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Dizzytee:
hahaha. lol.
whats ur name? u finally got my attention, u deserve a 1k recharge card for making me laff

Kunle!

wecreate:
The kind dat minds his business

Seriously? Sugar mummy biznez is for lowlifers who believe they have nothing to offer but their diicks.
Haba...u even put ur number there. I could add u on WhatsApp and claim some sugar mummy bullcrap...n trap u...n use u for rituals...just cause ur looking for cheap money upandan. Most online sugar mummy shiit are fake

Be advised!

Kovuh:
Believe this homosexuals at your own peril, they can lie for Africa. Always trying to play the victim card with fake stories

I was skeptical when after reading,'next I knew,whoever was fighting with them' if I'm right,or she is,that means one of them started attacking the guys first or something...

wecreate:
Hello there
Am a 25 year old good looking black guy, i live in lagos and i am so in need of a mature single mum, old lady, or a sugar mummy who can take care of me, and who i can also take care of sexually and emotionally.

Chat me up on whatsapp @08187801321 and lets
Enjoy ourselves.

GOAN FIND LEGIT WORK,STOP DISGRACING UR LINEAGE HERE!
TUEH!!! LOOKING FOR AN OLD WOMAN TO TAKE CARE OF UR NEEDS, ARE U BLIND,LAME OR DUMB??
WHAT KIND OF A MAN ARE YOU?

willace:
My girlfriend has the attitude of not taking correction. Me too I know I have my own flaws. There has been some guys toasting her. She told me about it. She said she told them she already has a boyfriend but just wants to play along and eat their money. At first I said nothing. Then some days back the issue came up again . Then I calmly told her that she should stop it . That I don't like it. When I told her she became angry that I was giving her rules and regulations because she was in my house (she's on holiday. So she's staying at my place) that if she was at her parents. I won't be able to tell her what to do and who's call no to answer. So that day passed . Then like two days later we were just playing and she said she'll slap me(I've warned her about such statements before) then she told me again that she was in my house that's why I was telling her such things. We have had some issues in the past before where she was wrong and I corrected her and she took offense to my correction and we quarreled about it. Those Times I even had to apologize for peace to reign. Now she's leaving saying she doesn't want me to talk to her since it's my house . So I asked her why she was quarrelling with me "She Said I was Too Proud And Authoritative"

How should I handle this ?

Drink sniper, u weak ass mofo

Adaibeku:
Where is that bitch?

Dont know what ur talking about!

Toks2008:
Your opening phrase has an error...you wrote Pride price so correct that....but the irony is that it should actually be tagged Pride price and not bride price cos These days there is no pride in most ladies we pay a huge price to marry.

Further more...the original purpose of bride price in the bible was to serve as punishment for rape and it was Abraham who first gave gifts to the family of his son's wife to be Rebecca who was a virgin at that time.

What is the point?

Bride price was made for virgins and any lady who is no longer a virgin deserves no bride price in the days of old but today the practice have been manipulated by greedy families that you still have to pay so much to marry a lady who has slept with every Kunle, Peter, Chinedu,Amodu...


My opinion is that we go back to the days of old and pay bride price for virgins only.

Lalasticlala I guess this is a good one.

Must u include my name among those the lady slept with?

Adaibeku:
Y not shut ur mouth less listen to wise talks ,than listen to fake sheneinei chaser of american slumps ,

Take it easy o...
Should I get u some ice cream? Coldstone perhaps??

lochi01:
correct scores 10k call me 09018673853

Why not play it ursef and stop this nonsense

Acidosis:
It works for all homes where the parties involved act responsibly and dutifully. I know we all are here to sell our opinions, but some are based on factual and common statistics.

I'm repeating again that I've not come to further my cause. What's wrong with viewing issues from a different perspective?

Nawa o..that Geh just dey use u dey shine...

See her commanding tone sef... Any small thing u say she go say..'STOP IT' upandan!!!

Biggermembersro:
Some people's sole aim in this world is to provoke people intentionally, I am a "slow to react to anger" kind of person and I always stay in my lane and mind my business, once I smell trouble coming from afar, I run to the opposite direction as fast as my leg can carry me, I come from a tribe where you have to respect elders no matter the situation same as what my Bible says so what gives abeg.......


