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Judybash93:
Well, in Nigeria, i don't think marriage favours women more than it favours men but in a country like the USA or even Canada, i can definitely say that marriage favours women more than it favours men. It's so obvious. Men are manipulated or shamed into getting married with statements like,"be a man and get married" "if you aren't married by the age of 30, you aren't man enough" "real men propose" and other shit like that. After a few years, the lady might bring up an excuse which may lead to divorce. If the divorce goes through, mostly, men would have to pay alimony and will probably lose half or more than half of his property. Some men end up falling into depression after investing deeply into a marriage that brought them nothing but sex and companionship which they could have acquired without getting married. So, why invest in such a venture?

Are you not resident in Nigeria or how come you made that opening line?

You are totally wrong. Even stacyO may think otherwise but it's the truth. Marriage favours women than men.

I stopped reading at 'not the money he gives me but the love and care bla bla bla'

Money's the sole reason for you being with him.

How do I know? You mentioned it yourself like 3 times.

You won't ever give a fuq about him if not for the money.


*Walks outta thread*

Romanoff:
Whenever I go for naming ceremonies and pastors are prophesying and praying for the future of the child, it makes me wonder if they didn't pray for children like this lady sleeping with another woman's husband.

It's the hustle sweetheart!!!

Clout chasing story dou

Martinez39s:
CaveAdullam really delved into the guy and his posts. I PERUSED most of the arguments on both side but I didn't have the energy to contribute and point out some things. I still don't have the energy. I am too busy and tired these days.

You just said my mind.

But the arguments were interesting

Hmmmmmm


Very interesting last coupla pages!!!

Captivating arguments on both sides.

Hoping to read more arguments.

Please, whether FOR or AGAINST, let's be civil to one another. We are men,not gerbils.

Zabiboy:

Honestly bro, the bolded wasnt necessary...
It shows you havent really moved on...
But it is what it is tho.....You make your own decisions.

I'd have ignored her but still I won't blame him. Let his response be something she would think about for a long time.

Dapcity007:
You deserve pepsi and meat pie from me these Valentine

Add zobo, Bobo and Fan yogo, from me!!!

SOZINN:
Which kind of love are you talking about.
Which kind of love do you think I'm talking about.

I think the guy is on another level from us. Sometimes he posts some stuffs that are unrelated to the thread purpose

PETUK:
the response should be ''cheers, I harbour no acrimony nor keeping bed energy or people with bad energy in my mind, I don't allow people with bad energy to live rent free in my head"
whatever reply you are giving her, it most be a swipe at her, she must be hurt.

Lol..replying her is a luxury.

Ignore her. Trust me, nothing hurts a women more.

AsapTeddy:
ToonUp your babes picture for 1k5

For 1k5? I will do better for 400 bucks

It's love season and sex goes with love


Or na the Nigerian version be that sha

Edobabe20:
He said the truth tho!
Meanwhile my coursemates who were supposed to be preparing for our exams next week are busy shouting who will be my val? like wtf ,tho I sha pity them cuz after Feb 14 ,Feb 22 will ask them who will be my F9

Now this is what I call nice wordplay.

Martinez39s:
Immediately she proposed you pay 4k for her number, you should have cut her off.

True talk. I wasn't sure I heard right or na joke so I wanted her to really come out before I clammed down on her.

Lmaooooo...


Meet on a date first naaaaaaaa


Don't conclude till you do.

Femzaremz:
wow! 4k for just number! Anyway d wisemen told us dat d way u start with a lady dictates the whole journey of d relationship! If to say u don give dat leech 4k for just her phone number,u would surely be declared bankrupt in d next few months! I no dey even use 4k chop in a week!

Asking me for money to collect her number is the vilest insult I have ever listened to. Why on Earth would I pay to get a geh's number? It's logically insane. What makes her number so special that she has to sell it? I was very angry that she still even said she was joking but if I gave,she would collect. Is that not madness?

Somebody somewhere somehow paid her before and that made her feel validated or important, at least enough to wanna sell it to me. That is an insult to any sane man.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] It could have been worse, you know...He could have married her.[/color]

Yeah! That would be way worse!!!

So I'm kinda glad he escaped now.

Femzaremz:
Uhm, isnt it high time we took the redpill to facebook? Because d calibre of simps on that network is mindboggling! Just imagine a guy just posted and i quote 'dat u slept with her before doesn't stop us from marrying her you saw s*x in her we saw future in her' obviously somebody with even a basic knowledge of d redpill can never spew this trash funny enough d 'simp' achieved his aim which was female validation as 90 percent of comments on dat post were females commending him and telling him to ride on!

That Facebook is something else.

I remembered one girl I met there in 2019. I asked for her number, she said she doesn't give out numbers till she feels like. I said ok. Fast forward to 2020. I just saw a Hi from her and when I replied, she said she is broke. I straight up asked her why she now remembered me, a guy she never gave attention, for her money problems. She quickly retracted and said she was joking about the money but if I give she will collect. I was like WTF is the joke? You still dey ask me for money either ways. Sh now said she would gimme her number for 4k. I almost had a stroke with the anger in my chest. I said, so you wan sell me your number. Told her I wasn't interested and that women and urgent 2k issues are boring. She said, she was playing and even if I give her the money, she wasn't obligated to give me her number. I never bothered to reply.

I just imagine the guts a broke geh has to still feel like some queen on top her begging spree.Only God knows how many other FB guys must have given her that 4k.

The day I pay for a geh's number, make my dick disappear. Amen

Hustle2flex:
The Red pill is very bitter to swallow because it's nothing but the truth.sometimes we do enter denial mode to circumvent but women has a way of knocking you back to your senses when you have defaulted(when you think you have found love).
The only way forward is to keep re-educating yourself daily to be on your guard against women antics and whims.

