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life_style: You don't know why i ask the op the question so stay out of this and go to bed, ok ?

Sorry
It might be your bed time but just lunch time for some people

Please all change the word worshiped to appreciate
Will that make a difference?

armyofone: haha, very funny!

You are a good sport
Good luck

Just messing with you armyofone

armyofone: i'm into accounting plus in our kind of job in the mil, he travels more than i do. satisfied?

Yes
Pleas don't go buy a land in your name only
before he get back home

armyofone: by the way, ofc he can pay for my dinner but not brazillian hair. not a fan of such though.

i can pay for my brazillian hair if i want it. when we are married, well, i will be in control of the money so no need for that

but just because you are paying for my dinner and buying me those hair doesn't mean i should start playing full wifey role nah nah.

na wah for expectation from girlfriend sha.

Why should your be in control of the money?

blumail: In my opinion a man treating u right is a function of his person; that he doesn't treat u like trash does not mean he loves, he just may not be the brash type. That u do all d right things can't make him love u, it can only endear him to u. But if he makes d decision to love u( cos love is a decision) then...

You treat women right
Lot of they think that the man is a fool

davidylan: Treat a man like a king (i.e. give him his respect as the man in your relationship), shower him with attention (dont suffocate him though), show that you care in the little ways (the occassional card to say you love him, popping over once in a while to fix a meal, give him a massage or clean his house)...

A REAL man will love such a woman and treat her like precious gold.

Yes
If I give your gift learn to say thanks
Take care of my needs and I will take care of your needs
Fight bring it on
Be a B

fuckherlord: thirty two successful and beautiful
determined to marry this year

Ok
We need more information:
Family background
Values and morals
How can you contribute to make your man happy
Yes you surely can still find love

Amya: I tell you my sister, really pathetic!!! They have some sort of psycho depravity where they derive pleasure from breaking down the guards of innocent girls through lies and deceit. People like that are the first to call women whores, I really wonder what they'd call themselves.

Women are not whores
Women or men are not innocent in this real life game
Women are good in " lies and deceit" secretive , keeping information and manipulation of weak men
So, Sis
The game goes on
Dog eat dog world
Sad YES

queensmith: right, i'm meant to get excited when i see things like this? Its something to be proud of?

queensmith Please tell me about yourself Girl
We men are dogs and women are not better
Get real

Vikin: After punny they move to the next punny

Variety is the spice of life!

All those guys that do this!! #God
#

Ok pretty Vikin
I think you look nice can I have some?
I don't want a relationship

Amya: Seriously? I don't know, but I do know these jabs you throw are too cheap for even you. When you have a real argument, notify me.

Stop passing yourself around
You will find a good man
Some time we need to look inwardly

queensmith: God is going to bless you! Its a sick game to them you don't understand these are sick men!

They don't want a woman thats open for a fling, they actually want to fool, mess with and embarrass a girl. They get a damn sick kick out of doing it.

Some go as far as having 2 families or keeping multiple 'fiances' when they are and have been married for donkey years!

Seriously some men are incredibly sick it's unbelievable. Meanwhile if you even say you don't want anything serious or you are not in it for the long run these men will do anything to change your mind.

Pathetic sods.

Talk about yourself
Stop passing judgement on all men
Lot of women are sick too
lot of ashawo women

Amya: Yeah . . . Another problem I have with my nigerian brothers is their ability to see the truth and still turn a blind eye. Everyone knows what I'm talking about, but some pretentious folks will still want to attack my personal life.

We are telling you the truth and the whole truth
That you have passed it around and round
Now looking for some dude to take ownership

Mynd_44: What do you want us to say? Advice him to abort?

Dude you have a nice day

Pay for all the charge Card
I am sure you can see the phone

Amya: This is NOT a male Naija men bashing thread. Just saying what I know.

