sonofElElyon: Generally speaking about end time prophecies of the bible including revelation which says river Euphrates will dry up .. drying up now..
Aside from that, other OT and NT books speak about end time events that have been or are being fulfilled... exhaustively treated in my 3 books.. the other 2 books being
PesinPikin84: There is no reason for him to have trust issues with me. He says that he trusts me in everything except when it comes to my career, that I will always put my career ahead of family. The only thing he can point to support this thought is me insisting on remaining in the U.S. before our marriage. Even telling him that I will join him wherever after my training changes nothing for him.
Now I doubt this has to do with you but rather he has insecurities he is projecting on to you. You need to find out from him if he experienced something in the past he is reacting unconsciously to.
PesinPikin84: Fellow nairalanders, this is a long post. Please bear with me and help me reason this issue I am having.
I am asking for advice on a family situation I am having now. I am a resident physician in the U.S. and currently in training. My husband is also a physician and is applying for training in the country I am at. He is unlikely to get a position in the same state I am in because my hospital's program is very competitive. He has worked very hard to come to be in the U.S. but his journey has not been smooth. Not too long ago, I made an agreement with him that if the U.S. does not work for him, I will finish my residency training then follow him to whatever country he decides to relocate to. I have always wanted to subspecialize, and I mentioned that I will do the subspecialty training in whatever country he is. By God's grace he will get a residency training position soon, but it will not be in the same state where my training is now.
We were having a conversation today and I mentioned that I will do everything in my power to get subspecialty training in the state he gets placement, but if I don't then I will do my one year subspecialty training anywhere I get in the U.S., then come back to wherever he is to work. He is now saying that I am going against our agreement of following him wherever he goes and bringing in the technicality that my subspecialty training is just one year. Throughout our relationship even before marriage, I have always felt like I had to prove that my family will be above my career. He brought up a fight we had when we were engaged and he was having challenges coming into the U.S. I mentioned that I really want to train in the U.S., and that I will not marry him if I don't fulfill this dream. I took his continuing with the marriage as him understanding my position about the direction I wanted my life to go, but it was after the marriage that I learned that he took it to mean that I love my career more than him or raising a family. As God will have it, he is now finally in the U.S. with me and pursuing his own dream to train here too, even thought things have not been easy.
I love my job and I want to be good at it. I don't believe that choosing to finish my training is putting my career above my family. I even told him that if I was thinking about career, then I will be thinking of the reputation of where I will do my subspecialty training over first working towards wherever he is. He said that my insisting on subspecialty training against our earlier agreement shows why he does not trust me that my family is first. The funny thing is that it is unlikely for me not to get a subspecialty position wherever he ends up in his training. My subspecialty is not something a lot of people pursue, so there are always more positions than applicants, but that is the field I love. He is insisting that if family was truly first, then I would never even consider applying to anywhere that will not be close to him. I sincerely want people's opinions because I feel that he does not trust my loyalty to building a family. I see it as just one year of training for something I really want to do, and that it is not against the initial agreement of following him to whatever country or place he is. He says I am adding something we did not talk about and changing the agreement. Am I overthinking things and am I being selfish? We don't yet have children but I fear that this talk about my career vs family will always be an issue when we do. We have been married for a year and half now. Please what are people's thoughts on this matter.
He is being over rigid on this issue. A one year training when you don't yet have kids should be very doable for you guys. Continue to talk to him to see the sense of it so you guys can be on the same page.
BTW is he suspecting you or having trust issues with you?
DamianDd: Hey guys I need help, I'm still trying to find my way in life so this is just so much for me to handle alone to the point I'm up at night writing this because I'm usually self sufficient so I don't ask for help....
I can't explain this to anyone but honestly I really do. I've recently got out of a narcissistic relationship 4 months ago and it really took a toll on me mentally that I recently realized that I've been depressed for months because my life was terrible and I was so broke to the point I was sleeping on the floor and this girl kept stressing the life out of me trying to tell her to not do this and not do that even still gaslighting me and painting me as an abusive person to our mutual friends and I don't tell people my relationship issues so I never for once told anybody anything about my relationship but she told everyone we knew about whatever happened in our relationship.
