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Romance / Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 6:29pm On Oct 22, 2020
WrittyWritter:


I told him to leave her be4..go back nd read my previous comments..be4 typing rubbish..and for d bipolar case I did not tell him to stay with her..I told him to try to take her to a hospital and leave her in d care of a friend or a family member.D way he left her don't u know she may have still come back for him and hurt him..It like wen u read u read half way..try to read and to d end nd understand be4 concluding.

How is wat I told him going to benefit d girl..so leaving her will benefit d girl

The Bi-polar case is not his responsibility.

No matter what you want to use to justify it, it is stupid advice.

I will not engage you further.

You are not worth my time.

I merely used you as an example of the kind of advise from females that the OP should avoid.

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Romance / Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 6:27pm On Oct 22, 2020
gideonite98:

Thanks boss
Already decided to do that
I just feel people see me as this nice and too caring dude but I have decided to work on it and balance everything and I can say I'm not really that dude anymore though still working on it grin.
Thanks boss for the advice
Really appreciate it.

There is a book called No more Mr Nice guy.

You can download anybooks from playstore and download that book inside after paying a small lifetime fee of less than five thousand naira.
Romance / Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 11:11am On Oct 20, 2020
Angelacruz:
Too lazy to comment

Girls like you cannot handle cowgirl position for more than 30 seconds before your engine knock. undecided
Romance / Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 11:09am On Oct 20, 2020
Gideonite98

You need to work on your self-love bro.

What you had for her was not love but a case of codependence.

You might have been feeling that you might be the one that changes her.

You might be addicted to the kind of attention that she gives you when she is with you.

Whatever it is, it is not Love because Loving yourself will not allow you to put yourself in a position where someone is constantly hurting you even when you love them.

It is a good thing you have let her go.

Take time away from her and never forget what she is, a hoe, a LovePeddler.

You don't deserve such in your life.

She just uses you because you are the guy she knows she can always come back to.

Don't be that guy anymore.

Lose her number, block her everywhere.

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Romance / Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 11:06am On Oct 20, 2020
kokaneprodigy:

We are talking about red flags, yours is a case of extreme stupidity, you can open a thread for that.


grin grin grin
You're mean
Romance / Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 11:05am On Oct 20, 2020
WrittyWritter:


U can stay and see if she is sincere..but which distance is she talking about don't u stay in d same city..must u be seeing everyday ni..lyk I said I wish u luck but if she does it again with d same distance excuse..she is not worth

Agbebakun22 Avoid these kinds of females.

Never receive advice from them. I saw a comment from her where she was asking why another guy did not look for help for his Bi-polar Ex.

These kinds of females give you advice that benefits the girl that is hurting you. Whether they do it intentionally or not, I do not know. I assume they do it intentionally.

Avoid that your ex. She started dating someone else and did not tell you. She does not love you. Her bestie does not even like what she is doing and decided to tell you. Why? because she wants you to move on.

It is better to break your own heart by deleting everything that concerns the girl and block her everywhere than to stay and hope that things will work out.

Take it from me, it won't work out.

While you are recovering, take the following books and read.

The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi

The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar, they will sharpen your mind and help you to know how to weed girls better in the future.

All the best.

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Phones / Re: Infinix Zero 8 Nocks Xiaomi Out Of Gaming Devices .. Run From Xiaomi Vol 2 by MagnumXL(m): 12:36pm On Oct 17, 2020
nightbuzzer:
grin grin grin grin you get zero 6 ?

I dey ask whether you don use am, or you know person wey don use am. I dey eye the phone.
Romance / Re: What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 2:03am On Oct 17, 2020
gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


I was dating this girl then, she due chat,call her ex I was a bit cool with it. The only reason I was cool with it was because I don't want to show am over Jeolous. Last last she posted the guy pix on line, that left me with no reason than to calm for a break up. There many things that spur the break, this was one of it. How on earth did I over look that, and boom she did the unimaginable. grin girls eh, just use your head when you are sensing reg flag and if it insist my guy cut tail with her and avoid your self unnecessary anger .

That is how it always is,

They will try to convince you that there is nothing wrong in contacting your exes.

They will try to make you feel insecure when you mention it to them but eventually they will knack that ex and form apology.

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Romance / What Are The Red Flags You Regret You Ignored In Your Relationship. by MagnumXL(m): 6:24am On Oct 16, 2020
Hindsight they say is 20/20.

Whenever we have a breakup especially one where we are left hurt and broken, we sometimes look back and try to see where we missed a sign that could have told us that this was coming.

And there are usually signs and more often than we'd like to admit, we see them but we ignore them. When we look back at relationship with the rose-colored lenses off, we start seeing the signs that we should have bailed.

