₦airaland Forum

Magnoliaa:
That boy(yes, boy!) too dey yarn dust. So much for priding himself on objectivity and "reality."

And he should leave women's bodies and decisions and emotions alone. How e take affect him? Online wealthy patriarch.




Who you?
Taleleyi?
Kileleyi?

Where did you cut and come from? Dapcity, abi blurdysperm?? I know you're the only guy on this forum that's been spoiling for "an argument" with me.

Magnoliaa:
Cheating wives and DNA saga has proven this "faithfulness to a single providing man" thingy wrong, sha. Let's assume other men have wealth in abundance and are not married, instead of the women worrying their heads over the number of sex another wife gets and the attention the man gives them, they'd simply find a young lover/sugar daddy to give them the maximum comfort.

There. They get loads of sex and loads of provision from different men that are asking them out. Nobody loses.

Oh, and feminism is the sexes leveler. Relationships aren't buying and selling to every human.

StacyO:


Not at all.
I would love to marry a badass man.
Not the Nigerian or African based mentality kindda man.

Someone far odd,different and crazy.

When people choose yellow,we choose red

Abeg I no wan laugh


I hope I don't end with one normal olumide or chukwudi

yeman1:
he he he ! it should be on her term, if not na rape she go shout oh

Peace or what did you say ? only God can give you peace my dear. sometimes I dont wanna come home he he

sapphiere:
Great!

oluwatooni:
I hear you

StacyO:
Everything wrong in this your write up is the fact that you can never buy love.

That is where you got it all totally wrong.

Neither sex nor money can ever buy love.

Marrying more than one wife is good when it comes to satisfying the sexual urge but,it is a major chaos on its own.

yeman1:
My woman will never and never accept that, one day I told her, she said she would leave for life and never come back

yeman1:
Honestly ,it's only God can save us in this marriage. I remembered my neighbor fights almost everyday , wife do complain body pains every time cos of house chores which made her to reject her husband every time. So husband decided to be doing all the house chores but she still denied him of sex, then the man employ house help to do everything at home, but she refused the man still. She said she doesn't have urge , then the man said sometimes she gives her head , romance her and all sorts just to let her calm but she refused oh. So the man said he wants to divorce her with 2 children. So what do you think about this one ?

oluwatooni:
No be me ooo, biko... after my first child. I'm still very active... na husband dey tire...
I think women should try to reduce the stress they go through, if one is always stressed out, the person will lose interest in sex... Cox having sex is a huge task itself...

Hotbutt:
You point is sooo invalid.

Majority of Women get fat because of Childbearing. When they get Pregnant, there is General Hormone increase. This hormone increases the secretion of Fat and distributes it round the whole body.
They get fat becos they are carrying children for their said "Husbands".

But as for the Husbands,
1) Are they getting Pregnant....NO.
2) Are they carrying children in their bodies for 9 months.....NO.
3) Are their Hormones spiking during the period of Child bearing or during Pregnancy leading to distribution of FAT....NO..NO...NO...NO....NO.

So why getting FAT and developing BEER BELLY all your life thereby making them look SO UGLY, UNATTRACTIVE AND DISGUSTING.

Most even develop beer belly and u will think they are heavily pregnant or the ones into child bearing.

All because of BEER...BEER...BEER...BEER...BEER....BEER...BEER.
Enriching Nigerian Bottling Company.

