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BusinessRe: GTBank Is Opening Unsolicited Bank Accounts For Unsuspecting Customers Unawares by Loversminds: 3:55pm On Aug 10, 2019
It could be the work of their marketer trying to meet target
PoliticsRe: Meet Zulfat Suara Running For An At-large Seat On Metro Council, Nashville US by Loversminds: 4:22pm On Aug 08, 2019
I love her confidence
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage Twerking While Performing On Stage, Nigerians Blast Her by Loversminds: 9:50pm On Aug 04, 2019
Mute mood
RomanceReal Guy Versus Fake Guy In A Relationship by Loversminds(op): 5:33pm On Aug 04, 2019
Are you thinking of going into a relationship but scared of falling into the hand a fake guy? Or you have been in a relationship before and it ends because you discovered he doesn’t truly loves you and you don’t want to fall victim again.

There are different ways to identify fake guys due to the kinds of attributes they possess. At times fake guy could try to be a like real guy, but if you are observant and love with your brain you will easily detect the kind of person he is.

Real men have discipline, self-control, and respect for their lovers while those that can’t help themselves with all these features are fake men.

Real guy versus Fake guy in a relationship
1. Real guys are reserved
Most real guys don’t attract ladies because of their nature. Ladies love guys who are romantic and can pester them with sweet words.

But real guys lack the strength of pestering to get what they want even though they genuinely love but they lack the skill of sweet words to trick women. They are naturally cool, reserved and committed which make them best husband and dad.

2. Fake men are like complicated breed
Fake men can also be called broken men. A broken man is like complicated breed who can’t help himself with feelings, he is unable to control his emotions. He goes through motion of wanting to be in a relationship, but without any zeal and commitment.

Broken man can chase you for months or years to win your heart, he would be so happy and please you with anything you want in this world, but not for long because he will feel empty again.

Then, he will start going around looking for another girl to chase. He can never be satisfied, he is like cracked cup that can’t get full with water.

3. Fake guy can overwhelm you with love
A fake guy can go any length to show you deceit love just for you to fall into his trap, and you will be thinking that you have seen the love of your life.

Avoid being deceived by the love of a fake man, he is like a slow poison that drains life out of it victim. You can never enjoy marriage with a fake man, he can’t help himself that is how he was made.

However, being his wife may sound easy, but it takes a lot of work, sacrifice, putting other needs above your own and practicing patience which man of such doesn’t deserve.

4. Real guy may not satisfy all your needs
One mistake most women do is that they believe if a man truly loves them such man should be able to pay all their bills.

Real man thinks more about the future than present moment, a fake man may satisfy all your needs but you will pay for it after wedding. He might not have any tangible asset to show after deceiving you he has a lot.

It is very important to study your boyfriend before marrying him. Ask yourself is he a real man? You can never make a boy a man, a boy becomes a man through his actions.

There are lots of broken marriages leaving innocent children in pains, depriving them from experiencing and enjoying happy family.

The power you have as a woman is to study who your man really is before saying “yes, I do”. Some women say is never possible to know a man during courting, which I totally disagree with.

A relationship which is being patched everyday will definitely collapse after wedding.

Marriage is more like an appointment of one’s destiny, don’t manage a fake man who will make it a term of imprisonment!


https://loversminds.com/real-guy-versus-fake-guy-in-a-relationship/
CareerRe: FG Sacks 2,525 N-power Beneficiaries, Warns Against Acts Of Indiscipline, Others by Loversminds: 8:46am On Jul 25, 2019
Some of them have job already, but greediness won't allow them to leave it for those who are really jobless.
RomanceI Lost Confidence In Introducing Him To People by Loversminds(op):
My spirit goes with him but my sisters and friends are discouraging me. I met this amazing guy in my final year when I was in school through my course mate. This happens a week after my ex boyfriend jilted me.

It was just like a magic when my course mate told me his brother was very much in love. I was like “who is your brother? Have not seen any of your brothers before talk less of him loving me, aside that, we are just casual friends, so how come you and your brother talk about me?”

She told me his brother saw me on Facebook when I commented on one of her pictures that was how he got to know me. I said Facebook? That means your brother is a womanizer, I can’t date him.

