CastingCrowns: I feel very privileged to celebrate my birthday today, grateful to God for bringing me to this day even with all the chaos in the world.
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: I do have feelings for him, but sometimes you feel its one sided, I'll talk to him and find out if he's sincere about everything, if he is I don't mind staying and working together
. While talking to him, it's important you bear in mind that an average Nigerian man will not be happy you lost such money to a fellow guy. He will find it difficult to sincerely sympathize with you. What is important is having eyes for a focused and responsible man who is willing and ready to provide for a family whether you are buoyant or not
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AmazonTopaz: I like you too.I like the fact that you did not judge me but wanted to hear me out that is nice. Thanks for the compliment also.
people like you make great minds. You will be outstanding as a lawyer. Me being a Christian will ask my God to bring you back home to family. We need you
AmazonTopaz: I was brought up in a christian family and attended christian schools. I won't say that was the source of my morality now because I have deviated from some things considered moral according to the religion. I am liberal in my ideology so there are some things I may believe in or morally agree with that is not in agreement with christianity. The source of my morality is my conscience and what I personally view as right/wrong as long as it does not infringe on the rights of others I believe in the principle of live and let live.I believe in tolerance so I don't dictate to others or how they choose to live their lives.I avoid trouble and loathe violence I believe in diplomacy/round table discussions and team work that is a part of own moral code.
I'm beginning to like you. You are a special person
MeeztaFabulouz: 7 years of struggle to cater for and build a decent home, I have spoken so many times and to no avail. Since I was born up till this year, I hit a woman for the first time in my life. The reason is just because she did something stupid, I didn't want to get involved in any argument or fight, I just went to book a hotel room and had a quite time to myself that night till the next morning and on getting home she just attacked me saying I went to sleep with another woman. I have given her the options so many times to go her way if she is not happy being with me but she won't go. As am writing this, I have not eaten her food since yesterday and I just got home only to see her serving me food and trying to make up but this is not the first time. I practically made her not go to the shop today and I was expecting to see that she went to the shop. When ever we talk, she listens and behave herself for a while but its like there is a spirit that comes into her and when it does, she forgets everything and only tries to bring trouble and more trouble.
Go back to your fathers house, she will not. Ok go and be with any other person that will tolerate your attitude she will not leave my house. All she does is money money money this and that. Even with her business, she does not use a dime for anything in the house aside her own stuffs. Can you imagine she had a fight with me some time ago because I personally went to pay my kids school myself? All because I didn't give her the money to go and pay herself as I normally do?
Can you also imagine she had a fight with me one day all because I bought a jeans and slippers for myself without buying anything for her and the kids because I had bought some nice stuff for all of them including her like a week before then.
This is a woman that has never bought me even a boxers since marriage and has never gotten me anything gift for my birthday or anything but I just ignore all that and focus on making the family happy. Yet I am not happy in my home because I know what I go through especially this year that corona made things rough, I have passed through hell just to ensure my family is fine and we are not put to shame yet a matured thinking lady does not even care about anything.
Those saying I am a fool for thinking of suicide because of a woman, it is not because of the woman I am thinking of such, if you really know what depression can cause, knowing how hard you struggle to earn your money and spend it on someone who cares less for you, you will understand.
make the money first. Remember, you have to be level-headed. Don't fight a woman the way she will want you to. They respect intelligent and smart men
Juliusmomoh: Good day nairalander . What is your kind opinion to the above question ?... . My anty and her husband have being having isuee concerning this since yesterday... . She gave birth 7days ago, and according to there religion (christainity), tomorrow is the naming... . Now two of them are having isuee now concerning the naming.. . The husband suggest the boy to be called: victor.. While the wife (my anty) suggest the boy to be called: freedom ... . Now mothers and fathers in the house. WHO OUGHT TO NAME A CHILD ? . Mother or father ? Abi both of them ?
husband's responsibility but he ought to carry his wife along. They can alternate between who choses the first name or the middle name depending on the one they prefer as the native name , hopefully more children will come and who knows,they may jettison the names when they come of age
bouncin04: I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .
. For me, marriage is like most human endeavors. Being successful with it comes with a price. I wouldn't know if there are short-cuts to it
colestephan86: My wife's younger sister works at Ikeja but she comes to our place during weekdays to spend the night and go back home weekends. Today I mistakenly saw her walk out of the bathroom stack naked, though I just pretended like I didn't see her and I guess she thinks I didn't see her. Do you think I should talk to her about it? Make I no lie , I saw all the package o.
interesting thread for married men. They say abstinence is the best or use condoms if you fall. Likewise sidechick is better than sister in law. Stop walking about at odd times
Dreyton36: Firstly I'm doing well for myself and I put my wife on a monthly salary , which is more than 200k monthly Not because she needs it for anything important but because I don't want her feeling left out in the struggle like her mates
Taking care of my kids is the reason for my hard work and if she insists on still working then she should have a good reason for doing it , if I'm cool with it fine and if I'm not then she'll sit her ass down
Not everyone would allow their wife do any stressful Job and that's my type of person
She actually insisted one certain time that she just wanna be leaving home
She's got her own ride , so I open a nice boutique for her which is close to the estate we live in , just 15 mins drive from our estate (dolphin)
That's if I get ur point correctly , or what exactly u aiming at ?
when it comes to money identity, one ought to be careful what you put out to the public except you are confident of your safety
CHIMCO: Is it proper for a husband to give a gift to his Ex. through his wife.
