Sanmel:
Lol.. I'm in between ooo.
I don't like the way he responded to me at all.. I was even referring to him as bro.. O ja mi la ra je o and I'm certain I'm older than him sef.

Ehn I know but even though
We'll be doing kandan kadan ni, Surulere
Next time ehn as the reaction is coming like that, just pause and count 1 - 5
Or type and erase everything, now try writing again, the anger would have dissipated a bit.

zanshi:



I stand by what i said Lucrativress, if you are in doubt go ask your male friends for their undiluted opinion and you would see that it resonates with what i said above. Ever heard about how girls who were once loose and out there marry early and successuful husband's compared to their pairs? It is because they are approachable compared to your so called "Good girls", try and walk up to a good girl and strike up a conversation with her as a guy and she would most likely turn you down. Bad girls would be quick to exchange pleasantries and humor with you.

-Shalom

My problem is with the "successful Husband"
A good man is only good cause he is successful....

A financially decapitated man = Bad man

Asides the money, what else can he offer?
That's where the real "good man" comes to play..

You see the likes of Linda Ikeji...
Do you think it is this definition of a "good man" they're looking for?
Cause if that is it, then he'll be completely useless to them...

A good man is meant to have common sense, emotional intelligence, be a companion.
Financial intelligence
Know also how to keep a Home
How to be emotionally and intellectually available..
Aim for improvement in every area...

That's the definition of a good man..

Not just "she married a successful man" = good man...

Not every financially stable single man has sense...

culf:


They are good guys, a lot of them but they are not as conspicuous as the players.
Most of them are not even relationship minded but(they are usually focus) are open to it when a lady stick by and that is when the bad girls have an advantage

Why will anybody come for you, you didn't say anything wrong.

most men become good after they get married
The single one's?
Do they exist?
I look forward to being surprised..
Because presently good guys seem to be only interpreted as "he has money to take care of the lady and a family".

His intellectual maturity and thoughtfulness doesn't seem to matter....

jeromestarks:

She's not right at all.
How can you be good and learn something bad?
Where do you keep your faith?

The Op wants to be smart but all I see is shared stupidity.

What is GOOD is good and in it there is no bad.

What is BAD is bad and in it there nothing good.

Is either good girl gone bad or bad girl gone good. There's no middle ground.


Light has no relationship with darkness.

Faith
Substance of things hoped for evidence of things not seen.

Exactly, it becomes superficial, something which was meant to be worshipped as a good part of culture and rewarded.

Times are changing, the World is dynamic, I am a Christian, yes, I believe in Faith, yes but I'm also pretty practical.

And I am a fan of Ecclesiastes and Songs of Solomon...

For now I'd just say "Faith without works is dead"
The work will be working with what's up now...

What's up is most men are drawn by what they see.
They shout bad girls but they love bad girl's
So you don't have to loose your virginity as a virgin but be ready to make alterations to yourself except you want to announce it to the World like the Corper....

jeromestarks:

She's not right at all.
How can you be good and learn something bad?
Where do you keep your faith?

The Op wants to be smart but all I see is shared stupidity.

What is GOOD is good and in it there is no bad.

What is BAD is bad and in it there nothing good.

Is either good girl gone bad or bad girl gone good. There's no middle ground.


Light has no relationship with darkness.

I totally agree with you but in a age where we have so much moral decadence, chastity, purity and independence is no longer valued or welcome.
You're seen as bland and "not in the league, unapproachable, less attractive" and....

As much as there are no Grey's, we're now in a time where you have to succumb to something's if you do not want to remain unseen.

In those days, matchmaking actually saved the day.
Someone else did the marketing of "values and morals over anything", you get to make her yours and improve on her purity to your taste.

Now what we have are men who wants sex, beclouded by their bulges, sensual lust and enticed by what their eyes can see.

You expect your values of being a good Girl, less doting and all to be a enough, but nope, it's not, more like setting yourself up to remain unseen.

To be unseen, either you shoot yourself way up in the spotlight and let the story known so you have a large crowd listening.

Or you *WAIT* for a miracle...
This this is the agony of some good girls now.

Believe it.

zanshi:
Be approachable, the difference between good girls and bad girls is that they are approachable and are more willing to give a random guy who chance who can turn out to be a good guy and they have everything on lockdown for this guy. Good girls on the other hand are snubbish, unapproachable would stay beclouded in their delusion thinking that they have to vet you 10times and over keep you around for a little longer before they can say yes, but the thing is guy's unlike previous generation don't seem to stay around any much longer and in doing that you may have missed your opportunity to build something with the right guy.

See generalisation...
"Good girls are snubbish"
Better be calming down..
"Stay beclouded in their delusional thinking"

Hunku which of them do you strong thing like this?
Don't mind her you hear, they're not all like that.

