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Sophiemama:
Tomorrow when you both have issues,then you will abuse her of tying you down. The mother did well,don't marry because of pregnancy.

You are a fuullish mama. He loved the girl and wanted to do the right thing. If he had aborted it, na una go still blame him. I can't imagine you lots supporting a woman who took her own child's life.

Accountability no be una strong suit sha.

TheWinterBird:
That's why you shouldn't engage in pre-marital sex. If you want to be doing that, then you should've at least been using condom. I know you're going to quote me and lie that you did but you were probably not using any with her.

As for taking legal action, lol, who would you take legal action against? Imagine taking legal action against a woman's body. As if that's how it works, unless you want to go and lose. Move on, and stop engaging in pre-marital sex, or get married first to avoid this kinda wahala again.

You are a foolish winter bird!!! Na cold go kee you las las

If he had gone for abortion, you,jeon and the other Feminazis fuuls would have crucified him alive. Yet he wanted to do the right thing and marry her but she aborted it and you still blame him?

Una matter taya me abeg...confused gender

Klass99:
Smiling and shaking my head. It's their desperation for me and the things they are willing to do for survival overseas. It's such a shame!

One naija guy created a thread 2 or 3 years ago talking about how he was shagged up with a single mother of 2 kids, the kids were rude and he couldn't correct them without the mother being upset or possibly sending him out of her house. He was living under the threat of being evicted if he didn't behave or align like a pet dog (that was my interpretation of his narrative)

Some of his logical gender people on the thread still gave him a pat on the back, with words of encouragement that the white woman is better than a Naija one, because with the white woman he can acquire papers but what can a Naija girl offer him, home and abroad.

The things they are willing to do, to japa and stay japa-ed is disappointing. And it's not like most of them had a bad life in Naija but inferiority complex will not allow them sit down in one place.

Abeg, shut it. You know nothing about hustle. Women tolerate worse just to leech men off their money and divorce them,so what's the issue? At least those guys are not stealing or raping or doing drugs. They just want a better life and are doing something about it, legally. And for a guy who wants papers, yes the white woman is way better than the naija women abroad because they got nothing to satisfy his wants.

The naija women abroad are no better. They run after white boys and other Africans with papers too, get fuqed mercilessly and DUMPED. Men with papers here are no fools. So it's not like the women are with them for love. Get your facts right, baby girl. Love is turning a mirage, and people always use people.

Farfalla:
By the time he's inviting her she won't be an ex. She will be his wife.

I actually do business with an ex, so as you can see not every ex is that toxic enemy you people portray them to be. Some relationships end amicably. People just have to learn not to be babies about every break-up.

Not on this one. You didn't marry your ex, did you? You did business. Why not marry him since he is so good. Asking a man who broke up with an ex to sponsor her trip abroad to be his wife is corny as hell. That's not love or even attraction, but a transaction. If they met up and settled before he travelled out, it would have been better. Not after.

That you don't even see what's wrong with this setup shows me all I need to know.

My last reply

Zonefree:
This industry just dey favour only girls. Efe that won big brother is now selling loud in Warri while Mercy just dey buy cars like pure water.

Selling loud keh?😳

Abeg, make una ignore that iamHer or whatever the troll is ... Let her historical lessons be unreplied!!

codedgalaxy:
you're a great mind comrade.
"Pinkpill", lol you cracked me up real good.
We are been misled on a daily basis, this are some of the issues i discussed on the thread, " have you been to other dimensions".

Ogheni...keep kwayet na... You are encouraging that troll on this thread with his BS!!

Farfalla:
I said an ex he got along with.

So you can do that for your own ex? An ex is an ex for a reason naaaaa!

DrAda:
Happy to be of help. Bye

K

DrAda:
I am pretty confident that this comment made your day. Glad to be of help

Your looseness made mine. Don't hate on chaste girls cuz you ain't one.

Bye

DrAda:
This post rubs me off the wrong way

Because you ain't a virgin. We all know that.

Now go get LAID!!!

I agree

PureFace1:
Look at the kind of advice being given to our men on Facebook, advice on how to live a very miserable and pathetic life for women that doesn't worth it.

