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Freelanceona100:
Learn how to make money on you phone through online surveys freelancing let's cash out big..no time for unemployed shit oo check my siggy and thread

Yet u want me to pay u 5k for something that can fetch u $500?
Why not make the money on your own and stop the adverts?

DanXplore:
LMAO.

It is sad but true that majority of nigerian girls in the dating scene are opportunists that cannot be trusted (especially those within ages 17 to 25 from my own perspective). It is becoming so apparent and appalling to be ignored. I really thank God for the gift of '6th sense' with which I easily discern 'gold diggers/potential gold diggers' just by conversing and interecting with them for at most a few weeks. There is just something about their outlook and ideologies that exposes them - this isn't about judging a book by its cover. It is even so pathetic that most of the aforesaid ladies are often so dull and uncreative in their approach that they keep using the same format all the time i.e. trying to form sophisticated initially, next is to make very harmless looking requests to test the waters and If you succumb, they gradually raise the magnitude of their demands. On the other hand if you do not succumb, they switch to emotional black mail/guilt-trip. Popular among the guilt-trip approach is to either conciously call you broke just to perhaps challenge your feeble mind or as a subconcious response expressing their frustration for not falling for their antics. This I have observed severally on nairaland and even among my peers.

In truth, some guys just need someone they can trust. Someone they can confidently kiss without reservation, knowing that the person loves him in spirit and truth. Such girls are rare and are becoming endangered. We need to find a way of locating the few ones and preserve them

A genuine girl who has earned a guy's trust will in most cases (say 95%) have access to the guy's resources but the irony is that whatever resources the guy might have means nothing to such a lady of virtue. It is just extremely difficult and perhaps impossible to fake genuineness and integrity at least for a given period of time. This is why gold diggers and fake people in general are easy to spot if one is watchful and patient enough. One thing I have learnt is that time is a revealer. Time is the acid-test for character and motives. No price should be too small to pay for seiving the wheat of genuine people - in this case, lady from tars - in this case, gold diggers

In my interactions, I have met just one lady (about a decade ago) who I can vouch that loves from her heart of hearts. She is an embodiment of virture and grace. The world would be at its best with people like her in it (lol). I blew my chance and will never forgive myself for letting her slip away. I consider it my greatest misfortune.

Just to balance things up, this is not to say nigerian guys are excellent. I am only talking from a man's point of view because i am one.

You made nice points.
Girls like that are around,just rare.

elegantslayer:
Keep d kpele for ur family, they will need it this year,infact ur time don go already, walking corpse....But one advice for you.. Never writeoff a man until he's below 6ft..Bye

See the way u derailed your own thread cuz that optimus prime guy said some stuffs. Learn to ignore. Now people will think you're not even being serious.

On your issue,I don't even know how to advise you.
I know ur ginger might have hurt his psyche. Only you know him and what he has been through. Encouragement is best(positive talks) not the indirectly snide remarks you gave him. He seems a bit weak emotionally and who knows his breaking point. People are committing suicide upandan now and we think they are strong or stuff. I believe he should be doing more to better his life,someone mentioned uber...he could make money from that.

My own issue is when you give someone pieces of advice and every fuqin time they have a prepared or concocted excuse not to leave their present state,I lose interest.why? Because I already know they are lazily content with their presently bad situation. I just swallow my concern and bounce. Its their life and their race,let them run it.

elegantslayer:
Your time will go in Jesus Mighty Name.... AMEN

Lmaooooooo

U cracked me the fuq up!

lefulefu:
Someone like Eniola Badmus has men dying for her in the streets ad social media then one lady will tell me men arent checking her out cos she's not preety or bla bla bla. The only tin dat will make men not look ur way is if u have spirit husband and probably d spirit husband is d one chasing all ur suitors away cc luminiouz and mikejj i lie?

U no lie...
I no get ur mention cuz u said luminiouz....

