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Iamafinegirl:
Lies....I don’t lie, he should come and point which is a lie in all I wrote before God and man.

Gimme a break. Your thread gathered attention a while ago and suddenly another dude is here with the opposing Bullshiit. Haba. This is annoying na

The5DME:
The amount of fake stories on Nairaland nowadays is appaling and the funniest thing about them is that they make frontpage.

U get that shiit.

Jeromejnr:
She posted her own side on the first page.

They are both lying.


Damn. How come y'all can't see this shiit!!!

Mindlog:
Getting hot........so Iamafinegirl and bwambasolomon are the characters in the story!

Fuqin lies..

Iamafinegirl:
Did you tell them that when we are talking
“You are not serious is a big INSULT for you”
Did u tell then that when u say I like trump and I say “me I hater trump because of this and that” it is already an offense and you admitted to you having issues with me airing opinions because you are boss or what I don’t know?
Did you tell them a simple conversation or difference in opinion even on a gist is an insult to you?

Did you tell them I think of quality and wen a frying pan was needed I was saying the new expensive ones sef are not good, they burn. Second new is better in this case and we got a second new one? Because it’s not necessarily about cost but most times you won’t even be able to understand the depth of what I suggest sometimes.

Did you tell them I explained something one day that I paid money to so and so person to avoid a problem and you tried to give me another solution to have taken and I was like “me I don’t want wahala oo thats why I did what I did@ and because everything is fight and arguement for you you had stood up stormed out of the house because you felt i said I don’t want your wahala etc when all I was saying is that I didn’t want wahala if d issue boomeranged and so I didn’t even look for other means I just did d surest method in question” did u settle down to listen or because you never patient and always ready to call everything an argument or fight you had kickstarted your nature?

Did you tell them you wanted a car and I said this car is too expensive tell someone who we know imports to bring for you although the person could delay and may change the car you agreed on but I said do a written agreement with him so it would be cheaper for you and that way he won’t do anything funny ? And you would spend less and get a better grade or level like the one I got instead of paying for something lower at the same price as the one you paid for in town. Out of love, did you not turn it to fight and say I am wicked, and louded the issue and dramatised it as being evil.
Did you tell them you lied to me that you don’t drink or smoke?
But you drink and lied from foundation of a relationship to win a girl?
When I realised out of anger I said you lied to me you don’t drink but you are a drunkard.
Did your remember saying my father who doesn’t drink at all and you know fully is the drunkard
You have called me demonic woman
You have called me stupid woman
You have called me very stupid woman
The list is endless but if we discussing and you don’t understand what I am saying and I am frustrated talking and I say “you no dey understand English” you just flare up that that is a big insult.
Things that aren’t insults you made them insults to defend yourself.
Did you tell them the most times we went to Shoprite then I use to be the one buying things...and you usually pick nothing. So why should Shoprite be so expensive if I buy water “nestle water” and other things from there even before we ever dated and you used to follow me there to win me and I never asked you to pay for me or use you as a toaster?

Did you tell them that you are building and I am also building? And the months you spent all your salary not even on the building alone oo. Busy dashing people and at 3rd of the month you were broke and I was like how would we handle the house you said I am there and I held those months because that’s what a good woman would do.

Did you tell dem that wen you arrived at the counsellor we told them we had a 60k and 40k rule as at then but we just weren’t piling it in the same account and the pastor said ok we should do it as a joint account so no one would feel he is bringing all the money” and we stop spending differently. you told them it’s the pastor who proposed it or he told us that ok you people should just put the money in a seperate account and the wife asked what else is making you angry and you said contributions for repair should be added”.

Did you tell them that when your drivers license expired and there was a delay with joint account , you said you would keep some part of the contribution for where you stay but I must submit all my own contribution to your younger sisters account while you submit just some to her because you don’t trust me with money. The younger sister would now be the one dishing out the feeding money to me who is the one working? While you comfortably keep part of your contribution as a boss. Did you tell them I said you should give her all if i would also have to submit my own all to her since she is the chosen financial manager of our own institution so she can be dishing out money to both of us as at when due since distance is not a barrier to bank transfer so I would also monitor u because you don’t trust me with money and you want to monitor what I am eating when u aren’t even there with me.