So what are the signs that you saw in your previous relationship that should have told you that this thing cannot last again and will soon end.

I'll go first.

I once dated this girl that slept with her ex few days before travelling down to see me.
How should I have known she was problematic?

She cut the call on me whenever we were having a disagreement over the phone.

Why is this a bad sign?

Any girl that cuts the call on you doesn't have respect for you.
She is naturally disrespectful.

She is also not emotionally intelligent. There are ways to say that you cannot continue with the conversation anymore. There are ways to say that you need a breather. A girl that cuts the call on you is not emotionally matured and that immaturity always results in some relationship (could even be just a friendship disaster along the way).

== == == == ==

Ladies I also want to hear from you.

What signs did you see during the relationship that told you the guy was no good, that you wish you had listened to then?

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Phones / Re: Infinix Zero 8 Nocks Xiaomi Out Of Gaming Devices .. Run From Xiaomi Vol 2 by MagnumXL(m): 8:25pm On Oct 12, 2020
What about the infinix zero 6

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Romance / Re: How I Handle Female Virgins by MagnumXL(m): 1:21am On Sep 16, 2020
Akinbahm:


Bro, never mind OP he is trying to be serious only for him to ended off being funny alawada of the highest order

If a girl lock up for you say she no wan gree make you fvck am, guy, even if you send her your lifetime saving aswear she no go give you that pvssy... wait self why do you think they have a lot of guys in that friendzone?

You're one of those teenage boys roaming this section with poor comprehension skills.

Have your balls even dropped?
Romance / Re: How I Handle Female Virgins by MagnumXL(m): 1:20am On Sep 16, 2020
Truvel:
So, What Are U Insinuating? Dat Dey Are Not Responsible 4 Their Actions? Let Me Be Frank With U. Girls Who Wants To Keep Demselves Would Keep Demselves. So, Don't Just Bother Urself. Many Of Dis Girls NA Over-Sense & Longer Throat Nai Make Dem Become Victim.

I don't think you read my post to comprehend
Romance / Re: How I Handle Female Virgins by MagnumXL(m): 1:17am On Sep 16, 2020
akaahs:

Yeah, my virgin ex girlfriend whom I eventually got engaged but later dump me for obvious reasons known to her.
I dated her for a year and half, slept on the same bed severally without touching each cause I was saving her for our wedding night.
On her broke up message she acknowledge I'm a complete gentleman but her major reason for breaking up isn't about love but lack of understanding which am yet to rap my head with. I just have to let her go and move on without looking back. It's painful if one follow this path.

Either you were someone that didn't understand her when she was trying to explain what was going on with her and you didn't try to
OR
She wanted to leave to explore.

But you have to move on.
You just power through the pain. She will return and then you can ask her everything you want to ask her.

But for now focus on your success. I have been there and faced pain that I didn't know how I would survive but now I am better, I have even faced some more pain but I feel great.

So just power through mehn
Romance / Re: How I Handle Female Virgins by MagnumXL(m): 6:49pm On Sep 14, 2020
Jesse98:
are u OK.... leave them and dey will dump u n find a guy to bruise d puna....

Then it is their choice to make.

What kind of man would I be if I was afraid of a girl leaving me?

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Romance / How I Handle Female Virgins by MagnumXL(m): 12:11pm On Sep 14, 2020
I have met a couple of virgins in my life. I have dated some of them.

This is how I handle them.

I don't have sex with them.

That's right.
Many of the girls that I was friends with when they were virgins who ended up losing the virginity to their boyfriend at the time always regretted it. They regretted it even more when the relationship turned sour.
This is especially true for girls who really wanted to keep that virginity but lost it because of pressure from the boyfriends they were in loved with at the time.

Why do I have this mentality?
I believe that virgins, the ones who want to keep their virginities should be encouraged to do so.
They should be shown what love is like without sex.
They should be shown that there are other forms of intimacy aside sex; Conversations, trips, gifts, quality time and non-sexual physical touch.

It helps to show them that there are guys who are gentlemen, who will love them for who they are and not what they hope to get from therm.

I always date girls with the mentality that we might not date for ever.
So why should I take something permanent from you in a temporary relationship?
And If I do intend to marry you, then I will still get the virginity anyway so why hurry?


Does anyone else share the same view?
Let me know

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Romance / Re: DRAGON GIRL: Model Who Spent Over ₦480 Million To Change Her Entire Body Configu by MagnumXL(m): 9:50pm On Sep 12, 2020
If you say there are no demons and they don't possess people, this is all the evidence you need.
Business / Re: How To Build Enviable Income As An Email Copywriter In 2020.,, by MagnumXL(m): 2:43am On Aug 13, 2020
alaricsaltzman:
Thanks to Venzal's thread, I created an email copywriting gig on Fiverr last month.