Anytime I remember my past relationships it makes me sober and I don’t feel like giving any man a chance in my life anymore, because they are birds of same feather, but my course mate won’t stop disturbing me for months, assuring me that I won’t regret dating his brother.

At last, I gave him a chance, and then I discovered that he is totally different from all the guys have dated. He is straightforward, intelligent, gentle and caring. It has been 2 years of our courtship and my love is increasing daily for him.

He has started talking about wedding, but I told him to give me some time to prepare myself though I have accepted his proposal.

There is one thing I’m yet to disclosed about my ex boyfriend, he jilted me because I said I don’t enjoy sex, at times I cried when we had sex, he got frustrated and said he couldn’t cope.

But to my greatest surprise my fiance is exceptional, I’m now enjoying sex just as if there is honey on his dick. But there is a problem I’m having about him.

When I introduced him to my sisters, they were like “your boyfriend is not fine” same thing with my friends. They were thinking that since i'm beautiful I should never go for something less. I know he is not handsome but I decided to date him.

Have lost the confidence of introducing him to people, because of the same issue.

Does beauty has anything to do with relationship?



Source: https://loversminds.com/i-lost-confidence-in-introducing-him-to-people




Loversminds is relationship expert who deals with relationships issues and shares advises on relationships.

Do you want to talk about your relationship problem? Or you need advice on your relationship? You can kindly confide in us.

Or you want our blog readers to learn from your experience? Don't worry, we will keep you anonymous.

Kindly send your love story to loversminds415@gmail.com
Call or send SMS to +2349031815426
RomanceWhen Love Becomes Sour In Marriage by Loversminds(op): 3:39pm On Jul 15, 2019
Why does love becomes sour in marriage? I love you with all my heart, I can’t do without you, we are meant for each other, till dead do us apart. Those are the words that exist between lovers when the bond between them is still waxing stronger.

But why do lovers later become haters? To the extent that they don’t want to see each other talk less of having anything to do with each other. Is it because of their ways of handling love? Is it because of people around them? Is it because of the economy? Or is it because of nature? Who are we going to blame for this?

Have been to several marital courts where couples are begging judges to dissolve their marriage because love has turned sour between them. Who could be at fault? Is it the husband or wife?

In some cases, marriage is difficult if you see any couple celebrating twenty or thirty years wedding anniversary, there must have been a great level of tolerance and commitment, because what didn’t break them could have broken another couple.

Why must we allow love to become sour, is it due to negligence or what? I believe there are ways we can make love remain bright and brighter forever, but firstly, there must be true love. When love doesn’t exist between couple anymore, with the help of a good relationship expert it can be revived, while some can’t be revived.

When love becomes sour in marriage is better to stay away from the toxic marriage because of the following reasons rather than trying to remain in it.

1. When unhappiness is increasing daily in marriage it is better to split up for good rather than losing your life to depression.
2. It is better to step out of the marriage to avoid domestic violence.
3. It is advisable to quit rather than being in a forced love and loneliness.
4. When the love becomes sour it is better to divorce rather than be killed or killing your partner by mistake.

However, everyone gets married with the intention of having a successful marriage, but if the union later becomes shattered and remains very difficult to rebuild, it better to take a walk.


Source: https://loversminds.com/when-love-becomes-sour-in-marriage/
SportsRe: Super Eagles Resume Training After Yesterday Victory Against South Africa by Loversminds: 7:32pm On Jul 11, 2019
This is great, most people were thinking they will be defeated
RomanceHow To Revive Love In A Relationship by Loversminds(op): 5:23pm On Jul 07, 2019
Why reviving love in a relationship? Reviving love in a relationship doesn’t mean there is no love at all, but is either the love has diminished or dead.

For you to have find yourself on this page it means you still want your partner, but you can’t help yourself to fight the love that is either fading or has faded.

A woman of 5 years in marriage sent me a message saying, “ I don’t love my husband anymore and the most painfully part of it is that he still adores me, please me”.

One thing about love and relationship is that is not all about our body chemistry, it is not all about how we feel, if we want to be acting on how we feel every time we won’t have a successful relationship.

There are different ways of reviving love in a relationship/marriage.

1. Accept your feeling
Are you struggling to accept that you don't love your spouse anymore? The more you struggle with it, the more you create problem for yourself. You have solution to the problem when you truly accept your feeling, which will help you to gradually have power over it.

