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AmazonTopaz:
There is a difference in this case because he is not married to the other woman so it is infidelity and still a grounds for divorce even when you have a co-wife you can still divorce if he tire you to do that first observation is flawed.Their religion allows polygamy but he is not married to moyo so it is infidelity and the woman can still leave at anytime too and they are only allowed to marry 4 wives.I don't think Islam allows adultery and not every muslim subscribes to polygamy.

Cc.luminouz the observation is flawed judging from the first point

You have a point there,on the adultery issue. I don't know Islam tenets on that.

merieam16:
I guess some people just like been quoted hence, their reasons for spewing shit

And you still have him what he wanted. Attention!!!

Why not ignore him?

Oluromantic:
What I see is incompatibility. I say so because what he did was wrong and your reaction also was mean. See lemme tell you one secret. When your partner does some extremely annoying things, it always wise not to obey your instinct of revenge because at long last, people won't see his wrong but blame you for your extreme reaction. That's the formula most men use to avoid physical abuse of their women.

You shouldn't have cut the call on him. And from the story, you seem to have had him in mind over his lack of support in previous times which was what pushed you to react that way, because if that wasn't the case, your conscience would strike you to call back and apologize for hanging up on him...that's the normal thing when in love.

Besides, waiting a whole week to call him back, truth be told, you seem to be emotionally stable than him and you're using it as strength against him. He seem more emotional, that's why he wanted to year you say something affectionate about taking his little offer of support for the car. If you had joked about it and gave him a tender feeling that you'll take his offer, that would have puffed up his masculinity and he'll feel honored. You need to study his psychic to know what response will soothe him.

You both need to open up to each other more. That issue of asking him for money because you have been the one supporting him was probably presented as a sudden rise of intelligence which he's not been used to from you. You shouldn't have presented it like "I can't afford it, I need your help". It would have been better if you had presented it like "I can afford it but I want ur support so I can remember you and brag of you" Not like a revenge strategy now but like I want your influence and aura in my things. That will not only make you wify but will also make him feel you believe in him. Wish I could advice you privately

You made sense.

Case closed.

That bosstrevor dude is high on something wild and nasty

Junnior:
Peep this:

You both get in a heated argument. She accuses you of cheating. She gets really emotional and slaps you. You return the favour.
Next, she's at her dad's shedding tears while telling that you've beating the hell out of her.
What do you think will happen afterwards?

1. No girl who sees me would wanna get physical. This is not only because I look very ruthless and I'm fuqin strong. I always lay down a no domestic violence rule at the start of the relationship. Girls who have played with me and seen my strength don't overstep their boundaries

2. Any woman who slaps me,gets slapped in return. No excuses and no handouts. All I can do is make sure I have witnesses who can back me up if shit hits the fan.

3. The worst her dad would do is arrest me. I will bail myself out. This is one reason why I cultivate friends in the police and army sections.

4. If all of the above failed, then I have a plan E. I would let her leave my house in peace and give her a month or two, then I will strike when the moon is down and shadows are about. But one thing is sure,no one,woman or man,slaps me and gets away with it.

This is all my personal opinion

brexit:
I have not doubted most news in this platform but this story is not true, one may ask me why.


Hauwa the wife is a moslem and their religion and culture do not forbid polygamy so why would she want to seek divorce, the man may decide to marry more than 10 no qualms


Second the blogger was unable to put Hauwas picture to justify all that was written

Nice observations

Leshurr:
.. as she should.

Although in most cases like this, the man will still come out on top as there will always be a plethora of money grabbing babes willing to overlook a man's terrible vices all because of money ( FFK is a great example).
At the sight of this news, somebody somewhere is busy planning on how to become the newest Mrs Nuhu

Moyo ruined a man and now her life is ruined. Mrs Nuhu is about to walk away with her fair share of his wealth.
While..
Adam Nuhu will get remarried in the next 3 years.
Such is life.

I was enjoying ya comment till you mentioned "fair share of his wealth" and I was like WTF!!! This ain't America sis. She would get some child support and maybe a house for the kids,nothing more.

Dbanj is married na.

We talking of some slay queens who don't wanna use their God given talents to hustle for their own cash but believe men are their divine sustenance.


No Shi Shi for them this year biko

Junnior:
I'm not sure it's as easy as you say it.
Because I feel If for instance you correct a spoilt brat, she will run to her parents to report. Her parents will fight you. They will use their influence to deal with you. Or am I wrong to think this way?

