Abizz:

Brother man, I do not honestly have the connection you seek unless I want to be dubious. Things are to a very convincing extent based on merits here and not mere connection, please I'm not saying people don't pull fast plugs tho.
All I can say is, when there are openings (which are rarely ever announced to the outside world) I could reach out to you to come apply, you get?

The only thing that stayed in my mind is this
You said you're older than him with more than a decade
And you also said you're still single...
Then you should be 60 something....
Don't mind my curiosity o
You type young but are you really 60 something?

Ayodele951:
I'm currently having a quarrel with my wife she wants our 1year and 3month baby to start day care. I insists she starts when she's old enough like 2years.

She's really a smart girl at here age.

What year is appropriate for a baby to start day care?

If your Wife is working, please just send your Baby to School. To help everybody's sanity.
Those bundles of Joy can be damn frustrating

Owotutufarms:


Thanks for contacting us.

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We don't have site there sir the closest to that area is KAJOLA, atan, Ogun State.


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Yes
Thank you

matrix199:


Oh the puzzle! Well, you have to have an I.Q greater than 120 to be able to figure the answer. DM?

Okay Sir

matrix199:


Now my trousers is off. You have to wear it back. Lunch?

Sounds interesting,we could talk about why the answer to your first puzzle was 40 and not 30

ikotunblog:


I put it in my noodles, Omo asides getting you high, it's just like an extra Ingredient. It won't make your food taste a certain way but rather add to it.. if you omegake am cook white rice or beans nkoor.. e too make sense.. finally you'll get high like a fool

Why will I ever want to get high like a fool na?
Thank you
I'll pass

matrix199:


. I actually didn't copy your post young girl. I simply read his post and clicked on the top reply without going through folks' suggestions.

I guess it was just a mere coincidence.

Yes Sir
I was basically pulling your legs
Sorry Pappy

AllDModsAreMaad:

Pele ti e!

Mi o binu o.

Happy Sunday to you!

Same to you too Sir

AllDModsAreMaad:

LOL, you are free to advice, comment etc, but do it constructively and with courtesy.

No o
I'm not saying anything again o
You aff cover my mouth

Tickles001:

You're the one trying to put words in my mouth. I started the obvious truth and gave counsel in accordance.
I would not misguide the op into lifelong dissatisfaction, to buy the young lady a chance at extra happiness.



Haha. I don't have to tell you that I'm more grounded in the scriptures than you think. And I know there's no logical person that will tell the op to marry that girl on the grounds of good character.

Understand these points
*He is happy with her
*He is happy with her every being
*That is primary,his needs are primary
*Every other person's opinion is meant to be "an opinion" which can be discarded.

Judging from poisonous persons like you, I see him doubting his choices,just because a Mr and people will say things like they have 10 lives to live to come back to see how he would have faired if he married a different lady and not her.

(Lifelong dissatisfaction)
Why not take a peak into the future and tell what Gas price will be by December Mr?

"No logical person that will......"
What more would a logical person do than to reason analytically and practically on subsequent peace and internal values that can be a consistent asset?
Values are rich you know
Values,morals,goodness is rich
Brain and sense also
Wisdom and intelligence
Not here says and misconceptions.

[quote author=Tickles001 post=116344289][/quote]
And God made you a judge?
Told you to use sentimental undertones to decipher characters?
Don't spoil that lovely Lady's chance at extra happiness okay?
Face your Bible and read Proverbs and Ecclesiastes,helps you be a better logical Christian.
No offense..

matrix199:
Wear a pink plain shirt and a black trousers. Botton up to your collar and wear a brown pam-sandals. Then hold a bible.

No one would look at you once, let alone twice!

Copy copy

Connected1:
That's not enough to marry her.

If she's not dumb you think she would still remain a virgin?

Most Fat and ugly girls are virgins because fewer men desire them.

I am not saying you shouldn't marry her but that's not a valid reason, look for something else good in her.

See talk
So who should marry her please?
Bad guy's?
The way some men reason is nauseating.
He loves her qualities and values, isn't that good enough?
He personally doesn't have an issue with her physical shortcomings.
Isn't that good enough?
Isn't that worth the while?

Tickles001:


I wouldn't advise you to marry her. All those qualities you listed were a result of her predicament not that she's different. You can find a normal girl that is satisfactorily wife material.

Have you considered how your kids would feel about it or you're just bothered about your interest.

