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cococandy:
The nerve of you! You’re an old cargo who doesn’t want a fellow old cargo. Dumbass.

I hope she spends all your money and has a baby for someone else. Control freak

Emotions, emotions... Tick..tock...

obinnaoduduwa:
She is pregnant and it might be cleptic pregnancy. Call me for more information

Share the info here...why must he call u??

Sakamaje doctor!

Jesus!!!
What I'm seeing there shows that ur wife will have seven babies...septuplets...all boys!

Accept my sympathies

N lest I forget...the scan says she is in perfect health..just get her more cowbell or fanyogo...if u know what I mean!!

Where are the other 2kids??

lexy2014:
efcc will need it more so they can use it to interrogate yahoo boys

Lol...sure

Nbote:
She walked majestically into d street?

Bloggers won't stop lying, I swear...
I can't even believe what they post again

Yewandequeen:
all is left for op

True dat!!!

lexy2014:
That's a nice pix u got there

Borrow it bro and use it to scare some of ur enemies

RiyaGoddess:
Lol. I'm a carrier of God's Grace & Anointing

Lol...
Well,in that case,I say we're compatible!!

See ya around!!!

Yewandequeen:
Those mentioned weren't insame situation as Ops babe. These ones could afford to go to school and be anything they want.

But in this case the girl doesn't have any other alternative. She is stuck with op just cos of the offer! Do you think she will be with op if she finds herself another man willing to send her to school but not tie her with marriage?! She won't!

You are talking about 2yrs wasted expenses as if you are certain she will turn bad. The 2yrs is more or less a fail proof, just to be certain they are on same page. Cos nos that she still has condition and thus bonded to op cos of her condition. By the time she goes to school she might get opportunities to make money, or even have rich friends or side boyfriend or become runs girl of which her story will now change. Then she will start telling op that what has he done that anyone else hasn't done before, that he should calculate all that she will pay back bla bla that's she wants out and will start cheating on him. And then op will have first failed marriage and he might not want to marry again but to just have baby mama.

But if she still remains the good girl after her first 2yrs in school then op can sit her down and discuss marriage with her,should she object then she was never his. I don't believe in divorce or marriage annulment, all these is to avoid such issue. Except if op doesn't mind divorce in case things goes south.

I get ur points but my own point is this...OP should marry her if he wants to send her to school or forget the charitable works of testing her for 2 years. What if she turns out bad?? Wasted money... If she turns out good? Wasted time(2 years without marrying her). So I guess they would marry in the 3rd year Either way,he loses. Same thing I would advise a sister in OP shoes. If you are not sure she loves u(depending on her emotional maturity, some girls know what they want early,others don't),don't spend what u can't afford to lose and start crying later. There are no standards in cases like these. Since he is not buoyant enough to afford training her without marrying her coupled with her parents demands,its either he boldly marries or forget about her. My take on the issue.

khiaa:
OK!!

Good Geh!!

lefulefu:
lol i know most of d stories are made up ..like the guy that claimed he released inside ashawo without condom and was watching his cum drain out of pussy .stories are made up but hilarious sha

Lmaoooo...u read that
That nigga is so funny!!!

Yeah,its fun but the e-fights bore me to death!!

RiyaGoddess:
Oya show it na. Send me money.
*Watch as he disappears 1,2,3

Wait o...did I tell u I have money?
I'm loaded with God's grace naaaaa!!!

Want some of that?

khiaa:

No spoil my show o...

Go to the other room NOW

RiyaGoddess:
*Side eyes
NA DEM

Babes...forget talk o...I'm just being humble o...I'm fvcking loaded...ask lefulefu naaaaa

lexy2014:
4d fact that women didn't create themselves, doesn't mean women don't have control over when, how& with whom they choose 2 have consensual sex. D question of societal rules is more straight forward than u make it look cos women are also part of d society. But whatever d case, d bottom line is that its only a woman that decides how she will use her body. Biology doesn't decide that neither does society. A woman is firmly in control of her body. Once again, u have only confirmed what I said about d cogency of ur argument

Egbon,will u drop this already?? She won't accept and u won't, so what's the use again?
Ur back n forth is starting to sound like some literary and debating society competition...

'Does charging for sex count as good or bad?'

You: Hell yeah..she owns her body blah blah blaaaaah
She: Hell no! Its a good thing.society has judged us wrongly for so many years,so we need compensation... So mai ladies,get em papers while u are at it...infact,u should....blah blah...blaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh


Me: *looks on like WTF*

RiyaGoddess:
*Side eyes

Dont worry babe,bills are on me...I will even pay for a new hairstyle too..

lefulefu:
ehn u can always take a woman u know u can afford nau and u should know wen to say no wen she makes outragious demands. wen u too give in to all her damands thats wen she go start to dey see u finish.imagine a girl sending u whatsap text to send her 90k right now or else she stops talkin to u then u can easily tell her u dont have and if she dont want to talk to u then she is free to go.no be do or die sumptin nau.

I go be like 'biatch,my pastor just called me to even stop talking to you because your destined to be unfortunate in life and even this week,yahoo boys go steal ur pant and use u for rituals... Dont fvcking call my phone again'
She: what..are u.....

