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SavageBoy:
You haven't learned,why will you reply her message on Friday

If she tells you "Hi" on Monday, reply her "hello" after 2weeks
That's how it's done

Modified: Just read your story, I think I remembered when you posted it then
But it got me wondering... let's keep simping and redpill aside

I believe in treating a Lady with dignity, love and respect
But why is that a lot of ladies like misbehaving whenever their guy is treating them with love and respect

Is it an in-born tendency or are they trying to prove something or what
And most times such ones will now come running, begging for the relationship fire to be reignited again

I'm just thinking out loud though
I for myself have learned never to take ladies seriously, and only giving out a quarter of my emotions in any relationship

Lol. When you place anyone on a pedestal and elevates him/her above you, such tends to see you as unworthy of his/her attentions. This applies to women most times. The more available you are, the lesser her perceived value of u.

Ayrastarr:
I wish oooo.



I've gotten suitors from other state�.

If I don't get from now till end of this year, I go marry oyibo husband

Lol..marry from other states na.

Lol..why oyinbo? Dudes never finish for here na

mariahAngel:
You're exactly what Poco says you are.

See how you use scope wan jam heads...

Who is Poco?

I'm real and raw. Why on Earth would I want them to fight for God's sakes!!!

It's not today that I noticed the bukatyne moniker and her straightforward/logical mindset.

*sighs*


Another one.

bukatyne:
100%

Seriously, who are you?


It's kinda rare to see a female NL not given off to emotional rants and blame game technique.

Mokason288:
See Peter saying men #meahavesuffered”

Who suffer reach you?

That fought with your brothers and took a video of it to go show his wife

You destroyed a brand that became a household name... just because of your wife

Show us what your wife got for you

Anu Inchi like you

Mstheeeew

Wish I could see you in real life bro.

I could harvest your negativity and use it to wake up some ghosts around here.

Or just enjoy garnishing ya hateful rants on fried rice

Ayrastarr:
Fact!!!!!!!!!

Pure fact!


Those peeps are pure racist Including my current suitors.

They are even considering me because I got recommended.

Ndi Ala

Must you marry them?

Go for other suitors na

Fahdiga:
Not surprised this is coming from tramp who recently escaped from Yabaleft. imagine such a demented fellow insulting the best state in Nigeria. Anambra people are class above others and if you can't take it like that you take sniper. we don't care

I wonder sometimes how you think.

You make sense in some posts while making zero sense in most others,like this one.

If you think your state is too good for other igbo states which are part of your tribe, don't cry when other tribes are racist to yours.

dayleke:
Okay.
Good to know you still dey.
I saw that mention and no response from you.
Okay na.

Anything for the boys? Na wknd we dey o...

No latest gist from you na.. I don miss ur gist o..

The woman with bakkassi wey dey sell foodstuffs..
The Cameroonian girl....
And the others.....

Lol...no gist jare. I'm a monk now

I quite understand humans from the religious, racial and tribal aspects.

I like to think I'm liberal sexually but I still can't really find a rationale for healthy young men who desire other men sexually. Sexual dimorphism or environmental/social factors? DNA inconsistencies?

The act has been recorded from earliest time and seems lesbianism too. I guess humans have a lot to learn about themselves.

DSC7:
So na at the bolded una dey pass time??


Well wetin my mind dey tell me b say Op go still jam dat woman again.....


After all the Banter her mind sef no settle.....


Las Las dem go meet again and she go apologise....

I used to go there but I stopped last year March or February or so.

He won't meet her again. And if by chance he does, she won't apologize. Why? Because she derives pleasure from verbal abuse.

dayleke:
Hey bro...
Longest time. How you been?

Someone said you turned to "Nobody" sometimes ago.(that is you deactivated).
Good to see you still with us. You just no dey come parlor.

Just leave d guy jare. Sometimes you just have to shalaye make dem understand in case of another time.

I dey o bro. Just lowkey trying to manage naija wahala.

Me Deactivated? Lol, for what? I never deactivated. I just left that thread. The negativity and aro's case bored me and I figured,there is nothing else to learn there again. One fòol quoted me on the thread a few weeks ago to rant but I ignored him.

Favour22amaka:
Will be alone at home pressing my phone. Though I don't mind hanging out with a guy in Lagos.

We don't want you.

Staying home is best for you.

In my house, watching movie.



Valentine is just like Xmas and Easter,totally normal days.


For the men, spend wisely.

Slimslimqq:
deep words u said here. I have gotten it off my head already. I am on d streets again. thanks bro

That's it!!!

I have heard some insults in my life but I shrugged them off. Most times, psychological warfare is even brutal than physical. Never allow anyone to put you down through words. Learn to ignore and NEVER dwell on those words. You determine your own destiny.

dayleke:
Bro,
How am I being insensitive?
How am I reminding him of the insults?
The insults he already heard and that are in his mind playing over and over....
So all that I wrote up there shows insensitivity?
Bro, just be calming down na....
He will come out of this stronger....

Please next time, read and digest well before making accusations sir.
Omo Yoruba ni mi, I just wanna see what she said noni..
And I must say, it was very bad of d said lady and uncouth of her...

Universal motto....Always be nice to people.

Hailings....

May baba God have mercy on you too bro.

You suppose no answer that guy.

