Curious345: It's with a heavy heart I write you this story. I am about to get married ,but the lady is not a virgin.
What do I do please ? Do i call off the wedding ?
Marrying a virgin is biblical and quarannical. It's always been my dream. I thought I would be lucky in this dark world . But alas I fell into that same web of distortion which I feared the most . How can I marry a woman whose punna has been used to play PIANO by men of different shades? Will God in heaven forgive me?
I always had this belief that if I marry a lady who is not a virgin, i am dishonoring my creator.
So what to do ?
If I call off this wedding at the last minute (I am seriously considering it ) can I still find a virgin lady to marry before December?
Pablo25: A Nigerian lady simply identified as Daberechi took to social media to brag about her beauty, while stating the type of man she would never settle down with.
According to Daberechi who took to Facebook, said her beauty is not the type for broke men.
She caused a stir with her pictures which some described as beautiful but turned many off with her caption which many see as being condescending.
The lady wrote:
“I can never marry a broke man
With this my beauty.”
Her post has attracted heavy bashing online especially from men who mocked her that beauty fades and a pretty face alone can not build a good home.
Preciousgirl: Yesterday, I sent my male friend a harmless MISSING YOU message on WhatsApp around 6PM. At around 8 pm, I received a call from his wife with insults, calling me Ashawo. I didn't utter a single word because I meant no harm at all. My friend called this morning to apologise on his wife's behalf; is such a message too strange?
Zzor: Good evening to you all,please I'm looking for an elderly and very rich man to marry,i don't have eyes for small boys,i need an elderly man that is so wealthy and will pamper me even at my worst behavior,like Ned is to Regina.I am everything Regina and more.Please all this young herbally energized penis people should stay out of this thread,take your aggressiveness away.To those that will come and type rubbish,eat your words and to those that will remind me of my Christian and born again status,we preach against poverty in my church.Only happy people are welcomed
NkanAkpanika: Ibeno bridge is said to be the longest bridge in South South Nigeria built by NDDC for 13 years.. The bridge lay on top of the Atlantic ocean linking Ibeno main land in Akwa Ibom to its Island community of okoroutip and many others .
While the Onitsha to Asaba Bridge is 1.6 km, ibeno Bridge is 600m long laying on top of the Atlantic ocean...
SweetCunt97: 5 litres of vegetable oil 2400 ke! Haaaaaaaa, are they killing us in this Abuja or your calculation is off?
in Abuja they hv market u get things cheap, especially on their market days . Karmo market (every Tuesday), gwagwalada Market ( every Tuesday) , kabusa market( every Saturday), nyanya market and mararaba orange market.
Finnese001: I easily get irritated, this girl is one of them Snapchat and Instagram upcoming slay queen, I met her online and we get talking. Last week I invited her over but I was disappointed when we were going doggy, some bad odors filled the entire room gawd, I just managed go two rounds and discharged her. Haven't called her ever since then.
The girl I call my girlfriend is double dating me with another guy Though when I met this girl, she has being in the relationship with that guy and she told me she has a boyfriend but she wasn’t interested in the relationship with the guy anymore that she loved me already. But I vividly understands how girls act so I asked her too many times if I was going to be her only guy because I can’t afford to share her, I explained to her I could take my leave if she’s not ready to leave the guy (all this was to avoid a toxic relationship because I know I can’t bear it) But she told me to give her little time to breakup with that guy so we can have the best relationship. To cut the long epistle, we have being dating for over a month now and we have and sex too many times and even had abortion once. But what keeps me worried is that She is a busy person who is only free on Sundays. So what she does every Sunday is that she shuffles meeting me with meeting the other guy, for instance, if she comes to my place this Sunday, she goes to the other guy’s place the next Sunday. And for me, this is not the kind of relationship I want with her. But I don’t understand what to do. She blocked me from viewing her status when ever she goes to the guy’s place but my friends shows me and makes jest about it this every Sunday. I really do not want to leave this girl because she has good good luck I can tell cause since we’ve being together, My endeavor has being very positive. Please advise me.
ur grammar alone wil make any girl cheat on u . Use ur language !instead.