It's so Disheartening

After they will start complaining that the wives don't want to sleep with them. I laugh in French

jacoik:
guy, over sense just dey worry u my guy. abeg if u never marry ehhhh I get two sisters wey just grad. from unilag last year, I can give u the two to marry because u too dey make sense

missyblissy:
You don't get my point . Most men what they do is hump on the woman like horse and go without satisfying her as they are selfish. An unhappy woman will never give sex....

wellmax:
I'm never disappointed with the shallow knowledge of most nairaland members.
We complain of congested prisons, now government wants to build more, you complain again. Nawa for una oo.

harmony75:
the masses need work instead to create jobs the government is building correction centers..so that those frustrated by your government will be jailed??!! Buhari government has nothing to offer just beating about the bush this is the reality so sad. how can a government be building correction centers when even our local communities health centers are not functioning?! God come to our aid o buhari has finished Nigeria!!!

ignis:
Black man mentality never cease to amaze me. If the money used in building this correctional facility prison is used in building factories and industries that will create job for the people, the rate of crime and consequently the number of potential inmates will drastically reduce.

dontai:
Thanks for the good job Fam. But I have a few questions (if I'm permitted)?

Firstly, what am I? because I do tell my girls, I can divorce any one I married second day of the wedding, (I don't like drama, and I don't give a f about what societies do say, like you have married her she's now your cross, I gat no cross to carry. ain't Jesus) is it good to be telling them such, even when I told my friends, they do look me like I ain't sane.

secondly, what does masturbating gat to do with being a red-piller? (no apology to the moralist and religious freak) because like Lil-wayne said, and I quote "when I cum I come to my senses" I won't say more than that. but I guess it helps in decision making and help one wave away a ........?


luminouz, CaveAdullam, oyolohi, ichidodo.

thanks.

missyblissy:
How do you know am not married?

To each its own. Sometimes women tends to hold sex when they are not satisfied. You don't come and hump and go like. She's a horse without feelings. Treat her like the Queen she is and You will see her eat you in bed......

StacyO:
A lot of factors in which stress is the major one.

alizma:
I am there too bro

IAmSkinny:
I am not married yet. In fact, the scam called marriage is already disgusting me going by all the stories flying around. Damn, I might end up not getting married.

Dapcity247:
Why can't she do both
I thought women are good at multitasking

eastOFwest:
There are many things that will make a woman lose interest in sex after marriage -

1) More responsibilities and things to worry about like taking care of children, cooking, cleaning, taking of her husband, her job etc. By the time she gets to bed, she's so tired that all she needs is someone to rub her back and bum so that she can fall asleep.

2) Relationship issues like petty quarrels with her husband, pointless little arguments that wear people out, back biting etc. The trigger for these arguments or quarrels could be infidelity, money etc.

3) Husband growing bigger and slower in bed that makes sex boring, and not something to look forward to but an obligation.

4) She has body image issues and feels that she is no longer sexy again because she has grown larger and slower. Her husband probably has made some unpleasant comments regarding this either during quarrel or jokingly

5) No romantic effort from the husband to put her in the mood. Saying "oya now" to her in bed with erect d1ck is not romantic.

6) Over familiarity with her husband. Almost "brother and sister" type closeness in a marriage that relegates sex to last on the list.

7) She is probably getting it somewhere else? It's amazing how most people think this is the issue but it's only a small percentage of women who actually resort to this. Most women will just lose interest in sex and carry on as if it doesn't really matter. However this could be dangerous and could lead to situations where a man who has access to her, and who is able to decode that she's sex starved, can take advantage of her by making a "bold move". This is where you hear "one thing led to another" and next thing them dey knack person wife inside toilet, for office, inside car, backyard, inside boys quarters with house boy or gate man etc.

She just wanted to get married so she was giving sex on demand, and even pretending that she was enjoying it but now that she has married and aim achieved, no need to pretend.

All in all, remember that, as a young single girl, most women only had to worry about themselves and had all the time in the world to look and feel sexy. Most of them did not live with their fiancé so had space to actually long for them. Also while dating/wooing, the man went out his way to make her feel good (romantic gestures, gifts, clubbing, restaurants, weekend get away etc) but now that they are married those things are not happening again for various reasons.

Also for the person who said he wants to marry a nympho, be careful what you wish for. Remember that as a young single man you have the ability to fvck all day long. But after marriage things will change, you'll grow older (and probably slower) and your wife (after kids and probably getting bigger, and not really having the time to look sexy) might not have the same effect on you as she had before even though you still love her. So who will be satisfying her extra large sexual appetite and strong sexual urges/cravings?

zainabicy:
This is because after a while d man stops trying to make d woman orgasm. They take and take and take.

