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Wisefellow
Dont mind those mature fellows talking nonsense to you.

It is good for a man to be lowly and simple sometimes. Your Hide and seek story made me laugh.

All these are the consequences of his pride, as pride goes before the fall.

Instead of him to eat his money codedly, his hunger for fame - glory and honour (praises) has brought him down.

Many fools still don't want to learn and have sense

chinchonglee:
Then when he discovered, why didn't he divorce her sorry ass?

Divorce is hard when children are already involve. HIV has increase among the youth everywhere. Immediate most people find out that they have AIDS, they just continue with their life of spreading it.

Kiasa:
Sometimes harshness is imperative.

Please note that, we black Africans do not hate our black american brothers out there. Whatever you read here on this forum is just one man opinion.

The only diference between a black Nigerian and a black american, is their culture. Even I, myself cannot relate with African culture.

Only an insane person will hate people of other race.

Only person that lack love will hate his fellow human

hosemujica:
That last one na coco. Thats why most guys want a child before they even say yes these days .

Na so
I will taste before I pay

siofra:
Instead of these men to own up to their crimes they still find a way to pin it on women. Una sure say this una Nigeria go better like this?

What about the women that do prostitution abroad?

siofra

I was wondering if you copy and paste this or the write up is your own experience.

If I may ask you, what about the Nigeria women that are prostituting and disgracing Nigeria abroad?

chinchonglee:
Men are fools sha..
How did your husband got married to you when he knows you are HIV positive?

A woman wouldn't do that if reverse was the case.
My gender tho!

It seem like the man did not know at first because we humans can't see aids with our eyes.

citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.

Those people are more of a problem to one'e peace of mind, so nor invest your time and heart on them

That is why baby mama plus will go for me

TheRareGem1:
The last administration made a very wrong move, such move is frustrating this Administration's effort in the energy sector, you don't sell energy to incompetence fellows just because they are your friends, those ones handled it the way they like, liquidated Skye Bank in the process and here we are, the FG is rectifying these problems.

Though electricity has improved compared to how it was in the last 16 years, the foresightedness of our leader to bringing solar especially for the people who are not connected to national grid is a good initiative. The caping regulation signed by Mr. P too is superb.

Prof. Osinbajo, who was represented by the Special Assistant to the President on Infrastructure, Engr. Ahmad Zakari, noted that government would be investing over $3 billion in the coming years to improve transmission and distribution infrastructure across the country.

People like you re one of the.main reason why I desire to leave Nigeria

How has electricity improve for the last 16 years?

Havr you been living in Nigeria for the last 16 years? I ask because I am not sure

Kiasa:
You people are very arrogant, ignorant, biggoted and envious of Black Americans. SMH it hurts you to your core that they are living better than you are.

Mrs.
You are being to hash
Calm down

Elliot2:
Don't be stupid! Everything you enjoy now as a black man in America today was made possible by tears and blood of the black Americans. They fought for the freedom and recognition as humans you now enjoy today. Be grateful!

Your ancestors did well. May God comfort the wounded soul

Bodyodour

Because a man find your mother attractive that is why men are the problem of men abi?

You even come here to report the man

ChizzyBuna

I understand your annoyance towards those cry black babies. Many times I do wonder why majority of the African americans behave the way they do. Just watch any black american movies, you will hate their life style.

Despite all the opportunities that sorround them, they still keep crying like babies that need to be fed

jesusjnr2020:
Not all plants planted in the church were planted by God.

Some were planted by men, some by the devil.

But Jesus said, "every plant that my Father has not planted shall be uprooted!" Matthew 15:13

God bless.

You are very right. Even our Lord Jesus talks about the enemy will come to sow tares among the seed. I do not want to go into scriptures, but I totally agree with you

It is good if you hide a bit of your personality when finding a woman, but the downside it that you might easily loss the person you desire as most women of today are more of materialistic

They love what they see around you

Explicit02:
Pastors can be employed after being ordained by God ...... Not all pastor will own a church you can be a pastor and work under a big church

Those whom God has called as pastors to preach the gospel are not employed by men. God Himself has ordain and planted them somewhere to bear much fruit

Those winners preachers were sacked because they are church workers

Ilamina:
Read the first page

I am tired of explaining

I read the first page but I didnt see any much info

Ilamina:
Yet they aren't even rich like america

Canada is rich, why America is in heir prime time.

