₦airaland Forum

Gerrard59:
If so, then we are in the same boat. You are also very biased. I tend to assess issues from the root stages. It is men who control societies and whip other groups to order. Case study: Arab men. I cannot recall where I did not apportion blame to a woman if she is guilty. If it is a criminal offence, the offender gets the blame. If it is prostitution, that is clearly men's fault. That is biological. If men don't patronise these women, they will close shop.

What else?

I don't support gender equal pay, as I believe it is nonsense. I don't support affirmative employment for women, as that, too, is nonsense. Everything should be by merit. For marriage? I believe in divorce. I rarely put mouth in marital affairs. If the woman decides to stay, her business. She decides to leave? Her business. I believe in people exercising their right to choose but should be prepared to bear the consequences of their actions. If they play strategic games, they win strategic prizes. If they play stoopid games? They win stoopid prizes. No ifs or buts.



Accusations of sending PMs are usually the first line of attacks from alfa meils, which is why I referenced it. Again, only one "f" moniker. I am not a handsome man, something I have stated several times here. I did not come to this country to look for women. I find them facially attractive, but not sexually. I prefer black women. Black ladies sef here, I just look, admire and go my way. There are countless of them where I come from. I am not here to be liked or loved by women.

BTW, the cries of women not finding recent black African attractive men come from the West - Germany, UK, Canada etc. I have not seen anyone here complain say women no like them. In fact, na women dey rush some of them and my guys have been urging to be room for women. I am not interested, one bit.



The thing about this simp accusation that vexes me is that these men you accuse of being simps have developed their societies to be prosperous, powerful and safe. That is my concern as that is the epitome of being an alfa meil, not shouting say women do this and women do that. A safe and prosperous society is my definition of men being an alfa meil, not being attractive to women.

Lol...you take me too serious bro!!!

purples25:
I have a feeling that whoever does is of no concern to you.

Will you kip kwayet?

Cho Cho Cho.... Egyptian parrot

Gerrard59:
Let me be civil with you this time:

- How does a Nigerian male in East Asia connote being a simp? So, what could have been the difference if I was in Western Europe?
- Why do you think I am interested in Nairaland girls? If I am not mistaken, I have only PMed one "f" moniker since being a Nairalander, which was for a health-related question. I rarely send PMs these days unless it is for monetary/business purposes. Even when I was in Nigeria, I rarely did. FYI, I have a mother and sister who love me. I am not looking for love on Nairaland o.
- What I comment on Nairaland is strictly borne from my observations and research. I am not here to make anyone happy. One major thing about me: I detest dishonesty and hypocrisy, so I use every opportunity to expose people's dishonesty and hypocrisies.

I don't think so. Many of your comments are very very biased. Infact, when it is very glaring that the woman in question is guilty, you find a way to make it the man's fault. It's not today that I noticed your moniker biko.

Your sendong Pms to NL girls doesn't make you a simp🙄. It's the incessant validation you give them online that made me notice you. Shuuu, if you east Asian girls at your neck and call, you will have no time for online validation biko. Japan, Chinese, Korean and Mongolian girls will have you if you are tall and built like me. But e be like say you short and ugly!😛

Who doesn't know East Asian men are simps? At least you are redeemable, western simps are irredeemable and the worst.

Minister of Interior dey coordinate private businesses ni?

Or someone hacked your employers WhatsApp or email and is using it to wreak havoc.

You don't work in a bank, state or federal parastatal and you think it's not fake?

Even with those I listed, do proper diligence before submitting your details.

Quality20:
ur point is educative. Yes our ladies here ain't money freaks that much

I have heard that your ladies do hookup too, just coded.

And hookup is not necessarily based on money. It's primarily based on MEET AND Bleep. At least, that's the notion in the West. Na naija version dey require money

Fruit4me:
wake up from what? From heat? No job after graduation? No basic amenities? No security? No clean water, mortality rate is high, no good hospital, everyone is japaing, Nigeria life expectancy is 60years because of stress and poverty, an Average Nigeria family can’t afford 3 square meal a day, our parents gave birth to multitude in a one room leaving us to fed for ourselves? Wake up from what exactly? 98 percent of Nigeria men are into fraud directly or indirectly, do you know why? Because is country is bleeped! No wonder South Africa calls us shit hole, South Africans insults our country and our parents. And what do we do? You men should wake up and fight for your country, stop blaming your women, stop being feminine, Nigeria women are one of the most respected women in the world.