What kind of talk is this
OP abeg on the contrary,those qualities you listed could be as a result of her values,her personal values.
If you have good intentions towards her,then go with your instinct not other people's opinions

Prettygirl200:
Somebody should come and console me pls, I feel like dying. Is it a crime to love?? Is it? As I no sabi do hookup na so dem wan dey break me everytime? I don't deserve this I honestly don't.

First
Abeg stop giving them the coochie, it'll hurt o yes but the breakup won't be too deep
Boyfriends don't deserve sex from good girl's
Note the "boyfriend"
I keep telling people, giving sex isn't an assurance a guy will stay so please,no sex is like a drug that reduces the pain of heart break,you get to heal better and not feel used abeg.
Get your power back.
As it is,there are more promiscuous men these days.
Sorry you hear and see him as a dirt,a weak one for that matter, don't drag yourself low to the level of someone sharing a cheap and insecure divk.

AllDModsAreMaad:

LoL
Anyway, I am not the type that is after beauty only, but that doesn't mean I should go for someone that doesn't come up a bit wrt look.

FYI, one of those people I referred to is someone men do admire openly when she visits me, some men make remarks like "oga/bro/guy na your woman/wife be this, Omoh she too fine and all that."
I mean she is physically BEAUTIFUL.
Aside her beauty and care, do you even know why I am not considering her?
You don't know but you are quick to badmouth me.
Others are also modest in look.

Aside look there are other things like temperament etc, to consider o.
So dey reason well abeg.

When it comes to things I look out for in a woman, beauty is not even at the top level. I am good looking, I can always go well with a moderately(modest) looking woman.

The koko is peace of mind and not look, get that into your head.

Badmouth you ke
Sorry
Let me zip up and mind my business before you give me e-slap

AllDModsAreMaad:


Why taking it personal?

First of all, is it your life?
Are you the one getting OR planning to get married?
Don't I have freedom to choose or plan my life anymore?
Should a man just close eyes and marry without considering certain things?
Will you advice your bro(let us be real) not to consider his business(hustle), his kids etc when making such plan?
Do you know that the same way I am looking out for certain things is the way ladies also look out for certain things in men?
I can go on and on...

A lady may be good but not compatible with a man, vice versa.
From your understanding, a man who is always traveling due to the nature of his job or who works onshore for half of the year i.e 6 months onshore, 6 months leave(or similar job nature) can marry a woman who is always busy with her job i.e leaves home very early in the morning and come back home very late in the night because both are good without considering their compatibility and children etc?

Again, a good type C USB cable won't be compatible with an iPhone device no matter how good it is.
Can you give a hungry fellow water? Does that affect the goodness of water?

That is the problem you people are having, leaving the point and focusing on another thing.

Now, read well...
For her to be lucky and blessed to me have many meanings, which includes she is good for me, even if she is not good for another,
We are compatible,
I am also lucky and blessed to have her etc.

I guess you read to reply/comment not to understand.

Ah sorry Sir
E ma binu o

Badboibipo:
I will give the best answer 5k on Monday.

Please what do I do to become invisible to society? How do I make myself look so people won’t turn at me the second time? If you give me a perfect answer I will literally pay you for it. It’s so easy to mistake my frustration as clout seeking, but it’s not. I made some mistake as a kid, and now I’m like a billboard that everyone won’t stop looking at. And I cannot keep living like this, I need it to stop.

I have tattoos, body tattoo. Neck tattoo. Small eyes, and dark under eye lids that I tattooed as a teenager. Everyone won’t stop looking at me for over 8 years now since I drew them all, please it’s too expensive to take them all off.

People who think I’m always seeking attention now you know why everyone won’t stop looking at me, I’m so miserable. I lock myself indoors 90 percent of the time.

Help me I will pay you for it.

Oga
Wear big clothes,wrinkled trousers and belt
Then carry Bible or Book with faded palms
You'll look like a pauper(no offense)
People ignore pauper's.Long sleeves,long trousers,button your collars.
Keep your 5k

AllDModsAreMaad:


Wow, things dey happen o.

I have these two babes I'm still observing, I have been thinking maybe I should use the money and travel out but I need someone to manage my business.

So, I'm considering getting married to one of them i.e the lucky and blessed one, impregnate her and travel out moment after that, while she is here managing the business.

With time she can join me over there.

