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chatinent:
You wanted to divorce her because of her mother. Her own mother!


You have been looking for a credible reason to cling unto for the break up.



Now, you see this as a stronghold, hence you deploy traditional rites.


Whatever happened to “for better for worse.”


It is a detestable thing to me reading comments from men who feel are always right in relationships. Have you taken a break and reasoned things from her angle?

You weren't present on the day of delivery due to some personal reasons of yours, fine. Why the rules over the placenta?

Ok, I understand the rites. They should keep the placenta for you till the month you decide to reconcile with your wife?


Which family in disunity will allow the husband's people to come and boss around in the time of delivery when the husband himself didn't show up?


How do you expect a woman to hate her mother because of you!


Even if there are things you don't like, set things straight amicably; you are only a husband not a god!

You are a mere man feeling principled. Release the twist.


Sorry, I don't mince words.

It's always easy to give advice when you are not married.

JosephXavier:
Corona virus find its way into a woman's belly to kill her unborn baby but won't find its way to one Villa like that and end the sufferings we are facing in Nigeria

Must coronavirus be your saviour?

Can't you do it yourself?
Coward!!!

dontai:
In as much you believe you can't shout, one way or the other vociferation will still occur, they will make you raise your voice, if it's to just test your level of whatsoever they wanted to ascertain. so it also advisable you prepare your body and soul for the impending screech.

Well said.

They will still test you.

josh123:
An athiest

Wrong.

Try again

Luminouz was here.



300 Spartans babe

Kayberg:
Your thoughts bro….but it ain't working on me.
I live among Muslims and I know what I'm puting up with on daily basis all because of our faith. Our relatives before used to mock us directly for our faith in JESUS CHRIST and even mocked our JESUS. So I know much too well about that lies you just compiled up there and what it is called.

If you think they ain't good Muslims with what they do, how they pray, go to worship centres, wear hijab, recite and quote the Koran, celebrate and mark all Islamic holidays among others, and all the Muslims I happen to live among till date, then it's nothing to write home about. Because they persecuted us even to the death. But for GOD with us, we survived them all.

So you don't need to try convince me about what I already know, live and even witness, and still witnessing.

Lemme give you a riddle of myself.

My great grandparents were Ogun Worshipers

My grandparents on both sides were Muslims.

My parents are Christians.

What am I?

Money05:
Guys remember money 05 around January
Hear the continuation
Me and tht girl saw in school
She admitted it was her new boyfriend tht bought the phone For her and she plans on juggling both of us till she drops one
She them cried and said she should have waited small
So i tried to kiss her and she allowed me
So from February till now i have bleeped her 4 times na last Thursday be the last time we bang
And she do post the guy that happy valentines day and still post him as my love but she still block me on whatsap till date
She said maybe i am using her i said no
Cause me just one bang till i commot this school
She still talks to me anyhow
But she plays with people and run around
But when with me she is very calm

This is dicey.

I advised you to go monk on her but I can also see how you can use your onlysex association to your gain.

Monk Mode:
She will really respect you, if you roll around with another geh that has better looks. That's what we call the abundance mindset. Coming to kiss her after all the insults, confessions and threats from her, is just so meeeeh to me. You really didn't need to fuq her you know. If she had seen another geh with you and you ignored her as the ex, she would have begged while you would have rejected her. That, my bro, would have really given you closure,as the King. But wetin dey pain my pass be say since you don sleep with am, she go get access to your gen,food and TV(that I told you to deny her). Abi,you go fuq her finish, she won't charge her phone,watch Netflix or collect fan? That stuff dey pain me bros.

