chukshobayo:
Mehn I don't think applying the redpill is easy as in the risk involved. Told a lady who said we should be friends that i don't do friends and i dont do brother. She told ne blatantly that she is not in for fun. Personally I became scared that she would tell others. Secondly I felt the respect she had for me Will diminish. This is my dilima. Truth be told i felt bad but had to hide it and more so I love to have sex with the said girl.

If after reading the undiluted truths in this thread and you're still asking this kind of question, you need prayers.


Do not for any reason feel ashamed or bad about what you want. You told her what you want and she told you what she wanted, if she doesn't want what you want,she can go look for someone else.

Monogamy:


Pantami this , Pantami that, Pantami those, what eventually happened to it?

You're asking what eventually happened?

Have you seen the news about the planes from US?

Your president is looking for loans, I hope you can borrow him the money?


Wake up.

byinks:


No a simple procedure called cervical cerclage will prevent mid trimester abortion.
Pregnancy isn't the problem here but maintaining it to term.
How are you sure the abortions weren't for the husband ?

According to the OP,she had multiple abortions while in school which has caused the multiple miscarriages.


Nobody should bear the brunt of the foolishness of another, in the name of love or marriage, no matter how simple the procedure might be. The money and time spent on the "simple procedure " will be channelled to more productive ventures.

Every action has their consequences and everybody must take responsibility for their actions.

byinks:


Cervical incompetence ?

Don't leave her because of that, there are ways around that. See a good OBGYN.

You're advising a young man to waste his time and resources going for multiple tests and endless prayer houses because of a barren woman?

OP was not there when she was fvcking around and having abortions.


God forbid!!!

CharisEleos:
Twp Captains cannot be in one boat.
The problem lies with both of you.
She cannot take shit. You cannot take shit. So, who will now take the shit? Pride.

Pride goes before a fall. That is what has befallen your marriage.
When you learn to get off your high horses, you both will be cohabitable.

The problem with many couples is that they place themselves higher than the other. Now you talked about her trying to measure up to you ( equality). What made you see her as trying to do that if you yourself have not placed yourself so high.? Even before God, we all are equal. So why think you are higher than someone else? Your better half for that matter.

It's normal for two people to have a misunderstanding. But you should learn to to let go immediately and also try to avoid anything that will cause any further misunderstanding. If you see it coming, quickly turn it to a joke. Is she sees it coming, let her do same. but no. Rather you'll feel, "Why should I be the one to backdown" let him /her go to hell!!!!!!. Ego.

If you can't manage your first marriage then you'll not be able to manage the next. mind you the other woman will be coming with a baggage of her own character flaws.

No one is perfect.

The woman is never a captain in any household with a man.

Thankfully, the OP has sent her back to her single mother to continue her captaincy.

greatbrian:
I think there is a stereotype about single mother stuff here.


Truth is if you are crazy, you are crazy. If you are bad you are bad forget single mum ish. Lots of mofos out there who came out from a perfectly good family but are much more bitter and I'll mannered than whatever you say. And for the records, I was raised by a single mum alongside 2 elder sisters and not for once have my sisters exhibit those traits you dare not even raise your voice in my house even with all I think I am mum still slapped me few months ago and just last week my woman sent my mum money and she tagged it for raising him right.


So stop condemning the parent who choose to stay condemn the one who can't take up responsibilities but choose to die or walk away.

There's a big difference between a single mother and a widow, I hope you're not conflating the two.

It is statistically proven that most children raised by single mothers are damaged goods,useless and problematic. They are usually bitter and hateful.


They constitute the great majority in prisons around the world.

swiz123:
Immediately I saw this post, I knew it was a woman making the statement. They are always hating and envious of each other. For her mind she is posting a cryptic message to actresses...

While others applaud her, I will condemn this foolish cowardice. Say what you mean out instead of hiding mouth. Hypocrite! That's what most people are...

Most of these actresses are just lucky to be dating rich men. 98% of women from poor homes will fall for a very rich man. Who doesn't want to escape economic hardship? Some of the foolish guys bashing them here would jump at the chance of dating a very rich sugar mommy if the opportunity comes. Abi da garri wey u dey soak never do you?

Shut up, you whoremonger.

Prostitution is not a job, sleeping with people's husbands is not a job.

Mynd44:
He perhaps has no idea what consular assistance is.

What is consular assistance?

BafanaBafana:
Nice, despite all the challenges, Buhari is delivering projects.
God bless President Buhari
God Bless Amaechi
God bless Fashola

Buhari didn't build that bridge, stop the misinformation.