Did you tell them you don’t live according to your means and you always borrowing and financing a lifestyle heavier than you inclusive of feeding (because you eat 70-80%) of all the food in the house? Did you tell them you have collected above 14 million naira loan and you haven’t completed any house you are building aside still having normal money people have used to complete their own houses.

Did you tell them you give them babes money and say send me your account number Cus I have seen it but to buy Apple extra for me out of a budget as per my love this one na for u from my pocket? Did you tell then as we came back from your location you had meeting with your babe asking if hostel has resumed and all by 6pm same day?

Did u tell them that I had been using clin-cap face cream, benzoxide peroxide face cream, and you have been using it with me and I have never said this cream is 2000 and the other is 1000 let’s contribute from budget but you bought olaybact for me 400 naira and you were balancing account for me?

Did you tell them I did a soap mix of 13000 naira to 15,000 naira and you have been lovingly using it With me since January and I have never in my life said your contribution for soap but you won’t even do it, if you did sef you would have been asking for money by now.

Did you tell them that even to buy apple while taking me to were you lived loveingly as per this is my new location has to be from the budget and that you couldn’t say babes aside this budget this for you?
Did you tell them I also contributed for the fuel as you were taking me lovingly to your new location? Location you dey go dey come yourself but as I go follow u go know d place I must pay for transport. I for kukuma just enter public transport. But I don’t even have a problem with that since that’s what he wanted. We just accounted for my path

Did you tell them...that I am not wasteful and you went ahead to do things you wanted to do and started blaming me for it. Like buying a new tv when your mum was around for them...knowing fully well I hardly look at a television and you did it for you and yours?
Did you tell them this girl who doesn’t contribute lovingly gives your sis money and also give your mum at least in the best way I can afford within my means but you no send me message so that’s my business you are not even seeing it. Na me send myself?
When last did you buy me a gift in a year and half? It was a wig when you were still trying to toast me. That was only when you were trying to win my heart.
Did you tell them you don’t do anything for me I don’t ask you for money for cloth, hair etc or my own fuel as I am a responsible adult and not a burden on a man which you know yourself. Did you let them know that the food you eat 70% of and the house repair you would do definitely if I am there or not is what you would always come and stand on my head for when we weren’t yet contributing in a joint account. Did you tell them you don’t take care of me and you are just so self centered about the feeding part because you eat more of the food? Yet I was still buying food oo no be say I go out and don’t bring anything to the house. I still buy meat, tomatoes, onion etc but maybe not just up to the person who consumes the 80%

Did u tell them d day you took me out and water was bought which was like two years ago was a special day I think maybe Valentine or my birthday or something and “I was only asking to be treated special”. As per today na correct day, spoil me na.
Did you tell them that I spoke of u buying some thing like blender or electronic because you need quality one to last. The cheap juicer bought did it last? No
Was there not finally a decision where the expensive “binatone” blender was picked because for some things, quality is important so it lasts?
Did you tell them I met condoms in your other room and you alleged it’s your boss that came to your house to use it? Because you couldn’t tell him no?
Did you tell them that if I want to do something you would use my car and if you want to do something you would use my car and I said love should cover all this there should be no differentiating of car for activities and you can use mine when you want and viceversal?

The day he said I said drug was too expensive did he tell you he spent all his income that month already by 3rd or so due to poor planning and I used my income all for the month for food. Ofcourse I am sure he borrowed as usual for fuel for his car that month and maybe some extra things like suya etc you may want to eat and that’s why I couldn’t afford to buy that cream or is it even tablet I desperately needed quality type of drug to treat that ailment because it use to be stubborn when it comes but couldn’t afford it that month ?

In addition I forgot. The generator I would tell you to put on when wet had a generator house while some or most Nigerians just make a metal cover or so for their generator. So rain fell and the splash I could look wasn’t much and I would say it’s not like water entered this thing in its house like Dt just few splash on surface. I owned a generator I ran without it having issue before meeting you and while you where toasting me. I didn’t know I am unqualified to run a gen. I stopped touching your gen because it was complain upon complain or I am arguing with you by having a different opinion about ah it’s small splashes. Ofcourse if a gen was drenched would I with my full senses say lets put it on? When Nigerians keep their gen outside with normal cover.