The breakup wasn't even official she just started avoiding me and I just left her be because I was already tired and stressed out from the life challenges I was facing at home both me and family even after telling her I scrapped my last funds to assist my dad in paying our house rent. I don't want to make it look like she's the cause of my problems because I like taking responsibility for my life not anybody else but I can't help the fact but realize that I changed so much that for the past months I've been trying to find myself and it's like depression has become my new identity
Even my close friend treated me like I was a nuisance by avoiding me when I was at my lowest point after the breakup even after being with him through his own hard times, doing things for him, giving him my clothes and even buying things for him, I've been angry and tired for months but I kept going to make money before the end of the year and I'm doing so well now and I've made money.
I no longer sleep on the floor, I no longer use my old phone that was stressing my life [I bought a new one so I use two], I'm fatter and more healthier, I'm no longer friends with those guys anymore, I'm no longer hard on myself by using hateful words on me, I'm trying to correct the aspects I did wrong in my last relationship and trying to learn healthy communication, I'm practicing self love by working on my skin, face and photo skills since I'm more of the introvert, I'm really handsome now as I can say to the point that I get 2 matches daily on tinder (that's if I'm active on there but I barely even use the app) and I'm trying to regain and even better myself but I'm exhausted, I'm weak and I feel no resolve to do anything.
I tried having sex recently but my third leg... it didn't get up and then I realized that through those dark times it was p*rn that kept me going, anytime I felt too sad or angry I would watch hardcore p*rn and rub one off then sleep and wake up the next day and start grinding. Now I've been sober from porn and masturbation for 13 days and I don't have plans on watching p*rn anymore since that night I realized it couldn't get up.
Initially I've started feeling so well about myself but it doesn't last, only just few hours before I'm back in a state of sadness, it's like depression became my identity. I can't even watch self improvement video anymore like I used to and feel motivated because I just feel so tired, I'm tired and sometimes when I think about the past I feel rage but I throw it away and think of something else because my rage when I was dating that girl was so bad I started questioning myself that maybe I was abusive, maybe I'm actually toxic that even when I try to fix things in the process of fixing it I'll get gaslighted and I'll let it get to me and throw another rage fit again so I couldn't understand because I hardly react to things, I was very calm and positive before I met her, people loved my presence it just changed.
I'm sad, I know men aren't supposed to be sad but I am. I didn't cry, I didn't tell anybody about this but I know I need help. I'm supposed to be working to meet up the goals I have for this year but when I pick up my phone to work I just can't, I just find something to eat and sleep and when I wake up I'm still tired. Give me advice I'm slacking off I know I am
At 18 girlfriend should not be a priority for you. Your education should be your main focus. Have female friends if you wish but girlfriend should be on the back-burner.
Kobojunkie: I don't need to busy myself with any of that as that is the lawyers job to do. There have been cases of women successfully fighting similar cases in that same Nigeria.
I mean under what section of the law would such a case be brought? You think there is a law that a wife can use to compel her husband to pay school fees and buy food?
Kobojunkie: First, she would need to prove she is legally married to the man in question, I think. Second, she would need to get herself a lawyer, and maybe even an investigator to look into the case. In the meantime, she should begin gathering as much evidence as possible to help her side of the case fight.
Aemmyjah: Same thing you said earlier until I dropped a screenshot
You have not addressed that comment in the screenshot, you have rather been lying about what I said. Nor have you provided evidence of the so called stone.
Where in the screenshot did I say you need to produce who found the stone? Where in the screenshot did I say just one archeological evidence is insignificant? Stop lying.
PDPGuy: The Minnesota Supreme Court has REJECTED a request to bar former President Donald Trump from the 2024 (Primary) ballot under the U.S. Constitution's insurrection clause
To me this was a long shot given that he has not been ruled as being guilty of insurrection.
basilico: The far left hate Israel. They are the ones demonstrating in support of Hamas. Obama is to the furthest if the left, he speaks vaguely. Yes Obama does not necessarily support Hamas but he does hate Israel.To rephrase this. I have no proof that Obama does not support Hamas. So no placards by Michelle Obama to bring back American hostages. But we also know Obama released 5 high level Taliban for an army deserter. These Taliban some are now cabinet ministers in Afghanistan. He gave billions to Iran to release a hostage after slow walking.He was unable to bring a peace process in ME unlike Trump. He lives in America and wants to dictate to Israel on how to achieve peace. He did this by coddling Abu Mazen with billions of dollars and pressuring Israel to acquiesce to PLO.
