₦airaland Forum

yommyoke:
more like it, if a guy wants to help a lady, he shouldn't do it with the hope of getting something back or winning her emotionally, just do it cos you want to do it.
helping a lady out becos you want to win her heart will always bring the biggest shock cos you'll be disappointed.

I think I agree with you. Not only on ladies issues but life in general. Help anyone within your means and dont expect any returns.

However, based on the closeness between these two people and his sacrifice, most people expected her to accept his proposal. There is a catch however, from the little I remember from the story, she wasn't dating him but he was wooing her. So go figure

yommyoke:
exactly, those churchy girls are sneaky, bunch of pretenders and hypocrites.
its better having a street lady than keeping hypocrites.

I've been there bro and I would advise anyone in such to vet these ladies very well, if they intend to finalise the relationship.

Some suffer from chronic schizophrenia.

CaveAdullam:
@bolded; not a virgin, dump her!

If smoking and drinking is a red flag, definitely, drug abuse is.

Multiple piercings is a domino effect due to the presence of other red flags as it will never exist alone. And multiple piercings also extends to the nose, lip, nipple, belly button etc.

Nice analysis on the red flags...

I dont condone smoking or drinking from any woman. I find two ear piercings sexy,not more than two. Just ears alone, nowhere else. In as much as I like good fashion sense and nice stature in a woman, her attitude/personality determine whether I stay or not. So I hate pretenders in any form.

My personal opinion though.

seunmsg:
Palliatives is palliatives . Even if the warehouse belongs to a business organization, na still palliatives in as much as food dey there.

What a load of thrash!!!

baiaon:
Luminous,I have read many of your posts on this thread and I have realized this redpill stuff is not for you.Stop trying to be what you aren't

Its luminouz!!!

Once again, we can agree to disagree

Yamiriflathead:
Ubunja martinez39s Glycolysis CaveAdullam , pansophist , Mrpaedo , skepticus , SkyFlint, luminouz baiaon angelfallz Dpsychologist
Can you all see the nauseating comments from nairaland men on first page?
Never knew Reno omokri was redpilled ahswear

My attention is drawn to how the ladies who commented on the first page refused to take responsibilities for the promiscuity and irresponsibility of women folk as per giving birth outside wedlock but chose to blame the men for their woos instead.
Were you forced at gun point to give out your virginity or give out sex?
You could see how the bloody SIMPS on frontpage chose to criticize Reno for the truth he spilled out to placate the women folk.
Simps.. una Mumu can NEVER DO

Lol...I saw it all

baiaon:
@Emboldened You are making excuses.Thesame way many men have made excuses for single mothers,tattoos,unnaturally coloured hair,multiple partnered women etc.Guess what?They all learnt their lessons the hard way

Be objective bro. I have seen S.Us who never used that shiit and they were worse than Satan.

We are not all xtians here, and this is no religious section. I'm still at a loss to why two ear piercings on a woman makes her damaged.

My opinion on damaged women was shared a few posts from this... I wanted more inputs from men here

Surely, we can agree to disagree

PharmaGirl:
Your opinion Reno.
If that's what you believe, then its fine.

But remember, they didn't impregnate themselves.

So while you're giving reasons on why you won't help 'deliberate single moms', don't you think it'd be nice if you also preached to the men who impregnated them?

Tell them to carry their cross honorably. Tell them to provide for their kids so their kids' moms will stop running to your TL, begging for money.

As usual, you never addressed the main issue....you prefer using diversionary tactics.

Martinez39s:
Female nature doesn't care.

On point. Was what I was telling a brother here who felt a bit guilty for standing his ground. Women can be downright brutal and you find yourself wondering if she was the sweet geh you used to know.

Look at the story you responded to, that babe would have died if not for the guy's millions, yet she broke up with him using flimsy excuses(so I'm guessing not cheating or genotype).