Pls i need advice on how I can be of help to this friend of mine who's marriage is at the verge of separation
I have this friend of mine who I always visit , in fact the only place I visit when I'm less busy or bored at home He's married and blessed with a very beautiful and understanding lady , but most times that I visit them I kind of notice how they behave towards each other in a way that even a stranger will easily notice something's wrong This friend of mine (Male) is the type that goes for anything under the skirt and he's blessed with a curvy and busty woman and she's pretty and educated , her family are also doing well They have 2 beautiful daughters There was a day we were sitting outside of his house , me and my friend (him) were arguing about a certain plant The argument was just simple , I was like this particular plant is only meant for blood flows anytime someone is injured and not for cooking soup, "that was my claim" And he was against it and claims that it's eatable All of a sudden he just abandoned me and others outside which i didn't like , His wife was against it and made him understand that such little argument is not enough reason to abandon your visitors outside that it's insultive which is true cuz I felt disrespected and I also went home The next day his wife called my phone and apologized on his behalf and stylishly blamed it on alcohol and I understand how a good woman will do anything to cover up her husband's mess By noon (PM) one of my friend who happens to also be at the scene of the argument now told me that immediately I left , this my friend came outside and his wife was telling him to call my phone to apologise that he did wrong by abandoning us outside and he gave his wife a dirty slap When I heard of it I was shocked because I never for once like to hear anything about a man hitting his woman I made a decision never to visit him no more , and every single day his wife still calls me to apologise but sje never made a mention of the slap , so i was just confused on what to believe in whether my other friend was true about the slap or not About a week he called my phone , and the reason why he called was because he had a lady that he wants to eep at my crib , like I said he bleeps anything and he can even borrow money to bleep that's how bad he is And the problem here is that he's not the type that heeds to anyone's advice , (HE's ALWAYS RIGHT )...
three days ago I visited them after we've settled our differences of 3 months ago
Myself and two of my friends went there , to get something done with his PC (laptop) cuz he's good at photoshops
I noticed that he wasn't in talking terms with his wife , at first I was like " guy na husband and wife matter" them go settle Since he wasn't done with what i wanted him to do for me , i went there again to ask him to get the work done for me , cuz if I'm not there with him he won't attend to it I also noticed that they're still not in talking terms And I'm a kind of person who never feels comfortable where there's no love , and never getting to speak mind is something I'll never do I called my friend privately and told him of my observation He said he has no problem that it's his wife who's ignoring him and I was like have you at least tried to put a smile on her face by apologizing, he said he can't do that never And seems I already know the kind of person he is , I can't even tell him what to do cuz he'll never listen All of a sudden two more guys came in (our friends) They also noticed the same thing and they weren't feeling comfortable as well When this my friend in question stepped out to get something close-by the three of us now asked the wife what's going on that we don't like they way they've been ignoring their selves for long , that even if they're having issues they shouldn't make it obvious for we the visitors to understand something's wrong She narrated what happened and I've been worries about it since last night but due to shayo (alcohol) I forgot to post it here until now
She said her husband didn't sleep at home and she wasn't happy about it , instead of him to apologise and at least tell her the reason why he didn't sleep at home , he gave her a dirty slap Immediately she said it I got pissed , buy what can I do in this kind of situation I can't fight him, it's his wife , and i can't advise him cuz he doesn't takes no one's advice And his wife is making us understand that she's got few days left in his house This woman I question is very respectful and calm anytime you visit them , you can't even lack of anything when she's around , and as their close friend what can we do to settle this problem cuz I'm puzzled already Set awon experts pls come in and help out , thanks
I just pray he wil nt infect her wit something 1 day ..
ken711: I have been dating a girl for about 18 months now. Very pretty but my brothers, let me tell you... Look before you leap when it comes to pretty girls.
