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Politics / Re: Gov Ugwuanyi And Enugu Government Officials Welcome Osinbajo To Enugu (pics) by MadCow1: 6:05pm On May 03, 2019
I really miss Nnamdi Kanu and his wailing.. grin


By now he would have had a meltdown on Osibanjo visiting the East and called Ugwuanyi all manner of names for hosting him. grin

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Politics / Re: National Assembly Approves N160bn For Minimum Wage Increase by MadCow1: 5:54pm On May 03, 2019
Yawn....
Crime / Re: A 27-year-old Lady Killed For Being Fat In South Africa (photo) by MadCow1: 5:48pm On May 03, 2019
Huh? angry Just like that?

I swear South African Men are the most useless Men on the continent.

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Travel / Re: The New Tin Can Trailer Park, Apapa, Lagos (Photos) by MadCow1: 5:47pm On May 03, 2019
tomdon:



Lol. Shey na you go buy the 100k diesel needed to travel to and fro the park outside Lagos to the port for them?
Appointed date Abi, everyday na appointed date then, or won't you like to load everyday and make money daily or who is supposed to call you on the appointed date to go to the market square and sell?

Most trucks on the road are Tankers.. If your loading manifest hasn't come out, remain at the base..

Private individuals can open truck parks and charge the drivers for parking there. But it's not the governments responsibility to provide truck parks for trailers which are private businesses.

Your truck can be parked at a yard and the owner/driver can hang around the ports and solicit business.

The Nigerian trucking logistics industry is not the largest in the world so why cant we regulate them properly?
Celebrities / Re: Solomon Buchi Slams Tobi Bakre's Mother Over Marriage Advice by MadCow1: 2:40pm On May 03, 2019
A woman bothering about her Husbands whereabouts is a colossal waste of time and energy. Most times, we men dont even know where we are..

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Politics / Re: Niger Delta Youths Give Wike Seven Days To Reopen NDDC Office by MadCow1: 2:35pm On May 03, 2019
Heeheee...
Celebrities / Re: Queen Wokoma Defends Tonto Dikeh by MadCow1: 2:34pm On May 03, 2019
IamD18:
I pray her son marries Tonto type of woman.

Do you pray your daughter or Sister should end up with a Churchill type Nigga?

Asking for a friend..

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Travel / Re: The New Tin Can Trailer Park, Apapa, Lagos (Photos) by MadCow1: 2:29pm On May 03, 2019
That space cant contain 1/4 of the trucks parked on the roads and bridges in Apapa and Surulere..

It's not the Governments job to provide parks for those Trucks. Every Truck Owner should have a yard from where the Truck should proceed to the loading area on an appointed date to load. Or provide a Park outside Lagos and coordinate them from there.

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Politics / Re: “Every Policeman In Abia Wants To Be Posted To Aba" CP Okon by MadCow1: 5:31am On May 03, 2019
anyimontana:
have sense early this morning to guide u tru the day

Shey the sense wey you get no warn you say make you avoid me this morning abi?

Continue to dey prize my market, I go soon write invoice give you now.
Culture / Re: Oba Saheed Ademola Elegushi Of Ikate Land Marries A Second Wife by MadCow1: 5:25am On May 03, 2019
When Baba elevates you from a side piece to an assistant main B*tch.

She try..

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Politics / Re: “Every Policeman In Abia Wants To Be Posted To Aba" CP Okon by MadCow1: 5:23am On May 03, 2019
anyimontana:
cos u r indeed a mad cow...

Who be this one now? You better waka pass before you prize market wey you no fit buy..

angry
Business / Re: Onitsha:Traders Count Losses As Fire Destroys Goods Worth N50m by MadCow1: 5:17am On May 03, 2019
The Igboman will never buy insurance.... angry


He will tell you his insurance cometh from the Lord.. grin

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Politics / Re: “Every Policeman In Abia Wants To Be Posted To Aba" CP Okon by MadCow1: 5:11am On May 03, 2019
Abia State?!. grin

I had no idea that place was still a state. undecided

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Travel / Re: Govt Prepares Staff To Take Over Abuja Lightrail From Chinese by MadCow1: 5:10am On May 03, 2019
Chai... And that's how this project has failed from here on..

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Travel / Re: Lekki Conservation Centre - Journey To The Longest Canopy Walk In Africa by MadCow1: 4:26pm On Apr 26, 2019
Dry place...


Only good thing is the Canopy walk.

Also good for photoshoot..

That's it...

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Crime / Re: Man Sells His 6-week-old Twins Children For N500k by MadCow1: 4:22pm On Apr 26, 2019
500k for Igbo Twins? angry angry angry

This guy is a fool..

Igbo Twins is from 15million for 2 boys.

10 million for 1 boy, 1 girl..

And 7.5 for two girls...

Umu igbo get value pass 500k na. angry
Politics / Re: Presidency Speaks On Buhari Seeking Medical Treatment During Private Visit To UK by MadCow1: 4:15pm On Apr 26, 2019
Get well quick able Presido.. You cant die now until after May 29th.