I know some people may want to catch cruise with OP's case but you are not one of them. Even in the ashewo thread, your moniker no dey cause trouble

Slimslimqq:
ok thanks.
Yoruba insults:
* Omo ti won KO le fi yangan
* Iwo toye KO fi se ikan OSU
* ailaini lari eyan,
* OMA sise Ku no
* ti won ba pe eyan, se oye ki eranko yoju
* Omo ti obi ri to banuje
and many more I don't wanna say, I hope u have captured everything she saying

LMaooo

These are normal Yoruba insults na.

I think because you were broke,her words attached you psychologically.

OP is sensitive to insults.

I lost that ability before I was 15 years old.

As she was insulting me, I would keep laughing like a loon, or making faces at her while licking my lips.


She was clearly transferring aggression on you. She was frustrated already and needed to vent. By showing her she got to you, she successfully vented and would go home calm and cool. If I were the one, her BP would explode because she would never get to me with those insults.

Now, even after everything,she is still in your head? Damn!! She really messed you up.


Lemme give you this: WORDS ARE WIND! They can blow and buffet you but they never leave physical marks. So long your heart is sealed, no psychological marks either

pretydiva:
Typo. Thanks for the correction

U welcome.

So what's my val gift? Or are you not planning on getting me any?

CalliDora1:
Like How much are those?
Thanks.

Artwork price is subjective but if you meet students who are really good. U go get between 10-15k last for the artwork.


Smartwatches range from 5k upwards, some nairalanders in the phone section sell and can deliver to Lagos residents. If you can't afford the earbuds(7k upwards), the smartwatch alone should do.

Emmynator:
If you hear/see something, say something.
Make we dey save ourselves abeg.

I will get home that day, call Andrew and thank him then go inside my room and enjoy a good night sleep


That Andrew will pack out that same week

There is something about a cold blooded man,who shows no emotions after betrayal that makes even the devil shrink.

Modified:

Just read the nigga's reply. He did good.

CalliDora1:
I can't get him those cause I don't know his size.

Thinking of shoes . But his shoes na die o. My power nor reach His kinda shoes and don't want to buy what he'll not use. He's in SA.

Be like na to snap grass mtch, flower send am as Aunty Cardi B advised o.

@luminouz

Boxer is out of it cos I don't know his size. Any suggestions?

Is he an art inclined dude? You could make a really good portrait of him and send. Just find a good artist who is not yet spoiled by radically high price tags and a very good picture of him.

OR

He uses a phone right? Get him a smartwatch and a coupla earbuds.

These are some stuffs a man can appreciate.

pretydiva:
Seems the state is caused. They are always in the news for always labeling their child as witch. May God deliver the parents of these children

Cursed you mean?

What's with akwa ibom and child witches BS na?

ShugaFly:
..

I quite understand your point.

So your investment won't be on a borehole pussy!!!

CalliDora1:
Lol...

I thought nairalanders said Foreign girls are the best. Hahahahaaaa.. grass kwa!

No, I'm still thinking of what to buy my Val.

Lol...I know it would be boxers

Adakintroy:
Yes this are the women that endorse Biden..bitter hatefully resentfully feminist who don't even have the slightest clue what true feminism is all about.

A market woman sit in he shades all day nursing her baby behind her back. In the scotching African day sun, tries to keep the baby quiet has she attempt to balance between her need for attention, her own attention and that of the customers.
.the husband is elsewhere breaking his own back in an endless effort to provide.

She is honest about herself and her role as a support. That's feminism. Firmness about womanhood. This ahsahaow just go after men with strong sense of entitlement.

Unfortunately they are the ones taking out women hostage in thougths. We are the ones suppose to school in relations to the truth on men women relations.

But then I have seen kings walking and servants riding horse.

Nice submission!!!

YorubaPrince:
Olofo! Werey!

Black women all over the globe are just the same, I swear! White women don't have this sort of entitlement mentality. They love you for you knowing the simple things of life are simply the best!

Yet, these are the same black women that would frown and get angry at black men dating white women...

All women are the same hommie.

helinues:


And yet we are still using polythene bags which most of the advanced countries have banned.....

What's the issh with polythene bags?

Advocatejustice:
Men has been successfully held captives by women long ago especially when this love songs that glorify women surface from our music industry.

I went to an eatery fast food with my supposed ex, she suggested taking me there for a birthday treat and knowing fully well that I won't spend kobo from my pocket.

While entering the place I noticed that the security men requested for a face mask before anybody could enter.

Noticing I don't have a face mask, the security man pointed to another one selling face mask beside him.

Before I could reach my pocket for 100 naira for the face mask, my suppose ex was already scattering her bag searching for the money to pay on my behalf.

I also acted like searching for change then we almost stretched out 200 naira to the face man seller at the same time.

Now, the simp man selling mask took my suppose ex money first because she gave him faster, then having seeing my own too he just returned her money saying I should bring mine instead because there is no change, I looked at him and wondered, are we not giving you the same amount?

He look at me and said outrightly : Women should not be the one paying for men"

When he said these, I look at my 200 naira already with him, then I said to him not minding the ladies and other men around waiting for their turn to go in, I said :

"Please collect her own 200 naira and give me my own money, she has decided to pay for me, what is your own problem with that.?"

He was shocked, I took my money from him, took the face mask and enter with her after she collected her change.

Kilode? (What happened?)

Men should not and are not slaves to women.

This made me smile.

You did well hommie

The guard has come into this world to be a servant. So women can't even buy him 100 naira face mask because apparently he is supposed to pay for everything? Stress and worry go soon kill am na

Men..



Should we tell him?