You would go out and meet the true definition of a Nigerian woman. Take care of her is what a man does, send her money for hair, dress, clothes etc.
And still buy food n do stuff.
You would remember I was never a burden on u
I hope you would have love enough for her to cover taking care of her abi u would start complaining and shouting on her too. I just hope you don’t faint then.

On the other hand I Wld meet the true definition of Nigerian man who knows he is to care. Simple

Damn...the things Nigerians do for attention sha...

Lies everywhere. But you and the OP are clowns

nedekid:
Bros, what more do you need to know this lady is not a keeper?
Not contributing voluntarily shows she is not committed to the proposed union (you earn same salary). She will use you and walka, simple. It's just a matter of time.
On the lighter side, how do you date someone for 2 years and you aren't intimate? Forget whatever anyone tells you
she is getting it one way or the other.

The post is weird. Not really coherent. Its prolly for attention.

He started with 'i have a fiancee,instead of I had" yet title is ' I broke up with her'

I still can't see where he broke up with her. He just said he is asking for advice or some nonsense

Your thread title is "I broke up with her"

The body of the message didn't indicate or suggest such.

I'm done.

RisenPhoenix1:
What a waste of a perfectly good 'K'. I just stop talking.

Most of the time, I just want to share life experiences with men who are new to relationships with women. I am not after a female audience and I really don't care how the females on NL respond to my comments. I never expected them to be too happy, but again, their happiness is not my objective. I don't want my sons or grandsons to grow up in a feminist world where they will be persecuted just for being born as men. This is only my tiny contribution to nipping that shit off in the bud.

You nailed it

9wila:
https://www.wilatech.com/2021/03/justin-bieber-anyone-lyrics-justin.html
Latest justin bieber new popular song right now 2021.

Justin Bieber - Anyone lyrics verse 1
Dance with me under the diamonds
See me like breath in the cold
Sleep with me here in the silence

Come kiss me, silver and gold

How is this beneficial here?

Will you geddifok?

foreman:
So, I got called up recently that I have been missed. Nice. We arranged for a meet-up and f--ked the hell out of each other. I tried to give transport as I normally do but she refused. Somebody that used to demand money from me.

Nowadays, we just meet to f--k - no stories, no dates, no eat-outs, no hang-outs - just f--k. I guessed I have been relegated to f-ckboy, okay by me.

Lol. You tried. What would have been better is if that chick never saw your pants again. Any girl who ghosts me for two months is gone. She is never coming back. It doesnt matter what her proposal is, she ain't coming back. You shouldn't be the one to be relegated, you should do the relegation.

You should have moved on from her. That's the true abundance mindset. Did I read that you give her Tfare Everytime? You dey try o.

RisenPhoenix1:
I've given up. I advise you follow suit. There's just no arguing with the majority of women, logic is beyond their grasp. And I've discovered that you just can't use logic to counter emotion. Henceforth, I've decided that; except for a the rarely found sensible women on NL; two exchanges are my limit of discussion; one comment to say whatever I have to say and the the second to clarify my statement for the not too smart woman who is likely to misinterprete it. Then I end my side of the discussion and leave them to talk asuch as they like.

Lol...I understand your point bro.
Here on nairaland, once I see such illogical behaviours, I just type "K" and move on. They don't even seem to grasp what logic means and when they argue,you seem emotional baggage written all over their posts. Imagine she was even accusing you of not being logical for fuq sakes!!!

The story is a mismatched hogwash just for attention. Such stories abound of Facebook, reeking of illogical constructs.

Yet people start fighting themselves over such and you wonder how on Earth such stories could even be believable. It's just like Nollywood where Jim iyke, a mechanic will come across Genevieve the daughter of a governor and she will fall in love with his clean shaven face and smooth looks(which fuqin mechanic looks clean when at work). Such scenarios arent applicable to real life. Just like OP's tale.