"The lucky and blessed one"
Women has suffered in this life
Why not the "good one"?
Why not get a Manager instead of a Wife?
Since you're all about managing your business here?
All these men that don't tell themselves the truths ehn, it's getting nauseating.

AllDModsAreMaad:
Hi People,

I decided to create this post to know if there are others experiencing same thing I am experiencing.

This year will make it two years that I have been planning to settle down without settling for a lady.
It is either they piss me off with one thing or I will just lose interest in them for issues that I would have overlooked few years ago.
Those that show me love and care are not what I'm searching for(in my own view), despite my harshness towards them at times they are still there showing the love and care some times secretly without leaving.

Now, I understand that popular line "Women are many and everywhere, it when you want to marry that you will know that women are scarce."

I initially wanted to opt for BabyMama but that path is a no-go area for many reasons.

I have decided to tell my people to get me one if they can next year because I am tired of searching.

Married men in the house, how did you settle for your partners?

Single guys, how una dey cope?

Are you blind no
Will you see? No
Cause what you need is not what you want
"Those that show you love is not what you want"
Let me guess their type
They're hardworking?
Not slayers?
Not feeding off their pussies?
Not damn trendy and physically dazzling like drip drip everywhere?
Then the ones in the shape and sizes you want, you're worried they can't keep a Home?
Happy Married Life in advance,cause you'll end up with what you want.

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sparko1:


In my opinion, the cumulative monthly earnings of a man shouldn't be less than 200k, salary and all, 100k in the village is not bad but in Lagos, even a single guy won't survive.

A man has a lot of responsibility, and marriages doesn't reduce it like many will have you believe, as a matter of facts it will increase it, a single guy that can't send his Mom 20k monthly, when is he going to start, after marriage, sometimes marriage brings new opportunities but not always, a man hoping marriage will change his finances is doomed to fail.

Well my Dear
There are people earning that and below and still surviving in the same Lagos.
Concerning the Mummy?
Let her Husband, his Father take care of her ehn till he can afford to send,also she should take care of herself.
Be realistic please.

MoneyMustBMade:


U re a man's prayer point
A woman that can manage a home
As a man if u have this type as wife u will go far in life coz u re sure even u keep ur money in her hand to save for u, she will manage it well. With this one will be rich in due time

Awwn awwn awwnn
Thank you

sparko1:


Let check this 60k for food you say is extravagant.
Semo 5kg - 3,500 I
Rice - 4,000
Bean 2,000
Yam - 5000
Meat 15,000 cook weekly
Fish 10,000
Soup materials weekly cooking - 3,000 *4 =12,000
Oil red- 2,500
Oil white- 2,500
Gas 4,500
Indomine - 3,500
Egg 5,000
Flour and other bread making stuff- 5,000
Drinks (soft drink) - 5,000
Beer.- 5,000
Household Cleaning includes bathing - 5,000

Let me stop here

This alone is over 60k

A lady can be earning 20k and be doing fine, but there's a guy doing some spending, ask him to send the complete details of what he spent monthly. This is not directly at you, but its a statement of fact.

Some ladies cream is 10k, soap is 5k make stuff is 5k

Yes Sir
If you're earning 100k and using 60k for food,it is not bad
If you're earning that and you have responsibilities to shoulder asides yours,that is when it is somehow.
You have the choice not to date a spending spending Lady.

sparko1:


NO! I use your analysis, not 500k

I combined the income as you suggested and analyse.

How do you survive with 20k salary as a man in Lagos, even in the village it is not easy, let's stop pretending, my younger sister in school receives 30k monthly, she still come home to pick food stuff.

If your younger sister didn't have a choice,trust me she'll not die
How a man survives 20k salary
You'll have to find out for yourself
Just know there are the low and the lowest.
It'll shock you to know some of them are managing with full contentment,one I find puzzling and amazing.

sparko1:


For a couple, how much do you spend on food as a lady, not married, I know how much I spend, I spend between 60k and 70k,because I cook! But I don't visit hospital, I don't eat extravagantly, I make everything I eat including bread.

Yeah so 120k for two people is fair.

