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[quote author=Mrs.Chima]LMAO@play with myself.


It looks like somebody is CRYING.

If you think I have an issue with black men....then you are far off then I thought. [/quote]I am a grown man why should I cry over your BS
Grow up girl childish

veraponpo: @ poster. I rally feel for you, provided your story is true. Lt me state the following point blank for you:
1. Marrying a divorce is not good- you ar the second wife or third.
2. Marrying a single guy is possible but doubtful- single ladies are not even that lucky but I have recently seen one (my female friend ) whom a single guy is dying for.
3. Marrying a widower is the easiest for you but they are very few.
4. You are a little bit silent on your guy, are you married to him or just a friend. if married, then you can just leave him without filing and divorce is a sin.
5. Your baby should be considered in all your decisions.

My solution for you:
1. Pls clear you mind and think of your child first in all your undertakings.
2. Singles or widowers are the best options for you but can be difficult to get.
3. Think well before you have sex with any guy now, it can be dangerous for u.
4. It is well with u.

How much widowers that are in there 30s, 40s out here
To marry any individual check the dude out and his family background
If he live in U.S You need somebody who can help you with his dude information
People get marry and things happen, Life goes on
The dude might have married a bad woman
To be able to make any judgement, You need somebody you can give you the real story
The whole true not half story

marvelck: Nowadays you see alot of young single ladies wearing all sort of seductive dresses (bum short, pencil jeans, leggings, tights/with sexy tops etc), all in the name of fashion. And they dress like that either cos they want to attract men or cos they are looking for...suitors. But when married women(with kids) wear the same thing, what are they looking for?

To keep their husbands engage

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]YOU need to read my previous post again because NOTHING in my comment stated that YOU needed a green card. If the shoe fits, wear it.[/quote]You need to go play with yourself
You have said stuff about black men in the past but your boy friend or husband is a black man
Like I said you need to look inwardly
You have issues with black men too bad deal with it

MsDarkSkin: Some ppl love coming on the internet and chatting bull.

Agreed

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I am not taking anyone side but I call bullshit out when I see it. First of all, how can you get on HER about generalizing when YOU POSTED GENERALIZED COMMENTS your damn self? When you point fingers, make sure the fingers aren't pointed back to you. Real talk.

Secondly, how can you expect her not to generalized about Nigerian men when YOU DO have more than enough Nigerian men and women make statements shouting that Nigerian men only marries non-Nigerians for paper.

Aren't you married to a Black America woman? If you feel that way about Black American women then WHY ARE YOU WITH ONE? What make YOUR Black American wife any different than other Black American women you have bitched about?

What's so moral and value about SCAMMING, STEALING, LYING, LEAVING GREEN CARD BABIES ALL OVER THE WORLD, and KILLING HOMOSEXUALS?

I think I would rather take the "South Corruption" any day. Real talk.[/quote]Girl go back and read my comment
I am happy married to AA woman and If I have to do it over I will
I don't need any Green Card from any woman
You are unreasonable and talking lot of trash
You don’t need to school me on Nigerian “SCAMMING, STEALING, LYING, LEAVING GREEN CARD BABIES ALL OVER THE WORLD” I think I can school you better
I have three passports for your record
I was very bless to have left home WORK HARD TO HAVE THE THINGS I HAVE TODAY
IF YOU ARE PART OF THE GROUP OF Nigerian THAT "What's so moral and value about SCAMMING, STEALING, LYING, LEAVING GREEN CARD BABIES ALL OVER THE WORLD, and KILLING HOMOSEXUALS? "
I AM NOT PART OF THE BS OF YOUR
I WAS RAISE BY A GREAT DAD, I JUST HAD A CONVERSATION WITH MY BROTHER ON SATURDAY
MY BROTHER SAID "IF HE HAS NOT HAD HIS EDUCATION DAD WOULD NOT HAVE LET ME INTO THE HOUSE ON MY FIRST VISIT TO NIGERIA"
I AM TALK OF THE DEEP SOUTH
IF YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT MORALS AND VALUES YOU CALL ME
If you want to talk about green Card look inwardly first

davida222: 9 Oct 2011 ... A new study
indicates an alarming number of
9ja girls and teens have low self-
esteem Self-esteem has become a
national crisis in this country. The
majority of girls (seven in ten)
feel they do not measure up with Rihana, kim and lady gaga etc... in
some way including their looks, and
relationships They all now want a BRAZILIAN hair. Most disturbing is
that Nigerian girls with low self-esteem
are engaging in harmful and
destructive behavior that can
leave a lasting imprint on their
lives. These new findings come
from Real Girls, Real Pressure: A
National Report on the State of
Self-Esteem, conducted with girls
between eight and 28 in Nigerian and
commissioned by the Fobebio Self-
Esteem magazine.