Lucrativress:
Will you also stop the wagging mouths from saying tomorrow that "that's the woman her Husband shouted at her in public the other day"
Why should a woman be the only one to master self control,in public for Christsake,there's body language to convey your disappointments but nope you rather went on a shouting spree...
He also belittled his Wife
A man that can afford something will know it's money that will solve that problem and he has it in excess,for God sake,she is not a kid,even kids recoil when shouted at amongst their peers
Immediate reprimanding of a grown assed adult doesn't portray wisdom
So I'm asking this simple question, if the Husband was foolish enough to shout in public, why can't the Wife also be foolish to collect the money?

Your last question is devoid of any logical basis. There is no equal basis for comparison. One shouted at his wife. The wife collected money from a total stranger. How is that even on equal footing? The woman broke a 350k phone and her husband reacted angrily. A stranger offered her 500k in full view of everyone and offered his contact, in case she needs more money and you said she is justified to collect it? What do you think his motive was behaving as such. Why not offer the 500k to the husband whose phone was broken? That's the most logical approach

But like risenphoenix1 said, your inability to separate your innate illogical materialistic mindset from true logic had exposed you to all of us here. Now, you have shown that you will willingly accept money from strangers because apparently, you can deal with the consequences later. You fail to even realise the most important lesson of all. You don't need the stranger's money to survive,in the first place. You can make yours and add some dignity to your frame.

I have been seeing your posts on this issue and I'm offended by the so called pseudo-logic you are throwing about as real logic. Just desist. Attempting to twist the narrative is also meeeeeeh....

tomsonlampard:
Why do we think INEC wrote '0' in the box already? it was a clue to let us know that the nysc number we are supposed to write should start with 0 and its only the number on the top right corner that starts with 0.

Bro....sorry to bother you. Do you still teach at Bethany college akure?

If yes, what's up with the school? Someone gave my sister the link to go there and teach but I wanna know more from you
Thanks

sanpipita:
So because all you met were abused so experiences of others don't matter? let me get it right you probably work in rehabilitation center for abused people after meeting 30+ candidates you came to conclusion every homosexual must have been abused, this is laughable.

Explain why you find eg a dude having hardons for men but never for a lady?

You will need to stick rehabilitating people than make non factual statements

*Sighs*

I knew it. Another intellectual dead end. Why is it so rare to find intelligent souls who desire knowledge and not emotional drivel on nairaland? Why does everything have to be so full of emotions,zero logic and a smattering of abuses? Is that the new normal, an erosion of family based virtues or just plain old frustrations from economic hardship? I can barely find 2 to 3 people to have intelligent conversations without some emotional shiit tied to it.

All I asked were questions to learn. All I got were abuses and deflected,half-assed comebacks. No single answers to my search for the knowledge you claim to have.

N.B: God bless you brother, have a nice night

sanpipita:
I have met homosexuals who weren't abused or anything, stop making narrow minded opinions, its okay if you have met homosexuals who suffered abuses stop thinking it's same for everyone

Now you are answering me logically.


All the ones I have met were abused, and I'm talking 30 plus candidates, as at 2018 when undertaking a rehabilitation effort of gender compromised people. This figure has increased as at 2020. I'm in the academia, so I have first hand information on this subject.
Even feminine men or femcels as we called them(men who look like women physically) don't turn out to be homos, unless they were abused.

So, could you kindly give me a few hints about the natural born homos you have met?

Are they your friends, relatives or acquaintances? How long have you know them and their history to determine if they were abused or not? And can you tell me what age they started feeling sexual tensions for men like them?

I like gaining knowledge and so would appreciate your input

sanpipita:
So you never seen that means it doesn't happen? we are supposed to having intelligent discussions here ffs

You are basically basing your opinion on personal and one sided thought, how many homosexuals have you met to be making such blank statements.

I tire for una.

I asked you a question if you had met any natural born homosexuals but alas you came at me with emotional drivel and I wonder if you didn't get my question or perhaps you are just blinded by your sentiments

IYANGBALI:
na who ask you? Amebo!

Seriously, this is uncalled for!!

Anigreat:






The editing is too much.

She's a beautiful lady, no need for all these editing


But ICEBERG, really crushed this girl pussy that year i swear

@your last line, how do you know?

sanpipita:
So according to you every homosexual must have been abused? really? science told you this?