From the minute I met this girl it has been one money request after another. If it was small sums I guess I wouldn't really mind, as I have always worked for blue chip companies and can afford it. The thing is, her requests are always very big!.....20k this, 20K that.....but my brothers, I have to tell you the one that has made me even disappointed in myself.
She lives with her parents and they are the most dysfunctional family I have ever heard of... Everyday one person is fighting the other, and this my girlfriend, as fine as she is, is the most arrogant, prideful, violent & rude person I have ever met. She hounded me everyday that I must get her an apartment of her own, so she can escape her home, and I agreed to but by saving monthly.
Would you believe, one night, when she was working at a bar as an usher for guinness, she gave her number to 2 different men just because of this apartment. My spirit kept telling me that she gave her number out, but she kept lying...only for me to catch her texting one of the men when we were at church of all places.......
She even went as far as going to meet this rich man at a hotel, but the man ran away when she made that request, and I as a fool decided to finally do it for her. (I suspect she cheated on me that night and I always tell it to her face because she has cheated on me twice before)
I live on the Island and tried to get her to rent here as well, as I really want to keep an eye on her..... She has too many guys around her who live in that area and she is this kind of person who cheats out of revenge, even over small things.....this girl refused and threatened to break things off!....bro, as a mumu I sent the money to her to rent the place and for other things, about 400K.....
Ever since that money left my account, it's like my eyes cleared!!! I couldn't believe that instead of saving my hard earned money, I went and sent it to a girl that has cheated on me twice (or even more), lied to me, slapped me and done so many things.....but I just decided to leave everything for God, seeing as she was desperate.
The problem now is that the demands for that apartment is now becoming too much!!! The expenses just to get the place finished are such a burden on my financial and mental state...
The worst happened about two days ago, she wanted me to pay 20k. Infact I just got so tired of bills that I kinda was stalling on it, but what happened next truly shocked me. Would you believe this girl started punching me, slapping me and even tore my shirt cos of 20k. She even threatened to break my office laptop (working from home) until I sent the money, after that she left........
Now she is trying to apologize so that I will pay for bed and gas and the remaining things....my brothers, I know u will say am a fool!...I accept...I am a handsome guy, studied abroad, I just don't know why loneliness made me fall in love with such a sadistic user... My only problem is, do I pay for the bed and just finish what I started or just free the whole thing and the nearly 500K I have already spent...
bigmodo: I am an As and I am getting married to an As. I love this girl so much that I am moving forward to marry her.
We have done our introduction and our traditional marriage is next month. I know the complications of an As marrying As in the issues of children they might give birth to. But I have no choice. I want to marry the love of my life.
IfeanyiTheMan: I need help. I don't know how i began loving sex so much to the point that once i hear girls screaming around my area, my body shakes and my mind thinks of evil. Also, whenever i see a girl dressed in dirty clothes, i feel my Ejiofor activate.
Although i have begun masturbation to avoid s*x, i can't help it anymore.. Feel free to Share your strange turn ons and join in the thread
By the way, what's up with Ancientbeing and scientists
“Women on dirty cloth Turn’s u on “ in order words u love mad women! This ur case critical oo .
Genset: My ex-boyfriend just me money out of the blues, should i be worried? We broke up since the beginning of the year and haven't spoken since then. All of a sudden he texted me asking for my account number and then sent me money. It's just weird.
GROUNDCHALEBOY: good morning nairaland family,my new girlfriend came to my house early this morning,she did not inform me.what happened is that she found a used condom under my bed which i used last night with a random girl,she has been crying and i felt bad.pls what should i do to make it up to her.i dont want to lose her trust respect and love.
if still trust and respect, then she is stupid ! Cos u dnt deserve it..