When you're dating a girl with influential parents, I feel you will be worried knowing that if things go wrong and her parents get involved, they can easily fvck u up, regardless of who was right or wrong. They will certainly side with their daughter. Or am I wrong to think this way?

Your first paragraph shows exactly my point. I said never be afraid to correct them, not beat them or whiplash them na. Why on earth will her parents deal with you for tongue-lashing their child.

Women are like children. They test you to know what they can get away with. Your leniency determines their audacity. If you don't put your foot down in the beginning on what you don't like, she would ride over you and you'd be like all the other whiny-whiny niggas she rolls with. Her parents already indulged her bad attitudes, must you also? The sensibles ones will take to correction and stick with you while the overly rotten ones will leave.
No matter what a spoilt brat tell her parents, so long you don't rape/beat or something, you are ok.

Fearing to speak your mind based on her parents status already made you her bìtch. She would never respect you.

How do I know all this? I have rolled with rich babes before...I'm talking senator/deputy governor levels... I don't see the chicks as goddesses or Dresden China pieces. I see them as normal women and treat them as such

Sixfeetbelle:
You're right sha. He may not be gay but I wouldn't be surprised if he was.

#justsaying

So if someone calls me gay, you wouldn't be surprised too?

Sixfeetbelle:
He's gay joor. It's just that Sahara reporters haven't yet carried the news. But shey we set this world, one day monkey will sha go market...

Lol...haba...

Not all unmarried men at 35 upwards are gay na...

Some don't fancy marriage.

Besides, Sahara reporters are akin to PM news...full of drama and half-baked journalism

Sixfeetbelle:


Oya, you, counter my claim with valid points nah. Why would a made man who married late already be divorced and about to remarry? Is it not for show? You can't tell me he loves his second wife more than his first.

What I need is proof he is gay, points are not proofs,just your personal opinion.

See her big mouth

Sixfeetbelle:
He's secretly gay. That's why. Gay people don't like marriage. They only do it for show.

Fear God naaaaa....


Where is your proof?

Oluromantic:
This guy needs prayers. Himself shd know. He became speaker at 35 and wasn't married. He married 2 years after he became speaker and now the marriage is divorced? Nawa o

And how is he cursed,with all you have said?

No be marriage be the koko these days na

koyyes:
You will also tell me that a baby has never been molested to and pedophiles are all victims.

You are the dumb one here. Wait till you get raped you here.

You are as guilty as the f@ggot that raped his son and is asking for DNA test.

Fish head.

You keep throwing abuses but you still haven't answered my summons

Go over to FB and see the truth for yourself na.
You badly wanted the man to be guilty but you lost common sense along the way. The truth is out there to see..so kindly educate yourself and come back to apologize to me.

My last reply

dollyjoy:
This is not a good news at all!!!!!!! .

Dear Lord, I'm tired of school. I just wanna graduate and Start a new phase of life!!!!

Wow...long time no see dolly


Are you still in school?

koyyes:
Go and read the story again. You call screenshots receipts? Use your head.

The f@ggot couldn't act as a husband and father no more. He molested his son and asked for a divorce and DNA test when he was caught pants down.

Guilty as charged. If he were abroad, they would have hunged him immediately.

Fool.

Are you sure you're normal bayi?

Why not go over to FB and read up on the whole saga.

If you're not so illogical,you'd know there is no way a grown ass man's dick would enter a year old kid. And with the way she was apologising upandan for her misbehaviours,you'd know she is the issue.


Ode

SweetCunt97:
Broke Niggahs ain't loyal Padre... Let them go make money before trying to leech off a woman.

Besides we strive not to condescend to live in a face you I slap you with a man instead we will elevate him to a bungalow... That's if his ego will allow him.

You wanna elevate who?

Nawa oooo

Are you sure this is Fela's son?


What's this na?

Vecto:
This is what it means to be a public figure and be red-pilled. There's no such thing as being red-pilled inside and navigating/interacting with the world with a blue pill mindset. That's bullshit. Reno doesn't mince words, he drops them like hot cocoyams.

Damn....he dropped them hot hot!!!


I was disgusted when the stingy women association said they will close their legs in return. That shows how fuqed up their mentality is. Sex is enjoyed by both genders,why monetize it like you doing men a favour.

I posted some snippets of these on my status. Come see as girls went mad,claiming I'm broke or I should go fuq a cow...