So the men should wake up and fight for the country while the women do what, cheer us on? Are we not equals again? Ain't it typical to look for men to fight for you while the going is tough, I thought what a man can do a woman can do better?

Wake dafuq up and fight too... fruity daisy!

purples25:
In Nigeria once a woman is thirty, she has entered the grave be dat. 😁

Who is sending you DMs sef?

Gerrard59:
Most young Nigerian males are very dishonest when they lampoon young women for marrying older women. At least, evolutionary, that's normal. However, it's only black African men who marry old white women simply as a result of poverty. Nothing else! Even poorer Asians don't marry old white women. Only black African men do. Tomorrow, the same men will criticise young black African women for marrying older black African men. That's the difference: the young women marry older men of the same race. Our men are marrying older WHITE women. Something no other set of men do in the world.

It's not love, but poverty. Fine by me as a way to escape poverty. But the hypocrisies and lies should stop from young Nigerian men.

So you are in East Asia or something? Now I know why you always sound like such an irredeemable simp.

It doesn't matter how many times you yell at Nigerian men, you will never be the choice of NL girls. They may seem to like simps but you still get dumped for someone like me, a redpiller. Your online crusade is nothing but wasted energy.

4KNGOATS:
What trash are yaning here do you know who u're addressing? U must be a very stupid uncultured fellow to be spitting trash to me like this.must you threaten before driving home your points? Definitely you must be big fool

Shut your trap you uncultured pûnk!!!

It's his thread. Get out

codedgalaxy:
I know you want to sound hardcore but, i will advise you have a rethink before coming to yarn dust. For a strong man is known by his ability to pick his battles wisely.
I fvcking grewup in the streets of benin city and port harcourt,trust me it won't take me two sec to hide you destiny if i want to.
It may also intrest you to know that, same guy and i later became real good "blooders" till date
.
Nb.this happend a long time ago. Infact the girl in my writeup was my first real girl, it might also intrest you to know that the relationship didnt last,cause of her infidelity.

Kai...you could have died protecting someone who dey cheat!!! She would have moved on to fuq that nigga sef.

Lovemeharder:
How can I unread this?

Easy

Just pluck out your eyes and give them to me

Lol, never.


I just keep quiet and observe. We are equals remember? I'm not taking bullets for y'all

athaliya:
Say Redpill mentality, nobody will beat you

I have noticed you and your obsession with the redpill.

You love simps?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


These people will not kee me.

All I need is a week with her.

If she no burn those dolls and become a housewife, make I bend.

Lack of gbola and a strong male frame turn women to something else.

A nice fat "K"

I can cook it and serve it any day and anytime.

E no dey taya me to cook!!!


Who wants some ASAP?🙂🙂

drlateef:
I am not jealous. I am just saying this is no news. And it is fake news because nobody did any survey.

Yours is fake too because there is no survey...

Lateef onirugbon yeuke!!!

Shalommy:
Naija guys are gold diggers. They can marry ancestors for money. Tuueehh

You actually said what most women are guilty of.

drlateef:
Nonsense. Who told him he is the first. I spent 7 good years in university, one year housemanship, I was a virgin throughout. I lost my virginity at marriage. Can anyone beat that?

Who asked you?

You sound jealous as fuq

Nawa

Premium Bullshiit....

It's always about the money.

englishmart:
Your brain oozes inanity

Whatever you do, don't quote that werey woman, she will use rhetorics to derail the thread. No one quotes her anymore and I think she is frustrated on a deep, subliminal level.

Lol feminists are already weeping on the thread

Poor things!!!

Pepperoni is real

Englishmart..you nailed it!!!

