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Tolany25:
I am female, I will be 30 this year December but I find it so hard to get married. I avoid any man that comes my way just because I am afraid of sex. I always try to have sex once in a year but I still can't help it. This is something I can't even tell my mother and she's really looking up to me just to get married and bear my own children as all my brothers and sisters are all married but it seems she loves me more because I don't get it. I am writing this letter with tears running down my face. I don't want a man I will be staying with but it's so hard for me to tell any man that comes my way. I just need to see my own child and be happy with them. There's no point in getting married and end the married in no time. What's the point? People see me as somebody who sleeps with a lot of men for money but they won't understand. Please, any man who is ready to do this can hook up with me...

The mods should please help me move this to the front page because it's a matter of the heart.

First thing first! where art thy picture? So whoever wants to sow his "OAT" in ur "ABUNNA" will have a foresight as regards to how d pikin go look like later on.
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Palmwinetapper:
like your mother when she slept with me

Woe betide the "HOE" from who's PUSSY u sprung forth. Cursed animal.

Booyakasha:
I disagree with the Introvert part.. I'm dating an introverted guy.. Apart from the fact that introverts can be extreme loners, practical people with inability to express theirselves and they get the phobia of kissing and hugging or even holding hands in public, here are some reasons to be with an introvert guy.. they're amazing!!

Great listeners. My boyfriend helps me a lot by just listening to me. You know when you want some one to just hear you out and only advice when asked for, Introverts are ever ready for that.
Very Intelligent. Very clichéd sentence but trust me they are intelligent. My Man solves the rubiks cube in under 2 mins. That's crazy.

No nonsense. They are the ones you can have the most meaningful conversations with, not garbage talks.
They guide you very well. Some how they see you just the way you are, and yet love you because it's beyond looks for them. They don't get blinded by love, and yet For them love means everything and they give it their all.

Not Fake. They do not pretend to like you. They either just like you or don't and will tell you straight

Love Ain't A Game . They don't fall in love easily, but They fall hard. For them love isn't a game, their Hearts are at Stake. If they tell you they love you, you better not break their heart.

Calm by nature. Would women want to be with a man who gets violent, abuses, puts her down, yells at her or with A Man who treats her like a princess, will be faithful and treat her with respect all her life. I'm sure you will choose the latter i.e The Introverted man. They can never get violent it's just not in their nature to fight, and usually are respectful towards everyone in general.

Give you space. Space is must in a relationship and introverts know how to give you that.

Hot in Bed. They are good love makers (I can only speak on the behalf of my bf). Boy they are passionate!!

Stand by you. Is anything in this world worth more than some one actually standing by you through the toughest times? Introverts who are in love with you, won't back down when your in trouble, or back off because some one else says so. They fight hard to protect their loved ones.

Won't “use" you. Introverted men never woo women as a game. They are genuinely attracted to her and want to get to know her on deeper level. Yes sex is on their mind too but they will never cross their boundaries with you. Introverted women find it hard to fall for some one and when they do it's usually for life.

Honesty. Yes they are brutally honest, they will criticize you, not to hurt you but, because they really care about you . Yet they will be the first ones to come Cheer you up, Motivate you when you feel down and like a total failure.

Best friends. They are the bestest friends you can ever find. Trust me.

Loyalty. Being faithful comes to them naturally. Since they are introverted, they do not have many friends or easily make new connections. This means they do not find it hard to stay loyal and committed when in a serious relationship.

Some introverts i know here on NL: Teempakguy

Choi! Nwanyi-oma, talahi walahi ur mama born u well, abi ur name na "GOLIBE"?
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Palmwinetapper:
what is this one talking about

I see u lack morals!

Palmwinetapper:
not he didn't

Has it been scientifically proven? if yes and by whom!
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HungerBAD:
Every morning.

When I wake up,I start my prayers to God to protect from the hands of evil women.

A man you have 6 kids for? You still want to *boil* him alive?

Women where is thou HEART?

"BITCHES everywhere! Women are many, Wives are "FEW".
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Souljeezy:
thé power of funbact A...

She can neva bleach de space inbetwin her Nyash .