Why are you comparing america with Canada? I even value Canada than america

Ilamina:
They support their men so much

I remember seeing one Igbo woman admiring and complimenting a deltan woman. She said, they who are Igbo's are thought up to depend on their husband

Pastors Can Not Be Employed, They Are Ordain By God -


I came across a thread of how some certain numbers of pastors was sacked and I see many ignorant folks quoting scriptures that they were sacked because they failed to bear fruits.

The word Himself (John 15:1) said, I am the real vine and my father is the gardener. He breaks off every branch in me that does not bear fruit, and he prunes every branch that does bear fruit, so that it will be clean. See, God was talking about trials here, when you are fulfilling your purpose here on earth, God will prune you by purifying you through many years of trials and suffering to make you spiritually clean, so that you can bear more fruit and fufill more of your purpose.

(John 15:5)
I am the vine and you are the branches. Those who remain in me and I in them, will bear much fruit; for you can do nothing without me. With deeper understanding, you will see that (John 15:1-5) is linked to (Romans 8:29)

Bearing fruit has to do with God knowing and predestination, and it is only God that fore knew and predestine. I may be employed to do a certain work under a man but that doesn't mean the job I am employed to do is my destiny which is God calling. God can call you to be a doctor, a nurse, a scientist, a banker, care-giver, teacher, pastor, prophet, an artist or a musician, etc, base on God's fore knowledge.

See,
Christianity is not about gathering the crowd to your satisfaction, bearing fruit is not about the crowd. I remember when God warn His late prophet about the crowd and they began to ask God for wisdom to select those who will be allowed to come inside the church hall. Christianity is much more than what many of you think or expect. I say this because of what I have seen spiritually and physically.

You cannot root a three from somewhere and plant that tree at the location of your choice and expect it to bear your own fruits. A mango tree cannot bring fort apple. An almond tree cannot bear guava fruit, and every fruit has its own location and seasons.

Even If they employed and sack their employees, it is their own business and that shouldn't be much of my concern, but my purpose for this write up is that, I just want my belove readers to know that, pastors are not employed, they are ordain by God

I repeat; pastors are not employed, they are ordain (planted) by God, who is the gardener.

Ilamina:
What should I do

I am getting scared
.
I wanna move out

All because I was saying hello to my friend from the balcony

While there were at the their own balcony

My white neighbor are giving me attitude. What attitude? You didnt even sharenmore light and you are seeking advice

LagosNissan

It is good you hide a bit of your personality when finding a woman, but the downside it that you might easily loss the person you desire as most women of today are more of materialistic

They love what they see around you

Vinnie2000:
Hmmm..
Dat your niece is something else..

It's either she fell in love with an older Guy when she was Little e.g 7,8yrs
Was Disvirgined n sexed by one..
Or She is a Sugar Daddy Lover who likes Big Cash/Expensive items..

because how will a 20yr old Girl say her age range for dating is 35-40?
30 yr old is even Small for Her..

Oga, Better monitor dat Niece pls..

She is not a materialistic person, they dont allow her to even go out to party. When it comes to how she lost her virginity, I cannot testify to that

I acknowledge that most of the girls that are attracted to mature guys are disvirgin by mature guys.

Amuochicha:
I hate men

Chenkess, why you hate us?

ebijimi7

You relationship was built on a wrong foundation (money)

You started it the wrong way with money

Dont call much, dont give her money for one month and see who she really is

Cutestboy:
Long story to cut short, I dated this girl for about a year now. Though she has been supporting but I think am fed up, because she always demand from me every time.

So you want to keep eating her for free?

Candycrushy

I have a 20 years old niece who told me she cannot date a 30 years old guy. She told me her list is 35 to 40 years old.