I think you should recheck the meaning of your "good Girl"

culf:
To be smart if they want to get married and stop thinking it will make them look cheap. Enter that good guy, hook him and make him yours!

Who is a good guy?
Are there even good guy's?
Good guys seem like guys that can take care of ladies...
So if a good girl can take care of herself, she automatically starts looking for a sensible guy
And it seems like they're going extinct
Please nobody should come for my head ooo

nenyewrites:
How to not carry boyfriend for head.

I am giving you a medal
This is one default
In fact anybody for head

Sanmel:
Are you high or you're just incredibly stu.pid? I blame myself, ignoring you would have been a better alternative..
See me thinking I was responding to a sane person. Mad man

Ahn ahnnn
Hantyyyyy
Kinide de
Be calming down
Now you'll confuse the spiritsss
Are you a good Girl or a Bad girl
You do not need to go vulgar, let us disagree in love...

jeromestarks:

Are you even listening to yourself?
It's like you don't understand the words you use. Shame on who brought you up.

How can good and bad have anything in common?
Aren't you by yourself confused?
What's wrong with these children sef!

She is right o
The bad girls are getting hooked up
The good girls are sulking indoors
She knows just what she's saying....

Lemme coman learn
*Carries Chair, Book, Biro*

LagBae:


And it's not just her that would suffer o, the innocent children too. They would wish they had come from another family. And if God doesn't intervene, it might affect many areas of the child(ren)'s growth; psychological, academic, spiritual... Trust me, I know.

Exactly

khatea:


Tastes rili good. I only eat it raw or boil it togeda with the yam, peel off the skin n mash it to remove all lumps. Prepare the sauce like u are preparing fish stew n just pour the grounded garden egg into it, stir togeda n leave to cook till satisfaction. Ur garden egg sauce is ready!

I'll try it soon
Thank you

womaniser:
I had friends in school and I mean good old pals not acquaintances or 'Hello Hi's but over time these relationships have become estranged due to work and location changes. Now we may just chat online or through the phone occasionally but theres been this need to have men to hang out with on Friday evenings.

I must admit that life's experiences have taught me to be weary of allowing people get too close but sometimes you need that right hand man you can call up at 1am and he'll show. I don't do so well at small talk and my job had been majorly independent work on the field so theres no colleagues to roll around with. I also find its hard to find someone I can relate with on the same mind level. Priorities always differ. Its not pride or anything but I can't be talking about girls or other people, I'd rather talk about ideas and fun past experiences.

Anyone else been in my shoes?

How did you handle these issues?

Thanks

I chose and kept a Very small useful circle.
Amazing!
You don't need many people
You just need the few right one's.

Ransomtheking:
Is your father's uncle literally called your uncle or your grand uncle

Ehn ehn
Your Inlaw

darthv:

Did you read where I wrote that she must have a verifiable source of income, that's if she is living away from family.
If you like go marry olosho keep for house.


Meanwhile, you can literally perceive how people see life just from there social media updates

Okay Sir ooo
Ese ooo
Happy Sunday o

khatea:
Brunch

Yam & Garden egg sauce

What does the garden egg sauce taste like please?
I added Garden Egg's to my grilled fish stuffings yesterday and added butter to melt on it, first time using Garden eggs as part of my stuffings, then put some on the Fish, the taste was different, can't even explain it but, the toasted ones on top had this sought of sauteed flavor with pinch of spice's.

Broke the fish into two to fit inside the stew, I saw one of the garden eggs inside the Stew that had cooked and I'm scared to eat it
I forgot to add I grilled snails alongside and added to it, God the taste is madddd
The snails are soo tender when you take a bite and the Fish has that smoky taste to it, so I can't really say the part the Garden eggs added to it since I added herbs and spices.

FromOuterSpace:
Next, while the meat was marinading, I roasted some red bell peppers, jalapenos peppers and red onions in the oven. This is really a must-do for stews, especially if you want that party taste.

Peppers and onions release their natural oils when roasted, which enhances the taste of stews. It's really hard to describe - you've to try it for yourself to understand what I mean.

I have to try this out real quick
See food hacks oo
I should be visiting this food section

gloryhomemaker:


The roasting part is very important especially for the party like taste.

Welldone, am waiting for the food.

Really??

Raalsalghul:
Given how opportunistic and materialistic Nigerian ladies can be, I wouldn't advise this move.

So, just like some posters before me, pretend your fortunes are about to change for the worst and watch her reaction.

Also, why can't you get women in the U.K even if it's just for sex only?

Which kin advise is this?
If any man tells me his fortune is about to change for the worst.