BS
Complete disrespect to Nigerian girls
Nigerian girl have high self esteem

[quote author=Latrice699@gmail.com]They claim to hold such high morals and some stoop so low to do these things....[/quote]Girl, You need to keep your BS to yourself
You want to talk about moral from the back woods of South and North Carolina Please
Our moral and values are still very high compare to your f??k up south
Let me tell you, Nigeria boy will not F you because you already have kids 20 years back
Yes present day boy might be all over you
If you here looking for Nigrian man to marry and control good for you
If you here to pass all your BS jugegment please keep it to yourself and keep moving
This is some of the BS with you AA women
Some of you AA women are F up, all you want to think is that Nigerian man want you for Green Card
Some of you AA women use that to disrespect the men, it is not all about green card
Guess what happen
The men get tired and leave after some time now Nigerian men are bad
He use me for Green Card

gistcrunch: *NB: The names have been changed to give anonymity to the parties involved.

My name is Charles I work with a renown recruitment, training and outsourcing consultancy firm and we handle employee recruitment trainings etc for big shot companies. I have been working with the firm for over 3 years till present. When I got employed and started work, naturally I was new and didn't know every single staff of the firm, I just knew my boss was a female as I've only seen her once because she travelled on a training just after I resumed. To cut long story short, I am the quick fix kinda guy, I blended in well in the office and everyone to a liking for me, I even worked out of my job specifications sometimes, I assit some of my colleagues with issues both at work and emotional. I was a workaholic and everyone loved and respected me for that. My boss. Mrs Terry was not left out. I noticed after a couple of months precisely say 6 months I've been with the firm, every time my desk phone rings it's the overall boss (Mrs Terry) calling me to come over to her office. With time our discussions shifted from business at work as usual to personal gist about myself then about herself, she started giving me a lot of attention, offering to drop me off everyday since we usually take the same route, we started eating together in her office sometimes, well, I be bad sharp guy and I just fell in love with her cos I hadn't have someone care so much about me like that in a long while and I was really happy and into her. I just love my boss straight up. So this fateful day, my desk phone rang and I went upstairs to see her. My boss a divorcee in her late 45s, has 2 children and her husband lives abroad with one of the child, she travels out occasionally to visit her child. Well, myself, tall, dark handsome dude, you'd naturally fall in love when you see me.. Lols. Ɣξαн back to that fateful day, I went upstairs to see my boss that morning looking super smart and cute in a sexy black mini-skirt and a pink top-of-chest revealing silk dress looking very smart and lovely on her. I commented on how beautiful she was and her response to my complement sent my heart racing, my voice was choked and 1 billion thoughts ran through my mind.. I was not surprised though, I was just shock at how blunt she was with......

----To be continued, I want to know if the post intrest you before I give you the full gist of what transpired that day and that has continued until now.. The events and escapades, scene by scene.---- READERS COMMENTS Please and follow @GistCrunch on twitter.

Dumb A?? you are F a married woman
Cut the BS and go to hell B
IF YOU ARE THAT GOOD LOOKING YOU SHOULD HAVE GIRL OF YOUR AGE
Not old soup or Sugar Mommy FOOL

Vikin: No way! Thats why is called PERSONAL photos...

Enjoy!

If you change your mind please email me

Vikin: its uploaded...you can view it now

Ok great but email me personal photos
U got my email

Vikin: Maybe both!

Vikin I am still waiting for your photo

collins123: If Yahoo Yahoo be Obtaining by Trick, wetin be Obtaining by Harrasment?

Na Thunder go fire anybody wey dey claim holy holy for here!! Thunder burn them to ashes!

Are you yahoo boy or 419?

queensmith: being gay isnt an insult!

a straight man that hates women. . . . .well done.

queensmith: being gay isnt an insult!

a straight man that hates women. . . . .well done.

Hate is a strong word
I think he was going to use the word dislike
Hate some women attitude

Crown Prince: nairalanders help please. I am not a pretender like most forumite here who uses several handles to solicit help. I am a liberal minded fellow who believe in honesty and transperency. I live a full life and i am consistent with reality,that is why my everyday living is eventful though not controversal. I weigh the goods that happen in my life against the bad and i am happy to continue living...i live my life but now my little world has been rattled or rather been provoked by my past. I am considering committing Murder or manslaughter whichever you counselled me on now.
My Ex of six months in connivance with her new would be husband arrested me this afternoon. My sin?...for maltreating his fiancee while she was with me. I was even made to sign some life guarantee documents on her head. Just imagine humiliations...while i was subjected to dehumanising tortue by the security operatives,the shegoat was giggling away. Advice please,do i kill the man and let the woman live or i kill the woman and let the man or i kill both then commit spiritual ascension to higher realm.

Is this April fool?
Kill her and go to jail for nasty P

michelin89: And over eating more times in a day!

Not drinking enough water!

Doctor?
Other lie O

RealBitch: Have a cold bath

He should go play with is hands
he need to stop being a foolish Dog

RealBitch: wtf¿¿ Dude, this freaking gameboy's picking on me for my looks which is absolutely none of his business,:| why would i want to hitch myself with such a wimp?:/

Yes you right I did pick on you for your look
I am sorry
Image is everything remember that
If I marry you consider yourself lucky
I got it

Family history
Mama did it to papa no problem
So I will grow up and do it too to husband
Any comment?

dont8: Did that guy also had a family outside? I suspect you and games to be husband and wife, but why wash your dirty linen outside.