My husband always praise his mum cos she trained him to med school here in U.S.A, of course who wouldn't just like I don't joke with my dad cos he did well for his six kids, so he adores his mum, praises her in every situation, always at her beck and call, I didn't see it as a big deal cos, well, it's his mum, we met here in NY, he and his family stay in Maryland while I was schooling in NY, the plan was when we get married I'll go back and forth till I finish school then move to Maryland, so I took in, you know first pregnancy how difficult it is, so one of those days i went to ML for the weekend one time, during that period, his mum had a get together so everyone is expected to be there, being in my first trimester, I was sick and told her I can't be there, she insisted and I told her I'll try, when the time came I was too ill to go anywhere so I didn't go, all for his mum to come later that night and was shouting saying and I quote "when I tell my son your husband to run he will run, even if I tell him to jump he will do just that so who are you to tell me you can't come, what silly sickness, if I blow that your belly, highest is you'll loose the pregnancy and then take in again,nothing is going to happen" that is exactly what she said, I was shocked, my husband was there looking he didn't say anything, his father was there, he shouted at her that why would she say something like that, his mum shut him down saying all manner of unsayable things because she was more like the breadwinner, his sister, that one cannot talk if not the mother will insult her very existence just because she got pregnant out of wedlock but she still married the father ooo, me, my mouth was open, I couldn't talk cos I dont even know what to say, when they left hubby didnt even try to ease my mind or anything, the next day I jejely left for NY, vowing that my leg will never step into ML anymore.

Sincerely I was tempted to abort and divorce my husband because I don't understand how someone can say evil like that, even if it was a joke, that was nonsense, since then I've been in NY, I gave birth here, Dre has been the one coming here, it's not like me and his mum don't talk, she calls and we talk, sometimes I call too, all for recently, infact last week Dre says he got an opening for a job here and he wants to take it, I blatantly told him NO, because his parents couldnt work anymore due to health and all so they are staying with him in ML, him moving here means his mum will do that too, I told him no that I like things the way they are, no issues, nothing, I cannot stay in the same house with his mum because we will have issues that one is certain, he started shouting, I reminded him of what his mother said two years ago, he now said it is the past, which past? Now that I'm working I am expected to leave my babies with her, call me delusional the instinct of a mother is to protect her children, even if she may not do anything, we will still have issues and I don't want that before someone say I'm disrespectful when I talk back.

If I decide to turn American now, I'll just tell him he can't bring anyone here without my permission, but no, I won't tell him that, some of their laws here is stupid to be honest and I'm a nice person and I was born and bred in the north in Nigeria also I don't want to escalate issue, I am the only one here, my family is in Nigeria and i never mentioned any of this to them so it won't turn to family issues, now he's not talking to me saying he will take drastic measures, it will not pass divorce and custody battle of which I know I will win but I don't want that for my kids, they need their parents in the same home not divorced, my own is he should stay where he is and take care of his parents and continue worshiping his mum, is it that hard?

I dey vex abeg, pls advice on other options fam.

I support you on this!!!

A man still tied to his mum apron strings is not a real man!!!

What struck me was the way the mum treated her husband...we men take care of our wives with no complaints but if the reverse is the case,they rain hellfire down on us. Ain't we supposed to be partners and support each other??
This marriage thing taya me o,honestly

Humility017:
I know her very well...
she is a staunch feminist.
her name is mercy a uniben graduate.
she is my friend...

Then why is she getting married,I thought they dont like men or submission

oluwaseyi000:
Pride price is money and gift items that a man give out to a lady family to marry her, of cause it is like something in exchange for something, a business, a transaction.

Looking at the 21st century and the advocacy for gender equality, I think pride price completely has no place in today's world, women want equality but once a man paid for acquiring you you are more or less his surbodinate,

The argument of if he values you he will pay anything for you do not hold any water, it only hint at the fact that you are a material thing that is more expensive

The argument of your parent taking care of you is also baseless, his own parent took care of him too and your parents took care of their male children without expecting anything in return except from their child and this argument actually hint that your parent do not trust you to succeed and take care of them after all they've spent on you hence they are willing to cut their loss and cash out when any man comes calling

I think African parents/family are simply long throat and outrightly archaic, they are never willing to let go of the tiny gains for a better society for their daughter

Also it seems Africans cannot achieve anything on their own except their slave master (Whites) ask them to, if the slave master want to abolish pride price in Africa they would have, but Africa can't just do it on their own, I'm sure if not for the white killing of twins will still be here

Saying a man won't respect his wife if he doesn't pay to acquire her is a complete lie, guys don't pay their friends to be friends with them yet they won't undervalue their friends


The fact that feminists are not taking this matter up against their family still baffles me, there is even no NGO organisation against it yet thousands of NGO are up for women right and unwilling to attack its root cause

In as much as there is bride price, there can never be a successful and established women right, a wife will always feel like an employee to her husband the employer rather than a partnership business startup

Of cause since it is a game of money, the man will marry another woman or chase other girls if/when he can afford more than one person bride price

Women/ladies rise up against bride price, you are humans not commodity



Cc luminouz toks2008 amarabae

Now,this is more like it....
Lemme add,since we are on the topic of equality,after scraping the bride price issh...then we split the bills babe....I will cook,clean,wash and even fry anything,but get ready to open ur checkbooks for ur portion of the monthly rent,school fees of kids,housing project,taking care of both our parents and siblings. My car breaks down or I'm broke or whatever,you assume responsibility...feel free to check my phone cuz i willl check urs...u see me cheat outside,cheat too or file for divorce. If job no dey,babe u take care of the house as long as it takes to get a new one, with no complaints whatsoever....we are after all partners in this institution and na hia we go die together...

