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HappyCreative:
Who said my Dad didn't raise me? He raised me well to work hard. So did my mother, but you forgot that bit. I also had to pay my university fees myself.

I don't know why its so hard for you to accept a hard working woman. You seem to be taking it so personally.

I agree some men work hard, but a lot of men think that the world owes them something just for being a man. That they can do the bare minimum and make all kinds of crazy demands to his spouse.

God bless you sister happycreative and once again, do have a nice day

I have never been affected by my gf finances. I have dated wealthier girls than me and still didn't feel the so-called emasculation people talk of.

Why?

Because it was never about her money in the first place and when she realised that, whatever pride or ego she is nursing bounces off me like a mudafucking tennis ball on a wall. I'm the realest mudafucker I know and I just don't give a fuq about so many status quo shiits.
Why on Earth should your money make you feel proud or entitled so much that you will rub it in my face as my gf or give it so much meaning as a tool of control. I don't give a fuq about such things and any woman who comes off as snobbish or entitled gets schooled by me.
I want the simple things of life and most especially peace. Money has never made me happy, just comfortable. Peace of mind is what truly makes me happy and if I can't get that in a relationship because the girl is too busy showing me she is boss because she is richer, then we split. And life goes on.

HappyCreative:
You're second paragraph was the one about the chores, so I guess it flew over both or heads...

If the quote about the woman was your wife, why wouldn't you refer to her as your wife and not a random woman. Put some respect on her name.

Second paragraph again... I guess you still don't get it. Did you even read my post at all?

First paragraph...wrong again. I'm wasting my time with you.


Good morning and have a nice day ma.

2buffagain:
This is what happens when a trashy female, who has the presentation and personality that can only attract area boys, wants to talk about her "experience" with a calibre of men she has no hope of attracting.

Everyone and their African/ akata friends know that even the average level Naija man is all about carrying responsibility without complaining.
Talk less of high level Nigerian men.

But when all your life it is only agberos and visionless touts that can stomach the smell of your stank pussy, you start to think that your limited experience amongst the underbelly of men that you could pull, is how every other man is.

I guess since she has a house and car by herself, she has done it all. She wasn't tutored in a school whose fees were paid for by her dad neither was she fed,clothed and bred by him too. She did it all on her own. I noticed many Nigerian women have this mentality after getting financially independent and I wonder why. You don't need a man to be happy so why acting as if they are oppressing you. No one is forcing you to marry if you don't want to, but saying Nigerian men don't hustle to provide is way off the mark abeg.

HappyCreative:
Why would the man complain about financial burden if you expect the woman to do all the chores? you can't complain when a woman expects you to provide since you don't like 'modern women'.

'a woman'? So not your wife? Why would she do that for be she doesn't have a commitment to?

Second paragraph...If you read my quote well, you'd see i was talking about marriage, but I guess the whole point flew over your head.

First paragraph...it's simple really. Marry a man who is happy to do as you like.

What's it about chores and these modern women?

I keep hearing house chores as a burden and I wonder what exactly is in house chores that they must share again? Anytime men complain of financial burden, women counter with house chores. I keep wondering how the two is related.

A woman once told me she can't gimme pounded yam because apparently she can't go to work and stress herself pounding yam for one man. I told her, but you do it for your father at home without complaints with a mortar and you even wash all his clothes without washing machine. I told her, I will buy washing machine and also limit pounding to twice a month but you said no way. She said, that is my father na...my husband is different. I can't stress myself. I said,lemme get you a housemaid then. She said no. I must pound my yam myself and still help her wash plates. Cook for me nko? She said anytime she feels like.
My reply was simple... Please marry your dad.

One lady told me she hated how her husband watches TV anytime she is the kitchen. I told her, it's simple really...JUST BREAK THE DAMN TV AND HE WILL START COOKING FOR YOU TOO.

Baldwretch:
Oh common, don't be a Thomas. I know, I know, you are.

Believe it or not, and I don't care if you believe me or you don't, I was in a party and I was partying hard.

Lo.

The guy behind me pushed me hard and I fell on one guy who was rock hard and that was how I lost it - my virginity.

It was a traumatic experience and a big lesson for me.


When I look back and ponder how I got penetrated a second time, I can't help but cry.

The following week again, I went to a different club and same thing happened.

I was dancing to Sound Garden's album and I just got pushed really hard.

That was how I lost my virginity a second time.

Lol...these people sha...

bepositive11:
Megan's sister warned about her years ago. No one listened to her. I was just waiting for this to happen. Megan is no saint. She's very manipulative. Her sister is no saint either. I won't advice a man to get involved with a messed up family like that, let alone a prince.

