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eweqwatr:
Mtshew, dependent husband for 10 whole years he kept depending?

This mumu no comprehend what he/she read and he/she dey abuse person. Can someone help him out?

Jeon:
She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.

And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .

You guys are practically supporting the destruction of marriages and complete homes/families solely based on gender biased. That's the destruction of society you guys are supporting unknowingly

Klass99:
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and MO of insults na?

Because you are being petty and derailing the thread, simple

MrBrownJay1:
i call every cheating person "animals", whether male or female. thats just me. if you dont like it, then so be it, but thats just how i see such people who enter any r/ship and cheat like untamed animals.

I blame the Op who gave people like you the opportunity to call her husband names.

iichidodo:
[color=#1986BC]The plan is simple, occupy till further notice. Expel the former occupants and distribute them amongst the Arab nations of the world, if anybody (from the UN) throws a fit, tell them Hamas f**ked them, not Isreal.. [/color]

Israel is confused at the moment

franchasofficia:
Divorce him and marry another husband.

Lol. Marry another one that you reserved for her, right?

Or divorce him and stay single and just have boyfriends to quench your sex urge when needed.

And what will be her gain? She will become free puzssy for multiple boyfriends just like that? You're wicked o!

MrBrownJay1:
you can ...
A) divorce the animal before he infects you with some deadly disease
B) shut up, stay married to the animal and live with the consequences... as its obvious this man doesnt care about what you think OR has any respect for you and the marriage you guys have.

BTW cheating back is by far the worst possible thing you can do. why turn into the animal that he is? how is that gonna solve the problem (remember, he doesnt really care about you)?

Stop referring to people as animals just because you don't like what they do or because they are doing what you don't like, not even to you directly. You are referring to her husband, have some respect! When we don't even know if you are worse than the Op husband. Mtcheeew!

UNNGRADUATEEE:
you finally didn't graduated as a pharmacist?

Nope! And the certificate has been gathering dust where it was kept. It may still be useful one day sha

Flamemignon1:
One prick no dey belleful woman too since we are all animals

Who cares? She can even go to the market get the biggest cucumber out there!

99thEnemy:
Your lack of comprehension is of a kind.


Go back and read what you first quoted and this time slowly.

Maybe I should use an analogy.

It’s just like people use dowry to mean bride price, but bride price and dowry aren’t the same thing.

Dowry is money paid by a woman or woman’s family to the groom’s families when getting married.
bride price on the other hand is paid by the groom/groom’s family to the bride’s family.

If you don’t get it now, I won’t even bother anymore because it will show that your level of understanding is more shallow than I even thought.

I won’t be surprised if you are a muslim. its ok not to let women drive, go to school, have a white collar job, go out in public etc…

these are the kind if rights, not the husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend rubbish you people have come to believe feminism is about.

Are you referring to the Muslims in Afghanistan or Muslims in Nigeria? From under which rock did you crawl out?

Flamemignon1:
She already has kids so marriage is already useless to her, na una still dey hold am in high regard to give you some sort of ego boost when the world is obviously moving on lol

Dumbo, he's talking about finance!

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.


Edited: File photo used for illustration

Divorce or find a way to cope. To cope means anything you deem fit, no judging or emotional blackmail here . If it will make you feel better, many happily married husbands cheat too, not only your husband

KillahPriest:
Welcome to the club. DISCOs have capacity to distribute prepaid meters to all their customers, forget about any reasonable sounding excuse they might give but it's much more lucrative making money through estimated billing without enforced consequences

90k now, single phase meter with monthly refund of 1k

Love800:
What do you mean by the bolded?

Of course, you know what I meant. Cost of fuels has skyrocketed, cost of electricity has joined too, people/SME can't access loans, no grants for businesses, no security, farmers can't go farms most especially in the north / many of them have been killed.
Until govt steps in to address all these and many more, provide supports, nothing will change. And this particular government? It is running away from all the responsibilities associated with govts all over the world.

Nbotee:
While Nigeria takes one step forward, the north drags the rest of the nation back 10 steps.

TOPCRUISE:
I understand why she withdraw. Those stoneaged backward religious mafias threatened her. The orphans could not have made the decision to be married off.