Men must always be the one responsible and tolerating the excesses of women according to the bastard that post this nonsense online, he said if you can't it mean you are not ready for marriage as if marriage is heaven on earth.


https://www.facebook.com/100000561894805/posts/pfbid0A6kM6MVdmesYpVCGG4jNx8icKx5g1GjgrhgU5SibxztBkbNzvscDFnyV2GFhBP7Wl/?app=fbl

The last sentence is the funniest. I can't remember the last time I said the word 'love' to any woman. And Guess what, they are not crying!!!😉

OliverTwistJr:
Guys, please I need help, I don't know what to do right now

I'm a 300 level student in A federal university in Nigeria, I've never dated anyone before because I've been this guy that like book a lot

But during last semester, there is the babe near my house that has been showing interest in me, she do visit me a lot and spend the whole day with me, though I also have a crush on her but because she has a lot of guys with her, I did not bother with asking her out though she do use my things but I don't feel it at all because I have a business I'm running.

But early this week, she told me boldly that she has showed me every signs that she loves me for more than 5 months but I did not do anything. Then I told her that I noticed it but I can't do anything because she has a lot of guys already and I don't like girls like that. So the following day I asked her out but told her there is this particular guy that she is very close to, that I want her to choose among us. So she told me that he is just a friend.

For the past 3 days now, she has been lying to me and I know everything because my guys in her hostel do update me, even till this morning, the guy came to her house and slept overnight but she denied it. So I shocked her this morning and visit her and met the guy in her room only on briefs but she was accusing me and defending the guy in my presence.

After 30 minutes, she came to my place and started lying to me again that there is nothing, but I told her it is okay. But within me, I'm not feeling okay because this is the first time of loving a girl. She knew I am naive about anything relationship.

I will really appreciate advise because I've been simping too much. Within this months alone, I've given her more than 10k but she has never let me taste her food before.

Please I don't know what to do and how to handle her

Bros, I got you!!!

That girl is fuqin that boy. I can swear with my left testicle. She is using you for free things you gave her and maybe your intelligence. While you are busy lifting her with love, the other dude is shifting her pussy with diick. She knows you are naive and is playing on that.


You want help?

Do these:

1. Never talk to her again. She is ran through and not for you. She will eat you up

2. Kill whatever feelings you have for her. She will ruin your life. Trust me on that

3. Never let her come to your house or use your things or give her attention. No matter her pleas and manipulation, don't listen to what she says and never give her audience again. She is not worth it.

These three things won't come easy but do it for two weeks and you will come to thank me. If you continue with that girl, she will get you killed!!!

MSN1:
Posting Reasonable threads these days is becoming pointless because, NL of recent has been dominated by a lot of kids and unreasonable pipo, gone are the days of NL filled with creative and reasonable minds.

You have made a lot of senses.
But as usual, Pipo wen get sense nor plenty, Its a hard pill u have to swallow.

Supporting ANY gender, be it your siblings, friends etc is VERY paramount in life because; We all need each other.

D day i stopped arguing with unreasonable pipo, was d day i started having inner peace.

Ask d ladies dat are saying and wud keep saying thrash, HOW DEY WUD FEEL/REACT, If their sons earning 100k, sponsoring and catering for all the needs and wants of GIRLFRIEND. You will see how they wud go dumb.

Taking care of urself as an Adult is strictly the jobs of parents/ family or yourself (If u happen to have a skill/job), supports from external familes and partner is OPTIONAL, Unless she is your wife.
Even married ladies these days don't see the need to support households with their resources, even when they know, the man is exhausting ALL he earns.

Women in men's clothing have completely destroyed RELATIONSHIPS and MARRIAGES with the mentality they create to ladies.

----This is not and can neva b a gossip, but an example to point out how 2day's men are killing themselves and dying in foolishness----

I have a foolish colleague that works like Camel and goes home to meet a full time house wife with 3 kids.
In the nite, he still begs for svx (his right). The woman even gave him time table for sex!.
Most times, he goes months, without getting it and even if he does, He must beg seriously for it.
What a world these men are creating.

There is another that told me proudly one day that, NOTHING happens in d house without d wife's approval. There was a day an old time friend of his (unknown by the wife) was in their city and decided to just check up and say hi. He told the wife and she disagreed, he had to call the freind to cancel his coming!. What a world these people are creating 4 us.

A WORLD, BEING CRUMBLED BY WEAK AND UNREASONABLE MEN OF THIS GENERATION.

Nice take

baralatie:
Should a woman sacrifice her prime time for a man who is past his own prime time.and vice versa

Here comes balaratie the chief Simp of NL. I knew you'd come here.

