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wihtou complaints? i think they have an open honest heart and should not be used/abused because of this neither should they be shunned. but i also think they should apply wisdom in those situations and know when to suss a guy's genuine need from one that thinks you are a bottomless bank account - i should know, i have had my own fair share of them ![]() |
pop247:who said we haven't? |
gov-pikin:errrmmmm ok - i will keep you in mind and introduce my next single friend to NL for you |
Ujujoan:woaw - lol - tell it like it is lady |
i am such a woman - but i am alreayd spoken for - hoeevr i believe there are a few of my kind left just be honest because we are as hard to find as it is to fine - honest, hardworking, faithful brothers |
peelovee:i have answered you ohh - and honestly too ![]() |
whitelexi:was that a rhetorical question or did you expect an answer? - seriously!!! ![]() |
somebody is being played - just pray it ain't you - cos you don't know the kinda truths /lies she is telling d other guy |
jidobaba:that the new word now? ahahahhaah ![]() |
hahahahahaahah na wah ohh @izeek's prediction came true - only it is intereting to see that it is coming from men with 2 different views on the issue @biola my dear that is true - keep it up ![]() |
NL friends games books music these kept me occupied when he was away on business for a while - lol - yes the madness on NL kept me laughing and typing eveyr evening after work till me bed time |
biola44: |
yjay:yeah it was emotionally daunting - i guess a part of me felt like not turning up would make me a liar so i had to turn up to defend my self and tell them my story - and him what i thought of him yeah, good thing she did - she later apologised to me - but no wahala we all do the most foolish things when we think we are in love |
peelovee: |
yjay:if i see the spouse out with another guy holding hands and kissing - or handling each other - that is a sign that is more than business to me. so i will tell of wettin my eyes see - if it blows up in my face and they decide to choose their cheating partner over me, then that is their wahala, i will sleep easier at night knowing i told my my firend the truth - it has happened to me before - my best friends fiancee was chatting me up and asking me to bed everytime i went to their house - i told her , and she told me off - they both called me for a meeting - called me home wrecker ( i was single at the time) and called me jealous all sorts, he told her i had been lying and trying to break them up - she believed him - told me to stop contacting her and coming to her house - i told her fine, my conscience is clear but i hope she doesn't regret it - they postponed their wedding because she was due to have their baby - whilst in the wating room in labour - she checked his phone and saw msgs from numerous girls, another one even claiming to make plans for their wedding - she dumped him before the baby was done, called me and apologised and came to stay with me whilst she found her feet again! would i meddle again? - Yes was it a painful and embarassing experience? - yes but my conscience was clear and i expect a friend to be able to do such for me then again that me jarre! origina9ja:thank you ![]() |
yjay:i don't agree - i would report any body i know who is cheating - and that is because i expect ppl to tell me when they see my partner cheating - nothing is hidden under the sun so for me the earlir i know the better - when i tell you, what you decide to do with the info is up to you but i wouldn't report assumptions i need concrete evidence and proof before getitng involved but then thats me ![]() |
Ben20001:thank you jare!! one honest guy! |
@dauda that is true - but it seems some guys had decided she was an ingrate even before getting to know her - just because she ordered more variety than HE thought was appropriate if the guy knows he can't afford it or doesn't want to run the risk of the girl ordering like that - how about he plans properly and takes her to like a buffet restaurant or something - that way she can have variety at her fill for a reasonable price to him biola44:seems you are in a good mood - i like ![]() |
izeek:hahahah ok - i let you off ![]() jidobaba:Eyahhh how could i not notice - please don't let me stop you, continue practicing menaitme, you might want to look for another word in case you get tired of this one soon |
yjay: |
DaudaAbu:trying to impress someone can be positive as well as negative - making an effort for her to see your 'better' side is only human - you may not care about what your date thinks of you on first impressions - but some guys do - you may not go out of your way to do things to imprerss put if you really like her and want her to like you you will TRY to impress her it is human - little things from planning the date in advance, to wearing a 'suitable' after shave, to booking the bets table, to trying to turn up on time - you do all these with someone you like because you dont want them to have the wrong impression impressing does not mean only the BIG things |
some one learnt a new word - or should i say made a bet to see how many times they could use that word today |