An ex called the husband that she has financial problems and that she needed foodstuffs.
The husband is planning to assist her this December through his wife but the wife said no no no and she is raising dust over it.
The ex was kind to the husband before he changed location and married the wife.
Please is there and problem in the above.
. Women are like that; a wife ought not know about everything concerning the husband, especially thing that has to do with the husband's family and past relationships if the man wants peace at home.
saaphiere: Before I even have a son I will buy my own cars. I am not the kind of lady that until the put food in her mouth before she eats. I go out and get my own. I will be so successful that my children wealth won't matter to me. I will be giving out cars to my sons' wives on their birthdays.
This part fell off from where it was hanging and was dragging on the ground so I had to unplug it from the pipe. What is its function and the consequences if not replaced back soon
LadySarah: let me apologize on her behalf. Her actions were foolish .Its not enough to loose trust of her. I'm not making excuses for her even though I sense it's been long she met her folks and it was a kind of reunion for her but not informing you wasn't ideal. Infcat things could turn worse and you'd never believe your family went far let alone village. I know it made you look stupid but forgive her. It won't happen again.
confirmedniggae: When it comes to money in relationship ,it is like most women don't joke with their money or is my girlfriend stingy or just an ingrate ?
This is the conversation between the two of us and I think it is definitely over between us !
NoHoper: 34 and I have never really been happy for a prolonged period of time. Transient happy times here and there, though.
I'm under immense pressure from family members and even distant relatives to basically be responsible for their upkeep. Pretty much everyone around me expects that I place them on some sort of monthly salary. Yes like every month I should send stipends to like 7 people from my paltry 200k salary. Dad lost his job in the mid 90s and has since never bothered to get another. His unemployment status didn't stop him from bringing into the world three more souls. Mum's got some health issues so hadn't been working. She was very hardworking before the health problems started, to be fair to her.
So now I'm basically responsible for my parents' and siblings' upkeep and have been at it since I graduated 10 years ago. Haven't done anything with my life, I don't have any savings, not married. Just stagnant. I'm not saying is wrong to help others but I just feel like the pressure on me is a little too much and it's not fair. I deserve to be happy but I don't see that happening. I fear I'll labor all my life just to make my family happy while I live in perpetual sadness and pressure.
No Hope.
. During my days at NYSC, I served myself while serving my fatherland. Cheers
Greetings from here. Just needing a piece of positive counsel here. It has been subtle and recurrent but I decided to share this particular one.
My wife travelled for a burial with my kids without my knowledge. I travelled far away for work and call home everyday. Just recently I called very early in the morning to tell my wife I will be coming home by weekend,she somewhat sounded surprised and said instead of me coming on Friday I should come on Sunday.
I didn't say anything,I pretended not to be angry with that. Yet I immediately did a cash transfer for feeding and balance for the kids school fees that same morning we were discussing.
Later in the evening,I expected her to call and update me on the fees payment,but I didn't receive any call,I then had to call but her lines were all switched off,at this point I was worried especially when I couldn't talk to the kids.
I then called a neighbor to help me check if they are at home only to confirm they travelled for burial which the neighbor got to know from a phone conversation between my wife and her sister.
At this point, I called my wife's brother only to confirm that they were having a burial in their village, which I am not aware of,even as an inlaw.
Right now am very upset and I don't want to act in anger,please how can I react to this conspiracy between her and her family carrying my car with my kids to a distant village for burial without my knowledge.
Thanks for mature inputs only:
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. Nothing is new under the sun. Don't let anger overwhelm you. In my case, while she was still away I called all the people that usually come to beg me whenever she wants to be the one to decide on a matter. They will call her and reprimand her seriously. Sometimes you have to let them have their way so that they will see the result of their folly with their own eyes
Pacecar: It is in your place to proffer an advice without being forceful. It is in my place to choose what to do. Don't take it too seriously. You are very judgemental and pushy. That's not what I want from you. You are even biased... You are just hitting on me. Why can't think about from her point of action. What if she is just having fun with me. But instead you keep making it feel it's my fault she enjoying sex with me. Be diplomatic. It's not as it seems all the time.
. Op, your best bet is to ignore that moniker. There are more sensible and matured comments to read.
Properties › Re: My Low Cost 4 Bedroom Bungalow Project. by Luak(m): 5:25pm On Dec 20, 2020
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