E pepper them wella

olaboy33:
August 2029, some Nigerian professors discovered the current strain of Covid 19 rampant now in the UK and now in Nigerian.

The FG government and the NCDC completely ignored them.
They believe nothing useful can proceed from the Nigerian academic economy system.

Only if you know how well Nigerian researchers receives numerous research grants from abroad due to their potentials.

Even Innoson Motors, our government don't trust in their convoy.

Those who are meant to provide solutions to our problems are creating more problems.

August 2029?

Junnior:
Greetings bosses.

I want to ask.

As a relatively broke guy, is it advisable to date a lady whose parents are rich and influential?

I feel the guy will be emasculated in that kind of relationship because there will be oppression from the girl's people. He will be scared of putting her in her place when she goes out of line.

What do you think?

Date anyone you feel like dating, your level of game determines if she go respect you or not. If you have seen the way young bodija tomato sellers abuse their boyfriends,then you will know it ain't about wealth,but respect.

Why would you be scared to correct any woman,whether rich or broke? Correct her if she goes out of line. The hardest choices require the strongest wills

And this is FP worthy NEWS

koyyes:
Any time you hear a negroe say 'they like it tight', just know he is a f@ggot. This animal is definitely a nairalander.

What a big shame to humanity.

You came late to the party.

Your "saint" wife has been revealed as a fuqin liar.

The husband came with receipts, while YOU came with ya big ass mouth

Kayberg:
Leave me...
I'm tired of you...

Deejay1000:
between can you be redpilled and be broke ?? cos that's the main problem in this country.. girls always feeling like you owe them even if you guys are not dating.

if you want to run a side hustle online which can be paying you.. i have a pdf book on affiliate marketing which i believe is very helpful to you all.
drop your email address and I'll send you the book for free .

Let whoever PM you,so the thread won't be littered with mails

We4all:
I give up on you cos you reason like an unexposed niggar. Go back to your dictionary and digest the meaning of these words: vile, pervert, paedophile and gay.

A vile man is wicked and morally bankrupt, and can do anything to get back at someone.

A pervert can insert his dick into any hole.

A paedophile can molest a day's old baby and a gay paedophile wouldn't even spare his blood.

So, are u daft not to understand that the world is now morally bankrupt and anything goes? Haven't you been following the news lately where fathers are taking it out on their daughters because some of them claimed that their wives denied them sex?

That man shot himself in the foot when he claimed that he asked for a DNA. If men have killed babies for doubting their paternity, then you must be dumb to think that they can't molest a baby just to get back at their wives. Would you think the same if the baby in question was a girl?

It freaks me out that I had to waste my time to explain these things to you in a lay man's language. But I understand that you must be a kid hence your shallow reasoning. I guess when you grow, you will understand better.

K

classicfrank4u:
Audio vp... All he knows how to do is talk online
What policies have you guys made to help small businesses to grow?

Your cluelessness is like a black hole.

Totally encompassing!!!

Lol...I be Una president already na

Kayberg:

You think this is funny?

The comment you're accusing me of, I else read the comment but chose not to react because I know whoever made that comment doee not deserve to be replaced despite seeing the evidences.

If this had been April 1 I wouldn't have taken you seriously.

And I repeat, don't call me darling again.

Dorrrlinnggggg!!!!

Oya take kiss...

Kayberg:
You must be very much out of your mind.
This ain't funny.
You read a comment by someone else and the best idiotic reaction you can do it accuse someone else of it.

What does that make you?
You better start taking enough Vitamin A to see properly.

And don't you call me darling again.

Darllingggggg

I love you baby!!!

Kayberg:
I said produce your evidence I was the one supporting the killer corper or forever shut the heck up.

How can you quote the wrong person and still be flexing muscle on your disgusting error?

Lol...don't be pained darling

You lost this one...now go and enjoy your day

Kayberg:

You should by now realise you made an awful mistake in quoting me, because you just quoted the wrong person on your claims.

Where on earth did I say the killer corper might have been framed when I fully analysed her description on her Facebook profile?

Please go, check and mention me with the link to backup your claims. I want to see it.

Here is the link to my comment on that killer corper thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6356612/slay-queen-corper-kills-guy#97939025

Produce yours before you use me shine…

I'm vindicated already. The woman was lying and the husband came with receipts.

Next time,hear both sides of the story before judging.