ROBOCOB:like my last sentence states - if your intentions with her are not honourable in the first instance then you will have a problem with spending why would a guy be wooing / taking someone out on a date when he considers her an INGRATE - unless of course he is only out to use her for your sexual gain - in which case, i can only say she is using the guy too for a taste of better things so 2 can play that game - both sides gain - all's well that ends well abi? - or don't you think it is fair? |
ROBOCOB:1. my original response was not directed at you personally - only at those that have experienced this yet complain 2. why not? if my bf or partner can afford to show me the life style my parents could not give me, it should be his joy to do so and we will both rejoice in it and praise God for his good fortune - shebi u wan dey waka with uncivilised babe when go dey disgrace you anyhow for public? when you can teach her and train her in the finer things of life - so she is your companion in all things and at all times she can rise to the situation, drinking champagne or palm wine - she can roll either way comfotably? unless of course your original intentions when wooing her were not honourable - and you were only looking for sperm-release not a concrete r/ship to build something solid on ![]() |
izeek:no need to hun - some guys complain about certain things that they should take pride in - i remeber my dad (when he was live bless him) being happy and proud to take my mum out to a chicken parlour and buy her 3 chickens, assorted wine, beer, plaintain - the works - he spoilt her at home and out side and was proud of it - she could have anything she wanted on the menu he did whilst they were courting and when they married - and saw it as his manly pride and husbandly duties to look after her - whether or not she could finish it was not the issue - it was the fact that he had provided her with teh best and more than she wanted so why are some of our AFRICAN BROTHERS of these days quick to judge and insult a woman esp when they are supposed to step up to the role and be the man - rise to the occassion and show her - SHE IS IN GOOD HANDS |
biola44:shebi na lie i tok? ROBOCOB:oooohhhh sounds like i hit a nerve there!! hope this is not a case of[b] TRUTH HURTS [/b] or is it? BTW - whose feeding allowance can you afford? me? FYI i CAN FEED ohh (not eat, FEED) no be all those skinny girls when u dey complain because they ordered ordinary suya, fried rice, plantain and chiken with coke - isnt that a normal meal? me na caviar, champagne, king prawns and fresh roasted fish by the night sea breeze - shooo wettin even if i no finish am - if you complain about feeding me on the FIRST DATE - who knows maybe you will starve me if i ever make it to your house - my mama no born me to suffer - if you cant use your money on the woman you claim to love - atleast on a first date to impress her and make her comfortable - who will you use it on? some next LovePeddler who will guarantee you a bit of hoochie? some men use the wrong standards to judge women honestly mai fren gerrat!! |
i have ben cheated on by all my exes - some of them were natural w*ankerss - i should have seen it coming - but chose not to in the early days i was so blinded i refused to believe it and they dumped me on top of everything else last r/ship i kicked him out before he could say HI and to date he still cant belive it - thought he had me figured out and wrapped around his lil finger its a hard thing to deal with, but the earlier you wake up and smell the coffee and settle the scores the better for you whethere you agree or not - DUMPING A CHEATING PARTNER MAKES HEALING EASIER AND DOES A LOT FOR YOUR ESTEEM/CONFIDENCE - rather than being dumped ![]() |
so because you saw them together you auto assumed she was cheating - som ppl like touble - wait until you have something more concrete before going topovk-nose - busy body!! |
money fit make one wowo guy - fine - look at 50cent for example!! ![]() money is not the be all and end all - neither is looks - but a combination of both in the right doses would be perfect for me |
biola44:abi ohh - lol - it is ok for them to live together if they BOTH consent to it and are both HAPPY to do so no matter the age of the r/ship - but where one party isn't happy esp the bll payer - d guy would be subjected to snidy remarks etc, but he will have to put up with it in the name of love |
na wah ohh - y e be say na POOR BOYS DEY SABI COMPLAIN pass? bobos when get money for pocket, when don chop flop, no dey complain, only these church rats!! leans back and watches the insults roll in |
most of my exes i dont even want to know again let alone talk to - they cheated, lied and betrayed me on a whole. i only remained friends with 1 of them and even he - sometimes its a struggle - cos he claims over familiarity - which i dont like!! i thinki agree with @sistawoman - you mourn the person they presented themselves to be - not the real them you later discovered and in my case sometimes what annoys me is how long i deceived myself and kept living that lie |

, frankly i hope they're celebrating me instead


?? do u mean pictures or ving the guy see for himself? cos if its just U witnessing the incident against the cheating spouse, it cld blow up in ur face cos its ur word against his/hers