And in less than 30 days, I've made close to $400.

I'm only writing this to encourage someone.

Keep your head down.

Improve yourself.

And when clients reach out...

Provide value.

Be helpful.

Deliver quality work.

The sky is our stepping stone.

Just my 2 cents.

Thanks, Venzal.

Peace out.

Did you have to buy reviews?
Business / Re: How To Build Enviable Income As An Email Copywriter In 2020.,, by MagnumXL(m): 2:43am On Aug 13, 2020
mattyrukee:
Gig went well boss.

I'm really really grateful.

I was indeed overwhelmed seeing my PayPal Bing for the first time.

I will keep practicing and I will have to master this act to the fullest.

Thanks very much Boss.


What Paypal are you using for this?

Lesotho?
Romance / Every Girl Wants A Bigger Ass - The Contradiction by MagnumXL(m): 2:07am On Jun 21, 2020
I once had a girlfriend that would check her ass in the mirror every time she came over to my place.

She had a decent-sized ass but she always wanted it to be bigger. Every time I asked her why she wanted a bigger ass, she couldn't say. She just said that it would be nice.

The same went for a number of my girlfriends, they are always checking out the size of their ass in the mirror.
Some girls I met have done squats simply to get a bigger ass.
I even made this post because of a female friend I know posing sideways on Instagram looking at a mirror I am sure, wondering why her ass wasn't bigger.

Every girl seems to have this obsession with their backside being larger than it currently is.

I already know that they want it because it would mean more attention from the male folk, specifically more attention from guys that are richer.

But every girl will deny it.

if you ask a girl why she does makeup, she can easily answer that she does it for herself and not any guy.

But ask them why they want a bigger backside and they have no good answers.
Romance / Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? Am I A Genius,exceptional Or A Rare Gem? by MagnumXL(m): 10:45pm On Jun 20, 2020
ModestGal:

Well, most genius don't name themselves, people does.

A genium wouldn't be seeking validation in the romance section of nairaland.

Their works, their contributions would make them stand out in their fields and the acclaim will naturally follow.

What are you really doing here?
Romance / Re: Is Something Wrong With Me? Am I A Genius,exceptional Or A Rare Gem? by MagnumXL(m): 10:25pm On Jun 20, 2020
If you are a genius or someone exceptional then why are you here asking us what you are?

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Romance / Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by MagnumXL(m): 4:42pm On Jun 20, 2020
HeavenlyCherub:



Please don’t listen to this man. Take it from a woman who makes 40 million a year. Women are simple. The only things we want let me tell you. Women want a man who is genuine and trustworthy. We want a man who will pray with us and prioritize us. I’m sorry to the men who were once duped or taken for granted however when a woman loves you, you need to return this love. Prioritize me, be willing to communicate and defend me. Caution me when I’m wrong But also caution the other party in your life(family and friends) stand for what is right. Support me mentally and physically. No matter how much I make as a woman I want my husband to be the provider. Go out of your way with small gestures to fulfil your role as a bread winner. Don’t lash out at me because you feel inferior and in turn I will do my role and submit as your woman . I promise you any man who is faithful, loving, patient and provides no woman will resist.

You can take advice from the man above and never be in a committed and satisfying relationship or do your role. As the saying goes “ happy wife/girlfriend happy life. Just advising men. When you have a good woman. Don’t take her for granted. You might never get the same opportunity again. Love & Light

You make 40 million a year that means that you have enough to provide for any man yet you still want a man to provide for you. There is a primordial instinct in you that makes you want a man that provides even when you make a hell of a lot of money. No man making that kind of money will make those same demands from a woman.

Will you even consider or date a man that earns less than you do? You can open your mouth now and say that you will but we know that your actions will say otherwise.

Wanting a man that provides is just one of the primordial instincts in women.

Women have many of these instincts and inclinations but a Majority of women are not even aware of them.
One of these is Hypergamy, the desire for a man that is above them in wealth and status and sexual appeal.

The majority of them are not aware of these instincts and even more of them will never admit them openly. If they do, they will lose the men they want because it will be an exposure of what they are like and what they want.

A lot of men already see the discrepancies especially when they hear what a woman says she wants in a man and when they observe with their eyes, they kind of man she goes for.

Women are contradictory and that is why it is bad to take advice from a woman. They will mislead you so that you can act in ways that will benefit them the most and not you.

HeavenlyCherub:
I promise you any man who is faithful, loving, patient and provides no woman will resist.
Take what you have written up here for example. It is so far and removed from the truth because many men have been patient loving and providing and they still get cheated on every day with guys who are none of those things and are simply just exciting and unpredictable.