2.Figure out why the love is no more
The reason some people don’t love their partner anymore varies from one factor to another. To some people it could be because of money, sex, personality, attitude, attractiveness, etc.

What do you think could be diminishing your love for your partner, is it money or sex? By identifying the problem, you will be able to discuss with your partner and find a way rectifying it.

3. Change your routine
At times, sticking to a particular kind of lifestyle can be so boring and make your relationship dull. You can easily get bored when things are done over and over again. It kills all the spices you have been enjoying before, that is why it is advisable to be creative in marriage.

Being in marriage doesn’t mean your relationship has ended. Hell no! What bonds you together is the relationship which must be constantly work upon to spark and uphold the love in your marriage.

4. Take vacation
If changing of routine doesn’t work for you, then try going on a vacation. Maybe all what your body needs is changing of environment and special treats.

5. Take a break
If the problem persist after taking all the steps listed above, then take a break. You may discuss this with your partner if he/she is a type of person that understands. But in most cases it is not advisable to let him/her know you are trying to revive love because he/she might assume you don’t love her/him anymore and it could affect your relationship.

Just let your partner know you are trying to work on yourself. Mind you, if possible you may disconnect any forms of communication between you for a while so that you can quickly respond to the therapy. With time you will rediscover yourself and feel the vague of your partner and have the urge of being with him/her back.

Source:https://loversminds.com/how-to-revive-love-in-a-relationship/
CelebritiesMy Journey To Marriage - Kemi Oyedepo by Loversminds(op): 9:11am On Jun 22, 2019
What were the beautiful events that led to your marriage proposal?
When my husband approached me about a relationship, he made it clear that his intention was ultimately marriage. So, from the beginning, we knew where we were headed, especially since we prayed about it and were convinced that we had God’s backing.

Two and a half years into our courtship (which lasted four years), we began to discuss wedding plans. I suppose because of that; I wasn’t expecting an actual proposal. He did give me an engagement ring and that was good enough for me.

How has the journey been so far?
It has been really good. I must tell you marriage has exceeded my expectations. My marriage is by no means perfect, but I won’t deny that it is very good, to the glory of God.
How did you meet your husband?
We met through a mutual friend. I was living in Tulsa, Oklahoma, US with my family and he had moved to Tulsa to attend Oral Roberts University. I was introduced to him and his siblings when they arrived, and I built a close friendship with his siblings during that time. It was two years after we met that he expressed his interest in me.

What endeared you to him?
His personality; he has a quiet spirit which I really admired then, and still do. He was also extremely humble. Till today, his humility even in our home, is overwhelming. In fact, it’s the top trait I still love about him.

He is also spiritual. He takes the things of God very seriously. I am grateful he carried me along; we really grew together spiritually during our courtship.

How would you describe your wedding day?
My wedding day was beautiful. It was 11 years ago but I still remember it like yesterday. It was obviously bigger and more glamorous than I expected it to be. But it was a glorious day and I was happy to have my family and friends around to support us.

When you first met him, did you know he was going to be your husband?
No, I did not. Not at first anyway. However, I was really drawn to him. A time came when I actually prayed about him specifically and I had a conviction that we were meant to be together but we barely spoke then so I wondered how it would happen.

I remember telling my sisters about this dilemma. I was not going to approach him about it, so I left it to God to sort it out somehow if this was His plan. As time went by, He began to set His plan in motion until my husband spoke up.

What are some of the lessons marriage has taught you?
Some key lessons learnt so far include: we can actually achieve so much more when we are willing to work together for the good of our marriage; it is possible to handle differences without allowing it to degenerate to fighting, arguing, being rude or abusive; it is wise to overlook errors, and important to wear patience like a garment.

I’ve also learnt that every marriage is unique; it is unwise to copy what one couple does and use it in my marriage. The need to keep cultivating the fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) on a daily basis is not optional.

If you were to advise single people about marriage, what sort of advice will you give them?
Look inwards first. Many singles focus on what their spouse must be like but hardly consider what qualities they also must bring into the marriage. Secondly, success in marriage is largely due to the maturity level of the people in it. Your age or qualifications are not what make you ready for marriage.