Talahi Walahi! u just "KELT" it broooooo.
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Adelaide2:
Truly truly, uneasy lies the head that wears the crown. Shey you wan do Ms Tourism? Oya, the python/anaconda is the touristic attraction. Carry am for your shoulders

Na "Miss Reptiles"
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importexpert:
act bro and stop hoping for what may never actualize. your success is my pride

Still waiting for my turn to win ur eBook.

importexpert:
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Bros I have been commenting on ur posts since 1800 and yet u Neva wan to look into my case! Haba , diaris hope oooooo.lol

kestolove95:
Naija gurls gat d baddest pu**y eva..mine is tighter dan kenya virgins sef

Has it been scientifically proven? Show us proof or "Adonbilivit".
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Job interview questions come in several forms, depending on the nature of the interviewer. In this article, we are going to take a look at some of the most common types of job interview questions a prospective interview candidate will ever encounter and how to tackle them too.
WEAKNESS/FAILURE QUESTIONS:
These type of job interview questions usually go as follows: “Tell me about your failures….” Or “ What is your greatest weakness?” These questions are the interviewer’s way of asking, “Are you still beating your wife?” or “Are you a drug addicted to drugs?”
Don’t allow yourself to be intimidated by these questions. You need not state a weakness or a failing just because the interviewer asks you to.
“I don’t generally fail”, or “I really can’t think of any”, are perfectly acceptable answers. Concise and sweet, and then wait,smiling for the comeback…. You’ll have demonstrated that you are no mug and pushover. If you are pressed (as you probably will be), here’s your justification answer, ,or if you wish to appear a little more self-effacing use this as a first response:
“I almost always succeed because I plan and manage accordingly. If something is not going right, I’ll change it until it works. The important thing is to put the necessary checks and contingencies in place that enables me to see if things aren’t going according to plan, and to effect changes when and if necessary….” Or
“There are certain things I’m not good at, but I’d never say these are my weaknesses as such….A weakness is vulnerability, and I don’t consider myself vulnerable. If there’s something I can’t do or don’t know, then I find someone who can do it or has a far better insight on the issue at hand.”
You can see the positive orientation which was used to tactfully assert yourself, always endeavour to present your answers in a credible fashion.
BLAME QUESTIONS:
You should watch out for the invitation to rubbish your past job or employer, especially in the form of:”Why did you leave your last job?” or “why have you had so many jobs”?
The interviewer is not just trying to satisfy his curiosity, it could be a ploy to make you say some negative things about your previous employers. If you make the mistake of saying that your last boss was an idiot, or that all your past jobs have been rubbish, you’ll be seen as someone who blames others for his mistakes and fails to take responsibility for his own actions and decisions.
Employers are interested in employing people who take responsibility, have initiative and come up with answers, not problems. Employers do not want to employ people who blame others. So, always showcase positive reasons and answers when given the opportunity to express the negative. The rule is never to blame anyone or anything else. Answers like, “I was ready for more challenges” , or “Each job offered a better opportunity, which I took advantage of”, or “I grow and learn quickly and I look for new opportunities. Better still, you could also say ”I wanted to get as much different experience as quickly as possible before looking for a better career opportunity, which is why I’m here. ”
One great technique for exploiting the blame question trap is to praise your past employers and managers. Generosity is a positive trait, so demonstrate it by lavishing praises on your previous employers.
However , you should keep your praises and observations realistic and relevant! Endeavour to mention attributes that your interviewer(s) and prospective new employer will identify and agree with. This will build association and a common ground between you and the employer or interviewer, which is very vital for successful interview outcomes. The interviewers need to see that you think like they do; and that you’ll fit into the organizations goal.

Job Interviews can be a bit of a game, so when you observe that it is, play it. The more you see subjective judgement and single-track behavior in the interviewer, then the more advantage there is in mirroring the interviewer’s style to suite your answers. People tend to like people who are similar ,Read more@Source:http://adielem.com/2016/02/28/1435/

sophietosyneabou:
hmmm..lwkm..if your boo farts when you guys are busy having a hot make out session,wah are you going to do..continue?or it wud be a total turn off 4u..be truthful tho..

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jide219:
After the normal hectic day at workI close late and the traffic was way bad,I was passing through the normal brothel lane in the night,when different gals go just dae call u,I was not in the mood to get laid so I was just going I heard,fine boy come do for 150,mehn dat wan caught my attention so I retraced my step back to were the voice came from,
Me:u say wetin
Olosho:make we Bleep for 150
Me:oya na,I was led inside,I undressed and gave her the 150,na so she say make I wait first,she brought out her fone dat she is calling her colleaque for condom,after abt 10mins or so nobody came we went inside she held my dick omo the feeling was grt,she brought out a condom and insert it into my dick,I was too Hot to think,because she said she had no condom before,so I insert my dick into her wide pu**y and started the pumping as I was in the middle of the sex ,I notice by trouser is moving I quickly drag it away,na so the olosho begin vest,say I why I stop,na so I tell her say I dae go house,I wore by trouser,and left,as I say make I check time for my phone,I nor see am again oo,even my wallet don vanish na so I run go back to the place come tell the olosho wetin happen,na so we argue ooo,before I knw wetin happen I receive hot slap for my face abt 6 olosho don gather me na so dem chase me oo,na my fine android make I buy two weeks ago don go and my wallet make be say na 5000 dae dere don vanish,na so I see, I neva eat since yesterday na,konji na bastard,