Please tell me more

TheVictim01:
Wahala for who no read through this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

Lol...na so oh

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Golden147:
NIGERIA sef, everybody must not be like you nah, kaii..I started being independent@19 bro, lost dad at 21...
Till now I still taje care of my family...
Incase of doubt..I can inbox you my cac certificates anytime...got it the Year 2019.
Nawaoh for you o... anyways thanks though... remember i never said I got all.

I expect you to recognise game and shit tests as a man. I'm not interested in how much you earn but your emotional intelligence. So don't think this is about your hustle or CAC stuff.

TheVictim01:
Right from the onset it was a game which you failed woefully. Shit tests to emotional security unto you made you become more attached to her! You seem to "Go with the flow" as dead fishes do.
Ubunja, luminouz, frankioski and petuk.

The guy's story is weird.


He is 24, hnd 1 and has everything in life yet for some reason can't identify a simple shiit test?

Sounds like all these fabricated FP love stories.
Once I see ' I take care of her school fees bla bla bla, she is amazing bleeehhh, i pay her bills bla blaaaaaa...then one small issue arises and niggar starts asking what he should do...I just lose interest. How do you sponsor a girl whose parents are still alive cuz she be ya gf? That's not your job

Why did he get angry though? Cuz she collected the money or she didn't tell him? The girl didn't cheat as far as I know.

Angy55:
Darling ko, Darling ni

Lol....you know say u be my one and only na

Lovelyn451:
who no wan born pikin, ladies that abort for guys and still get dumped nkor, after they must have damaged their womb..

You make a valid point.

TheVictim01:
That will be the reality if we don't Brace up to protect ourselves from women. Men may hunt, kill, and consume wild animals with no iota of fear, now women have become wild animals. It's left to us in driving civility and Justice into them.
IN few years time, I'm to initiate the establishment of an NGO to protecting men and boys, thus empowering them. For I see, on any geographical area which happen to find itself in an unfortunate way of life, the male are at the forearm front to suffer, yet none cares.

I support your hustle bro. I do believe in these NGOs for men.

Being a human male is hard bro. You are EXPECTED TO yet UNDERAPPRECIATED and MISUNDERSTOOD.

DaddyRochie1642:
Happy New Year great Wizard Of Knowledge Sir Luminouz

Same bro

Angy55:
No go, sit-down that village dey waste your talent on those babes as you cute reach

It's a town you know....iffa catch you!!!

Which babes? You know you are the only one for me darling

Derinofzion:
If you support all those babaric pratice in the name of keeping a woman virginity then you are an animal and shouldn't be living in the midst of human beings.SMH

Can you see how you just disgraced yourself with emotional immaturity?

He just gave reasons why virginity were rated here back then and the lengths to which society would go to preserve them.

Yet you didn't read or clearly failed to understand a single thing and just jumped on him like some wild bëast.

Please, just go into a corner and do meditation.

paulolee:
jus ugnore her n save urself from her endless frustration...it seems she av gotten d fone dt she needs n no longer interested in you..
no need to take d fone back bcox its childish, jus count ur loses n move on..
no wori when d charger spoil or when she need another financial help she go call u n na then u go show her how streets dey treat ungrateful broke leaches...

I agreed with everything but the childish part.

She is no longer his GF again, why let his investment go just like that

It's like luminouz go audition for BBNaija 2021 o!!!


In other news, that's a nice house. Not only unconventional but also atheistically appealing too

DaddyRochie1642:
As long as this news about the queen, the prince and whoever that's involved doesn't affect my daily three square meal, both Megan Markle and the Prince and the Queen and Britain can go to Hell

Saying all these with a big smile gladdens my heart bro

Keshinr0:
Medical work ought not to be a guess work, if you have the right people to guide you.
Let me share a scenario
I treated a malaria about 3weeks ago. I went to a community heallth hospital. There was no doctor on sight, only 3 professional nurses and about 5 students nurses.
Could you believed the matron asked the students nurses to attend to me, without guidance.
Truly she(student nurse) did well until when she injected me. As a med student myself, I noticed she injected me in a position a nerve was located (sciatic). I told her, you could have damage my sciatic nerve, she was surprised, apologize, asked personal questions, Only for her to tell me I was the first person she injected. No guidance for her, seniors who ought to put her through were gossiping

Tell me.you collected her number.

scofield114:
my funny chat with a western girl. she blocked me

Women are not ALOUD to work.

Aloud ko...Asilent ni


This kinda feminazi go use mouth bombs cut my brain cells off na.

Good she blocked you. She no even understand English, her mother's tongue, how can she understand men?