I read a story of how a man donated his kidney to the woman he loves and once she got better,he proposed and she rejected him. Imagine his sacrifice and her savagery. She knew he loved her and after the donation, rejected his ass. I try not being petty but if na me ehn, I'm calling the doctor ASAP and getting my fuqin kidney back.

azzima:
I used to be a freemason here in NY being that I am in law enforcement. Worshipful Master(WH) is a position that is ROTATED amongst the freemasons in a Lodge. ....no big deal. So you can be a WH today and few months after( depending on the number of members in a Lodge) be a treasurer or Warden. It doesn't confer ANY special powers on you. Freemansonry is one of Satan's DECEPTION to make ppl think it's all about positivity and money making but I have a lot 33rd masons who are DIRT POOR.

What is the society all about?

I hear so many things that there is a need to separate facts from fiction

ictplotter:
Today once a Great Britain now a Rubbish Britain after Benin invasion. The British didn't invade the palace of oba of Benin rather the great Oba Ovuranmen was stylishly took out of palace to a sea port, where he was taken to exile and the ancient city was invaded not the palace. Britain loss world power to America after Benin invasion. Today Britain is a showdown of himself leaving with past glory. No man can hold the staff of office of Oba of Benin and still be alive for a minute. Oba gha tokperee iseee

Your write up is incomprehensible.

What dafuq are you saying?

baiaon:
They should read through this thread because the traits of a damaged/red flagged woman have been so repeatedly listed and discussed on this thread, a comprehensive book can be written on them.This is page 91.The screenshot below is from page 90

These are the traits of a damaged woman?

I was thinking more like in terms of loose women, runs girls, baby mamas, drug addicts or substance abusers and such...

Multiple piercings on a woman's ears shouldn't make her damaged...at least not to me. S.U gehs dont have these and yet some are worse than you'd ever know

Martinez39s:
Guys, I had to come back to repeat. PAY HEED TO SKYFLINT'S POINTS! Learn, memorize, and familiarize yourself with them so that they become your second nature. Please!

Dude nailed those mudafvcking points so hard I felt them resonate in my soul.

He said it all bro.

Krrt576:
Brothers number 10 and 11 should be written on your palm with a knife so that you can remind your self every day. Guys with tears in my eyes pls and pls DO NOT SAVE A DAMAGE WOMAN You will pay with your life, career, future ambitions, peace of mind etc etc etc if you attempt to be her savior. I don't know who needs to hear this I have said my own

What exactly do you guys term a 'DAMAGED WOMAN'?

let's throw that out so people can really know what to avoid.

gidson12:
this ia CACOVID palliative, where is federal Government palliative,

Only you made sense.


The daughter forgot say cacovid is private initiative and not from FG.

The real question is WHERE DAFUQ IS FG PALLALIATIVE?

Only thing I've seen so far is there loan for households, MSMEs and stiffs like that!

CosmicPhoenix:

9 out of 10 Nigerian ladies fall into at least one of these categories.

Are you kidding me? All NIGERIAN girls have at least one of those things.
Especially the 'cares only for herself' part.

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BigDawsNet:
I'm not an agent..

Just follow the info u hav online.. Its simple

Info online says its a racist country with few resources, why dafuq would I wanna get trapped in another hell? Naija is hell enough.

No need!!!.
Or they get corrupted again. Let OPC do the job.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Read the Title of the thread again

Police are hiring a private organization to guard police stations

I did not say Amotekun should be used to quell protests. I said they should be use in place of the private organization, which is OPC[/color]

BigDawsNet:
Bro online will give you more info

*rolling eyes*


Go away then

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Where is the NSCDC in all of these?

This year, the Amotekun was created. Why can't they be involved?

We always like to throw away money in this country[/color]

Are you for real or just joking?

Amotekun is for herdsmen, not for quelling protests na!

BigDawsNet:
do you wanna take a break outside nigeria...

Nigeria passport will likely get u a visa on arrival at Georgia...


Make a reaserch

Tell me more hommie....I'm listening

Salmoneus:
Mr Reader, what if I told you that I know where you can get an iPhone 11 for 45k courtesy of looters, would you buy?

Oya gimme location...

CamusMidas:
True. Thanks for your time, you have been very helpful.

One love

Yewandequeen:
why u dey fall my hand like this do you know if my helper dey read this so


Dear helper Please no mind am, I no big kankan, we still dey street dey hustle....

Lmaoooooo...

CamusMidas:
I once the one that insisted on cutting the communication. She pleaded abit and assure me that she know her and not cross boundaries but she always does. I don't trust her on maintaing the boundaries.