After pass it around and round
Now
You want somebody to take ownership
Hell NO

titsandall: i love nl....see as the guy is looking for way meanwhile nl people are congratulating him....this is the place

Agreed with You
Sick people
Mean people

Thank for the information
Why ?
Keep moving

Mynd_44: So you mean I will marry a lady who wears mini skirt and then we Marry and she changes to Maternity gown? Hell no. That on its own is a ground for divorce

You will divorce for lot of things
Does she clean, cook, keep information and secret

Mynd_44: The only way to make him worship you is if you be yourselve and not pretend or you can just visit your local babalawo for help

Great comment too

money don't change people
If you want a happy married men or women do your part
Or somebody will be single the word that start with D

acidtalk: IBO man!
Na only the money (figures) you see to comment on.

Nna mehn! Odikwa very risky.

Sorry
I am not ibo
Please answer the dude above question
I think you are very young and narrow minded
I have made lot of comments
You can learn or get played
Not one size fits all
You have lot of information here for men and women

[quote author=ikoha]You are right it should be70,000.00 and 100,000.00

jp philips: https://www.nairaland.com/newpost?topic=967818

Next time don't skip the part that you are not in Nigeria thanks!!

Dude
Nigerian women that live in the developed countries are worse
They will make you their home boy
People in the communities will know that she is taking care of you

Sapphire86: @ op its called MIND UR BIZ!!! Put a 22 carat coloured diamond ring on her finger den come back and post this thread, den u ll b justified. Till den put up or get out

P.S my ex used to allow me go thru his fone sha.

Sis
You know what a 22 carat colored diamond ring cost?
You are send the dude to do arm robbery
Check it out the cost
Why 22 carat colored diamond ring?
What about nice ring Nigerian Women OOOOOOOOOOO

jp philips: picture this scenario, a former colleague was "contributing" to run their home, it happens that the woman was the one that bought both cars they use, out of the woman's cavalier, she knocked her engine down and told the husband to replace not the engine but the car, the guy said he has to save and till the new car arrived,
the guy never used his car again. she monopolized the husband's car simply because she bought it.
haven't you seen where they pay rent and flood the house with useless relatives while you sit helpless,
guy!! just count yourself lucky for the wife you have and stop showing that alligator muscles.
did i mention that the guy was building the house while the woman was buying the cars?

the moment a Nigerian woman feeds you in Nigeria, "YOU ARE FINISHED"
leave Nairaland internet warriors alone, 80% of the good tales you read here are lies.
please don't tell me its a peculiar case, interview most women you know and hear what majority has to say.

can you imagine Nigerian ladies that find it difficult to come out of their pocket as spinsters will automatically become bread winners with ease? if any man puts a Nigerian woman in that position in marriage where she fends for the family, You will see what Jesus saw in the hands of the jews.

You are Right about Nigerian women but Nigerian woman don't need to feed you to disrespect you
I will tell your brother
Right now I am very broken, I just completed a transaction and I will be break for the next three months
I need some money
There are money for somethings I will take from her
There are money for some bill she offer me and I said I am fine why because I need to take care of that bill myself
I can go get a play car right now but I have not reach mind goal
Car is not an asset
I need to reach my goal first,
Money go, women go

jp philips: "my dear, Nigeria is not your everyday country DON'T DARE THEIR WOMEN"
Completely agreed with you regarding Nigerian women Lot of Nigerian women will use their husband face to rob sand, sand if they make money than their husband, Yes I have seeing it.
But I am not the type
No long throat for me Manage myself

jp philips: guy, this is the point where you should be thankful for having a good wife, replace her!! ur joking right?
lemme ask you, can that small money of yours run that home perfectly?
she is nice to you not because you made money in the past but she is just ur blessing so stop shouting.
most women in Nigeria would have reduced you to a nanny in ur present condition not minding the magic u worked in the past.
60% of women i know will put you in chains, the only real intimacy you get will be from the house girl. if you are in doubt, Ask madam NAFDAC

yes , my money can take care of the bills
Like I told you Nigerian Woman or foreign
I am doing OK for myself, so stop playing
I am a little bit crazy Nigerian that will not any person F??K with me
money or no money
Like you said the only reason I have not pick out my play car is to ensure I can always pay for it and I have not completely reach my goal of the things I want
She promise to buy my play car next year OK what? big deal. Can I buy my car car now yes.
My present priority is toward my goal of enure better and stronger tomorrow nothing in life is promising
I like to be in control of my life, I don't completely trust women