So after a while, we sef lose interest, children dey, work dey.

Hotbutt:
The reality is this.
For most women, their husbands become very Ugly and unattractive in their eyes.
The husbands sef would not help matters. Most of them will now develop one kind big "Beer" Belly all in the name of "Enjoying good life". They won't workout or go to do the gym.
They will now be as fat as what I can't say.
If I'm lying, look at your daddy and tell me how he looks.

Do u know what it means to keep seeing just one particular face everyday all the days of their lives it's not easy. You will just get bored.

As for the Sex part, they are already exhausted and tired of the Sex sef. They can even stay one full year without craving for it especially when kids have started coming.

Everything just changes.

Assignment:
1) Look at your Daddy. Then ask your mummy when last she had good SEX with your Daddy.
You would be shocked at her response. I know what I'm saying.

Saviolamemphix:
My notes is filled with bitter TRP truths
TRP keeps getting bitter, only Real men can continue takin dis pillz :
MGTOW

Hustle2flex:
They say its women that drives men to TRP and that rings true on my side after my last relationship.
It made me to understand women don't give a damn about us and no matter your sacrifices for her,she won't remember any of it whenever she decides to leave you.
I had to learn it the hard way but am glad I did.
Being nice doesn't get you any favors with these bitches and they are very remorseless once their hypergamous antennas are up.

Imagine waking up one morning to the text message 'babe I need to take a break from this relationship and discover myself and know what I really want'.Thats after professing 'love' for 3yrs.No calls nor further explanations from her.
I knew the game was over with her.i didn't bother asking why cos it's useless.
A month later,she is posting pictures with another guy on a date with her.i guess she has fully studied the discovery channel.

The best thing TRP has taught me is self awareness of your worth as a man,the value of your attention and resources you give out(u have to guard it jealously) and constant self improvement in every facet of your life.You don't ever as a man focus on a woman and neglect your self development cos when she perceives that she is above you in the social ladder after continuously investing in her,you will be dumped.No questions asked.

You guys are really doing a good job here.The Gospel of TRP will continue to spread like widefire.keep it up guys!!

IAmSkinny:
As a redpilled nigga, how do you handle a working wife who refuses to take up some basic household financial responsibilities knowing very well you are temporary incapacitated

naenaesosa:
I think they do. Firstly from their "moms" that suffered from their father's maltreatments. Secondly at work amongst colleagues oh "Dont let any man use u oh, build your own house so if he dissapoints you can move". Thirdly social media and the feminist agenda

Martinez39s:
A woman who has more money than you and has a higher status will not select you as a husband. Her hypergamous nature will seek a higher male. Women marry their best financial options higher than them.

If you started out higher than your wife and she started earning better than you during the marriage and her status surpasses yours, the disrespect and resentment from her towards you will build up. When a man has all the wealth and status, he tries to make them reflect on his wife and kids; in the case of a woman, she looks upon her husband with disdain and pride and asks herself "is he the best I can do?" It is what it is. A wife with a higher cash worth and higher status cannot respect her husband.

In other news, hear this:
Red pill: "Nothing builds resentment and disrespect to a husband greater than when his wife brings home the bacon (ie. when she is the breadwinner). The resentment and disrespect will come from the wife"

I am sure Hollywood, Nollywood, IrokoTV, romance novels and Disney have painted women to be beings who can love you as much as you love them, and they are equal partners who should run things equally in the household (no male authority), and they are selfless and considerate enough to lend you a helping hand in your down times and make sacrifices for you. This is BUUULLLLLSSSSHIT.

Edit: any gift or financial assistance she renders you comes with conditions: you must pay back or give her something in return. Besides, when she does that or some breadwinner role, she will continuously drum it over your head and to everyone when the opportunity presents itself.