Dude your got games
I think she will be a wonderful wife to somebody but not me
Thanks' any way

Tgirl4real: You wear more make-up than clothes.

Your method of getting a man comes from Nollywood"

U fight with every guy u meet

You talk to so many the decent ones
can't be bothered sticking around and you lose out

No man is going to put up with an attitude that you can't even put up with yourself.

You can't find a man when you're too busy banging everyone

You dont cook. You dont clean. You dont take out the trash. You just DONT.

You compare too much or you act desperate/annoying.

You ignore the one who adores you and adore the one that ignores you.

Ur too busy holding onto the last one.

You Too Busy Searching For A Guy That's
Like Your Ex Instead Of Looking For Better.

So . . .

Add the following below to the reason some people get dump:
lying, secretive and keeping information

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I have noticed that TOO MANY people are under the impression that non-Nigerian women goes out in the hunt looking for Nigerian men. I mean WTF? I know I am going to bruise some feelings...oh well.

Nigerian men are no different than non-Nigerian men. Collectively, all of them are full of shit.....but I digress. Why do some people feel it is their duty to tell GROWN people whom they should or shouldn't date/marry?

Would it be any different if OP was Nigerian? Then what would the excuses be? An arsehole is an arsehole regardless if he is a momma's boy or a broke nigga. Some people need to stop making excuses for pure fuckery. It has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with what, you are, where you come from, and whom you represent. If you want someone, YOU WOULDN'T HAVE ANY EXCUSES. Real talk.

Now OP..take your experience with a grain of salt and move forward with positivity. You may meet another Yoruba who would have class and intelligence far greater than your ex. You may meet an Indian or German who will love you regardless. Never let anyone make you feel like shit or ashamed because you are Black American.

Despite what dumb arses say...Black women in Western countries aren't just marrying/dating Africans, but Asians, Whites, Arabs, Native American, and Islanders.

You also have remember many chatters on here are looking for someone to love and desire them as well. Some of them have boyfriends and girlfriends goes by the name VASELINE AND BATTERIES. [/quote]You are my girl

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Don't hate. [/quote]Girl, I am not a hater
Sis, Question for you
Do you have white joystick at home?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Black men ain't shit. Get a white man.[/quote]Other BS of your
Evil comes in all color, race and nationality
Don't fool yourself Madam

cindyrella: I can't believe u suggested he moves back to nigeria. Are u for real??

Yes , I did
The kid need to learn some hard lesson
If he goes back to Nigeria
The kid will learn to appreciate the scarify the partners made
He think he is in U.S he doesn't have to listen to his partner

jeffizy: Aren't U̶̲̥̅̊ doing what U̶̲̥̅̊ said U̶̲̥̅̊ don't wanna do?

She was very disrespectful
I was not going to sit back for a hood rat to insult me

Abdul Adam56: advice please not BEAF

If you have a real B? insulting you
You can man up or be a B like her

chineloSA: @luckgames, YOU ARE A SERIOUS PROBLEM.
DEAL WITH YOURSELF. ??

Mad woman
Sorry, that I cannot help your lonely heart
So Get help

pufectskin: Hello guys,
I am wondering if a site like www.victoriasecrets.com or www.pabo.com would work in nigeria.
Because I believe women should be pretty darn sexy kittens in their matrimonial homes.
Also I just believe women shld feel sexy and beautiful all the time cos I thiink it brings out the best in us. But my dilemma is; I don't want to be sooo passionate about dis dat I completely lose focus on d practicality of it (i.e can I make some pretty good money in this?).
Basically all orders would b online...
I want to know how much girls r willin to pay for good quality bra, panties, sleepwear, etc?
How often do u change underwear? Do u consider ur man in this matter? And men, would you like to see fresh new underwear on your woman often? How often?

Pls help everyone...both guys and gals advice welcome.

One of my ex paid 50 for bra at high end shop

wakagirl: My elder sister is getting quite upset and frustrated with herself for her inability to further her education back then. She is unfortunately 38 years at the moment, she has a stable job though not quite rewarding financially but it keeps body and soul together. She lives abroad (Scotland) and is not doing really bad just that recently she started feeling bad about not holding a degree cert. It was not her fault there just wasn’t support when she was supposed to further her education.

For some reasons she is feeling so bitter about it now and is getting very upset. She is to me lucky to still have a job and a stable one but she thinks if she holds a degree cert she can do a better job and earn more as her current job does not require any special skill and anyone can do it. At the same time she is worried about being able to cope and come out in flying colours as age is not on her side and she also has other commitment like kids to look after.

At 38 what advise will you give her, is it too late to pursue a degree and if not will she be able to cope and come out well and even at that will this degree be that relevant and useful at the end of the day with her age?

Will appreciate any advice.

I know somebody who completed his degree
He is over 53 years old
Have a great job, so age is a number
People go to medical school at 38

Spartakos: @ OP. I KNOW YOU ARE IN A MESS. I CAN HELP. PLS CALL 08036660419. I'LL BE EXPECTING YOUR
CALL.

Help him with what?
Please don't kill the girl O