I wholeheartedly like the concept of using them for my benefit, but I end up feeling guilty (wish I could rid myself of that).

Since she always does, cut her off then.

You feel guilty? not like you removed her kidneys for money ritual na
How I wish you can see how ruthless women can be and how they use men, maybe, you won't feel so bad. This same geh you dey pity won't pity you if roles were reversed.

One love

CamusMidas:
Can't be far from the truth, I guess I was bored and the thought of her keep popping on my head. Thanks for the reaffirmation.

What if I tempted to call her? (Any recommended effective approach would be appreciated please).

You guys ain't fighting na and unless you both agreed never to communicate, you can still call but make sure your calls have a purpose or meaning attached to it and make sure she calls more than you do(thats the only way to maintain the dynamics)


Besides, does she have a skill or something? Engage her on that, make her work for you, strictly business. That will make firmly put her in her place. For example, an I.T babe can build apps for you at lower prices, a fashion designer building your apparels or something. I discovered that if you can switch your brain to looking at a woman in a particular perspective, you dont get too tempted to roll her in the sheets

Any woman I put in the friendzone ain't escaping from it, yet she will be my friend, becoming beneficial to me in many other ways,not sex. Likewise a sisterzoned babe. They won't be too close for comfort and yet too far away for her absence to make my heart fonder. I just keep them close enough, to BENEFIT ME!

Thats just my humble opinion

CamusMidas:
Okay my very good friend/roommate from the university days started dating our neighbor (100 level), then we were in 300 level. They almost got married after we were done with school. She just got a Job not far from me and we reconnected. Then I dey settle their matter.

We became friendly once more visited each other couple of time, went clubbing and she go drunk couldn't go home (stay with her parents), I lounge us in a hotel close by (I didn't have sex with her) but before then I use to press her and what not when she visits.

Things was getting a bit complicated, we had to sit down and define the relationship.

I am not very much in touch with my friend but we are good, that's not the reason though but I don't want to commit to anything serious right now, I have should project to complete and she knows I don't need anything from her (I believe she likes that about me). I told her we should just be friends.

She actually said that whatever discussion I took she would be cool with it, I decided friends is okay. She didn't object to it but she said it was okay.

A month later she travel for a 3 month training program in another state, we kept in touch videoing calling, she started behaving funny bring up erotic gist when we are gisting calling me love and all that.

I later caution her on all of that, she no hear entirely. She come dey gist me about one of her colleague wey she meet for there from another branch (funny and all that, the normal fuckboys type) he is sometimes in her room when we call.

Of the blue, some weeks later she started telling me how she appreciates me and all that, she likes but she don't know how I really feel; "sometimes you would care sometimes you behave as if you need no one". That guy was in the room and was about leaving then she was pleading with him to come back later. I really don't care if he is having sex with her (but I wish he would for her sanity seek).

After that I told her believe ending communication would be better, because this will end in tears. She objected but later gave up.

I just prefer her as a friend (if there is a down side to this let me know).

Which step would be appropriate or do I need to correct right now?

PS: most actions were down in the heat of the moment or as a result of some emotion which happened between not long ago before the action.

I was just living in the moment with her, I don't see her in the future.

Discuss accordingly.

Step to what? You acted great at first and now you're doubting your own decision? For what?

You made it clear she is your friend, stick to that. She is prolly one of these confused types who wants to eat their cake and have it. You set a boundary before, she respected and even adored that but women always want what they can't have so she wanted to break you down. Classic women BS.

And oh that guy in her room? Unless he is one of those nice nice boiz, Mudafvcker is giving it to her real good. .

You made a decision, stick to that or she will manipulate dafuq out of you and you'll lose her respect.

BRIGHTRIVERS:
And what happens to the freed inmates?? The guy i personally arrested for killing my cousin is now out there as a free man and I already have his messages that he is coming for me. Right now I am on the run instead of him running. What exactly is Akeredolu's plan about the freed criminals? Even if it involves the use of juju they should gather all the babalawo in Ondo and do something!!! I cannot run to another country because of one man!

Why you running?

If you are sure he killed your cousin, isn't it the right time to set an ambush for him and finish the job?

Nawa o.... Yet you called yourself a man!!!