It is part of the Trans-African Highway driven by ADB and developmental funds from Japan

Initiated in the 90's, had issues due to political differences, was on again in 2007 with an MOU signed and started fully in 2011.


Seun,mynd44,Lalasticlala stop misinforming people.


Seun,please employ better moderators that knows their job and not some people who just push everything to front page without verifying the information.

FreeStuffsNG:

Hmmm. Nice one.
Even when oil was at $100 and PDP was ruling both the Cross Rivers state and the federal, this kind of strategic infrastructure was neither considered nor built instead they ,PDP,at the state level used a huge loan to build a white elephant Tinapa project while the PDP at the centre signed out Bakassi to Cameroon without tying this kind of project construction to demand from Cameroon in exchange.
God bless President Muhammadu Buhari. God bless HE Babatunde Fashola and all the patriots who conceived and executed this awesome project. God bless Nigeria. All the enemies of Nigeria will lose las las. Thank you OP for sharing.

ADB built that bridge,it was not built by any government.

It is part of the Trans-African Highway driven by ADB and developmental funds from Japan

Initiated in the 90's, had issues due to political differences, was on again in 2007 with an MOU signed and started fully in 2011.


YOU AND THE OP SHOULD STOP LYING

Viicfuntop:



When you said adult, I thought you were referring to the op’s post (as I didn’t mention anything regarding the man dating an older woman).
Don’t double speak. Lol. I guess something triggered you in my post. You are probably a cradle robber. It’s not a big deal. It’s what you like. There is nothing wrong if you like that much age difference. 20 years is an adult and if you like that, go for it. Personally I do not find such wide gap cute. What would I be doing with a man older than me with 10 years? Am I suppose to call him sir or what?
Other women clearly do not have a problem with it. I do. Please try to understand before quoting me again. I do not like repeating myself or explaining simple English

You're calling me a paedophile because I called out your folly for calling an adult (20yrs old) a child? You must be very stvpid and morally bankrupt. You're a hopeless degenerate for calling your useless father a paedophile.


Learn to express yourself without resorting to insults and sounding condescending.

Daft scumbag!!!

Viicfuntop:


Like I said it’s preference.

Don't double speak please.

In your first post, you said it's in Nigeria you can find men (36yrs) who are comfortable dating kids (20yrs),when it's very obvious that a 20yrs old is an adult.

Viicfuntop:



I don’t see them as unsmart. Like he said up there, it’s perspective. I just find it weird when I hear Nigerian men’s preference for “babies”. Only in Nigeria you will see a 36 year old man dating a 20 year old. Personally, I can’t date someone that is more than 3 years older.

What is wrong in a man dating an adult?

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

It's very obvious from your response that you married some used up old lady.

Take heart Bro, not everyone will marry their granny because she is "matured,graduate or not,but whose career or business or hardwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc."

We all know that misery loves company but don't drag youngsters into your abyss.

Ammishaddai:
There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who is older than yourself so long as you both are in-love and in agreement

Love is a fleeting and ephemeral emotion. No sane man makes a lifetime decision because of some feelings.

codemaniacs:


Their expeditions were thwarted due to Africans fighting them off.

I agree, Africans were fighting them off. However, malaria played a major role too in keeping them at bay during their expeditions.

frog12:
we are GUINEA PIGS

Africans made themselves Guinea pigs.

If you don't want them to use you as Guinea pigs, develop your own vaccines.

While they were giving their people palliatives to cushion the effects of the pandemic, we were hiding (DONATED) foods from our brothers and sisters.

codemaniacs:


Nigerian pharmaceutical companies created medicine tablets.

Malaria started killing Africans due to open drainages and stagnant unsanitized water . It has not been killing Africans for hundreds of years.

What stops African pharmaceutical companies from developing this vaccine?

Malaria has been killing Africans for hundreds of years. Lots of European expeditions into the hinterlands of Africa were thwarted by malaria.

FarahAideed:
They must find a way to deceive people into receiving MRNA genetical re-coding since enough Africans are not falling for the COVID route ..take at your own risk .... Ask yourself how an MRNA vaccine could stop a Protozoan infection? Is like telling you I have an MRNA vax for worms ...if the this MRNA thing worked ( which there is no proof it even does ) why don't the use it to reengineer mosquitoes so they no long harbor Plasmodium protozoa or even on the plasmodium so it no longer wants to be transmitted .... Open ya eyes ooo

Let's assume that what you said is correct, what is African scientists and countries doing to develop their own vaccines to avoid the things you listed there?