OnlyFan:
Yes, you are getting sex but is it only sex you should get? After all,you both enjoy it. If you wanna play that game, make sure you have access to her money. She is with you now cuz school has resumed and she needs your gen/TV/food/dick. Once it's holidays, that iPhone nigga becomes number one. So what is your gain apart from sex. You need access toher account. Make her pay for Feb/TV subscription and even fuel. She is not with you because she has repented. How I know? She still talks to you anyhow. She even blocked you on WhatsApp still? So anytime she wants something, you go get sex and all that. Not a good proposition biko. Switch the tables and show her less attention and more balls. You need to make her respect you enough to submit to you. Then,you can have her money, phone and all else. But I suspect the lure of pussy and your love for it won't make you hardball that geh and if she knows that, you will still be on the losing end,resources wise.

Alternatively, you can get another geh to be coming to see you constantly. This will trigger her possessiveness and insecurities and you can use that to gain control. Then,you can set your ground rules and she will obey, at least till school is over. The abundance mindset tells her that she is not so special after all and you can leave her at any time. Women want validation and another geh in the picture triggers that.


I don taya to dey type. I even get one story to share but hand dey pain me. Good luck bro

Junnior:
Good morning bros

This dude has been popping some red-like pills since that geh almost successfully accused him of rape o.


I guess that incident changed his ass

mrfizy:
So just how splendid are these women who provoke such humiliations in a man? Well, in fact, all women are by nature perverse. Deeply self-centred , thoroughly avaricious, unreasoning, their hearts can slip in an instant into error. They are clever with words, but will refuse to answer when asked something quite innocuous – yet where you imagine they would be carefully discreet, they will come out with astonishing revelations quite unsolicited. You would think they were even more adept than men at calculating and dissembling, but they’re quite unconcerned by being later shown up.
It is the way of women to be devious and foolish. How pitiful we men are, to submit ourselves to such creatures
and attempt to impress them. Why, after all, should we feel so awkward in their presence? If such a thing as a wise woman did exist, we would no doubt find her quite unapproachable and off-putting. Only a man who is led astray and mastered by a woman’s charms will see her as tender and delightful."

This is an excerpt from Essays In Idleness. It is the meditations of two Japanese monks(Kenko and Chomei) in medieval Japan

Chai..even medieval monks in Japan popped some pills.

Medieval na like 13 to 17th centuries na

So women then, in an era of no phones, internet, microwaves or makeup, still get the same compositional variables.

I just taya

Save yourself bro

Nice fuqup by the hen


Very good reflexes

JasperVII:
If I say what's really on my mind it'll seem like an insult. Maybe my superiors will know what to tell you.

Dpsychologist
Martinez39s
Luminouz

Leave that dude, he is trolling

Saviolamemphix:
Ah was sitting close to a girl, in a bus i was just observing her chatz with a particula guy. d simpanzee was begging her to come back she refused.
D simp kept calling her she would pick d call and tell him she can't come, d guy would send her abt 5 messages she will just ansa wit K.
I just cant imagine hw som1 would reject u and u keep begging like a lost soul so pathetic..

How dare you make fun of my nigga in love?

Don't you know love conquers all?

Don't make me wack ya mouth bro. Let these men beg our women, they deserve our love and attention.


N.B:

Believe that and you'll believe Anything (Luminouz 2021)

Dalil8:
Now i see why you're mad, headslammer.

Not surprised.

K

Mummymahdi:
My family know nothing about all these stuff na just to b praying along with her then, we believed she was Possesd by jinns

Jinns? I doubt that. Not while she was still alive sha

Dalil8:
Did she have any kids?

Get dafuq outta here

Homeboiy:
Na true you talk

She fine well and all the guys wey she de meet de always chop and go

And you know say she quick make money

It’s too bad

He didn't wanna say everything but you opened your mouth to tell everyone her secret... nawa o


Make Una free her abeg.

lefulefu:
This is so painful
I have known victorian here for quite sometime and even talked with her on the phone and whatsapp
Very nice lady and sometimes fiesty
Initially thought this thread was created by a troll cos sometime in the past she used to get trolled a lot here
May her gentle soul Rip
Very shocking and painful news

Exactly bro.

eternityk:
lol humans were primitive for thousands of years before evolution gave us an upper edge
there are many animals who are compassionate to others and feel too
ever heard of elephants?
lol I repeat it again, humans are not special
we are not different to cockroaches because we ARE like cockroaches

Not evolution but genetic tampering by aliens.

