₦airaland Forum

Mivici:
I have a female friend loving and caring.
I really don't know why she is into me, maybe because am also caring, fun to be with or the one meant for her? actually she is a village girl because she was born-and-bred in the village, mind you, she is very intelligent.

I got a call yesterday, when I picked, the voice I heard ask me to meet him at a renowned garden in the village, on reaching there, the man I met introduce himself, I was pleased at first, he ask me what brand will I like to take, I told him Heineken, we were sipping our liquor gradually when he started conversing, he told me that I should leave his sister alone because she had already been taken, I was shocked! Actually am not from that town not even from the state, I am from the middle belt where as the location is in the Eastern part of the country.
I told him but his sister who was my friend has never disclose such a thing to me before, he looks me in the face and told me, he doesn't want to talk to much that he just came back from Europe, Amsterdam precisely, I said to myself, he didn't even have to say that because I know that already. he was riding Audi Q5, I think 2018 model, he now promise to credit my account with the sum of three hundred and fifty thousand to stop picking her calls and calling her because the Man that got him hooked-up big time in Amsterdam has interest in his sister and the man will be coming back next month which is December to meet his parents and doesn't want any attitude from his sister because she had been talking about me recently and I shouldn't even tell her that this was what we even discuss.

Am just thinking of the next actions because I so much cherish the relationship and want to make it permanent.

goalgetter01:
First of all I will set up my mom with 3m, invest 8m in landed properties, invest 5m in uber business (buy like 3 Toyota Corolla) I will invest 3m in my football career. I will use 200k to help the needy and keep the remaining 800k in my bank account.

Reex12:
Ask yourself whether what you wrote made any sense

Reex12:
Ask yourself whether what you wrote made any sense

Wannabenz:
I'll marry the love of my life this year 2020. Buy her a Toyota Matrix then buy some lands through her company then maybe a small but new car for myself. Settle each and every member of my family before I relocate to another state with the love of my life.

So it is...So shall it be.

Zyzxx10:
I'm telling you bro. Many would have committed suicide if not for the fear of hellfire.

ZIINI:
Bro I tell you I don calculate am he no reach
Money no dey that's why you dey think say he plenty
OBO spend over $100K when he buy diamond from icebox.
A good Car in Nigeria now is like 6/10 m
You go buy gold O
You go settle your parents
Your family you go settle them O and expect heavy billing.lol
You go invest O
You go buy BTC too
You go wan rent dope house
Ma bro na manage you go manage am 20m no reach

Powersurge:
I have a registered business, a manufacturing businesses plan, currently seeking loan. I don't need 20m. 7m will kick it to life.

Op what do you want to gain by heightening son of man's emotion?

Zyzxx10:
I would just leave this country and start my life afresh.

21savages:
I hate this kind question, E dey vex me...

specialbobby:
I will use 1mili to build house for my mum she is in need of it
The the rest money will go for cooking gas business

ElRapido:
Buy correct 18M pepper soup, and use the rest to buy cold Pepsi.

DamZik:
Who are potential customers? Can I get a stand in the market square?

Samadhii:
Give 2m to the needy.
Apply for Masters degrees in the UK.
Trust me, before you know it, you will eventually be worth more than 20m after getting a job over there

DamZik:
[b][/b]How does it works? Won't the market women union be a problem?
I am also interested in palm oil and groundnut oil business.

josephevergreen:
wow with 20m, I will use 7m to boost my tiles business.. invest 10m on real estate( buying of landed property), I will get myself a clean corolla for 1.5 m..the remaining 1.5m will be in my account breathing.... God bless my hustle..





I deal in tiles both Spanish and high quality Nigeria tiles..like royal tiles, time ceramics, goodwill, cdk, golden crown ..and all tiles accessories

Iamthomcruz:
me go use am nack 3 sure odd to triple the money..ewu

abudc:
I will just stop imagining

abudc:
I will just stop imagining

luscioustrish:
If you offend me I can ignore you till you begin to doubt your own existence but that's if I don't get an apology
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I get coconut head,I no dey hear word
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I'm very playful and if you're too serious e go hard oh
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Etc

etrange:
I've always believed age is just a number and shouldn't come in the way of marriage. But this is not about the age, it's about trust. The ideal thing is for her to confront him and hear what he's got to say. Such conversations are painful cause the idea of your lover keeping such a secret could really hurt. If he's really younger and has been hiding it all this while, trust has been broken and there's no telling how much more he's got to hide. Men get away with many things in a relationship so expect a lot of people here to suggest she should pardon him and stay since he's been a cool guy but I personally believe that apologies offered when one is already caught don't mean true repentance and, like I said, there could still be a lot the guy is hiding. The foundation is already shaky. Reverse this case in your mind, assume it was a lady that came with a baggage of lies, would you still trust her to be your second half?

I'm not saying she should stay, neither am I saying she should quite. This is because I don't know their personal circumstances. I don't know what could have made the guy to lie and how long he planned to keep up with it. I don't know the sacrifices both have made for each other in the past. I don't know how much time, energy and other resources they've invested in the relationship before now. So whether she stays afterwards or not depends all these and also on her personality: can she deal with the knowledge that her partner once harboured such a secret or will that always creep up every now and then and make her feel uncomfortable or unsure of his words? This kind of thing could hurt for long and she will blame herself if she decides to stay and later discover more lies.

Let her follow her heart and even if her final decision leads to regrets, she should take solace in the fact that she did what she felt was the right thing at the moment. As humans, we can only work with the limited knowledge we have as no one knows the future.

Cc: kingemaker

ModestGal:
[/quote][quote author=etrange post=93900175]I've always believed age is just a number and shouldn't come in the way of marriage. But this is not about the age, it's about trust. The ideal thing is for her to confront him and hear what he's got to say. Such conversations are painful cause the idea of your lover keeping such a secret could really hurt. If he's really younger and has been hiding it all this while, trust has been broken and there's no telling how much more he's got to hide. Men get away with many things in a relationship so expect a lot of people here to suggest she should pardon him and stay since he's been a cool guy but I personally believe that apologies offered when one is already caught don't mean true repentance and, like I said, there could still be a lot the guy is hiding. The foundation is already shaky. Reverse this case in your mind, assume it was a lady that came with a baggage of lies, would you still trust her to be your second half?

I'm not saying she should stay, neither am I saying she should quite. This is because I don't know their personal circumstances. I don't know what could have made the guy to lie and how long he planned to keep up with it. I don't know the sacrifices both have made for each other in the past. I don't know how much time, energy and other resources they've invested in the relationship before now. So whether she stays afterwards or not depends all these and also on her personality: can she deal with the knowledge that her partner once harboured such a secret or will that always creep up every now and then and make her feel uncomfortable or unsure of his words? This kind of thing could hurt for long and she will blame herself if she decides to stay and later discover more lies.

Let her follow her heart and even if her final decision leads to regrets, she should take solace in the fact that she did what she felt was the right thing at the moment. As humans, we can only work with the limited knowledge we have as no one knows the future.

Cc: kingemaker