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Pweetyccee:
Hmmmm
I hope suleja z safe?

It's not. Better come to my house in Lagos

doggedfighter:
What usually leads to this? Is it too much love or plain wickedness?


How do people move on and swear to deny another the right to move on too?

Love and hatred, jealousy and envy..
Are opposite sides of the coin.

Their father is passion. Their mother is ambition.

megareal:
Very uncouth and disrespectful man. Who trained these people?

Oh,lighten up!!! Don't be such a killjoy! I found it funny in a who-dafuq-is-this-dude-with-da-nursery-rhymes way

zoeA:
Why Nigerians dey like disgrace me like this na

SOZINN:
I am so happy for her.

No,you are not,you Sly fox

optimistic0001:
My brother, I'm not defending that HR, but saying things how they are. Did you read the screenshots the OP posted, see the HR comments and judge fairly. Let me ask you and other applicants, if you apply for a position and the HR or management consider you for another position instead of discarding your application, will you be sad or arrogant to them like the OP and the friend? What is not your job is not your job and HR is one. Most times, we look at certain things before considering some people or pushing then to various positions instead of discarding their applications. Mind you, I remain kind and respectful to applicants and I even give them tips sometimes on how to face Senior management in the recruitment process because I will be an applicant sometime and anytime. As job applicant, this arrogance and highheadness won't take applicant anywhere, anything you don't like on your recruitment process or job schedules, you can easily say NO and reject it. For the HR to even apologize shows humility, if the OP and friend is not full of themselves or arrogant, since the HR apologize, they will let it go and don't need to bring it here or anywhere. I always tell people the truth at the course of my career even management that I work for.

I get your point.

Although I still feel HR has some blame too.

Anyways, do have a nice day

emmaodet:
You raised good points bro and I like it but the question remains - is the average man getting an equal value for his time and resources invested in a relationship? I think Nooooo
Most men settle for far too less.
Just because of sex, you have to part with sooo much of your resources, giving farrrr too much for farrr too little.
If you see/know how much most men part with just for getting laid, you will be surprise.
Gifts, outings, money, hotel, foods, continuous Billings of iPhone, house rent, school fees etc after the sex has long been done and forgotten.
If you sit down and look at it, the exchange rate is disastrous.
Most men don’t even know their worth, they settle for far too less despite having money.
Instead of losing that money regularly to low quality women, why not constantly upgrade yourself to attract better women are relatively cheaper to maintain.
I see rich men especially traders with big belly, slippers and combat trouser who are not bothered about themselves just because society has brainwashed them to believe a man should be happy if his kids and wife are looking hot and sweet but not him.
They will tell you the best way to judge a man that is rich, caring and husband-material is to check is wife and kids. If they are glowing,expensive clothes and hot, then the man is hardworking and a REAL man.
Whatever happens to the man buying good clothes for himself, register at a gym and shape up, register with a golf club to meet better people (quality women included), register at a pool to learn how to swim thereby adding value more to yourself and meet women with different mentalities instead of settling with crumbles. Enrol in part time courses to brush you up so that women won’t say they can’t settle down with a rich illiterate trader who spent a fortune ensuring the lady finishes school comfortably etc.
Please gentle men, upgrade yourself, investin yourself, give that little man that has been crying for attention the time and resources it needs. We have served for too long, it is only time for us to look inward.

Seconded like a real nigga

Lol..is this a dig at Gates and his wife issue?

Biglittlelois:
You sound pained or triggered cos he typed his achievements why?

He was actually trying to use himself as an example, how can't you see that?

I'm real and raw and very much unencumbered with emotional baggage like others.

You don't know my own achievements,so what's the pain about? My point is actually very simple.

He used his UK MSc and 7.5k intern jobs as proof that he is what, humble? That's really not the way to go. Because he assumed the applicant had MSc in Nigeria or his current paying job is less than 450k. That in itself is why I called him out. There is no need to tell the world all that,when you don't know OP's friends achievements or personallity, up close.

What would have sufficed is to just tell OP, he went through internships before getting to his current level in life, despite having the same qualifications. Saying OP's friend is rude bla bla bla, then quoting his life stats,as proof of his humble nature is a bit weird to me.

I noticed this trend on NL and it worries me. You don't need to react to any topic while sounding off about your personal achievements,while denigrating others. There are smallies here,that I personally know with double PhDs and you would never know.

My point is both OP and the applicant are wrong

Someone7:
No made you a comment police sir. If you knew how job positions worked, you'd know Intern is even lower than an Assistant. That's the point I was trying to make. You can reject an offer without being all "don't you know I have MSc". What is MSc? People have multiple and are still level headed. The organisation had the right to offer him the position they saw fit. He had the right to reject it. Which one is insulting . How hard is it to understand?

I said you can make your comment without telling us you schooled in the UK or you started lower than him. You don't know the applicant or his achievements. No need trying to make him look he is the demon and you are the Saint or you got better stats than him. He is HE and you are YOU.

My last reply

optimistic0001:
If your friend is doing a high-paying job, so why then is he still looking for another job? I work as a HR, and I will tell you that fellow has done nothing wrong, the problem here lies with you and your friend, your ego is higher than yourself. The HR must have Considered one or two information's on your friend CV before finding him fit for the position irrespective of his M.Sc. If not arrogance, your friend could just easily say "I can't take up that role, or I'm not a perfect fit for that role, can you consider me for this role or that" But with your arrogance, since he has M.Sc, he should have been offered the position of the CEO, or the HR should have fried egg for him because he holds M.Sc. They are people that even have doctor degree, you and your friend should lower your sholders and embrace the humility you demand for from that HR.