1st that's so so pessimistic, that's a whole lot of negative energy which is a psychological irritant to me. I won't even hide it, like so who do you want to drag into trenches? Boya you should get better first ooo...

But if he comes out with it this way.
Babe, I've got a bit of an issue, there's been a downsize, I got layed off, had to pinch into my savings quite a little bit much but I'm working on it.
I'd be coming back to the Country, I've still got just a little of my savings, I have few options I'm presently checking, could we talk about this, I need you, I know it's not what you want to hear but we could work it out together I'm sure.

A lady who is wise and willing to stay would do her mental calculations well by analysing his financial intelligence.
Not looking at his current finances but on a long run.

One who is after his money will drop him immediately, one who is after growth will get her thesis right and see he is a moving Train, who could slow down at some bends but keep moving.

GEEBITE:
My friend is in a deep dark place now. One of the most heart rending stories of this manner. He left for UK same day we finished high school with us feeling like we have been left behind. When we got reunited in 2009 after I moved to UK,he was in a mess and has wasted about 15years of his life as a result of mixing up with wrong folks. Through a well heeled classmate of ours we were able to get him to fix his life again and he started doing well running an auto garage.
He took the advice of his mum bringing a girl in from Nigeria. Now his world has crumbled again. DNA has revealed the child he thought was his is for another man. He lost it totally and that has led to him losing his house to that lady and mounting debts in mortgage and compulsory family upkeep has led to mental breakdown. How can a life crumbled twice before 50. It is really a sad one.

The earlier we start understanding that an ample amount of Nigerian men are not soo wise, the better.
I'm sorry if this seems like an insult
But when it comes to spousal selections, they're less intelligent..

nnamdiosu:


How many years did you school in the university?
How many years did you school in your secondary school?

If these things that are temporary took at least 20 years to study, hoe much more an individual you'll leave with for the rest of your life?

If you've seen a marriage gone bad, you'll bear the brief loneliness to understand the person.

It was those days, you could meet s person this week and get married the next week and things can move smoothly.
But these days.....

Bros calm down.
Good things take time to build.
Pm me for more counselling if you have more to share.

God bless you

Calm what down biko?
He needs mental wisdom to decipher the kind of person she is.
Wipe he should coman waste time, she is 30 fa
He should start taking note of things, if he is smart he'll know her, he has to be able to read her mind as much as he can.

Either leave her now or marry her if she is good.
She is not getting younger....

darthv:

You found a lady online lolz.


Omo, first thing first does she have a job,
Don't ever wife a woman that doesn't have a verified source of income.

If she is young, is she staying with her parents?
Girls who are in their 20-30 and still have strong affiliation with their immediate families are the best.

Hook up girls full every where o.

And leeches

I have just heard another new one
1st paragraph share brain
2nd one
E no add up
So ladies not living under their parents roof are...
Better stop generalising

Oche211:


Lol... I know you will support her. Bunch of gold diggers. Imagine the guy is not in UK. Will the relationship take this dimensions?

lolll
If I don't dig gold, I wander what you expect me to dig
Panda?

Oche211:
Abort that mission.

You will regret it. Kai, this girl want to carry you handicap

You guys are soo pessimistic
No one knows her here o but all have negative things to say about her

letsfarmnigeria:


Thanks for your respond total harvest and how much made is of a personal discuss , many people have reached out asking how much was made the truth is that that's a personal issue but of worthy to note is that this particular harvest we made a very impressive return on investment and more videos have been uploaded teaching how we made this result for others to learn and make better

Thank you

Go with percentage
Calculate your total cost of production
Find how to spread the fixed costs

Total variable costs for the expanse of 10 months
Write it down to just yourself
Let's say total variable cost of production was #100
Fixed costs like land and tools like #50
You can spread that #50 amongst a long time
Maybe add #5 or #10 from it
You could use the cost of renting for the 10 month duration.

If it comes to #110
Put your labour cost and all o

Let's say after breaking even, your profit was #30
Write you made 30% profit
You don't have to say you made #30
And say expected profit on an average is between #22 - #30



People just need working data and actual feasibility studies

Legitmenaija:


Thank you so much. Will start working on it tomorrow.

It's hard I'm sure
But there's still a remedy
Find out things he likes
You have to take him as a project you want to make work, get ready to study and scrutinize

What are the things he likes
What are the things you like about him
State them all down
What are the things you want him to start doing
Write them all down.

Next
What are the possible remedies
Don't stop at thinking of just one option.
If you have nothing forthcoming, go online.
What are his strengths, his weaknesses...
If you feel it's about being pretty unserious.