Its luminouz!!!!!!!!!!!!

Icon79:
Haha!! Maybe it's because I didn't wanna say 'given her a full body massage'


O pari

U nailed it...
*thumbs up*

Why is the guy showing no joy?

Everyone just dey do cool cool! No outward display of affection...is it an arranged marriage or they met on instamessenger?

Nawa o

ransomed:
You friend zoned your wife and married a friend material. If the foundation is destroyed what can the righteous do? Pray! You got it wrong from your dating days where you tantalized her and promised heaven on earth. Give her a break and perform your duties and responsibilities except love making.
Stop checking her call log and messages, cook food and include her own without complaining. Divert your attention to the baby for just two Weeks. You will thank God thereafter. May God restore peace, joy and tranquility into your home in Jesus' name. Amen.

*sighs*
How in God's name does this solve his problem?
You're making it more dire,he is a sissy enough..don't make him a yellow fruity sissy!!
Where do y'all get this ur advice from?

Seriously,did you even read the story?

teelady:
I know right? thats why I adviced he did DNA test before all hell can let loose, for now let's allow a what if...

Well...OK...let's allow a 'what if' scenario then.,at least for his sake.

@dp...wetin do ya eye? U clowning or something?

Princedapace:
See what I will tell u bro. I know how terrible this can be. But hear me, two wrongs can't make anything right. Two fires can't quench fierceness.

During this coming weekend, u should be free, take her on a date. Buy her good wine, red wine maybe okay, treat her well, let her drink, tell her how much u love her, how beautiful she is, what she means to u, pet her, play, etc depending on things she like. When she is tipsy, try and ask her what the problem is.. Ask her what u might have done to her. She will talk. From there, u will know how to handle it..

After then, secretly do a DNA test.. As for USA trip, slow it down for now.

What a load of crap!!!

teelady:
op kindly consider this advise, but still do DNA test to avoid stories

You call that piece of shiit,advice?

Does that piece even make any sense to you?
I just taya for you o!

Icon79:
sassysure, you must be a very intelligent woman ... exceptionally intelligent, I must say

Kudos for putting it so eloquently. I would've given you a pat on the back if you were. I love great minds!!!


O pari

Which pat on the back eh?
Who that one EPP?
I know what you really meant...

Laidebrain:
Wish I can just this post like 70times cuz you just nailed it... It's funny how people's thought is so clouded with this money shii..lol, and can t even think beyond it...

I keep wondering because I have seen women who never used money as a criteria for relationships. All the women I ever dated liked me for who I am,not my pocket. I cherished and still cherish them for this. They all have a sense of worth. They all hated being liabilities, so they hustle to make themselves better and I always supported them 100%. So when I was broke or she was broke,we had love to see us through. We would laugh about it and were still happy. So when I see comments on NL about money,I get perplexed,like where do all these guys and girls come from?

GrabHisBalls:
I don't pity some of you when you end up with bad wives. This your wife is everything bad. No character, no home training, no respect for elders, and you want to say you didn't notice any of these while dating even if she's the best pretender in town.

Marriage is for better, for worse. Carry your cross.

Hope you're not like her sha!
Because I go so deal with you eh!!!!

gaby:
While you were busy running a marathon shifts at work, your wife had been busy with her ex, and this is where the "see finish" started from.

In your best interest, you had better jettisoned the US idea with her if not, na OYO be your name.

DNA, please

Some guys still don't understand that most women detest softie men to no end.

Toughen up some bro, that woman has tried and seen to what extent she can trample on you without any repercussions.

Be strong mate

Nice one...
He kept apologising even when she was wrong. She knew he was soft. Her ex has eaten the cookie too. The first time she mentioned her ex would have made me yell at her for the inane comparison. She insulting my mom would have been the breaking point. I would have chased her out at that point.

She knew he was afraid to lose her or her finances so she grew impudent. What I don't get is that a man would do all this for his woman without much fuss,once she spends on him, wahala don start be that.