Maturity is expressed in how well you handle responsibilities, how well you manage people, and how well you manage your emotions. Thirdly, don’t look for anybody to complete you. You must be 100 per cent complete first before you get married. When you start relying on a man or woman to make you whole, you will end up frustrated and disappointed.

As at the time you got married, was it planned or did it just happen?
It was planned. My husband graduated with his master’s degree and moved back to Nigeria. Before he left, we talked about the next steps we wanted to take and gave ourselves timelines. Once I graduated and started working, we informed our parents of our plans and began to move in that direction once everyone was on board.[/b]
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https://loversminds.com/my-journey-to-marriage-kemi-oyedepo/
CelebritiesRe: Tonto Dikeh Slams Prince Ifeanyi Dike, Actors Guild Chairman by Loversminds: 11:13pm On May 04, 2019
She is on another level
FamilyRe: I Find It Hard To Pretend Loving My Kids Equally, Help! by Loversminds: 9:11pm On Jan 07, 2019
It is normal not to love equally, you just have to work on yourself and show them love equally
RomanceWhat Type Of Feeling Is Mine? by Loversminds(op):
Hi Lovers minds,

I trust you will keep me anonymous as you promised. I’m a lady of 28yrs who just finished her university degree. I’m a jovial person who loves to associate with people. I have a lot of friends, but one thing I noticed about my friends is that they stick to who they are dating.

some have been in relationships for three years and are still moving on, that is where I noticed something is wrong with me. I barely have relationship of two years, the one I had that last most is one year, not because I don’t love or my boyfriends were jilting me, but because of the kind of feelings i’m having.

Anytime, I’m into romantic relationship, no matter how much I love my boyfriend, it usually last for like six months. after the fifth or sixth months everything would become dull and boring to me, my feelings for such person will dramatically reduce no matter how much he tried to spice up the relationship and makes me love him more, my body won’t react to it.

The relationship I had last was a year and some months, what make it last is because I forced myself, but when I discovered I was just deceiving myself, I quit the relationship.

Have been experiencing this kind of horrible feelings right from my teenage age, I first thought it was what they called premature love, but when I realized, I’m still having the same kind of feeling, I noticed something is wrong with me, and this is repeating itself again and again. Something funny about me is that I can crush for Africa.

I’m in another relationship presently which is eight months, I know my feeling is no more there again, and I’m tired of going from one relationship to another.

My boyfriend is seeing me as happy woman, but within me I’m not, because I’m fighting a battle which people around me don’t know about. I just hope and pray this won’t force me out of marriage one day.

Is there anyone who also has this kind of feeling?


Source: https://loversminds.com/what-of-type-feeling-is-mine/



Loversminds is relationship expert who deals with relationships issues and shares advises on relationships.

Do you want to talk about your relationship problem? Or you need advice on your relationship? You can kindly confide in me.

Or you want our blog readers to learn from your experience? Don't worry, we will keep you anonymous.

Kindly send your love story to loversminds415@gmail.com
Call or send SMS to +2349031815426
CelebritiesCharly Boy Shares His Love Story So Far by Loversminds(op): 12:39pm On Dec 22, 2018
Charles Chukwuemeka Oputa is a Nigerian singer, entertainer and activist popularly known as charly boy by his stage name and also nicknamed Area Fada.

Most of charly boy’s fan were surprised when he announced that he was going to divorce his wife and remarry her, without knowing that his plan was to renew his marital vows.

Charly boy shares love story on his love journey so far
“Friendship is what has kept my marriage going, my wife and I have been together for the past 40 years that is more of the reason why we decided to renew our vows.

“In my past, I’ve been in three different failed marriage due to wrong reasons, which make me decided that this one must work.

“My first marriage took place when I was a teenager, I don’t know the meaning of marriage neither ready for marriage then, it was my mother who forced me to get married in order to control my urge as a teenager.

“The second one was when I was in my twenties, the marriage crashed after about three years, because I wasn’t not ready as well, it was just to get me settled in United States, but I later left United States because of all the atrocities I experienced there. My marriage to the third woman also crashed due to wrong impression.

“I don’t know I would marry my present wife and remain married to her. This is my fourth marriage, I don’t expect it could go this far. I wasn’t planning to marry her until one day when she said that if I didn’t marry her, she would leave me.