What do you think?

mario22:
Exactly. Mine can be a sweet lady but whenever she vex. You can’t talk to her without her walking away even if you ain’t the cause of her anger. She can say I am not going out again at maybe she was dressing up and may request me to buckle her zip n I might not respond immediately. Scattering our hangout plans. It’s killing

MARIO
This your relationship and fiancee almost look like my ex in character but a bit different. The first time I started conversing with my ex I could see the red flag (anger). Like I told you before, it was impossible for me to be at peace with her. She constantly keep lieing and if I refuse to believe her lies, she get mad at me for not believing her. She will vex with me even in her own wrong attitude. She knew I am gentle and calm in nature, It became impossible for me to correct her. It was impossible for me to talk out frustration with her as she will vex and walk away from me, she did this until I became tired.

She refuse to tidy my apartment when I ask her to, she refuse to cook for me but continously eat the food I cook. She vexes any how and constantly walk away from me. One day I tried to talk to her in my place but she pick her bag and walk away. About two weeks later, I went to meet her to plead with her to be considerate and that we should talk but she told me she has started dating someone new, and that it is too late. I wish her farewell with her new guy (boyfriend) she had left me for.

After about two months, she began to see my worth and value and tried to come back of which I refuse. She called and called and later came to my place, it was almost like a fight but I plainly told her it was over. Even in her approach of coming back, she was even trying to use anger and fight .

This reason for this long story is that, as much as I badly wanted to tell you to end your relationship with your fiancee, I just cannot because

1. You are deeply in love with her.

2. I cannot see her future, if she is the right person for you, but to be honest I must tell you that, her anger and conflict nature is very dangerous to your well being and to your future.

MY ADVICE

If you want, you can end this your toxic relationship and cry once, because it is better now than to cry daily in future

Never ever try to end a relationship using anger. I say this because out of anger I ended that toxic relationahip and venture into another relationshi with a new young lady that nealy destroyed me. This new relationship nearly cost me my life if not for God intervention that save me from the daughterof the devil.

Please, use patient and wisdom when ending a relationship

AS FOR ME
I am hoping and praying that God will help me to fall in love a woman that love peace and harmony.

Amen

Promzy99:
Guy dis is no joke. Am nt a sex freak, but she commends me to be d best guy she had eva had sex with. I tink dia is sumtin beyond what am reasoning.

I believe what you say.

Definitely she wants you to be a sex machine and this can be a deal breaker in her relationship.

It might be that she has spirit of lust, that is why she is full of lust, and this will always makes her hor-ny and want constant sex.

95% of women have this spirit of lust in them because of their past previous life style.

Please NOTE that too much sex is not good for your career

Promzy99
In America, people do two jobs to get along. You can add this new job by Masturbating her daily to give her a release.

I am sure you are not making her to cum, she need to cum to be satisfied.

A spirit of lust can also make a person crave for continuous sex.

Do the maths tu na tion

Mystery9:
You don't go to church on Sunday and you are happy? Keep on judging without looking at yourself. Have you not read 2Tim 3:1-3 and Hebrew 10:25?

My relationship with Jesus is much more better since the day I stop going to church. What makes you think I am judging pastors?

Are you a pastor or a preacher?

Can you mention to me the name of the pastor that I judge?

I created a thread where I condemn the extreme wickedness of Nigeria police, you didnt quote me for judging them

I created a thread where I condemn the extreme tribalism mentality of Nigerians, you didnt quote me for judging my country men.

I created a thread where I call many religious nairalanders a hypocrite, you didnt quote me for judging them

I created many thread where I heavily condemn the selfish and stupid character of Nigeria women, you didnt quote me for judging women

I created a thread where I condemn the evil characters of members of my own house-hold, you didnt quote me for judging my family members

I created this thread where I shared my view over pastors and preachers, now you quoting me with scriptures of judging others.

Late General T.b Joshua opened a church with no branches, yet he touch many lifes and heal millions of souls. You and your fellow pastors open thounsands of church branches but yet millions are still suffering in sickness.

I asked you again, Are You a pastor ?

Can you answer me?