You say this because it is the same advice that benefits women in the long run. Women want a man that can provide for them after they have finished jumping around with the bad boys that excite them.

If a man that is faithful, patient, and providing comes and says that he has been cheated on, you will still find some way to blame the man by bringing up some quality like "Attention" that he failed in.

Women are hypocritical, dishing advice that they simply do not respond to.

I agree that a good woman should be treated right but not all women should be treated right simply because they are women

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Romance / Re: How Many Days Or Months Or Years Can You Do Without Sex by MagnumXL(m): 10:06pm On Dec 12, 2016
Softbamboo:


How did she rape u... explain?

Did u enjoy it undecided

Because he's a guy, you're asking him how she raped him? Do Rape victims enjoy rape? smh for this chic.

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Romance / Re: 15 Happenings When You're In A Long Distance Relationship With A Girl (Pictures) by MagnumXL(m): 9:59am On Dec 08, 2016
' grin Only 5? Where's the rest OP?
Romance / Re: How Can I Get Over My Ex Girlfriend? by MagnumXL(m): 11:59pm On Dec 07, 2016
VickyRotex:
Op, maybe God is telling you guys something. wink wink
Now you guys are matured!
You never know, maybe she hasn't gotten over you too. cry
Get in touch with her, if she isn't in a relationship/married, you guys should reunite joor. cheesy cheesy

dacblogger:
try talking to her again, its possible she is going through exactly the same thing...
reallest:
Try to get in touch with her first,let her know u still have feelings for her,who knows fortune might smile on u

Hahaha, Mehn, Posts on this Board keep cracking me up tonight.

Look at all these ladies fueling empty hopes and Dreams.

@Op That girl is long gone mehn. 7 Years Later? You do realise that Children given birth to 7 Years ago are now 7 years Old?

7 Years of her life have gone by without you mehn..
Okay Let me be serious: If she was 18, 19, 20 she would be 25, 26, 27
She probably has a serious BF, she's probably thinking about marriage right now.

So bro, Call her up if you want but there's nothing there for you anymore

There are no Fairytales

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Romance / Re: The Girl Wants To Kill My Friend With Sex by MagnumXL(m): 11:35pm On Dec 07, 2016
grin Lool, bruh, stories like this always make me laugh.

Sounds like your friend is a modern day sex slave G.

No woman ought to make a nigga a slave or do something he doesn't want to do. He should dump that Biatch or put her in line.

Nymphos like her are never satisfied with one d.ck anyway. She probably goes to get it outside too. No need to lose your Freedom and peace of mind over Chic's like her .

Sex is a pleasure, euphoria, not a chore.. cool
Romance / Re: The Day I Almost Died After Checking My Girlfriend’s Phone (concluding Story) by MagnumXL(m): 11:23pm On Dec 07, 2016
grin You can't trust these girls anymore. The ones that claim to be the quiet holy ones are the one that are the freakiest in the bedroom! shocked

That was how I invited one over, she always forms goody goody, but i knew she had a little demon inside her. Caught her looking at the bulge in my boxers more than once and i decided to give it a push. Dam Fam, it took me three rounds to put her down.

But this OP is a dumbass, She still ate your money after everything? Nah mehn, Means your D game is weak. If you give it to them real Good, they don't care about your money as long as they have access to you. grin

Atleast you've smartened up. I hope.
Romance / Re: Guys, This Is What We Need During Sex by MagnumXL(m): 12:20pm On Dec 07, 2016
All this Sh.t is for her boyfriend to do, while they're making Love. When she comes to me, she better be ready to be Pinned down and hammered from behind while I smack her arse. Not every time Gentle Play. Sometimes girls want it Rough, Hard and Long! cool
Romance / Re: Why Are Nairaland Ladies Suddenly Screaming? by MagnumXL(m): 12:12pm On Dec 07, 2016
dacblogger:

you are proud of your achievements abi?

Why wouldn't I be? grin I leave Happy and Satisfied Ladies in my Wake. Many Re-order my Services after Initial Delivery. wink

You should stop being so bitter. If you were getting some Solid D, you'd Lighten up tongue


P.S That Looks like Klopp's Face after he had the League Title Snatched out of his Grasp grin
Romance / Re: Why Are Nairaland Ladies Suddenly Screaming? by MagnumXL(m): 1:05am On Dec 07, 2016
Some Yoruba Demons have decided to Even the score. Besides, Why would a nigga take a b.it.ch serious when he knows that he's probably not the only one digging it?

All he needs to do is smash and move to the next. That's what I do.

But i make sure they get hooked and come back for more. cool

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