Modesthy: I had a good uncle who passed away three years ago. His wife morned him for one year. I lived with that my uncle until I got married and parked to my own house.
I use to visit the house sometimes. After the mourning, his wife called me and told me that I should give her more children. She has only one male child. I refused. But She said I should do it for her because she doesn't want children outside the family because she loved my uncle and our family and that she can't continue to stay with only one child.
I'm completely confused. First I'm married doing that is infidelity, sencondly, the uncle was like a father to me before his death. And I see it as a big sin.
Please somebody should help me, what do I do here? How do I handle this issue? Thanks for your candid advice.
Balogun106: Good morning nairalanders, i saw a thread this morning about a guy complaining about a little scar he has on his hand, this gives me the courage to spill out what am currently battling right now, here is my story. Please pardon my English.
My problem started about 3 week's ago, I noticed a discolorations on both sides of my chest on my brest area pricisely, it was slightly lighter than the rest of my body, i showed my friend and he said he couldn't see anything that am just over reacting, i am a very shy guy by nature. I was restless because i couldn't take off my shirt because of it.
I started doing some Google search on how to make the area slight darker to match my surrounding skin, during my Google search i found a product used mainly for vitiligo condition, but couldn't find it in any big pharmacy so i ordered it online and it arrived in 3 day's.
The instruction on the label that came with it was to apply it on affected area and expose the skin to sunlight for 1 minute, then to wait until 2 - 3 week's before repeating, but i was so desperate for results that i couldn't have such patient because i really wanted to get instant result, so i applied the liquid on my chest area which is a very small scar like a dot, and unfortunately it rolled to other areas on my chest which wasn't affected. I still foolishly went ahead and exposed the areas to the sun, i exposed it thought the sun coming through my window, i laid on my bed because it is around the window area.
I exposed my chest area from 1:13 pm - 4:00pm, the next morning i found out that the area was darker than my surrounding skin, the next day i applied bleaching cream to make it lighter, on the third day i found out it was now very reddish than my surrounding skin. I bought razor to scrape the area in other for it to peel off and for a new inner brighter skin to appear, but unfortunately it became worse because i had some slight injury from the scrape.
I was confused so i did some research on Google and found out about chemical peels, i ordered the 30% strength for 13k.... The seller warned me to text patch it on surrounding skin that isn't visible and wait for 24 hour's after seeing that it gave me no negative reaction before using it on where i intends applying it, he also warned me to dilute it in water to reduce the strength, but i was so desperate that i couldn't wait for 24 hour's to text patch it before applying it on my chest. The day i bought it i applied it same day, it also rolled over to other surrounding skin that din't got darker from the effect of the first product i applied.
The image's below are the stage by stage description of what i went through :
Please i need help and advise on what to apply and how to get my skin color back before this damage, i have been so depressed and unable to sleep this past few day's, because of this damages that i caused to myself.
Image 4, how it was before applying the first product product i bought :
Image 1, The dark skin i got a day's after applying it :
Image 2, The reddish skin and injury i got 2 day's later, after applying the bleaching cream and after using razor blade to scrape it and make the area lighter
Image 3, The instant burn i got after applying the chemical peel i bought :
be applying original honey on it , ur skin wil return to normal.
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JONNYSPUTE: .Don't pour her hot water. Let her concience judge her. Go back to your husband's house and manage with him so you don't lose your baby. Bet you can't say what her next action will be.
Tiarababy: I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.
Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.
Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.
My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.
What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.
I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.
Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.
Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?
pour her leave that house. To me is better ur look for a house ,no matter hw small for guys to manage.As far as u are in that house, u mst see things.
Micheallewis: I check my babe phone..and saw nude pictures of different guys dick...this is the girl we are planning to marry...pls what should I do..should I confront her..??..i also saw her own lap picture next to the other nude picture...i think she might have deleted her own nude she sent..but am not sure...pls what can I do
just end it, no need asking, she wil definitely deny it..
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