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JovialJune:
So many immature people getting married these days, no wonder divorce rates are extremely high.

Divorce rates are high because people no longer want to keep themselves chaste before marriage all in the name of freedom.

When they get married they start comparing their spouse to the numerous individuals they have slept with in the past.

A305:
My guy:

Sex first before relationship.

If you commit to her without sex, she has that leverage over you and risk hoarding sex till after marriage or worst still, manipulate you with it.


Your first show of weakness is letting her know you deeply in love with her. And now you want to adhere to NO SEX. Dude wake up.

Listen Son. After sex and the post-nut clarity, you would make better decision to be with her or not.

True.

You have valid points.

You already know My next target

Autobot05:
First things first .. there is nothing like soulmate .
You both have to put effort to make it work .

Offence no 2: mr rough past... are you a virgin ?

Make i nor go far make e nor be like say i dey spoil the girl show but she could be lying yunno

The virginity test is for females not males.

They come with a seal

TreasureJunky:
When you think of marriage, virgin should be the least thing to think about. Being a virgin is not a guarantee for a happy home. Character and homeliness, plus other good qualities should be your priority. What if she's a virgin but not well behaved.
Virgin is good, but it doesn't make a good wife material

She has all these good qualities already.

And besides the chances of a virgin remaining faithful is very high than a girl that has been entered countless times by different folks.

Tayorshd87:
Is like u are a kid too 🤣

I guess since she is 23 maybe u are 15 cos ur level of thinking Abt Virginity as a criteria to marry is something else mtheew

I'm 7 , not 15.

On a serious note, my soul just can't accept settling down with a lady that's not a virgin

GboyegaD:
If she's everything you want in a woman, don't let her non virgin status affect you provided you have enough information about her past and you are comfortable with it.

My soul just can't accept that.

That's just the number one criteria, like a prequsite to other factors

kkins25:
😂 😂 😂

My fellow man.. First, if you're not a virgin, you have no right to be demanding virgin pkekus.

second, If she succumb to you because you were pressuring her, then bro, you just shot yourself in the foot. Na your type they need to do Paternity test because, guys like me who don't pressurize are the ones knacking your wifes for backstage,and giving you our children to raise..😂 😂 😂

Mr pressure cooker! You better start to remove love.. and open your eyes.

I don't really get you.

If a girl falls too easily, we term her to be cheap.

So what do you mean by you don't pressurize them

Dogalmighty17:
Borehole come dey claim virgin again? Why are you allowing that girl run you format? Your woman has been dickmatized severally by different men. Once a woman has tasted the D she wants to keep tasting it. No allow anybody use you play. Chop your own then free her for the long line of dicks waiting.

That's my fear.

It's like I'll still keep an eye on her like running background checks.

At the meantime, I've started looking for more suitable candidates to match at least the virginity criteria

shortgun:

Should we tell him?

I've thought of all possibilities.

However, it seems like I've been following my head too much.

My heart is just weak that's why I don't want to follow it

KOMZYLEE:
Virgin! Is that all you really want in a woman?
Cos things don spoil pass that level

Not all I want. But the unlock code to other characteristics

dawnomike:
Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness.

I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him.

Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation

This one is strong o.

10 years?

The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner.

It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such.

So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin

Geniemoi01:
She lied to you. She has been sexually active withun those years, buh because you are chasing she hasto play the giod chaste girl card for you so that she'll look worthy in your eyes. My guy, If you have the opportunity to go through her phone, you'll die of shock. You better be extra careful.

I thought of this too.

ukaface:
Keep looking for virgin
Don’t settle for less

Where will I find Them

I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.

She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.

She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.

She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.

We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.

As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.

The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.

What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?

She later left and we became really close from then.

I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.

I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.

So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.

She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.

She was 19 years then.

Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.

She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.

Now she's 23.

The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.

My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.

Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin?

Or should I continue with her?

I'm planning to see her people this December.