I can't believe what I'm reading.

From my experience, I haven't seen a born homosexual. They were all abused.

Reason why you don't see two male kids kissing but you see a male child kissing a female child, playfully.

If you have seen a natural born homosexual or lesbian, tell me.

N.B: even those with DNA abnormalities need a societal push

HellVictorinho:
Observe with your brain.
The evidence happens by chance,too.

K

sanpipita:
My opinion was to disapprove his talk about genes, thankfully you mentioned hermaphrodites, these guys hate what they don't understand

Hermaphrodites are very few compared to the horrors going around and most times, they utilize surgery to conform to a certain gender.

Most young guys and girls in same sex schools are indoctrinated while young and grew with what they learned. It's scientifically documented that learned sexuality is like Stockholm syndrome. Some of these men and women need serious therapy and help. They were abused and indoctrinated. They suffer inside. Nowadays, they have included intersex, pansex and alotta other stuffs. Really nasty stuffs

Have you seen/met homosexuals before? I have. They weren't natural. They were abused.

N.B: I'm rarely emotional. Everything I have told you are based on facts backed by science,not religion or societal construct. You may not agree with me but that's ok.

HellVictorinho:
You get attracted to the same sex by chance.
You get attracted to the opposite sex by chance.
Case closed.

Case closed from you? No scientific backup or proofs. I showed you facts backed by years of research and you mentioned CHANCE?

Wow. Thank you for making me lose some brain cells reading your post.

sanpipita:
What you should ask him is how come people become homosexuals if there was no gay genes? can you build something out of nothing, if there was no gay genes nobody will ever become homosexual, these guys are ignorant.

Same people will tell you lesbianism is natural

Educate yourself if you are a science student.

Read my reply to the post above yours. Some of these so called sexual behaviours are learned, especially when still young. Just like religious,tribal and racial indoctrinations.

doxijaw:
There's no gay gene, you are just a pervert.

Abused as a kid, watched too much gay porn, influenced by trends, the curious type etc

How dare you force me to accept your deviancy.

There has never been a gay or lesbo Gene since time immemorial. Sexuality is either male or female based. Environmental factors, mutations caused tweaks in these genes and may result in low or high testosterone or oestrogens in men/women or hermaphrodites. No one is born exclusively desiring gay or lesbo, unless these mutagenes or tweaks are in line. Most times sexuality is 20% social/environmental factored and 80% DNA.

Afromentalist:
You are the Mad person.

The same way you find egusi soup tasty, some other people find it nauseating. The way you find an African lady attractive, some white people think she ressemble a Gorilla.

Moreover sexuality is rarely a choice but an acceptance of ones internal hiring.

The same intolerance that prevents you from tolerating someone's sexual preference as long as he does not impose it on you, is the same mindset that justifies other forms of intolerance such as tribalism racism xenophobia and the like.

You make good points...

What of practices that include coprophilia, necrophilia, underagesex and the likes....

Equality is a myth,just like love. Humans have never and will.never classify themselves as equals

Sapphiere and her biased topics...


The future is female bla bla blaa

See the kind of thread a grown ass man is posting for fuq sakes!!!


Is this not a new low for a man with saggy balls?


Isn't it obvious what to do?


Men are not just men anymore.



N.B; Is it the water, or food or music or upbringing or skewed morality or some weak DNA shiit, that makes men weaker specimens compared to our fathers and grandfathers? Something is just not right with many men these days. They are weaker and they don't even seem to know it.

Kinetic and non kinetic waaaat!!!

pozehnani:
It's a lioness.

Scary though. Must have been driven by hunger.

It's an adolescent lion.

The mane is just starting to grow out.


Lionesses don't have any noticeable manes

pongwa:
you are inexperienced.......
Until you walk a mile in OP's shoes you wont understand the pains of having to deal with a domineering mother in law. You have to experience such to know better.

Eggzactly what I told him.

See as everyone dey dish out solutions...


I laughed. Some of them can't even manage their gf/bf and they seem to know it all on marital issues.

Let the married folks advice OP