Malaria has been killing Africans for hundreds of years and we did nothing serious to stop it,but immediately an European steps in to help us,we begin to pull out some conspiracy theories.

amc:


Stop lying. The 30% is for “frontier basins” and there are 3 in the North, 2 in the middle belt, and 2 in the South.

What is "middle belt"?

There's nothing like middle belt in Nigeria's geopolitical zones.

The supposed "middle belt " Governors attend the meetings of northern governors forum.

amc:


Show us where 90% of the “frontier basins” are located. It shouldn’t be that difficult.

Majority of the "frontier basins" is in the north. Besides,standard procedure for oil exploration is that the prospecting company bears the cost and not the country,so why taking money from the south to look for oil in the north when the IOC can do that?

theTranscriber:
seu pai ... tudo isso vai para babanla baba è

Kitikpa racha gi anya. Ama ala purukwa igwe nnagi

Bedtec:
Reno go humiliate this one

Humiliate person wey sabi history pass am?

Reno think say him dey follow dead Buhari dey debate.

theTranscriber:
tu padre es dumbito

Imo provincia dé páin a padre dé ori

Afo sagbuo nna gi. Otu nnegi gbakwa oku. Amadioha were amu ragbuo nne gi na onu nsi nna gi.

EraseTheDot:
Reno will easily erase this flatheàd dot.


-erase the dot

Reno will erase all the brown roofs in ogbomosho and skull miners in Ogun state.

Ronnnie:
Dear REDPILLERS I need your advice

I have a female friend who I like so much but we ain't dating..we have been close for two years..she is a sickler Cell patient.
She is from a very poor home and had to relocate to my state to find work so she can sponsor her HND..she works in a factory (where they work morning a week and overnight the next week) and only Sundays free...she was staying with a friend but had to raise little money to rent her own place (a single room) recently...
She has been very sick for the past two weeks and she hasn't been to work for more than three times in that period...I found out she doesn't have a bed yet and she sleeps on the floor and due to this cold and rain,it has been affecting her health seriously....when I asked her why she does that,she said she has asked for loan around to buy the bed but no one to help or assist her with it(she doesn't have a bf Kos when guys find out about her health issue,they run away and she ain't close to her other family)..
I need your advice if I can help her with the money to buy the bed(15k actually) and she promises to pay me back tho instalmentally since she will still be feeding and saving for her school...
Should I assist her?...advise needed

I hope you can be this concerned if it's a man that needs your help?

Would you have made a post, seeking for advice on a faceless forum if a man is in this situation?

If you were in such condition,will that girl care to come close to you,listen to your cries and consider helping you?

amc:


Stop lying. The 30% is for “frontier basins” and there are 3 in the North, 2 in the middle belt, and 2 in the South.

90% of the "frontier basins" is located where?

When oil exploration started in the South,was money taken from the proceeds of northern groundnut pyramids or the exploration companies funded it themselves?

Lee99:
I am proudly Igbo but hell no, Kanu should dance to the music he played for all South Easterners to dance, we are now the scourge of Nigeria all because of him, who cares if he's given the death penalty? Definitely not me.
If you like call me Abokie or Afonjah, fact remains I be abia boy, quote me for nonsense and I will ignore your papa

Afonja, your people are in IDP camps in Benin republic but you masturbate ferociously whenever Kanu is mentioned.

post=104061376:

Hmmmmmm.......
Hmmmmmm.......
Hmmmmmm.......

These are deep words,
Very deep words.

@the bolded in red : May God truly help the CHURCH.

We Rise.

Seun, mynd44, Lalasticlala, this moniker should be band for breaking rule 19.

He has so many alternate monikers like Ilovedemmanna, Niece, Nlpolicewoman.

Ibrahim94:



Pls...can Clark of the national assembly be of help for NASSC?

Thanks.

Yes, if the connect sharp, abeg help me too.

ILoveDemMANNA:

Devil will punish kanu for all the evil he caused in this nation, especially the deaths of innocent girls

Devil will punish your darling daddy for the kidnap of school children.

BRATISLAVA:


You're pained, nigguh. Very.

Her punanii is enjoying, causing you heartache and making you wriggle into everyone's mentions.

How many people have you quoted on this thread alone in bold and capitalized letters to lament about a vagina you lost? LMAO.

LMAO

Nigga said I'm crying cos I lost an imaginary vagina.

Abeg go interview the girl and get her own side of the story. She dey for her "property" for outside dey wait for you and your cameraman. lols


You're already monitoring my posts on a faceless forum. LMAO