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safarigirl:
1k per night prostitutes barely have time to listen to your troubles. They have theirs.

Married men are the biggest patrons of prostitutes because they enjoy running away from their troubles, rather than confronting them..... And really, they married their trouble.

Married women also have troubles, but the difference is, women are emotionally and mentally stronger than men.

Some months ago, someone came to NL to tell us how he contracted HIV from visiting prostitutes, so, when you people are dishing out such strange advise, rather than encouraging abstinence and basic self control, remember that nothing is 100%.


And I don't know who you tag "good girls".....but just because someone doesn't work in a brothel, doesn't make the person any less of a prostitute.

midehi2:
Exactly why I blame them, why stoop so low to sex for 1k, why will men even indulge in sex with 100k to women, they are both sick.


the bottom line: he should make money first before girlfriend, if not someone with money will boyfriend her under his nose

princfred:
lol.. Nigerian men are on a long thing with these ones.

duduade:
@OP... You are really a NOVICE

Even your narrative doesn't befit you as a Postgraduate student

midehi2:
Hmmm,well said, the guy made sense in some part but belittle women in some part, I pity the women satisfying his urge with 1k, chai some women dey fall our hands i swear

Mac2016:
Lol. The comments here are crazy but for the fearful ones.

The guy concerned, anyways, please dont mind these guys running away from emotional attachments via Olosho.

Who leaves a cultured "olosho" to a confam one?

dont forget it's only ones caught in the act that we always condemn.

Still ride with her cautiously, she might change.

Before you fall prey for a confam pretender. Which woman no dey do side runs?

Sterope:
Quit the relationship and work on your grammar. Your English is too poor for a postgrad. You really to need to focus on your personal development.

loveliveshere:
As long as you can't beat yourself up when you are pissed at yourself, likewise don't beat up your better half cos you are pissed at her.
Yoruba proverbs say " our bi be KO ni Ogun ori fifo".
Which means the cutting of one's head isn't the remedy to an headache.

generationz:
Money cant buy 'genuine love'

you know a woman that loves you when you have nothing.

That being said financial security is very important before getting married. just like knowing your HIV status and your genotype


However many ladies have stuck to their man with the hope that "God will provide " . Very romantic when we look at it from a point of love and affection but in reality very risky because


you know a man that truly loves you when he begins to make money . when he begins to make money, look clean and fresh best be assured his options will be wider. Then the lady will know if he just stuck because she she was the only available option or because he understand true commitment like she has shown him. I not a guy. but I can tell you as a human being when you are an advantaged position compared to your partner you have been with for years , your partners flaws become magnified. So the in disciplined person chooses an option he feels is better.


So these days ladies just settle for financial security which seems more secure as opposed to settling for love. Ask any girl crazy about money she will tell her bitter past experience.

besides many Nigerian chicks are very shortsighted and as such have gone from seeking financial security to outright gold digging. They are ready to have the next richest guy they see even if the one they are is quite comfortable because they feel they are the prize.

generationz:
They probably told her " you would grow to love him"
but with the look on her face, I don't see that happening soon

she was obviously pressured into marrying him either because of age or because he doles out cash to her family.

Later if she cheats the man will scream "After all I've done for her...." forgetting that love is a genuine heartfelt feeling that can't be bought by Money.

Unsad:
KANYE MUTHAFUCKING WEST!!!! NOTHING CAN STOP ME FROM LOVING THIS DUDE.

Chocolatesauce:
who told you they're decent?come to Kano state and see..Bayero University to be precise...

QuestionMark910:
Point of correction. These are not Hausa ladies. Rahama Sadau is not Hausa

Westaslave2:
dats d wrong spelling, u murder english

Westaslave2:
wat is laive

Westaslave2:
My eyes ar on u! Lol

husbandsnatcha:
u wan goddess 2 strike me wt thunder! i no go work 4 u

Westaslave2:
luminati

husbandsnatcha:
Am nt a skull miner pls

husbandsnatcha:
Dis is one of d small boys barking,u see! am ryt all along

husbandsnatcha:
Give me a break, i nid young blood of 23-27 Ok

husbandsnatcha:
It is true, i just needed a man of honour in my life!


wat we see around is boys wt little strenght

irrefragable:
you should be ashamed of yourself , as old as you are.

OlaAshawo:
lol they won't even consider you rich if you don't join them

I'm a full blooded onitsha man

you're right our people can be ruthless to outsiders marrying to their own nwa onye igbo