Since beginning of last month,I decided to run some red pill tests on two ladies where I work to validate some of our teachings here.
The first lady,I started getting more closer to her and playing on blue pilled mode.after some time,she started forming she is busy all time.i was like because I feigned interest in you,you think that you have arrived.
Meanwhile,the second lady,I don't even send her,just greet her and do my own thing.
Do you know that this second girl,has been volunteering to help me out with me work at office sometimes but i don't allow her and if I send her to buy something or run an errand,she will go.But it ends there.i didn't allow her to get closer but I could see in her eyes that she wants more than that.

I came to conclusions that the best spot you can be as a man in relationship or friendship in general is if you are with a lady that first choose you.it makes things easier for you and you call the shots.Also even though women crave for attention,once you begin to shower her with that,she will abuse it and start treating you like a thrash.
The key is go for ladies that already liked you.its like being one goal up in a football match.

Nice points.

The key to this game is never being too available or loving/caring/nice that you lose your manliness. It makes women disrespect and commonize(if there is any English like that) you.

Martinez39s:
He needs red pill in his life. The red pill is harsh, but it is not that harsh as we sometimes make it out to be; it's usually the case that we are emotionally invested in how we wish things were and in our blue-pill ambitions. There is nothing harsh or hard about the following facts/principles:

1) Women don't love you except for what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel.
2) Never invest in a woman or fund her lifestyle.
3) Never love or commit to a woman.
4) Learn to control your lust and don't confuse sex with love.
5) Don't let a woman's looks and beauty turn you into a mugu.
6) If you are not a monk, keep your sexual options open to other women and never narrow down to one woman.
7) Never tell a woman all about you: your past and personal details. She will readily use them against you when she feels like.
8 ) All women cheat. Women are hòes.
9) Women see and treat us like disposable and expendable utilities.

I could go on and on. To have known the red pill and still blunder in the way he did shows he has to drill the red pill into his head until it becomes his second nature. Given the way many former red-pill guys lose themselves back to the matrix after making money, I will say everyone should know where they stand. Red pill is serious truth. If you are broke and women are rejecting you to your frustration and hurt, don't use the red pill as a relief and mask for your pain; when the pain subsides and/or you make money, you will go back to the plantation and simp and give redpillers a bad name. Come to the red pill when you really want to learn about female nature, and when you have developed the maturity to prefer bitter truth to sweet lies and the discipline to walk in the bitter truth instead of pleasurable lies.

If women and the family/happy-ever-after dream is all you want and you are broke, worked hard and improve yourself. After you have made it, go to the plantation and simp big time and play the male praying mantis all you want. Just stay in your lane and don't spoil the outlook of the redpillers.

You made salient points.

He really needs to make Redpill his second nature. I also agree with your points on men using Redpill to mask their pain/hurt and going back to simphood after making money.

Redpill is understanding of female nature and your own personal development/goals/fulfillment.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] I apologise if I crossed a line...[/color]

Oh no need for any apology bro.

You have no idea how pained I get when men are being fuqed up by women who should be treating them like Kings.

Imagine buying a runs geh a brand new phone and being forced to pay fo another.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]LMFAO.....Let me help you rephrase that...When you was broke you was redpill aware then as soon as money enter, you just forget yourself..LMFAO...Sorry bro,Your situation is too funny..[/color]

What's too funny?

That dude needs counselling!!!


Seems he knew the babe was into it before!

usebog:
Well i just found out my sweet girlfriend is a runs girl. Lol
It is not something not expected but still WTF
Now she arrested me because i broke her phone, was told to bhy another phobe even though i brought tbe phone for her myself. Anyway she said her mom was the one that made the move

Runz babe Runz mommy lol

I don't get you.

If you bought the phone for her,that means it's yours. Why the need to buy it back for her? Unless her name is on the receipt and not yours.

Runs? Well, that's kinda normal these days.

Zzor:
I don't abuse men,i just like hitting the nail on the head.Were you born in the 90's downwards?

Good. So do I.

Lol@ 90s!!! I'm not

Zzor:
Are you loving as well? were you not the person trying to jam heads together in the other thread

Not me babe. I'm above such pettiness. It's not my fault that people can't separate emotion from reality.

You are the one who love abusing men to start off some shit.

Zzor:
Are you not a brolosho what's your business with church

You don come with your wahala abi?

Can't you be loving for once

Favour22amaka:
not fair na . I too deserve to enjoy.

Go to church and enjoy with jesus

Does anyone even need to tell you before you move on?


Why do you even need to create a thread?

four44:
if truly you still believe in Nigeria as you quote up there then I am really sorry for you

Don't be sorry for me, just ask for my account number!!!

That way, i can be sorry for myself

jonnypie:
I say eh e shock me here...

Lol.

mariahAngel:
Dude, all she did was agree on a comment, and you blew the whole thing out of proportion!

It's hard not to see through the exaggerated reaction from you over a mere 100% comment lol

Why not over the original comment if you had no ulterior motive? Because it came from a male?

Make una dey try no dey rile up conflicts unnecessarily for this forum...

*Sighs*

Despite everything I told you up there, you still typed this epistle to justify what you think I'M TRYING TO DO?

It doesn't matter what I say, you still wouldn't listen, because you are determined not to.


Ok, I'm the bad guy!!!

Happy now?

Have a nice night!!!

Cool.

Damn!! It breaks my heart to see young, vibrant and talented Nigerians, flocking in droves abroad. 16 youths that I know are leaving by March ending, to diverse countries.
Seems na only me remain for my clique, who still believes in a better Nigeria.

Truth is, in Nigeria, that dude would have been so stressed and counted out as NOTHING! I'm happy for him. His genius would only be wasted here. At least,in the UK, he would be appreciated and live a fulfilled life.