Yamayama fall on your bald head dia

FalseProphet1:
When a woman's biological clock starts ticking she'll start looking to settle with the nearest chump. Don't let that be you. Choose a girl who would sacrifice her prime for you not one who wasted hers sleeping around.

Don’t be that man.

We will make a redpiller out of yet, prophet.🤣🤣🤣

blinking001:
You no wan change ba . You wey normally na top G. Stop with the pretense already

😛😛😛

obinna58:
I fear people that always use this word “not entitled to my money”

Abeg who is entitled to your money?

Na your likes dey fail people and still blame them, and you’ll be thinking it’s all by your power that life is no so hard to you.


Everybody in your life is entitled to things you have one way or the other but you deny them thinking you’re wise

I decide who I give my money obinna. I'm not a yahoo boy like you do I work for mine. If Everyone is entitled to Dangote's money, then we would all have collected our share but we are not. I know you always talk dumb but this is dumber, even for you

Only a fool does female besties. They serve no purpose. I'm either fûcking you as my babe or you are nobody. On the other hand, as a redpiller, you can turn it into your advantage and be collecting free knacks and all other goodies while all the so-called main boyfriend slave to make her happy.

But you must have the frame and the diick game to actualize this.

blinking001:
CaveAdullam, Ubunja, martinez39s, skepticus, thedarkgamer, luminouz, MJBOLT, Pansophist, regex etc. Hope you guys are all alright?

I'm fine. Thanks for checking in. Anything for your boy?

🤣🤣🤣

Ballzproblem2:
How you take know say them be redpillers , you this Zulu illiterate.

Leave her na...make she dey cap rubbish. Redpillers will now sexually molest her. When did that become our MO?

CandidAdmin:
I don't know whether what I saw this morning falls under sex harrasment, but here is mine.

We got down from a public vehicle (me and my sister) and then tried to cross the road only for one grown up to hit my sister butt and claim it was an accident.
My sister overlooked it and the we crossed the road. As we were going up a bridge, we decided to stop and buy something only for the same man to do it again. He still said it was a mistake and walked away. The road is a big one ooo, and no car was passing by but the man decided to walk on the corner where no reasonable person will pass so that he would accomplish his mission.
My sister and I were really pissed off, even the traders attending to us were insulting him but he couldn't care less.
I couldn't do anything because my sister told me not to as per he his an old useless man. If not ehnn...

Share your experience

Mynd44
Nlfpmod

I'm a redpiller and would advice you to watch out for yourself first but in this case, he did it twice and you should have seriously dragged,not beat him oh. I don't know his medical condition, make him no die if you beat am. But I know Until he is beaten, he won't have sense.

Roger3D:
What do you mean by papers?

Newspapers. AM and PM ones.

🙄🙄🙄

ednut1:
You dont meet their imaginary standards. Tall, rich, non traditional man, provider who also does chores

You mean they don't like broke redpillers?

Poor me!!!😉

VelvetRad:
Focus on the money and come pick a bride here

Bridal train ni!!!

1Sharon:
I got pissed off when I read about the Asian man. Asians are in no position to speak on Africans in the UK! They're the most despicable demographic.

You are a racist woman. Tueh!!!

Farfalla:
Diaspora relationships are usually difficult for people trying to find their "tribe". But since you have a preference for marrying one of your own, have you tried talking to your folks back home, or in other parts of the diaspora to find you a suitable Nigerian lady? Zimbos in the diaspora are fond of doing this.

Alternatively, you can search for an available ex. Not one of them toxic exes. Try to search for one that you really got along with but perhaps just broke up due to factors such as long distance which made it impossible for the both of you to continue being together.

He should look for his ex to bring her over or what?

Una advice get K-leg abeg!!!

Karleb:
It's a shame you online people have no empathy or sympathy for your friends and acquaintances all because of one stupid saying you got online that makes no sense whatsoever.

What does "nobody owes you anything" means when your jobless friend/acquaintance needs 1k transport fare for an interview he got through you.

In what village is 1k wealth?


Please, SHUT UP!!!

Na wa. You are really going through a lot. I pray you get the healing you need.

Imagine being entitled to my money and still telling me to shut up...mumu🤣

Rexymania:
What's the usefulness of their friendship if he can't help in Times of need?

They are not friends but workmates or acquaintances. No one owes you ANYTHING.

If you don't understand that, then don't quote me again

Karleb:
1K is wealth to you?

SHUT UP!!!!

It's his money ..why are you getting angry with me?

Steal the 1k from oshodi market and you'll know it's wealth!!!