How much is amstel

koladata:
do it raw , then post how to solve your std problem later

I hope and pray no std 😭🥶

galantjoe:
You can practice withdrawal method
Drink enough water before each round, so that once you are about to cum withdraw your prick and ejaculate on your bedsheets. Then go to toilet to urinate, use your urine to wash your prick.

Washing prick with own urine immediately after sxx help to prevent some infection

I wish.


My head was full and cloudy.
All these things no come my mind.

Gee64:
The narrow way to regrets is sweet.

True 😰

falcon01:
Get a Blow Jab and sleep!

That one they they always talked about led to another that night.

😥

SyrusdeHansome:
I can spend a night with a girl without sex so u can also do it. But on a second thought, this is why every guy must always have a cd at home. Never run out of it. It will save us all frm so many vices

That's the rule bro.

But the devil waits patiently for you to looseguard, then knack you hard 😥

illicit:
Ask her if she came with condoms nah

Too late 😰

She's not that kind of girl

Manigie:
Discipline yourself bro.... if you ain't got condoms, don't risk it, before you go regretting it the rest of your life....

Anyway, that's me sha....

Konji na baerstarrd 🥵

😥

Update guys.


The summary is that never keep a goat and yam in the same place.

And don't enter kitchen if you can't stand the heat.

Me that swear never to enter raw especially after reading all that's happening on nairaland front page.

Now I've been restless ever since, calling her all the time.

I pray she doesn't get pregnant and I don't want any yanmayanma to enter me o 🥵

Konji na baerstarrd!!! 😰

Please she came since 4pm and when she was about to go rain started.

I thought the rain would stop raining.

Now I have no intention of touching her but the weather is not smiling 🥶

The big issue here is that I don't have condoms with me and can't go out.

The rain isn't stopping and but it's still it looks like she'll sleep over unplanned. Scared of diving in raw 🥶

NotAMan:
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This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

See the bolded?

That's where the problem all started from.

When you give a child full liberty to do anyhow without correcting them, they think of more ways to use that liberty and this leads to abuse of freedom.

It causes see finish and they start dealing with you.

However, if you induct that discipline in them, their mind would be conditioned in such a way not to offend you because they would be scared of the repacautions.

So it is with women.

No matter how you love her, you need to stamp your authority over her.

Once in awhile, pick up fault with her for her wrong doings and talk really harsh to her and threaten her.

Just do something that will let her know you won't take shii. (No beat her o!)

With this, she won't ever dream about flinging your boxers away, not to talk of burning them!

It would be hard to tame her now, but you can still do it.

Women needs love from her man,

While you the man needs respect.


Women are weird differently o.

Be showing her love up and down, she'll start misbehaving.


The best approach is carrot and stick method.

Show her love small, then show her small shege.😂😂

NotAMan:
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This woman is making me shed tears and becoming afraid of her at the same time. I have never beaten, talk bad or hurt her in anyway and she shouldn't push me.

See the bolded?

That's where the problem all started from.

When you give a child full liberty to do anyhow without correcting them, they think of more ways to use that liberty and this leads to abuse of freedom.

It causes see finish and they start dealing with you.

However, if you induct that discipline in them, their mind would be conditioned in such a way not to offend you because they would be scared of the repacautions.

So it is with women.

No matter how you love her, you need to stamp your authority over her.

Once in awhile, pick up fault with her for her wrong doings and talk really harsh to her and threaten her.

Just do something that will let her know you won't take shii. (No beat her o!)

With this, she won't ever dream about flinging your boxers away, not to talk of burning them!

It would be hard to tame her now, but you can still do it.

Women needs love from her man,

While you the man needs respect.


Women are weird differently o.

Be showing her love up and down, she'll start misbehaving.


The best approach is carrot and stick method.

Show her love small, then show her small shege.😂😂

Mayorofodemu:
Go to your bank or any bank of your choice. Or search for bank that has higher interest rate that would benefit you. And visit that bank. They explain will how to get it done

Thanks

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