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Uptheante:
Whenever you meet a Nigerian girl, assume she's a hoe already once she's not a virgin.
Bang your own share of her pussy while searching for a true virgin, then dump her ass without thinking twice, immediately you have replaced her with a virgin.
No matter what you do & no matter how changed she claims to be, that guy that disvirgined her will occupies a special place in her heart that you can never erase. He'll still Bleep her anytime he wants bcoz his imprint is in her.
And let me remind you, he's not the only person to have fuucked her. There may still be other niggas that have fuucked & are still bleeping her even while you are in relationship with her.
A determined & secret investigation by you will give you all the info you need.
That girl will only tell you what will not provoke you into breaking up with her & not the truth, that's why the onus is on you to make secret investigations about her.

However, if you are a 'real man' & don't care about her past or whatever she's doing or has done, then you can go ahead and marry her without batting an eyelid.

Thanks for your input!

Forget that real man thing, it's one of their manipulation tactics.

What you said about the guy that disvirgined her and all that is one of the strongest reasons I want a tear rubber.

For that secret investigation, how do I go about it?

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
you will end up getting tokunbo virgin

I want tear rubber abeg o 😂

Dabronze:
If you are mature enough I think you should have experience on what you are looking for in woman

There are a lot .of things that are still.important to your personality aside woman virginty
Have you find your purpose in life

As a man you need to understand the true fact that life doesn't fair to you

So I should go pickup a girl that has been bbannged mercilessly and marry?

LIVINGICONREBOR:
Don't let anyone sway you from settling down with a virgin. You know what u want and u must go for it. Don't ever settle for less. As for that girl, u know what to do.

Thanks.

My soul won't stop troubling me if I should settle for less

OKUCHI11:
Dat storyline no just add... Somebody dey pound her every now and then...

My heart agrees that she's telling the truth, but my head no gree at all.

How can I find out?

otipoju:
A Virginia will want to explore after a while. No human being will want to have only one sexual partner all his or her live.

Once she starts,she won't stop exploring. Pray to marry a peace loving and reasonable partner with good conscience and minimal drama.

I tend to disagree.

Except it's those that were caged. Like were monitored from class to house and all that.

I know of successful virgin marriages that peace abounds

efficiencie:
If she is sexually pure (has abstained from illicit sex), pious, has a plan for her life, is loyal and submissive, then you have a wife. As for you, I hope you are a true husband. If you don't know what it means to lead, to sacrifice your pleasures for others, to be sexually pure, to be God fearing and to have a plan for your life then you will be a terrible husband. So do the needful.

I need to dig deep about her sexual purity.

Just that I have no practical clues on how to go about it.

Apart from asking her which I already did, do you know of any ways to find out

cvarinzechukwu:
Looking for virgin in NIGERIA is like looking for a rare commodity

I remember the other man that created a thread on January about looking for a virgin said that ended up marrying at the age of 43

But the marriage lasted only few months

There are very far far more successful marriages where the man met his wife a virgin.



Just that the world is changing

Victor2707:
Mr. Nice Guy, that girl has been sexually active.

She is playing you big time.

Virginity doesn't make a girl good. It only makes her bond with you sexually.

If she truly desires you, she will have sex with you with no conditions.

You are just the available guy for her at the moment.

When the owner of the pu*sy comes, she will go without thinking twice.

Date/Marry women that want sex with you.

Be Wise.

Thanks for this piece.

I'll ponder on it

torqque7:
My brother I know how you feel,getting married to a virgin is great and will always make the man value her if he is a reasonable man.However some cheat in the marriage or long run and same also goes for non virgins cheating too, because my ex ,na me disvirgin am and I valued her and respected her more than almost all other exes of mine, until she cheated so last last we all hope and pray to marry a Virgin that will be a good wife. We can also settle for a good non virgin too but we WONT place her on the same respect level as we would have if she is a good virgin. I wish you luck sha.

Ignore all these females making fun of you because you want a virgin..they are pained because they will NEVER EVER truly have that respect from their man or husbands that would be given to a virgin. No be you ask them to go dey mount different cockks for their life so don’t mind them with all their sarcastic responses to you and your story. Virgins will always be the NUMBER 1,most reasonable men will ALWAYS want a Virgin for a wife if they had the choice to pick. I mean who will want an Old used car compared to a brand NEW TEAR RUBBER? It’s a no brainer.

Bravo!!