I agree that humans are not so special.

Mummymahdi:
I believe u, things are happening from another realm but on earth. I have a cousin, though now late, if held ur 2 hands look into ur eyes will tell u many things about u that u alone knows, and have not stayed in town b4but will describe a place for u to go an remove charm against u or to help remove it for someone that she saw it but couldn't tell the person. She announced the date of her death 9months b4 when the date came her brother was teasing her in the morning That " madam today is 11 Sept 2002 o ooo she said "" soon"" am already prepared, I swear to u she died 11am Sharp that very day without any sickness and she died at 21yrs .

Damn.

Could she be akudiaya? They are powerful like that and are the only human/hybrid entities I know of who know when exactly they will die.


I'm writing a book on such supernatural stuffs. I hope I complete it on time.

oluwasegun007:
I dont like bobrisky..

Honestly I dont like his kind of trade.

But one thing I know is shim mind em business.

That jaw part got me...chai.

The jaw part made me collapse with laughter!!!

Doradorwa:
Lol... I'm a political scientist sir... as you said you are more experience in this field so I doff my hat and hands up... My main point is that the Op is in this situation due to negligence and that is having unprotected sex so it's still her word against his word..... Please do have a good day sir...

I get your point on the unprotected sex part. This is prolly why OP is even being concerned about the issue. He knew he slept with her and was trying to do the right thing. Other men would have chased her away,whether responsible or not.

Doradorwa:
Sir.... I am a realist... I don't do emotions and sentiment.... I take total responsibility of my actions.... Now please look at this my argument from this angle Sir... Firstly the sex was unprotected... if the lady said it's for him then it's for him until proven otherwise... secondly the op is acting from what the lab attendant told him... No lab attendant can dispute pregnancy ownership... it's only a DNA... And may I remind you sir that this issue is a debate... some people are saying the pregnancy is not for the op while some feels it for him.... All the evidence are against him... Even if the lady take the case to welfares... They will tell the op to take up the responsibility of the pregnancy until he can do a DNA test... Abortion is a criminal offense here in Nigeria so they will not advise him to do it....

Now let's sit back and re-examine this issue logically then.
It seems you are not a science student. I am and I have lots of experience on this subject. This is the main reason why I'm even interested in the first place.

Now:

1. There is no way you will test pregnant 6 days after sex. It's not possible scientifically. The HcG takes time to build up in the blood and become detectable. So it's unheard of.

2. Based on her last period, date of sex and date of alleged pregnancy, it's still not possible. Once ovulation has passed, you can't get pregnant. I did all the permutations and it still comes off as wrong. The date of pregnancy indicated that ovulation was way before OP had sex with her, at least by 2 good weeks. She prolly had sex with someone else.

3. Word of Mouth: Last week or so, a YouTube video of a geh was online who fought a guy claiming he fuqed her and was responsible,till he did DNA test and he was exonerated. So saying women know the father of their child is true but they can lie about that too. You have a point that a lab attendant may not be totally qualified to dispute pregnancy but a doctor can, based on the scan results, even before DNA test. So long OP was truthful about not sleeping with her before 24th. Even hearing that she saw symptoms and tested positive six days after 24th is enough for the doctor to question her claim. It's just not possible sis.

Deka10:
Did you say 7 days of ovulation
Ovulation is a 24hr event

Na why I no just talk with the guy.

JeffDWalter:
That is wrong Sir.

After her discharge/period, she has only 14 days of "safe period" but to be on a safe, I give people 10 days because of the differences in individuals.

A full circle is 28 days: 14 days of free womb plus 7 days of ovulation and 7days plus or minus of discharges gives you 28 days.