As usual interpreting what was clearly laid out into your twisted hateful narrative.
I have no evidence that you are not a Hamas supporter using a sock puppet account to spread hate. Let me rephrase maybe you are a Hamas supporter spreading hate via a sock puppet account but I don't have evidence so I am just going to believe you are a Hamas supporter spreading hate via a sock puppet account.
basilico: I'm not expecting her to shed tears for Israelis. Obama is cold to Israel, he seems to support Arabs instead, Bowing before their king and Michelle Obama covering her hair with a head bag. Trump got red carpet, sold them big amount of arms, Melania never put on a hijab to please the hosts. Trump got them talking to Israel. While Obama supported a UN resolution that the Wailing Wall is Muslim shrine. Apparently a horse from Saudi Arabia was tethered to Mazar e Shariff. I think you know what I'm implying.
Aemmyjah: Even if i told you the name of the person, you'll ask me of the address Bwahahahahaha
I don't need to because you can't even provide the evidence of this stone. Tomorrow you'll say it was something you heard somewhere but you expect us to accept it as true. Bring the evidence or STFU. LoLz.
Yes use my laugh, its evidence that at least I taught you something. LMAO!
Aemmyjah: Sorry for lying against you They found it in my dog's cage Even when you see evidence, you ask stupid questions Maybe you'll ask me the name of the person that found the stone
LoLz. You must always turn into a rabid dog when asked to produce evidence. Which evidence did you produce that I saw you shameless liar? Yes what is the name of the person that found the stone you miserable liar.
samsononyilo: You're right... I'm a tailor and also studying.
Focus on your studies and work and stop obsessing over that girl. With time those feelings leave as long as you aren't giving energy to those thoughts.
UrMomsBabyBoy: I don’t argue with atheists. Una no dey get sense normally. You lot are the morons who think the universe started with a random bang out of nowhere 😂😅
Sure. It's more sensible to believe in a universe creating god that plays hide and seek while leaving his creations to the whims of his enemy who is also playing hide and seek. It's not hard to see why you don't want to argue. LMFAO!
Aemmyjah: 2. Oga, there is archeological evidence to Abraham and not just any man named Abraham but it supports something he did in the Bible when he bore his former name, Abram. I even showed LordReed, he could not deny it. He simply said that just one archeological evidence is insignificant. So, go and find the evidence for yourself
You don carry my name lie again. Quote my response to that piece of archaeological finding.
BTW where did they find this so called stone with field of Abram written on it?
basilico: I have not heard of a rallying cry save for " free Palestine" and "from the river to the sea" Oh wait. Another one would be let aid convoys through .Despite no food, water , electricity the world's largest open air prisoners are still firing rockets . These rockets are tipped with birthday cakes and flowers, please note they do not target Israel Arabs.They have inbuilt AI.
So you are complaining that Michelle Obama has not held up any sign for a non-existent rallying cry? Do you even reason?
basilico: Rallying cry is From the River to the sea, free Palestine. Know the latent meaning of that? Ask Tlaib. The Adhan according to Obama is one of the prettiest sounds on earth Investigate further and learn that Neil Armstrong heard it while on the moon's surface So yeah Obama call for ceasefire is double speak and has people who clearly understood what he meant.His statement was like a dog whistle.
My question again: What is the rallying cry like Bring Back Our Girls that has sprung up around the American and Israeli hostages in Gaza?
UrMomsBabyBoy: Read your Bible. The Devil rules the earth. That’s why it is left to Christian’s to seek God or be doomed here on earth and the afterlife.
Ahh right, the devil rules the earth and yet we are still surprised that the devil holds sway. Almost as if you don't believe your own BS. LoLz.
Christianity Etc › Re: The Future Revealed In An Instant! John's Apocalypse Decoded! by LordReed(m): 9:21am On Nov 10, 2023