“That prompt me to marry her, during our wedding we had only one witness present at the registry and there was no party at all, because my parent didn’t want me to marry a non-Nigerian.

“That was how we started our love journey so far and we are still together after forty years,” he said.


https://loversminds.com/charly-boy-shares-his-love-story-so-far/
CelebritiesRe: "Hole In My Shorts" - Yemi Alade Steps Out In Body Hug (PHOTOS) by Loversminds: 3:42pm On Dec 17, 2018
She is loosing her decency
CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji Glows In New Photos by Loversminds: 8:17pm On Dec 07, 2018
Always beautiful
PoliticsRe: Oyo State Introduces Levies On Churches, Mosques, Businesses For Security by Loversminds: 12:34pm On Nov 28, 2018
No put your mind for mosque, except u won collect token
PoliticsRe: Governor Ganduje Distributes 100 New Transformers In Kano (Photos) by Loversminds: 9:55pm On Nov 23, 2018
Trying to keep people's mouth shot
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Excited As He Celebrates His Breakup With His Girlfriend by Loversminds: 9:38pm On Nov 06, 2018
Never take who shows you true love for granted, because if u lose her/him u might not have the opportunity to meet true love again.
PoliticsRe: Ekiti Workers Recieved Salary After10 Months by Loversminds: 8:53pm On Nov 01, 2018
Congratulations to them
RomanceCan I Ever Have A Woman Called Mine? by Loversminds(op): 7:00pm On Oct 19, 2018
I don’t think I can ever have someone I could boldly called mine, because of the time, sacrifice, trust, love and money have spent on relationships, but all proves abortive.

I’ve been in different relationships with an intention of having a serious relationship, but they never take me serious which makes me feel burden on my heart.

I’m an introvert and a type of person that is motivated by love, so when I’m in relationship I treat my woman with seriousness, because I believed if there is true love there shouldn’t be cheating.

Sadly, with all my commitments and companionship, have been cheated on by my first girlfriend, second and just be cheated and jilted by the third now.

I do always hear that men are the ones that always cheat, but my case is different.

They are the ones playing on my intelligence and my emotions. And this is making me think maybe I’m destined to be single.

The third relationship I just lost, I dated this lady for two years and during that period, I don’t deny her anything she needs, I satisfied her emotionally and materially.

With all my commitments to the relationship, all the gifts I gave her, the money I spent on her, and all my faithfulness, she just broke up with me with flimsy excuse.

I’m still confused and devastated, I’m still asking what happened and why would she made that kind of decision with the way she always says she loves me.

I just wish she could tell me where things got wrong exactly rather than being left in cloud.

With the commitment I usually dedicate into relationships and it doesn’t become successful, maybe love isn’t met for me.

@loversminds, is not that I need help but just unburdening my heart on your blog, because you said on twitter that the greatest agony is bearing an untold story in mind.


Source: https://loversminds.com/can-i-ever-have-a-woman-called-mine/



Loversminds is relationship expert who deals with relationships issues and shares advises on relationships.

Do you want to talk about your relationship problem? Or you need advice on your relationship? You can kindly confide in me.

Or you want our blog readers to learn from your experience? Don't worry, we will keep you anonymous.

Kindly send your love story to loversminds415@gmail.com
Or send SMS to +2349031815426
CelebritiesRe: Actor Odunlade Adekola Pictured At The Inauguration Ceremony In Ekiti by Loversminds: 12:24pm On Oct 16, 2018
Always in action

CelebritiesRe: Okiki Afolayan And Abimbola Ogunnowo Wedding Photos by Loversminds: 5:03pm On Oct 04, 2018
Pretty lady, happy married life.
CelebritiesRe: Davido Blasts Friend, Olu Odunowo Oluricky For Mocking His Uncle Senator Adeleke by Loversminds: 8:55pm On Oct 02, 2018
See bitter truth!
RomanceDo Wedding Rings Still Symbolize Love And Commitments? by Loversminds(op): 8:15am On Sep 30, 2018
While preparing for wedding, if the groom is yet to buy wedding ring the preparation is not to be completed.

Wedding ring is a sign of love, faithfulness and commitment. It is exchanged between groom and bride on wedding day.

It is used to symbolize love and fidelity, and it usually conveys information to people that the wearer is married and committed to someone, which tend to scare those who may be intending to have romantic relationship away from the wearer.