Then do this
Stop him from going to School
I know this is harsh but just do it.
Tell him you can't afford him to go to School anymore since he is not interested in School.
Sit him down and tell him it is totally fine and you understand and he wouldn't have to go to School anymore.
It would be like a joke till you make it happen.
Wait for one week to observe his reactions.
2nd week, take him to either a Tailor Shop or somewhere for him to do apprenticeship

I know this might sound crazy but find something he has Tintini passion for.
Liaise with the Owner of the Shop whoever to task him always, he has to give him things to do all the time and he has to be strict.

If the owner has a Son his age.
Tell the owner to make him come over after School everyday.
If it is that he'll bribe that one to form seriousness with book
So let him learn work
You have to observe his reactions so so well o
This can break or make him.
But I'm telling you, do this well and you might not only get a good Son but a better productive Son.

Tell the owner to send him errands, he should make him the errand Boy
The one that gets to wash everyone's plates, sweep, do stuffs.

But nothing above his power
You need to inculcate reality into that boy and make him a bit older than his age small.

Put in mind this will happen for one Term.

Whatever the outcome is, use it wisely.
Then you as his mother, read.
Read.
Tell his Boss to tell him he gives people books to read there and the Boy has to tell him wassup

It has to be life books, not School Books.

Let your son know he has no choice but to answer his Oga and you also don't have a say cause you no longer have money like you used to
Beg your son to please understand, yes do that

Ammmy:
I have a daughter out of wedlock few years back, when I was pregnant of her I was scared because I had no tangible amount of money in my account. When I finally gave birth to her, money started flowing in. I did a business and I was able to save up to 1million naira in my account. I gave my daughter everything she wanted. I was so happy she came into my life because the favours I was getting was extraordinary.

My mum stayed with me at that time so it was easy for me. At a point, my mum decided to retire to the village. She suggested that I should let her take my daughter with her so that I can get a better job and also get married. She doesn't want my daughter to be an obstruction. I thought about it for a while and I agreed with her.

It's been 3years now. Husband I no see, job I no see, money stopped flowing. Money in account started reducing now I'm so scared of what will become of my financial status. When my daughter was staying with me I was even having suitors then but I couldn't pick because wanted to concentrate on my daughter. Now I'm lonely. My daughter used to cheer me up and keep me active when she was with me.

Today a thought came to my mind saying I should go and bring my daughter back that can't I see she was my good luck charm?

Please what do y'all think?

You see the end of your second to the last paragraph is your answer.
It's not really superficial.
Your daughter gives you a mental balance by being with you.
Which makes you more happy and lively cause you have a partner going the journey with you.
An happy mind has its way of drawing more positive things to itself.

Now you're lonely, you have less that charm
You probably don't look out for opportunities as much as you do cause your daughter what actually a driving force to wanting things to get much more better.

And you see life and the mind can be tricky.
You want something so you create time just for it, it seems to be far but psychologically not putting mind in some things makes you irresistible and draws those things to you.

Shey you get
Go and carry that your lovely partner back and give her a big kiss for me

lawrenzoo:
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Just checked with him now
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GREATIGBOMAN:


It's really painful... Especially if u do legit business and know how much sweat u put in before making a single penny.


My eyes now almost having issues due to me always on my system doing gigs for people.


I've been down ever since.




Baddest month of my life.

Let me give you the simplest term happening right now.

There was no naira to really go round, so no money to buy dollar like that like that, so dollar kept rising cause of low naira to buy.

All of a sudden what happened?
Naira change notification
All the hoarded naira came out at once
So too much naira to buy dollar, first the rush seemed like ohhh naira's gonna have a big deep
But guess what, too much naira to spend did the reverse
It actually brought down the reverse to dollar cause it is only likely everybody would be rushing to exchange in dollar dollar
So the issue of surplus and is it deficit in this case
Surplus naira to buy dollar, dollar dropped yakataaaa

So it's a value unknown at the moment due to surplus but my prediction is it'll still fall till January when everything dies down

GREATIGBOMAN:
So due to how Naira misbehaving.

I went and withdrew 70% of my savings from the bank and bought $19,000 worth of USDT at N863 per dollar on binance p2p

Guess what.


I just check and they're currently selling usdt there at 722 naira.



My hard earned money just lost like that


I just deleted the app... If they like let them make it drop to N400


Crypto have really delt with me



Last year it was one merchant token that ripped me off $2000
Then Shiba Inu ripped me $1200


Anytime I do anything crypto related I lose money


Will anyone advice me to sell my USDT now at 722 and accept my loss or wait untill December if Naira will lose value further to say N900 to a dollar


Will dollar be scarce in December?


Honest opinions

Wisdom is applicable to all men
You weren't really following the News
Understanding the economic trend was meant to tell you something.