*I have cut the fuqin call*


No one gives me ultimatums

lefulefu:
bros make u enter ashawo beer palour thread and u will see guys who say dem dey maintain ashawo with 300k-400k monthly and other claim na 150k weekly. Guy ehn some men spend thru their nose just to get pussy.

90% of those saying that on the thread are fvcked up liars...

Been a while I went there sef!

RiyaGoddess:
Uhmmm.
Since I came to this world, I no get the head of a man giving me money instead it's the other way round. Shile can you please send me 2k, I'm stranded where I am. Shile there's this thing I'm working on, and I need this certain amount of money, please borrow me I will pay back. Shile send me airtime I'm having difficulty getting one here. If I don't give, no more flash from them again till Jesus comes. The last was, me I'm going to my stylist to make my hair. Guy: No make it at XYZ salon downstream the road. Me: Haa no ooo. I don't have the money for such places o. I can't afford it abeg. Guy: Don't worry I will pay. Me: No let me go to my own salon where I can afford. Guy: No do it here I will pay se. Me:OK o. Me went to the big salon. loosen my hair and get it relaxed. My brothers and sisters only relax o. No setting nothing. I was through and my mind uncle will pay. I went home. No one challenged me o. In my mind, uncle has settled them. Only for uncle to call me the following morning asking why I no pay the stylist. I was like pay bawo. You told me you will pay. Uncle said but I should have at least paid. Uncle then said the stylist said it's 6,500. I said for what? Wetin I do? Just to retouch? Am I to pay for the AC, movies and light refreshment given to me at the salon? Anyway I already told you I don't have the money for such places and my own stylist won't collect more than 1k and that's if na generator she use. Uncle said I should go and pay. I said me no get the money o. Na your cross be that carry am. Na so stylist call me o. Uncle don carry number give stylist. I told uncle stylist that I won't pay that kind of money because I tell the other uncle say no be my type of person dey come una salon. I am not a slay queen. I no get sugar daddy wey dey throw money give me. I be confirm okirika and food hustler. Na uncle say him go pay say make I come. Anyway I be wan go my own salon wey no go collect pass 1k. I will pay you 1k last. I no dey for all that sakamanje level. Na so I pay 1k ooo. Till today that oda uncle no flash my phone me sef no mind. I face my front.
So all these babes wey men dey throwey money give, how do they do it Where dem dey see these guys sef because I no just get that head at all. Man go dey beside me and I go dey pay for my food, the man no go even shake body say make e even pay for water at least. I'm so used to footing my bills that's why I no even dey look their side again. I don't depend on anyone money. Like Op said we both have 24 hours. Work!
Anyway God bless all the ladies out there hustling without any male support. May we reap the reward of our hustling soon. Amin

Lmaoooo...nice story

If you really are a hustler like u said,I respect u die... I always support hardworking women.

This one u dey Lagos,e go hard to see you oh..I for say make we go joint go eat better amala and isI ewu!!!!

imitateMe:
You're one of them. I'll hunt you'll very soon. I've disappointed 3 girls yesterday by turning down their requests at the 11th hour e pain them die, after sending their account numbers

I think I need to imitate YOU!!!

Yewandequeen:
If only the girl in question knows how many people are deliberating on her matter

My take on this is that Op doesn't have to marry her yet just cos he wants security of sending her to school. Are there not people that offer such out of free will?

Send her to school, first 2yrs will determine what her future will be. Hopefully she doesn't fall pregnant for another man.
The first 2yrs will kindda expose her, gain some. Mental development and give you insight to what she might become when she is older. So send her to school and watch her for the next 2yrs if things are still lovely Btw you two by then, go ahead and marry her.

Don't tie her down with marriage. She might agree to be cool with it all these this year just cos of her situation and next yr things change and u will see a different her entirely. Don't be in haste to marry her just to secure her, she might turn out to be ur worst nightmare.
When you are poor you exhibit another person character but when ure rich your own character will surface.

Will disagree with you on this....
Poverty has no effect on a person's character,from my experience... When I had no money,I was still bold,real n raw,never kept late nights, no clubbing or booze or womanizing upandan...i was even called a proud morafvcker. I never sucked up to anyone.always myself,every fuqin time. When money came(and is still coming), I never changed any of my lifestyles before. I was still me. When the money comes next in billions and I get a maserati,private jet and the likes...I STILL WONT CHANGE MY CHARACTER! So money won't change ur character, it only reveals ur real/hidden character that u buried while poor(so u could get by in life)... N this applies to PRETENDERS..not a guy like me.

U want him to send her to 2yrs of school first? I dont buy that...that's wasted expenses to me. He's either in or out. He marries her and gives her a trade or he forgets about her and focus on his own siblings...not all 18 yr olds dey tear eye dey misbehave..some are way mature than their age.Omotola,Bianca Ojukwu...Amara KANU...all are examples.

theButterfly:
If you want to pay her way through school, do it out of the goodness of your heart but don't tie her down with the conditions as a result

Goodness of heart kee u dia...

Just see how immature u sound...

breakerofchains:
This is manipulative as f*ck.
I don't care if it's legal or not.

See the way they're talking about "marry her before you train her"

No wonder some women see marriage as a trap.

Uncle, don't train her. Leave her alone. She'll be fine.

Just know her eyes won't be closed for ever.

Lmaoooo
See as u dey huff n puff...calm down na