Women want opportunities without attendant sacrifices. Disagree with them and they call it misogyny.

zinaunreal:
It's not about hostages. Israel is even willing for those hostages to die. That's how evil they are

Your brain is full of relaxer

FreeStuffsNG:
I thought some people said Isreal will not give in to Hamas.smh

The battle has ended and the next stage is happening inside Israel where the far right politicians and PM Netanyahu will all be sacked if not being assassinated by aggrieved opponents.

Pm Netanyahu has nothing to show for his relentless bombing and killing of defenceless babies and women of Palestine. With likely war crime hanging around his head and the same people he believed he was fighting for now calling for his head, he lost and should by now be regretting coming back to that office by compromising for the far right politicians. His normalization of ties with the Arabs has been frustrated and shredded by Hamas as no Arab country is interested any more.

His investigation at ICC will still proceed regardless of his country's non membership of ICC and arrest warrant issued against him like it was done for President Putin.

All the killings on both sides must be investigated. Netanyahu won a battle but lost a war to Hamas that got what they wanted. Check my signature for free stuffs!

I hope this drives traffic to your free stuff website,otherwise you are losing out on cashing out with this news of yours

Yugoslavia247:
Why does religion add nothing but backwardness.
Why do you have to dwell on stone age teachings?
Why does killing someone not your religion seems religious?
Why does conversion be done through conquest, rape, beheading and force?
Why does alot of religion find it easy to adapt but not yours?
Why does peace disappear when you become majority?
What is the crime of the Jews if not being Jews?
Why do you have to kill others to find peace in heaven or promise of virgins?
Why
Why
Why

Exactly what I typed in the other thread. People never ask questions about these things but keep following blindly

descarado:
Actually, you all here don't know the real meaning of alpha male you claim to be. Alpha male is a traditionalist and insist on providing for his woman always. Alpha male came from romance novels coined by female romance writers and is the most selling among all genres of novel. They are possessive and can do anything for their women.
Example of an alpha male is Christian in fifty shades of grey.
When I see you guys make this mistakes often and on, I come to the conclusion you don't read or research.

Those that writes supernatural romance eg werewolves used alphamale to depict the male.
Cos the male is a provider and proctecter.

One idiot online that knows nothing will come online to talk about what he knew nothing about and people will join the train without making little research.
What you all promote, follow and practice is narcissism not alpha male.
Know the difference.

K

siraj1402:
That day is in the future, when Israel will not be seen on the world map. Before you quote me, ask you father and let him ask his father of they ever exist in that place before. Then tell me what they are doing the the most of Arab countries if not that America planted them to always cause that they are doing. Hamas attacks does not happen in vacuum, Israel only shows to the world what Palestinians are going through in silence.

What of Boko Haram? You never seem run out of justification for these islam terrorists!

FRANCISTOWN:
You and I are both third parties in the story.
The first person himself said he missed garri.
We can't possibly know him more than he knows himself.

The cost of Nigerian food over there is quite exorbitant and the parents might not know just how to get garri over there.

Again , he might have been experiencing a kind of mental issues.

Nothing is always spiritually related

And I have TOLD YOU that no human being or Nigerian would come home and refuse to go back because of GAARI!

Are you ok bro? You mean you will come home from schooling abroad and refuse to go back because of gaari? Or didn't you see how his life turned out afterwards? He refused to go back to school since then....or his love for gaari made him stay in Naija too?

Of course he had mental issues, caused by the stepmom. It's as glaring as hell.

I have seen more of his case than you can imagine. I'm done bantering with you.

Peace

Martinez39s:
Oooooh Lumi. You dey always give me joy wey no good.

But you sef, why you dey always like wound person pikin with vitamin K? E no good o.

Baba Martinez!!! You know me na...why I go dey argue unnecessarily with am.... E no good for my soul biko.

Although, na the vaginarians e dey pain well well. They will even call each other and tag me a coward for not fighting with them. Imagine me fighting online with a feminist, na waste of my attention na. That 'K' dey wound them seriously.🤣

Sometimes I wonder what manner of mentality we have as Africans. We are too emotional for our own good. You see Nigerians on NL cussing themselves out over Russia-Ukrainae war and Now Hamas-Israel? Like these two countries give a fuq about us or what? Can you imagine what this SA dude is doing, like Hamas who uses their own daughters as shields would hesitate to blow his black ass up?