TheVictim01:
Supremacy of power to exercise slavery on men.

I pity that nigga the feminazi is standing on.

Those heels on his spine gotta hurt bad mehnnn!!!

TheVictim01:
That's called 'dual mating strategy'. This is so as to have the best of seeds (strong genes) from an alpha, with the security of provision from a simp. This is an action inherent to their nature, it's biology and evolution at work.

Nailed it

4ckz:
I don't know if anyone has these experiences with ladies;

When you are in the asking her out stage, they subtly but strongly dishes out her do's and don'ts.

OK, I think sharing an experience would better buttress this point.
One of the last girls I dated before discovering the red pill.
On one occasions, she came to sleep over during our early stages, I wasn't fuking her then, Neither were we in a defined relationship, but we were real close. So that day, I told her to come, I already prepared for her, cause I had soup, but my friends visited, and we all ate the soup.

By night, she was already complaining of hunger, I told her to cook since I already had everything needed for stew, and that was the next meal I planned for the next day. I could have cooked myself, but I know that my cooking is terrible and the taste highly fluctuated, I decided not to take any risks.

She did cook, and oh my world was the stew delicious. However, while we were eating, she subtly told me she doesn't cook, and even if we dated she wouldn't be cooking.
I took it lightly, told her that I am already sure she would cook and I will be able to convince her if/when we started dating.

Later we started dating, lasted almost up to a year, and the only time I got to eat food she cooked was whenever she visited her family, she is close to her parents and occasionally goes home to cook for them.
Then she did cook in rare occasions in my house, but mostly these special costly meals.

Although this lady was a classical "good" girl, she rarely compromised on this, no matter how hard I obliged.

Those early stages of the relationships are the foundation. Women understand this and would always subtly tell you things like; I like my Guy spending on me, You don't have to mark my moves coz I hate jealous men, I don't like guys who always go out to watch football, etc.

These are subtle but clear warnings, watch out for these and rebuke those decisions you know you can't tolerate. I know at that point you feel you are the one going after her, and therefore you take all those conditions. Kill that mentality, rebuke it early and solve your problems before they even start

Also I think this thread is lacking in teaching men when and how to put forth their desires should they decide to enter relationships. Not all of us are MGTOW

You made good points.

I observed that in my case,most of them scream they can't cook or wash clothes or bla bla or even come to visit often... I often laugh at them and say they are all joking because they WILL do these things for me.

They may form at first but once they see you are real and serious, then appreciate but not PEDESTALIZE their help, they joyfully end up doing it and it becomes the norm.

Just be a Man about it.... Toni Braxton/Luminouz 2021

SegFault:
Okay ma. No need to argue, I have realised that arguing with nlers is a waste of time.

Lmaooooo

Now you have seen the light.

Just a nice 'K' solves everything

adadike:
A similar thing happened to my uncle. He borrowed a car to woo and marry a lady. After all said and done the marriage packed up after three years they kept quarrelling even after having a daughter and a set of twin boys. Igbo people at ilorin tried to keep them together but the marriage was based on lies and material things and so couldn't stand the test of time. Na how to claim our children remain now

Jesus!!!


Na every scenario you get personal tales for?

Tall tales and E-lies

CryptoRepublic1:
Infairness to her some organisations in the U.K. has conducted a research on the subject matter few years ago and they concluded that it is a result of testosterone level.

So africans are the most aggressive based only on testosterone levels?
Arabs and Indians are not aggressive too?

Do you some survery also placed Nigerians among the top 10 happiest people? So which do we believe?

In my opinion, aggressiveness is different from aggression, which is being apprehensive towards others. Purely, an economic hardship stuff

Doubis:
Oga pls go and lie down. You are just a pathetic attention seeker. I mean how shameless can u be. Bringing your relationship here for people to bash your girl, someone you claim to love.,how shameless can u be? Even if she brought the issue here first, can't you be the mature one and ignore her? You are stingy, petty, and your low self esteem is on grade A. Respect is earned not demanded. How do u expect her to respect you when u are calculating maggi curry and salt for her to pay 40% at the end of the day . I mean who does that? You are indeed the president of stingy men association of Nigeria. Thank God she didn't sleep with you. Your loss by the way. You are nothing but a cheat, a drunkard, and money miss road. She deserves better than u. Woman wrapper, I know say he go type come. Oya prove me right.

Damn!!! So much emotions over another person's issue.

I said here before, it's no wonder Nigerians are ruled by fools. All it takes is a few emotional inputs and voila everyone is a reactor, forgetting logic totally.

N.B: By my calculations, the emotions and hate in your post can power your house for 2 days, I'll love to harvest them