VenusTechShop:
Thats Blackman thinking. Because we are trying to escape from hunger. I do rather pay 10 million for a night in space than 5 million to go to Canada. If you want to know why, go and watch the series "How the Universe works". Your view of this world, space and life will change radically.

You may want to die jn space after.

The black holes, The Nebulas, The Planets, The Moons, The Galaxies, The Virgo Clusters, The stars, The Comets, The Oort Cloud etc.

You will feel a connection to them.

Lol,that's ur priority, not his...
So it's not about being a Blackman or whatever, its about survival...u obviously dont need Canada,he does.

liberalchick:
What is wrong in cooking, cleaning and having sex with your husband/boyfriend/man? If I may ask.

U asked in a mature manner,so I wanna reply u.

Check the thread again and see why I posted what u quoted! I only have issue when women like OP come all out and claim they are chained by men yet they still depend on men, cuz they won't accept equal responsibilities (the man still has to pay for everything,including her bride price). Women already have equal rights (school,work, positions), so I just dont know where the inequality issue comes in. Is it in cooking and cleaning? Or taking kids to school? Or what?

Check oluwaseyi000 and lilbest4 posts for the rest...

Cheers!

Joromi12:
This fool again

AmazonTopaz:
Always Kinng

K!!!

AmazonTopaz:
Men are as emotional as women.
The word emotion is not a weakness but a human attribute that does not make or bad.
You lots are quick to use that word when a woman brings an argument. Like as if sentiments are not emotions and your first comment was not sentimental to the topic in support of your fellow men. Is that post of yours not emotional?

K

AmazonTopaz:
Insults is not the only basis of emotions mr man.
Blindly stating that you know the personal lives of the commenters in your earlier post reeks of emotions because that is not true but what you want to believe

K

fieryy:
Says the hypocritical fool who was just whining and is still whining about everybody on this thread, lmaoooo. Swerve jare!

Still emotional...not one statement without insults...tut tut tut....

donbachi:
i mean whether na u dey fvck ur sef?

She wants traffic and attention,stop giving her that!

fieryy:
I find it quite funny how you called everybody out, but not the idiot who is incapable of having a discussion and is rather whining about a woman, who has achieved more than his entire generation.

See what I mean,emotional drivel...that is and will always be ur weakness.

AmazonTopaz:
Shhhush.
Anyway you are free to post what makes you happy since you know all of us offline. What makes you sleep at night in delusion is okay by me .
Las las na yourself you dey do.

K!!!

Donbachi,..PhenomenaMorgan....why in hell are u entertaining these girls na You are wasting ur time with them.

amazontopaz said her mum isn't submissive in her own home to her husband...and BOOM,aunty came out with a lot of emotional drivel,even likened a man's superiority in a home to being able to beat a woman to submission I mean WTF.

The other breakeroficecream came with her own yarn and all I see are twisted facts and I wonder why these girls type as if dem no go marry abi na dem go pay their own bride price ni? These ones love shouting Dont blah blah to men..blah blah and I wonder why she shouts so much about men on her posts...

The fiery/efufulele one came and started dancing crazily on mentions,further muddling and scattering the whole discourse. She barbecued any sense left out of the other feministas points. Why are these girls so confused?

What I've learned is this...NL versions of feminist are worse than chameleons...they want equal right, yet not equal responsibilities... N they are fvckin hypocrites...I won't be surprised if they are in a man's house right now,doing the do,then cooking and cleaning for him too...only to come online and start all these.

Linda ikeji comes to mind when I read these kinda posts.

stupidity:
OP I have someone like you. She’s approaching 40, single and she hates men.



You can’t sit behind your phone and trying to upturn practices that has been in place since inception.


Ofcourse slut shaming women is bad and if that’s really what prompted you to create this thread, then I’m afraid you have taken nairaland and it’s content too serious.

This someone you know....does she have a big ass? Can she pound yam??

Answer me ASAP!!!

kingreign:
Enzo Anselmo Giuseppe Maria Ferrari you mean?

U nailed it bro...na Ferrari I mean...
Make I go edit am

Mizwisdom:
Whatever the case, I hope Falcons won't be the weeping ladies of this group

This guy is the life/death reincarnation of Enzo Ferrari!!!
The uncanny resemblance and the fact Ozil was born the day Enzo Ferrari died convinced me.

Ozil finesse should have been applied to car making,not football..



#alienmoodactivated#

Amanda4life:
Im sure your friend must have disappointed some good girls.

Pls help me tell him that i said he should be doing the cooking for now. Because in abroad men cook.

For the sex thin let him buy babydoll.

How can u be amanda4life n dish out such deadened piece of advice....
Are u high

Mtchewwww story

*goes back to smoking weed*