But, in our modern society, do wedding rings still contribute to the ties of marriages? Does it have true connectivity with love, faithfulness and commitment in our modern marriages?

A woman said, “my husband took ring off after three months of our wedding, saying it bothered him while he was working and he doesn’t put it on back after work. I felt as if the marriage meant nothing to him”.

Many couples invest large amount of money and time in getting ring, but does the ring still signified faithfulness?

Previously, it was believed that wedding rings are sign for couples to always remember their commitment to their spouses and say no to infidelity. But now some wedding rings are obviously slipped into pockets or bags because of infidelity.

Do wedding rings ever increase the level of commitment?
With the high rate at which people are going into marriage and spending exorbitantly on rings, I think there should be high level of commitment likewise, or what do you think? Lol.

At least, for you to buy the best for your heartthrob, it means there is so much love between you and she really worth it. But why are we having high rate of divorce at the same time between young couples

It is no more a sign of dedication and commitment anymore as it used to be. Some couples just see it as a mere design that is use to decorate fourth finger of the left hand, which doesn’t stop the wearer from infidelity neither scared wooers away.

It should be a reminder of promise
Like I said early, it should be a tool of re-dedication and re-commitment anytime one is trying to divert from marital vows. Look down at the ring, it will keep reminding you of the great day you promise to love and remain faithful to your spouse.

Wedding rings should be a symbol of till death do us apart between couples, or is it not part of the marital vow?



Source: https://loversminds.com/do-wedding-rings-truly-symbolize-love-and-commitment
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RomanceRe: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Loversminds: 10:35am On Sep 24, 2018
Space is important in a relationship. It normal for you to feel that way, because it also happens between legitimate couple. When a wife does not work and her husband is trying hard to satisfy her, he easily get bored.

All you need to do is to sit her down and talk to her, let her know how you feel.
RomanceHow To Stop Fighting With Your Boyfriend by Loversminds(op): 12:48pm On Sep 22, 2018
Fighting all the time is so frustrating. At times you wonder why you and your man is not getting along well, you get confused where things got wrong.

There are several issues that could cause sudden change in behavior like when something is really bugging him and he doesn’t want to talk about it, or when he is facing pressure at work.

All these could bottled up intense feelings and make him express it in a bad way, and if there is not taken it could trigger break up.


It is normal to argue and fight in a relationship, because you don’t have the same sense of reasoning, but in a situation where the fight is consistent, it is a sign of unhealthy relationship.

However, there is always a way to stop fight in a relationship through the following tips.

Here are some tips on how to stop fighting with your boyfriend.

1. Avoid negative talk
Love doesn’t stop fight when your feelings are hurt, it sucks. I know you can’t help it, but to show your feelings. But did you know if you continue that way it won’t help your relationship?

When you are really hurt, upset, and frustrated, you are prone to say nasty things, something really mean to your boyfriend.

Saying unlawful things might hurt him badly, and make it very difficult for him to forgive you after the fight. I’m sure you know there is no way to take back spoken word. Therefore, avoid saying something stupid.

2. Stop being too emotionally dependent
Most women always think their partners are responsible for all things that happen to their lives. They always think their partners should be there anytime they need them forgetting that they are also human who are not perfect and also have things to strive for.

When you are too emotionally dependent it will always cause fight between you and your partner, your happiness will depend on him, you blame him for your fault and fight over silly things.

Learn not to be too emotionally attached, try to understand that life is full of ups and downs, where everyone bears her/his own burden. When you learn to depend on yourself, you won’t blame your man for the stress you are facing or any other things that could cause fight.

3. Correct yourself on what he nags on
Better ways to control fight is to try and prevent it rather than looking for a way to solve it. When someone nags on a particular issue and you don’t make correction, it will definitely result to argument and fight.

My man do nags at times, when I asked him why he nags, he says, because you are too adamant, lol. Then when I make adjustment he stops nagging. One lesson I want you to learn here is that I try hard to make adjustment in order to avoid misunderstanding and fight. So try to correct yourself and make adjustment on why he nags in order to stop fight. Read more......