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Education / Re: Lecturer Stands On A Table To Invigilate During Exam In A Private University by MadCow1: 8:18am On Apr 20, 2019
And tomorrow people will say make I Epp this Guy out when he is in need.. angry
Career / Re: Nigerian High Commission London Changes Staff Status To “self-employed” by MadCow1: 11:18pm On Apr 10, 2019
Huh?
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by MadCow1: 3:50am On Apr 02, 2019
Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?


Has the thought that maybe she just does not like to display her family on social media crossed your mind?

There are people like that you know.. Some people like to keep certain aspects on their lives away from social media (especially their kids). I know a girl who is married and she posts photos of herself always on social media but none of her husband and or kids. She is a fantastic wife and mum though and has a healthy family.

I'm concerned for your mindset (from what I can gather from the post) because you have also implied that she is a great partner (which might also translate to a great mum as well). Dont let something as trivial as social media ruin what you seem to describe which is "a good marriage". You need to find out what is more important to you, a healthy home or to display to your friends and family your life/lifestyle..

On the issue of gifts, I feel like it may also be just all in your head. It sounds like she earns more than you (which is what I can gather from your post) and also likes alot of fine things. So it might appear that when you buy her something (which to you is special and which it might also just be), you expect a greater show of appreciation than you can read off of her. I'm not saying you are wrong, I'm just saying if my thought process on this is right, it might just all be your "inferiorities" getting the better of your mind. My advice is keep being the best husband you can be to her and the best father to your kids. Forget about the social media nonsense, it actually doesn't matter in the brand scheme of things. Keep showing her love and I pray everything works out in the end for you.

From where I'm sitting smoking this very nice E-gbo that I bought from my dealer Musliu, who by the way is owing me 80naira change and two rizla, I beg you to please get over this nonsense and go be make the best marriage you can. If to say you dey live near me I for send you go meet Musliu make ehn take my change give you 1 wrap to reposition your mind and remind you of the more important things of this life than social media.

By the way, if she is a Benin girl or schooled in UNIBEN, it might just be winch problem. In that case I advise you to first use bible (king James Version with hard cover back) knack her for head until she faint. Then tie her rope, pour her olive oil then carry her go meet Apostle Suleiman on Thursday deliverance warfare service.

Thanks.
Politics / Re: Bola Tinubu Cut His 67th Birthday Cake With His Wife, Others - Photos by MadCow1: 6:45pm On Mar 28, 2019
Happy Birthday to my role model JAGABAN..

King of Yoruba Politics.

Slayer of the PDP.

May you live Forever Sir.

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Celebrities / Re: Ebuka Opens Up About Bbnaija, His Family, Controversy With Cee-c And More! by MadCow1: 6:15pm On Mar 28, 2019
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: PREMIER LEAGUE! Angry Sarri Reveals Who Caused Chelsea’s 2 – 0 Loss To Everton by MadCow1: 11:03am On Mar 18, 2019
I'm sarri for Chelsea Fans.. One moment they are on an unbeaten run, next they are laughing at United, next they struggling to play Thursday Night football in a remote part of Russia. grin

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Religion / Re: If You Were To Die Today, Will You Make Heaven? by MadCow1: 11:28am On Mar 10, 2019
Nope... I'm on the Highway to Hell... grin

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Politics / Re: Results Are Being Tampered With- Chris Smith, US Congressman, Nigerian Election by MadCow1: 11:28am On Feb 25, 2019
And so?

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Politics / Re: Dele Momodu Writes Saraki Following His Loss In The Senatorial Election by MadCow1: 11:26am On Feb 25, 2019
I can't wait for Buhari to win and then open Saraki's file...
Crime / Re: Female Kidnappers In Who Abduct Children From Schools, Arrested. Photo by MadCow1: 12:47pm On Feb 06, 2019
Question: Na eye that one with yellow weave on dey cut the camera abi wetin?
Politics / Re: EFCC Reveals When Ganduje Will Be Arrested (Photo) by MadCow1: 8:04pm On Feb 01, 2019
Team 4 + 4...
Crime / Re: UBA Policeman Beats Up Customer In Lagos, Attempts To Stab Him In Banking Hall by MadCow1: 6:38pm On Jan 31, 2019
Wow
Sports / Re: Nigerian Referee Beaten Mercilessly By Supporters After NPFL Match. Photos by MadCow1: 9:56am On Jan 21, 2019
Choi...

Sorry
Celebrities / Re: Lord Of Ajasa Hospitalized For Severe Peptic Ulcer, Seeks Help by MadCow1: 9:30pm On Jan 14, 2019
I remember this dude.. Esa Lobade was one of his hit tracks..

How times fly.. I hope his Hommies cone through for him.

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Travel / Re: $111m Port Harcourt Airport Yet To Become Operational 2 Months After Commissioni by MadCow1: 8:22pm On Dec 28, 2018
So?

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