LMAyedun:
The northern part of this country is still living in the stone age and dragging the entire country backwards. God help Nigeria.

Since they are not forced. All of them already have suitors, just that the expenses will be paid by third party as usually the case.
And this is by far better than south south and south east where girls of the same age categories are being held captives in baby factories and kept in perpetual bondage. Many are even labelled "witches", had nowhere to go and took shelter in baby factories disguised as "orphanage homes".

Fireboy02:
In d north its culture and tradition, while in d South its rule of law/ constitution

So, your rule of law/constitution set up the baby factories and olosho enterprise that's seen everywhere in the south?

femi4:
voting for Tinubu

Millions of voters are saying the same, I did too.

Coolestguy2023:
I will argue with you. Forex is not gambling.
The only way it will be a gambling is how you trade.
Professional forex traders don't trade like gamblers do

Okay. But I know that any business or trade where one side must lose before the other side gains is gambling to me because that's the same principle that both are operating on.

Love800:
Okay. Nice.

But i think increasing the salary will just be temporary solution. The main solution is for government to regulate prices of goods nd services as it is done in the first world countries.

Regulation can't be effective as the government is the main culprit who disrupted the economy by ill thought out policies. The cost of production has gone up astronomically, the only solution is to bring down the cost of doing business. And that entails many things which the current administration has refused to consider. What they're after is more money, more revenue.

ThiefnubuBandit:
Just imagine. That's why you ended up as a Tilumbu online stipend collector.

Hahahaha! I voted for him but he's turned to be a disappointment. That doesn't mean your candidate could have done better anyway

ThiefnubuBandit:
Keep kwayet there!!! Are you not enjoying the administration of Gbola Ahmad Tilumbu?

I'm still better than you by farrrrrrrrr!

saddler:
Its available in Lagos Nigeria.

And its relatively cheaper.

Alright. I will do a little digging

gigabyte13:
Look good for fans....??
Low self esteem
Adult children yeyebrities everywhere.

He knew what he wanted and he went for it. The rest is your problem

Rooney did too. I wish it is not that costly and available in Nigeria, we, bald men need am

Sirchiboy:
Being timid and staying indoor when I was a child
It pays to be brutal and rugged.

Scamburster:
It really deal with me at my early stage, annoying introvert and timid at the same time. but thank God sha.

World and life of many introverts

HydraFeeds:
Cos it is quicker and cheaper to complete.

HydraFeeds:
yes money is like breeze .

Also ,a newcomer in the building business have no idea how much it cost to do decking ,decking alone is enough to do roofing and other finishing for bungalow .

You are right. I bought a land February last year and immediately got to work. People were asking me if I was going for double flats which I said no, just one flat. I told them that I needed what I could start and finish within a year or two.
I finished my bungalow within eight months and moved in the same last year.

Olichoke:
Not going into business immediately after NYSC.

I feel you. When the money I saved during my NYSC dropped to 100k from 300k, while hoping to get that special job, nobody told me to jump into businesses that have been my saving grace for the last 12 years.

judedwriter:
Letting other people define you.

Seeking your identity from others.

Letting people's opinions overrule yours.

One of the worst mistakes anyone can make. In fact, we need to educate our kids on this subject before they go out in the world on their own.

SaturnNick:
Trying to mingle and spend for people that are older and had more money than me

People only care about you when you spend for them/on them. They will discard you the moment you are broke.

Sergio103:
Lol

Looking for medicine and surgery.

I pity you

Pharmacy actually . Graduated 14 years ago. Come and see how I was throwing away admissions each year.

inoki247:
Lol Advice come full everywhere like flood this days your mistake might be what another person will try and nothing will do him or even excel...

What works for A might not work for B..

They called it a mistake for a reason. Another name for it is "bad choice". Which one have you seen here that can turn out differently for you?

Coolestguy2023:
The mistake i made is that i started forex at a time when i was in some financial crisis so it affected my trading.

Forex generally is a gambling

HydraFeeds:
If you want to build your first house , it's preferably going for a bungalow to a duplex.

So that the money doesn't run dry in the course of building the house, right?