Don't defend HR cuz you are one. That's Nigerian sentimentalism at work. Applicant and HR are both wrong

Someone7:
Your friend is rude, arrogant and entitled. He should be thankful he was even invited for an interview in THIS economy. He can't even write a formal note or communicate professionally. Which one is "I'm confused". All because of MSc in Health Economics.

Some of us went for MSc a top unis in the UK. The certificate is great and all but you still need the experience. When we came back I still came and did internships of N7,500, 15,000 and even 93k. I got enough experience to start earning even more. My last job was 450k and I've left for something much better.

Drop that pride and don't take every feedback as an "insult" or "spite". Too many people are begging to get "offended" these days. NO one wants such a toxic person in their company. The organization reserves the right to change the position you applied for. He didn't want it, he should have simply said no thanks and moved on.

To be truthful,nobody asked you all these naw.
Nigerians have a weird knack of trying to tackle other people's achievements by comparing with theirs. He already rejected the job because he knows his worth. His regular paying job could be much higher than your last 450k. He simply didn't want anything less and told the HR off for being insulting. How is that hard for you to understand?
What's humility and toxicity in what he said? What's your UK MSc to do with it? Should everyone now do 7.5k internships like you or what?

N.B: I blame both the HR and the applicant. I just had to call your bluff on putting your life out here to tackle him

sharpwriter:
Hey Luminouz, you want to kill the remaining spiritual gifts you have ba? So yu wanna hang out

Lol...it is just hang out bro..not drive in

I'm a gentleman to the core.

Martinez39s:
He is a smart guy.

You have a stalker bro.

MASTERYANKEE:
Uti is making allots of sense these days

Nice one

KennedyOkpara:
I dont think so Boss, the way she was sounding, makes it seem she's aware.

Ok,I get you

Kennyking1234:
Hope it continues

No time to waste time

KennedyOkpara:
Yesterday I was listening to the radio. There was this "wish someone a happy birthday program" A guy called for the radio broadcasters to wish his gf a happy birthday, They called her guess what? The girl denied knowing the guy and saying she wasn't in a relationship lol, I was embarrassed for him. Women ain't worth it joor...

But what if she is right bro? The dude might be a stalker-like toaster who the girl doesn't like or want and have warned him severally to keep off her. What if that radio stuff was a stunt by the dude to get at the girl?

I have seen some really desperate dudes out there who went even lower than that to hoodwink a woman's affections

N.B: Not knocking off your point bro. Girls do deny their so-called bf...but some men do some really weird shiit also for attention

Xsergize:
He wan spoil her business with her other customers

Bad guy!!!

CallMeGrace:
Drop your digits, let's have some fun

Drop my digits here?

A thousand other niggas/nigresses would copy and use that shiit to troll luminouz na..

Don't you do PM?

CallMeGrace:
What do you take me for?
I am not in those categories

*Sighs*

What categories biko? Ibadan girls aren't this dramatic na.

You dey Ibadan like me, I come say how far o...make we hang out o...so you can abuse me well well when we see, abi no me me u call sule? you are talking of categories? When I didn't even say make you come my house or something?

Kilode ton shapa like Itan naaaa...

CallMeGrace:
Sule..
Go where?

Go ShopRite ni o...Mufu

A nice last couple of pages.

rachytenny2:
lol....no be small shege

Calm down. You still look young na....

CallMeGrace:
Ibadan boy..
Highsee
We Ibadan no dey always behave like this.
We mind our business

You from Ibadan?

Oya let's go dia naaaa

CallMeGrace:
I can't remember tagging you or something

CallMeLumi

MJBOLT:

Ain't that the rapper with MI?

rachytenny2:
Please go to a private uni if you can afford it. ASUU is real!
The restriction won't be for more than for years, endure that in order not to spend at least 8 years in a federal university...

Seems ASUU don show you shege

ecomalchemist:
Let me give you a brotherly advice, and I hope you work on it...
First of all I counsel people and I have done that on nairaland for a while... I have met great and good guys...
I dropped a story about my experience teaching in two schools as a corper and would not mind partnering with schools in abuja, but some accused me of looking for teaching job... Never ever mind what people say...
Back to the matter...
As a graduate, teaching and earning 15k, e no bad... But once you have a good (android) phone, go to any car stand of your choice around your area... Listen well, any good car stand and ask to see the manager... Tell him you want to help him market his cars and get good buyers... 90% of car stand managers will sign u on... Tel him you will be paid a small commission after sales...
Pick up your phone, snap as many cars as your phone memory can take, open a dedicated twitter ac, IG ac, Facebook ac, WhatsApp ac, ac etc... Take out time to post this cars, make sure you have the actual prices of this cars... You can add as much as #250k on it... Bring down the negotiations to as low as making #50k if need be just so I can sell. Set your monthly target... I assure you, if you get I client in a month, u make around #100,000k once you start growing, you can get as much as 5-10 client from all over the country and that hits you over #1m for just helping others sell their cars, Note all you invested was your time, energy, phone and data... No big financial capital...
Do not restrict yourself to cars, go for industrial machines as well, caterpillars, mikano gens, any thing, then you look for those big companies that need them and try to call their attention to it or market it to them... You may not sell in 3 months but when you manage to get a client to buy just 1 caterpillars, my brother you will instantly forget that u suffered before...
A friend of mine was marketing a silo for a local wielder, he received a call all the way from kebbi state, the purchase was made in Ilorin, he made #1.8 mil from buyers and #400k from seller... He still got a referral from that deal. Wake up bro...
Within a month or two, come and pay (tite).
I drive uber/bolt in abuja, market cars, sell commodities such as beans, maize, wheat, ginger,onions, name it... In bags and tonnes
And I make nothing less than half a mil monthly...

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How is this related to the topic biko?

I love you


But I don't mean it!!!


Oya beat me oooo OP