U have just been "Konji-cated".
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Europija:
Hello all ..I have been with my bf for 5 years and he was really broke n had alot stress...he hit me once in my face n threw me out of house in middle of night...should i forgive him??

Turn the other side of your face for him to complete the "Hit-Quation".
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olubusayomie:
Hold love back and you will loose her!! Lobatan chop ur love den

If she goes many more will come, after all there are many fishes in d ocean, "SHIKENA".
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amtaken:
90.

"Nwa*Baby".

rabdeluxe:
Everything

My asking price is 60k

MrRhymes101:
Maybe the dog is for LIL KESH

Lol, most def.

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Hi Nairalanders, i'm here again with another amazingly funny video of a DOG dancing to the beats of a popular song with it's owner, happy viewing.

rabdeluxe:
Last price??

Which of the items are u interested in?

[quote author=Booty4me post=43274923][/quote]U raised that point, I'm tryna let you realise your "FOLLY".

Booty4me:
Too much money wizzy .. Wizkid richer than 80percent adults in nigeria

Including you!

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tripplephi:
Tell him if he is serious with you he should come and meet your pastor or your mum. Else he will have sex with you and dump you as a side check..... If you don't do this then it shows what kind of Lady you are. Be real o.... Men are crafty when it comes to sex

Women nko ? are they not more craftier when it comes to collecting money from different men?

pinkiecutie:
Oh What A Life! Should I Sell My Virginity To Retain My Job?

good evening Nigerian's..

my heartfelt greetings goes to you guys once more as you this forum was instrumental to my getting a job last year August...

This is my story. I work for an auditing firm , name withheld by me. early this year I occasionally caught my boss staring at me provocatively I.e lustfully but I just took it as nothing serious because he has never made advances before to me.
Earlier this month, he started complimenting my looks and all, but I still not suspecting anything reciprocated by complimenting his good looks too..
After all who doesn't want to be in the good books of his or her boss..
On the 21st of Jan , he called me into his office and offered me a seat.
I sat innocently, and from there he started his talk about how hard working I was and all.
As if that was not enough, he drew closer and tried to fumble my breast..this man in his mid fifties , had no shame when I politely told him that I was still a virgin and that he should stop..
He apologized and asked me out of his office..
About three days later, he sent for me and presented my termination letter. When I opened the letter, a tear dropped off my eyelids as I saw in block black and bold letters "TERMINATION OF APPOINTMENT DUE TO REDUNDANCY" . I stood there for close to five minutes not knowing what to say.After a while I managed to utter a thank you sir and left to pack all my belongings out of the company..
I went home to meet my sick mom(my father is late, I am an only child), when I saw her state I couldn't just bring it upon my self to tell her that I was just sacked..
right now, all the money I have been spending has gone to my mother's treatment..
even to eat now is a problem, right now having 1000 naira is like a million naira...
I have considered giving in but my vow to keep my virginity till marriage is still strong ( this virginity till marriage is a family thing. my mom,mom's mom and so on where Virgins)
so confused right now lord please help me, in your loving kindness touch the hearts of men to look upon your daughter who has chosen to live according to your ways amen...

Leave d man to eat his job, instead come and be my PA, after all when one door closes another one go open.

trendysturvs:
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Ur Blog is awful.

Gabaleve:
I heard she's yoruba

Nope, she's not.

Multiple award winning British international songstress, ADELE went a step further when she delivered a sonorous rendition of a popular "Igbo Worship" song, titled "Ibu Chukwu", below is the youtube link for the video, Happy Viewing:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zhia4CJNN0

rheether:
Any guy who isn't a womanizer is not an attractive man.

Often true, but not always true!

noetic5:
The actress and producer rocked this lovely jumpsuit to Senator Florence Ita Giwa's 70th birthday celebration..

She decided to take this cute selfie with comedian, Mr. Ibu

https://www.instagram.com/p/BCGfrqkmXHU/

Beauty n Da Beast.
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