I'm single yes but I don't have a fixed feeding budget
Cause I am good at managing actually
I could have a budget doubling in price cause I'm trying out new recipes on the internet or trying out Canteens or Restaurants.
Doesn't mean I don't know how I've managed a 20k income,a 60k income,an 100k income and others.
Concerning Hospitals, I guess the prayer is to be in good health cause at times,not eating well or eating right might not be the cause for an illness.
The major prayer is to have the fees to pay the bills when needed.
You can't tell me because you earn 100k and want to eat well,you now spend 70k on just feeding as a single man.
For me
Either my income is way above it or I'm not even checking the price.
But this is the point, for a fixed salary like this,it is only sensible to guage your spendings and adjust to your income size.
(I'm impressed with your baking bread)
I got flour since and haven't baked nada

sparko1:


It all depends on their location, 80k a month in Lagos is NO NO!

I get it, no amount is enough but you need at least 120k monthly to survive as a couple just for food, except your want to spend more that on drugs and hospitals bills.

This is beside car maintenance, house rent and other emergency from family and relatives.

Let try and analyse it
Total income from the man 960,000
Total income from wife 600,000 (half of this have to go for her upkeep, that leaves 300,000)

Monthly food -120k- 960,000
Car maintenance 6 times a year @ 30,000- 180,000
House rent 350,000(this is the lowest for a room and parlor in Lagos)
Fuel for car - 20,000 monthly - 240,000
Fuel for generator (God help you if you want to use diesel) 10,000 monthly - 120,000

This alone is over 500,000 extra without, clothes, household items, gadgets, electricity, water, other stuff like waste management payment, outings, birthdays, church donation.

I just read your comment finish.
I think some of us need to travel to understand the meaning of living within our means and being contented with it till things improves.
They asked "100k", yes Sir,you went and did an analysis of 500k and still wasn't even a enough for you.
Means people earning 20k monthly should probably die since they have no place with that budget.

sparko1:


It all depends on their location, 80k a month in Lagos is NO NO!

I get it, no amount is enough but you need at least 120k monthly to survive as a couple just for food, except your want to spend more that on drugs and hospitals bills.

This is beside car maintenance, house rent and other emergency from family and relatives.

Let try and analyse it
Total income from the man 960,000
Total income from wife 600,000 (half of this have to go for her upkeep, that leaves 300,000)

Monthly food -120k- 960,000
Car maintenance 6 times a year @ 30,000- 180,000
House rent 350,000(this is the lowest for a room and parlor in Lagos)
Fuel for car - 20,000 monthly - 240,000
Fuel for generator (God help you if you want to use diesel) 10,000 monthly - 120,000

This alone is over 500,000 extra without, clothes, household items, gadgets, electricity, water, other stuff like waste management payment, outings, birthdays, church donation.

Wait stop
Monthly food 120k
Yes Sir, whoever earns less should live less and consume less.
They won't die.

Rozross:
Most people will have to take their insults on blessedmercy back because I’ve not seen a well detailed analysis to counter her post. No relationship without support from other sources will survive in this present condition of the country on just 100k. Let’s try to take things easy and be truthful to ourselves

If you're ready to go down the relationship lane with a 100k earning man
Let's be realistic
I am also a realist, I don't expect you to have nothing to bring to the Table and if you don't have.

Things you'll have to lookout for is proximity to his work,transport and rent.
If his Job is around an expensive housing location,then either you people go for a Self contain with his savings,cause 10k-12k monthly from his salary will cover up for that.
While choosing his House,better to go for the most affordable.

Next is his transport,do everything possible to have him relocate closer to his working place.

Next is feeding.
Feeding comes with analyses, you're just two adults.
Rationalize how many percent goes for that.
You as a woman have to know how to manage,if you're good,the both of you can spend less than #1500 daily.(budget 40k for feeding)If you're Market smart, you'll have a considerable size of protein.
I tell you and this is achievable with bulk buying,choose something on your food list to buy in bulk bits by bits .
House keeping expenses
Light bill,if the House uses prepaid meter,cut your consumption so so well,you don't need the bulbs on till night, switch own bulbs not in use, don't overcharge your phone,switch off your connection when you're out.

Let's say 3k for that and 2k for any other thing,another 5k for miscellaneous.

How much is that?
That's close to 70k
Your hair,do Didi or manage #1500 per month.
Clothes,buy bend down select.
Toiletries (3k)
Save 10k
WATCHOUT for anything you can invest your savings on.
You and your man should look out for creating your cash flow.
Then do an health insurance,even if it's 3k monthly.
Don't forget your Gas,be smart about cooking.
All na management.

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How much for your Cylinder?

kolly1628:
2m
Serious buyer

Sold already

callmemikel:


Thank you. But he said he can only buy used Corolla from 2011 upward

You welcome
The owner said it's been sold sef