So if she finished her menstruation on the 2and, we assume that, on or before 16th of December, she had a mature egg/ova ready for fertilization from the Fallopian tube to the ovary. If you slept with her six days later, being 24th or so, according to you, then you would be responsible for fertilization of the egg.

As a fellow rightly pointed out, gestation begins immediately after her period.

So calculate from second of December to 24th of February and you have exactly 12 weeks.

You are the father until DNA proves otherwise. Not all Lab Technicians can actual calculate ovulation periods.

Some women too do not even know it.

You are wrong.

Doradorwa:
Sir... the first question is did he bleeped her or not.. The second is that did he used any form of protection or not... according to the OP it seems that he did not use any form of protection... For now the woman word is over his own... there is no lie... she is the woman and if she said the op is the father then he(op) will be the father until he can successfully prove he is not... and that test results still does not amount to anything...

You are still wrong. Your emotions are clouding up the whole issue.

Even a woman like you analysed that stuff on the first page and said it's impossible. How in hell does a woman have symptoms of pregnancy in 6 days after sex? She already passed that ovulation window way back.

Secondly, the scan result showed she was pregnant before he had sex with her. Pregnancy no dey gum to people na...you must fuq to get it and the time OP did his own, it's scientifically impossible for her to get pregnant. It's just basic science and logic.


Saying the test results don't amount to anything is baffling to me...what should we now use? Her pure and lovely heart?

Ejaisky:
The gestation age start counting from the first day of last period not the day of intercourse.

If that's the case, then it's still not up to three months.

It's just a little above two months. November 28th till February 28th should approach 3 months.

Doradorwa:
Sir... as long as you bleeped her without protection which I believe is absolutely irresponsible then you will need to take responsibility until the baby comes out and you do a DNA.... We Yoruba will say that"Iya omo lomo baba omo e" .... The lady is pointing fingers at you... I advise you to man up and do the necessary thing... even if it is an abortion.... 12 weeks can still be successfully removed.

What nonsense is this bayi? Which Yoruba quote you dey give? I'm yoruba and we frown at such blatant lies.

What's the need for DNA when it's so blatantly obvious the babe was already pregnant before he touched her.

OILOFGLADNESS:
my dear from your write up and concerns YOU ARE REALLY IGNORANT

GESTATION PERIOD IS DIFFERENT FROM INTERCOURSE DATE

YES SHE SAW HER PERIOD NOVEMBER 28TH, THEN U HAD INTERCOURSE DEC 24TH, OFCOURSE ITS POSSIBLE THAT YOU MATE HER DURING HER OVULATION PERIOD, OR RATHER IN A LAY MAN LANGUAGE DURING HER FERTILE DAYS...

SO ITS VERY POSSIBLE


ITS ALSO POSSIBLE THAT , HER DRUGS DIDNT WORK, SOME FETUS ARE VERY STUBBORN.

THAT NOT WITHSTANDING, ITS ALSO POSSIBLE SHE HAD MULTIPLE SEX THAT SAME MONTH, WITHOUT KNOWING WHO IN PARTICULAR IS THE OWNER..


THANKS

You are the very ignorant one. OilofIgnorance level

November 28th till December 24th is how many days...roughly 28 days. She is even supposed to have been menstruating when they had sex. And even if her cycle is 34 days, she still HAD ESCAPED the ovulation window.

The scan results even showed 12 weeks for fuq sakes. That's three fuqin months. Is December 24th till Feb. 18th up to three months? It's not even up to 2 months. Use your logic na.

THAT GEH WAS ALREADY PREGNANT FOR SOMEONE ELSE. PERIOD.

The way you guys talk baffle me. Confidently saying nonsense. So intercourse of 2 months dey show gestational period of 3 months and you still dey talk? Was the sperm that fertilized that babe sent from the past or what?

No way she gets pregnant just like that for you.

Zero Troll Attention y'all!!!