage he's left in his
wake. It is now he who burns, he who slaughters, and he
knows in his heart he must pay.

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Toks2008:
I always tell ladies that 9 out of 10 cassanovas were at a time in their lives faithful to one lady until they got heartbroken.

hmmm, guy you have a point o, I used to know some guys who were gentle, and so well behaved but when they experienced an heart break they just changed and became heartless towards ladies, it takes a matured and spiritual guy to love without fear after such occurrence.

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