You spoke well. I'll have to keep my options open and throw my net into the sea for more, hoping I'll get a handful that passes the first criteria then settle down and select like a King

Sonnobax15:

Op, you should be happy that you've found a very homely banny according to your write up....... Well,I used to have similar principle like you not until I realized that some dreams will always end up as mere dreams especially in a country like ours where virgins have become a very scarce commodity

That's the sad truth.

Fantasy and reality are mostly different

Savedday2:
Marrying a 9ja girl is high way to the grave. Virgin or nonvirgin dey are all the same .. Oloshio is their real name

Comrade it's true o.

But what should we do?

Those of us that wants to build a family like our parents and forefathers.

It's getting stranger daily

JovialJune:
So many immature people getting married these days, no wonder divorce rates are extremely high.

Divorce rates are high because people no longer want to keep themselves chaste before marriage all in the name of freedom.

When they get married they start comparing their spouse to the numerous individuals they have slept with in the past.

A305:
My guy:

Sex first before relationship.

If you commit to her without sex, she has that leverage over you and risk hoarding sex till after marriage or worst still, manipulate you with it.


Your first show of weakness is letting her know you deeply in love with her. And now you want to adhere to NO SEX. Dude wake up.

Listen Son. After sex and the post-nut clarity, you would make better decision to be with her or not.

True.

You have valid points.

You already know My next target

Autobot05:
First things first .. there is nothing like soulmate .
You both have to put effort to make it work .

Offence no 2: mr rough past... are you a virgin ?

Make i nor go far make e nor be like say i dey spoil the girl show but she could be lying yunno

The virginity test is for females not males.

They come with a seal

TreasureJunky:
When you think of marriage, virgin should be the least thing to think about. Being a virgin is not a guarantee for a happy home. Character and homeliness, plus other good qualities should be your priority. What if she's a virgin but not well behaved.
Virgin is good, but it doesn't make a good wife material

She has all these good qualities already.

And besides the chances of a virgin remaining faithful is very high than a girl that has been entered countless times by different folks.

Tayorshd87:
Is like u are a kid too 🤣

I guess since she is 23 maybe u are 15 cos ur level of thinking Abt Virginity as a criteria to marry is something else mtheew

I'm 7 , not 15.

On a serious note, my soul just can't accept settling down with a lady that's not a virgin

GboyegaD:
If she's everything you want in a woman, don't let her non virgin status affect you provided you have enough information about her past and you are comfortable with it.

My soul just can't accept that.

That's just the number one criteria, like a prequsite to other factors

kkins25:
😂 😂 😂

My fellow man.. First, if you're not a virgin, you have no right to be demanding virgin pkekus.

second, If she succumb to you because you were pressuring her, then bro, you just shot yourself in the foot. Na your type they need to do Paternity test because, guys like me who don't pressurize are the ones knacking your wifes for backstage,and giving you our children to raise..😂 😂 😂

Mr pressure cooker! You better start to remove love.. and open your eyes.

I don't really get you.

If a girl falls too easily, we term her to be cheap.

So what do you mean by you don't pressurize them

Dogalmighty17:
Borehole come dey claim virgin again? Why are you allowing that girl run you format? Your woman has been dickmatized severally by different men. Once a woman has tasted the D she wants to keep tasting it. No allow anybody use you play. Chop your own then free her for the long line of dicks waiting.

That's my fear.

It's like I'll still keep an eye on her like running background checks.

At the meantime, I've started looking for more suitable candidates to match at least the virginity criteria

shortgun:

Should we tell him?

I've thought of all possibilities.

However, it seems like I've been following my head too much.

My heart is just weak that's why I don't want to follow it

KOMZYLEE:
Virgin! Is that all you really want in a woman?
Cos things don spoil pass that level

Not all I want. But the unlock code to other characteristics

dawnomike:
Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness.

I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him.

Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation

This one is strong o.

10 years?

The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner.

It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such.

So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin

Geniemoi01:
She lied to you. She has been sexually active withun those years, buh because you are chasing she hasto play the giod chaste girl card for you so that she'll look worthy in your eyes. My guy, If you have the opportunity to go through her phone, you'll die of shock. You better be extra careful.

I thought of this too.

ukaface:
Keep looking for virgin
Don’t settle for less

Where will I find Them

I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

How much is amstel

koladata:
do it raw , then post how to solve your std problem later

I hope and pray no std 😭🥶

galantjoe:
You can practice withdrawal method
Drink enough water before each round, so that once you are about to cum withdraw your prick and ejaculate on your bedsheets. Then go to toilet to urinate, use your urine to wash your prick.

Washing prick with own urine immediately after sxx help to prevent some infection

I wish.


My head was full and cloudy.
All these things no come my mind.