Nawa o...

Jayslicky:
The first thing I would advice you to do is to go and have a DNA test for that child, with what you explained here I don't trust that your wife, she is a big time pretender and pretenders are capacable of commiting dangerous sins.

The love between you two had quenched for a long time but you refused to see it, it all started from that her birthday, she felt you really didn't take her as your most important thing in life, I think that is when she started getting closer to her ex, I suspect that your wife and ex still had a short time relationship before getting married to you, she did that because she realise her ex was not ready for marriage and she was pregnant, so she decided to get married to you.

You can both go to see a counselor and let him know where you guys are lacking in your marriage, maybe you are not doing something right that is infuriating your wife but just hope she still has any iota of love for you, if not the marriage is as good as dead.

U nailed it!!!

LilMissFavvy:
I believe you know what pajamas are. Buy a cotton pajamas, the blouse should be full long sleeves, and the trousers full length, long. Don't buy pink, red, orange, ie don't buy a shouty colour. You can buy pale green, white with flower designs, blue, etc, because I have read in many books that people with these kind of experiences should not wear colourful sleep wears. Colourful sleep wears attract demons. If you wear pajamas and do your midnight prayers you will never see any scratches again.

What if she sleeps naked?

tohyorsih2:
Everything is wrong with ot

Tooth what??

A pinko pinko is too small to be my toothpick

lefulefu:
;Dof course i don see some shepe and agbo sellers with better curvy backside and flat tummy that even daniella okeke and princes salt will envy but then many of dem no dey clean and some dey get mouth odour.na dose type of ladies bricklayers and bus conductors with all dhier muscles dey fit racket.u not getting fit cos u want to get laid.na dat one we wan try tell op nau

Lolzzzz
Na true you talk

lefulefu:
lets ask op how many bricklayers and welldiggers plus bus conductors with all their muscles and sixparks dey nack hot women

Lol...shepe sellers can be hot too,u know!

tohyorsih2:
Choi!!!

Nah! we don't like little dick

Superlanny someone has helped you oo

What's wrong with little Dickson? At least you can use it as toothpick

tohyorsih2:
What's pinko pinko

It means OKO(DICK)

Pinko is a slang for little pinkie(dick too)

GeoAfrikana:
As tall as you are, you no geh wife? Mtcheew.


I got married at 23. I don't understand why people just hype marriage. True, it's sensitive but this hype is just too much.

The money most people spend to maintain one yeye girlfriend is enough to live a happy life with your wife. The happiness and tranquility that marriage adds to your life is immeasurable.

Some people say they haven't found "the right person". You can't find the right person because you don't even have a definition of who is right for you. What's my own sef? Even at 40 some people are yet to have clearly defined goals and objectives for their life.

I don't need more than 1 week discussion and investigation with a woman to see if she fits my plan in life or not. I look for just four things; physical, IQ, religious inclination and plans for her future.

For physical, I don't have much requirement but I know I have a distaste for skinny women. Skinny I said not slim.

For IQ, the way she answers and asks question will tell you how brilliant she is (not). The main reason why I look at IQ is for my children.

For religion, i have one ultimate question. Don't ask me, I won't give you expo.

For objectives in life. I don't want a woman that wishes to do office job or government job. The promiscuity and temptations in those places is just too much. I want a woman that has entrepreneural skills and wishes to start something for herself even if it's little.

How is this epistle related to the topic na?

Amarabae:
Muscular my foot.
Muscles don't pay bills lad.
Go get a job and keep ur black azz off the gym

I disagree..
The topic is attractive traits, not parasitic leeching.
Do women like a man just because she wants her bills paid? Not all women are that insecure,some really want a good looking,healthy and fit guy. Otherwise,what they get is no different from a sugardaddy.

When I hear money,money,money on NL,I wonder where do these guys and girls meet themselves to be so focused on that singular trait.