Source: https://loversminds.com/how-to-stop-fighting-with-your-boyfriend/
PoliticsRe: Grow Nigeria: Nigerians React To Saraki’s Message On Nigeria by Loversminds: 9:41pm On Sep 21, 2018
With all the atrocities he was accused of, he is seeking for president. He is so greedy. God knows your intentions, if you have bad intensions, u will not win by God's grace.
RomanceWale Adenuga Celebrates Wife As They Mark 21st Wedding Anniversary by Loversminds(op): 10:14am On Sep 13, 2018
Wale Adenuga is a Nigeria gospel singer, who has been performing well in the music industry. He got married to his wife 21 year ago when he was nobody.

He therefore decided to celebrate his wife and share some marriage advise to people as he marked 21st wedding anniversary. Where he took to his Instagram page to share the list of marital advice.

Wale Adenuga

“A few days ago, Bukky and I celebrated 21 years of being married. First I thought maybe I should share 21 tips. But then I don’t think I have that many things to say. Here are a few lessons I’ve learnt along the way.

1. A dear friend set me really free just before I got married. He said to me, your wedding ceremony will not be the best, and it won’t be the worst. Oh, how liberated I was.

2. I’ve learnt not to confuse how I love my wife with how I feel. Chemistry is great, but trust me, that’s not the only subject you will need to pass its test on marriage, your commitment will always be tested.

3. We married way before the fuss about destination weddings. Guess what; my wife and I had our honeymoon at Redemption camp ? That’s the best we could come away with then. Today, we’ve been to many places we never imagined 21 years ago. The wedding ceremony isn’t the destination!

4. All the assets I had when I got married fit into two ‘Ghana must go’ bags. My most prized possession was a cassette player. My wife married me nonetheless. @bukkyproverbs thank you. Like a friend said, no lady should be eyeing me now. Such a one is 21 years late.

5. I’m grateful that I’m married to a woman who does not put me under pressure to be who I’m not. In the early years we had many a plate of rice with just egg on top of the ‘mountain’. We didn’t have curtains on the window. We draped it with a wrapper my grandmother gave us.

6. We’ve had plenty of civil wars. SORRY is an eventual word we get to say to each other so that things don’t progress to world war status.

7. My wife is the person God has planted in my life to make my head to be correct. That’s who your spouse should be to you.

8. If you’re not intentional about how things run in your family, you might unconsciously be executing an operating system you learnt from your parents or your surrounding. And if that was defective, then you’ve got a whirlwind on your hands.

So it may be against the grain of popular culture, but till tomorrow, my role includes doing the dishes and cooking sometimes. It’s not a big deal. Just the two cents on marriage I am able to put together now”. He wrote.

Source: https://loversminds.com/wale-adenuga-celebrates-wife-as-they-mark-21st-wedding-anniversary/

CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye With A Video Vixen In Bed. Fan Slams Him, He Fires Back by Loversminds: 6:32am On Sep 11, 2018
Aside being an artist, at least he should respect his wife. I'm sure she won't be happy if she see this kind of post. Wise talk is bitter at times.
CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye With A Video Vixen In Bed. Fan Slams Him, He Fires Back by Loversminds: 6:30am On Sep 11, 2018
Aside being an artist, at least he should respect his wife. I'm sure she won't be happy if she see this kind of post.
RomanceHow Can I Control His Jealousy? by Loversminds(op):
He had been a loving man which I always thank God for because he always finds a way to make me happy. We have been dating for three years and we decided to take our relationship to another level by getting married. But the dream seems not to be coming through, because he recently lost his job.

This predicament has made our relationship triggered unusual behaviour and loss of focus.

He later got a job but the salary is small, he wished he could be buying things for me and going on a date as we used to, but due to the table that turn around he couldn’t. And I never complain nor do I bothered him that I need things.

But I noticed he was not happy with it, I tried to make him understand my love for him is not for material things, but instead of him to understand, he started acting strangely, he feels jealous and aggressive.

Whenever I received phone calls especially from male friends or when he sees something new on me, he levels of jealous and possessive increased. He uses to check my phone whenever we are together and even asked who I was talking to anytime I received call which he doesn’t do before.

There was one issue that happened recently which is making me doubt our coming together as husband and wife.

One day, on my way from work to his place, I saw my......read more

Source: https://loversminds.com/how-can-i-control-his-jealousy/



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