I don't get it, why do we love those who oppress us so much? All these countries hate black people and call us names yet we vehemently decide to associate ourselves with them and support their rights. My conclusion is that so much of our history has been erased due to our inability to write them down coupled with the destruction of that culture by whites and recolonization by Western culture that we are psychically confused about who we really are. That manifested in the urge to BELONG to any and all ideology because we have lost so much of what used to be ours.

N.B: Don't get me started on religion. That's the most controlling force on this planet and the fact that people don't realize this baffle dafuq outta me. How do you kill others (created by the same God) because they don't have same faith as you? How do you defend a God who supposedly create the whole universe and more, by killing those who according to you, defiled his name? What kind of God asks you to go out and kill others who he created in his own image? The list goes on and on and I'm tired that this singular movement called religion is so ingrained in us that no one is even willing to sit down and think for once that, " am I even doing the right thing"?

FRANCISTOWN:
As much as this story cannot be verified. Regardless, craving is a really serious feeling.

The answer is already in the story. The guy said "He couldn't survive without garri".
That means, his life depends on garri fir without it, he wouldn't survive.

We all are just trying to survive.

I have an uncle, though his life doesn't depend on Abuja kilishi but this man can take a flight to Abuja just to have a taste of this Abokis' kilishi as e dey hot.

I don't believe your story is the same as that shared. Any woman who makes such a loaded statement has fixed it in the spiritual realm. Which nonsense gaari does the son have to come back naija to drink? Gaari no dey American or UK markets? His parents can't send gaari to him from naija?

Think, bro, think!!

Rebuker:
Hmmm, It's okay to be woke, but denying the existence of the obvious is not just healthy.

A quick life story: there was a man living very close to our house back then, an old-time friend of his that he has helped in the past offered a scholarship to one of his children, but the man decided to present the son of his second wife who happened to be the 4th child of the family for the scholarship.

His first wife confronted the man, telling him her own son, who is even the first of the family, should be the one to be given the scholarship and not the second wife's son.

However, the man refused to yield, and that led to a serious fight, a lot of fights in the family. According to the man, he preferred the second wife's son because he is way more intelligent and very serious with school than the first wife's son, who isn't very bright academically.

To cut the story short, during one of the fights, the first wife was heard saying, “let him go, he will come back the same way he goes, he will come back to drink garri.”

Fast forward to 2 years later, the guy returned to Nigeria, abandoning his study for no reason. On one occasion when queried, he said not much access to garri there, and he can't survive such a place.

The guy's life has never been the same since he returned. If you see the guy now, you will never believe he has ever traveled abroad before.

So, what will you call that? A mere coincidence?

See, let's be “woke,” but please let's not be ignorant of the evil that exists in this world o.

And that is exactly why her own son is not so bright at all

You see in life ehn, people are so focused on others that they neglect their own development. They are constantly envious, jealous and bitter of others achievements and neglect to focus on their own goals and in the end, still blame others for their own miserable lives

A wise woman would have allowed that boy to go peacefully and strive to make sure her own son forges his own path (since he isn't too bright academically). Her son would have been better off if she focused on his strengths and not weaknesses. How will the son survive abroad when he is weak academically biko? But you see, she let her emotions get so heated that she actually planned something evil for the second wife's son and actually ruined him.

She forgot that evil is a double edged sword and what she did will also have a rebound effect on her own son because the second wife will obviously revenge. So you have a family of many sons who became useless due to the raging emotions of their evil mothers. And so, no one progresses in the family.

N.B: Although I am human, I also learnt early in life never to be jealous of anyone to the extent of trying to hurt them. Instead, my mantra has always been to be happy for them(even when they get rich and forget me) because I believe I will also make it in life. So all my attention, strength, focus and drive ARE ALL ON MY OWN HUSTLE. I don't waste it on anyone else. I thank God for where I am today. I only wish people will focus on themselves and stop getting jealous and envious to the point of harming others who succeed. This OP story touched me because I have seen a gazillion of such personally.